YouTube Super Star Jessie Paege joins the pod to cover some sexy cosplay and the pure joy of enjoying someone else's kink. Ashley has sex with a squirting baby gay. Kate delivers some huge news! Jessie can be found @jessiepaege on IG and YouTube. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu...
Oct 25, 2021•53 min•Ep 87•Transcript available on Metacast Jamie Raines & Shaaba Lotun came on the pod to flex how cute they are together. We discuss what it was like to get PhDs while making viral YouTube videos, Jamie's sex lab research on genitals, and why usually Shaaba is proudly displaying her sex toys. Ashley discusses her not-date with Jen. Kate does a walk of shame to and from church. Jamie can be found @jammidodger on YouTube and @jammi.dodger on ig. Shaaba can be found @sherbertlemon007 on IG and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjZ97eKgNwC4j...
Oct 11, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Ep 85•Transcript available on Metacast Sophie Santos (buy her new book The One You Want to Marry) is such an incredible story teller and I'm so excited to share story of her first gay sex experience (which sounds like it could not have gone worse). We also get into OCD and whether or not Kate and Ashley have it. Kate has either a gay sex moment or a straight sex moment. Ashley is in a weird thing with a woman who just closed her relationship. Sophie can be found @sophieesantos on ig. If you'd like to buy her book or audiobook informa...
Oct 04, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep 84•Transcript available on Metacast Cameron Esposito (Queery Podcast, Conan, STARS) joins the pod this week for a roundtable discussion on queer teenaged longing and the lengths young gays go to for puppy love. Ashley meets up with a girl at camp in the middle of the night. Kate sneaks into a movie with her camp "friend". Cameron can be found @cameronesposito on ig and twitter. They are going to Chicago and Salt Lake City on tour this upcoming week and next. cameronesposito.com for tickets. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch As...
Sep 27, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 83•Transcript available on Metacast James Tison (The New York Times) cracks open the vulnerability wide open on this episode by discussing his partner's transition, couples therapy, scheduling sex and more. Ashley doesn't understand straight sex. Kate cries. James can be found everywhere @jamestison Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @thekatesisk on ig and twitter Watch this episode on YouT...
Sep 20, 2021•1 hr 26 min•Ep 82•Transcript available on Metacast It is no secret that Ashley has a huge crush on Izzy McCalla (The Prom on Broadway and Aladdin on Broadway) and it's because she never disappoints. We cover Izzy's moments getting heckled on Broadway and her very pleasant threesome. Ashley sees boobies for the first time. Kate gets their boobies seen for the first time. Izzy can be found on IG @izzymccalla Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig an...
Sep 13, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Ep 81•Transcript available on Metacast Lucky us! We got to sit down with one of our top requested guests ever! You might know Gaby Dunn from their viral youtube series, hit podcasts (Bad With Money and Just Between Us), or their work on Netflix's Big Mouth. We get into American Girl Dolls, dating cis men as an AFAB ENBY person, and how cis men are actually the secret to ending climate change. Ashley has another Horse Girl story. Kate has a vegetable oil related disaster. Gaby can be found on IG @gabyroad and on YouTube @nofungabydunn...
Sep 06, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Ep 80•Transcript available on Metacast Alysia Brown (Tampon Rock Podcast) cancels Ashley on the podcast today, but also dives into the nitty gritty of her own sl*t phase. We get into not knowing your type, loving a "will they / won't they / push and pull", and whether or not having an all black cat makes you an ally. Ashley tries out some BDSM stuff. Someone had sex in Kate's house. Alysia can be found @alysia.brown on ig, alysiabr0wn on twitter, and Iamalybrown on Spotify. Her podcast Tampon Rock can be found anywhere you listen to ...
Aug 30, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep 79•Transcript available on Metacast Fumi Abe (as seen on Colbert and a writer on The Late Late Show, and host of the Asian Not Asian Podcast) is respectfully horny and here to tell us what that means. We get into his attraction to soccer plays and strong women and how they always turn out to be gay, copying lesbian fashion as a straight man, and communication during sex. Ashley has mommy issues. Kate has period sex before knowing she was on her period. Fumi can be found @thefumiabe on all platforms, you can watch his late night se...
Aug 23, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep 78•Transcript available on Metacast Queer Sex Educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing on all platforms) is here to answer all your questions about queer sex ed, having a sl*t phase, and also that time she had an insane threesome in front of her colleagues at a sex conference. Ashley goes on a date with horse girl. Kate has an unexpected dirty talk experience. Eva can be found @whatsmybodydoing everywhere. We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merc...
