Sammie Cimarelli (The Circle on Netflix) does not take shit from anyone, especially when it comes to bi-phobia, coming out, and poultry. We talk boundary setting, and realizing you're in love at Wawa. Ashley has an epically long not-love story. Gara is shark boy. Sammie can be found on instagram @sammiee and everywhere else @itsssammie. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn more abou...
Mar 22, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 55•Transcript available on Metacast This week Violet Benson (Too Tired To Be Crazy podcast, Daddy Issues on IG) schools us on zodiac signs, rebounding, and general self awareness. We get into how she discovered she was pan, hooking up with Francesca, and whether her gay friend has a crush on her. Ashley has a run in with "2 cats equals 1 kid". Gara is in a dry spell. Violet can be found on instagram @violetbenson and their meme account is @daddyissues_ . Listen to her podcast "Too Tired To Be Crazy" anywhere you pod. Newsletter & ...
Mar 15, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep 54•Transcript available on Metacast Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum podcast) is BACK and they are GONNA CRY. No seriously we get to some really deep shit on this episode, and we are so honored that Remy came back. Ashley shares her epic break up story. Gara needs plan b. Remy can be found on instagram and twitter at @RemyKassimir. Their podcast is called How Cum. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your...
Mar 08, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep 53•Transcript available on Metacast Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getting feelings for someone during his open relationship, and coming out via AIM. Ashley recalls the last time she tried to hook up with a man (gross). Gara comes out as non-binary at Pride. Kevin can be found on instagram @kevinmchale or on twitter at @druidDUDE Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcas...
Mar 01, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep 52•Transcript available on Metacast Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure") blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she could come out of the closet. But don't worry, it gets better, and the happy ending includes Sam Smith and The Buttigieg family. Ashley gets an angry email from her aunt after a TikTok goes viral. Gara is a chamber of secrets. Shea can be found at @iamsheadiamond on IG and Twitter. She is Shia Diamond on ...
Feb 22, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 51•Transcript available on Metacast Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably didn't even do it. Gara bangs to Fixer Upper Francesca can be found at @francescafarago on IG and Tikto...
Feb 15, 2021•55 min•Ep 50•Transcript available on Metacast This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you. Taylor is @taylorstrecker on IG and you can listen to her on Wake Up w/ Taylor and Taste of Taylor. Newsletter & Live Eve...
Feb 08, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep 49•Transcript available on Metacast It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time. Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere) Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferweston on Twitter. Pup Amp can be found @pupamp on IG and Twitter Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSP...
Feb 01, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep 48•Transcript available on Metacast Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building. Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles & on twitter @mila_doesit Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @as...
Jan 25, 2021•1 hr•Ep 47•Transcript available on Metacast Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick. Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @as...
Jan 18, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 46•Transcript available on Metacast HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069. Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTok Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashg...
Jan 11, 2021•56 min•Ep 45•Transcript available on Metacast Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am. Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire) Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @as...
Jan 04, 2021•59 min•Ep 44•Transcript available on Metacast Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season. Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouT...
Dec 28, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep 43•Transcript available on Metacast Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood. Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow him on IG and watch his "live screams" of the bachelor. @jaredfreid Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly...
Dec 21, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep 42•Transcript available on Metacast Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist. Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel under her name and can be found on ig @breannewilliamson and tiktok @breannewilliamson_ Newsletter ...
Dec 14, 2020•58 min•Ep 41•Transcript available on Metacast Queen of all Drag Queens Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul's Drag Race, Drag Race Canada) joins the podcast this week to discuss her love of pimple popping, dislike of anal, her desire to be alone and why traditional relationships don't work for everyone! Ashley gets her butt pinched (and she likes it). Gara does poppers for the first time. Brooke Lynn can be found @bhytes on ig and @bhytes1 on twitter. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @g...
Dec 07, 2020•57 min•Ep 40•Transcript available on Metacast Mat George (She Rates Dogs) tells us about how he is faking straight for Love Island casting and going viral twitter. He also discusses how he lost his virginity story and how he was outed. Ashley talks about how she was outed in 9th grade and her girlfriend turned bully. Gara gets high and has sex. Mat can be found @matchu_chutrain on twitter and ig. His podcast is She Rates Dogs. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara ...
Nov 30, 2020•56 min•Ep 39•Transcript available on Metacast Alayna Joy (1 billion YouTube followers) not only tells us about her first time giving and receiving oral sex, but it was also her first ever experience as a fully out gay woman. We also cover compulsive heterosexuality and the struggles of being bisexual. Alayna reads Ashley's birthday tarot. Gara hooks up with the cool(er) barista. Alayna can be found @missfenderr on all platforms, except for YouTube where she is Alayna Joy. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitt...
Nov 23, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Ep 38•Transcript available on Metacast Rayna Greenberg is BACK (Girls Gotta Eat) and she's here to evaluate whether or not Mayor Pete has B.D.E. and tells us about a time she accidentally went on a date with a woman. Ashley may or may not have had sex w/ 3 people in one day (she's worried you'll judge her). Gara goes on another date with KittyKitty44. Girls Gotta Eat podcast is available everywhere (Ashley