Aug 16, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Transcript available on Metacast Ian Fidance (Bi Guys Pod) is hands down one of the best comedians in New York City and the first openly bi guy at the world famous Comedy Cellar. We dive into breaking his post-break up celibacy, and how to politely ask for a hand job. Ashley has phone sex with a stranger. Kate wants to get pegged. Ian Fidance can be found @ianimal69 everywhere, including twitch where he streams video gaming. Listen to his podcast Bi Guys Pod We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as...
Aug 09, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep 76•Transcript available on Metacast Franqi French (Stand Up NBC) is not only queer herself, but raising a badass baby-they in an ethical open marriage. We hear about how she met her partner and why it's the most trusting, honest, relationship of her life, and all of previous horrible relationships she learned from. Including dating someone who was simultaneously dating her doppelgänger, and catching her ex cheating. Ashley starts hooking up with someone who also looks just like her ex. Kate fakes an orgasm. Franqi French can be fo...
Aug 02, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Ep 75•Transcript available on Metacast You all have been begging for some sexual health experts and Anna Lee will not disappoint! Anna is the co-founder of Lioness health, a sex toy company that actually uses data to track your orgasms. And she is committed to her craft. We get into how she discovered her own sexuality through building the viral tiktok sex toy, different types of orgasms, and DP (yes, *that* dp) Ashley does a data driven sexual experiment of her own. Kate is validated by a p0rn advertisement. Anna Lee can be found @a...
Jul 26, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 74•Transcript available on Metacast You asked for big undercut energy and now you got it: it's NBC News anchor Megan Mitchell! Megan Mitchell gets into her relationship, who's the big spoon, and how cuddling changes throughout her cycle. Ashley sends the worst flirty text of her life. Kate needs a rabies shot. Megan can be found on tiktok and ig @megan.mitchell and @megan1mitchell on twitter! We are nearly 100% funded by our Patreon: Patreon.com/WHGS . Donate as little as one dollar! Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Newslette...
Jul 19, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep 73•Transcript available on Metacast Lou Gonzalez (founder of Squirrel Comedy Theatre, a majority queer, majority POC improv and sketch theatre) is one of the most talented improvisers in the world, and now you can hear him riffing on WHGS! We get into ass eating, getting over ass eating related trauma, and how to hide your porn. Ashley breaks down boob energy. Kate has sex at a straight wedding. Lou can be found on ig and tw @angrylou, the squirrel theatre has weekly shows at Caveat in NYC every weekend. www.thesquirrelnyc.com We ...
Jul 12, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep 72•Transcript available on Metacast Hannah Berner (Bravo's Summer House, Berning in Hell, Giggly Squad) is back and get into pegging, why lesbians are the most superior form of woman, and her fear of missing out on p*ssy. Ashley makes a hinge profile. We introduce the incredible Kate Sisk, our cancel coach, to the podcast, and discuss the time they lost their strap on. Hannah can be found @hannahberner everywhere, listen to her podcasts Berning in Hell and Giggle Squad Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig an...
Jun 28, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep 70•Transcript available on Metacast After an incredible year on the pod, Gara is stepping back and made this audio note for you. Let's wish them well and all the love in the world. Follow Gara's podcast En(ba)by , @garararararara on IG, https://www.patreon.com/garalonning Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Jun 27, 2021•7 min•Ep 69•Transcript available on Metacast Jaclyn Moore (Netflix "Dear White People") gives us the full story on being a queer sex worker, sex while transitioning, and her pre-transition hook ups with lesbians. Ashley shares a kiss in public at camp. Gara gets their butt poked in a gay bar. Jaclyn can be found @jaclynpmoore on ig and twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoice...
Jun 21, 2021•1 hr 21 min•Ep 68•Transcript available on Metacast Finally some L-Word representation on the show! Leo Sheng hops on the mic today to discuss meet cutes and his moms (yes plural) watching him hook up on the L-World. We talk about intimacy coordinators, meet cutes, and red flags. Ashley gets jealous visiting her college girlfriend during study abroad. Gara has an on stage kiss. Leo can be found @ileosheng on Twitter and Instagram. You can watch him on season 2 of the L-Word reboot starting this August Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast ...
Jun 14, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Ep 67•Transcript available on Metacast It's an heart-wrenching break up episode and who better to come and provide emotional support than Ashley's closest friend, Breanne Williamson (@breannewilliamson on all platforms, peep her YouTube). Ashley explains the break up and what might be in store for the future, while Bre admits to Gara that she had a sex dream about them. Gara finally loosens up for their partner for the first time in 2 years. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on ti...
Jun 07, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Ep 66•Transcript available on Metacast Courtney Revolution (Netflix's The Circle) joins the pod to discuss gooches and his high school sweetheart. We get into knowing when you're in love vs. when you're just comfortable, what he did when the internet came after his partner, and the great wolf lodge. Ashley bombs in bed. Gara abandons a date. Courtney can be found all platforms and youtube @courtneyrevolution Courtney's podcast "Overheard in the Pantry" can be found at: Podcast: https://anchor.fm/overheardinthepantry We are funded by ...
May 31, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep 65•Transcript available on Metacast HOLY CRAP IT'S SHANNON BEVERIDGE! You've been requesting her for a year and now she's here. We talk about dating someone who won't come out, why it's sexy to almost get caught, and the origin story behind her YouTube channel. Ashley has sex in the dark. Gara makes a tinder profile for their threesome. Shannon can be found everywhere @nowthisisliving Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Le...
May 24, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep 64•Transcript available on Metacast Michaela Okland (She Rates Dogs) joins the podcast and we delve into her queer cat-fishing roots on club penguin. We discuss the origins of her podcast, which turn out to be the gay agenda, and talking to women on the apps for the first time. Ashley enters the threesome zone. Gara plans a big summer blowout (yoohoo!) Michaela can be found on ig @michaelaokland and tw @michaelaokla. Her podcast is She Rates Dogs and you can find her memes @sheratesdogs on ig. Trigger Warning at 46:45 through 47:1...
May 17, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Ep 63•Transcript available on Metacast Marth Woertman (@marthwatermelon on ig and @marthwubbles on tiktok) brings the heat on this episode and we both melted. She discusses being a queer model, being bi and having masc energy, and her goth phase. Ashley gets revenge on her ex girlfriends parents. Gara relives their first queer kiss. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com...
May 11, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep 62•Transcript available on Metacast Kate Willett (Netflix, Colbert, Comedy Central, & Reply Guys podcast) relives the drama of losing her dream girl, and then attempting to join Scientology to get her back. We also cover bi-curiosity and "experimenting". Ashley tells the third and final installment of the cat girl saga. Gara stars in Gara-lox and the 3 twinks. Kate can be found on twitter @katewillett and on ig @kate.willett . Her podcast is called Reply Guys. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter...
May 03, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 61•Transcript available on Metacast Evan Ross Katz (Shut Up Evan podcast) is totally un-cancel-able in this episode, no matter how hard Ashley tries to trick him. We get into sexting, how a relationship can start in a beautiful slow burn, and meeting your not-yet-partner's parents before you define the relationship. Ashley and Jen finally successfully sext. Gara does foreplay via sext in an Uber. Evan can be found on ig & tw @evanrosskatz. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on t...
Apr 26, 2021•54 min•Ep 60•Transcript available on Metacast Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian podcast) bros out with us on the podcast this week and we talk about chaotic bottom-ing, fire sign energy, and the complexities of dating someone who is cis "passing". Ashley discusses meeting her first serious girlfriend. Gara is desired by two people in the same night. Youngmi can be found on ig & tw @ymmayer, and tiktok @youngmimayer Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonni...
Apr 19, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep 59•Transcript available on Metacast Alyx Weiss (YouTube @ayydubs) gives us some age gap loving lessons on this very steamy episodes. We talk hot moms, our celebrity crushes when we were kids, but also ostriches. Ashley gets f*cked in her sleep. Gara attends a King Princess concert. Alyx can be found on all platforms @ayydubs, besides tiktok where she is @alyxweiss Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your a...
Apr 12, 2021•53 min•Ep 58•Transcript available on Metacast Ellie Desautels (NBC's Rise, Disclosure) gives us the deets about they meet their partner on Tumblr, asexuality and non-genital sex. We also dive deep into the merits of regular back rubs and soft tickling from your significant other. Ashley is the girl in a girl on top 69. Gara dates a very, very bad boy. Ellie can be found everywhere @ohyouknowellie (check out their IG and TikTok) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara...
Apr 05, 2021•59 min•Ep 57•Transcript available on Metacast Chrissy Chlapecka (@chrissychlapecka on TikTok and IG, @chrissyschlapp on twitter) reflects on her very gay days of denial, what it means to be a bimbo, and does some very sexy ASMR. Ashley gets fingered on a beach. Gara has a sex competition. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Mar 29, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep 56•Transcript available on Metacast 
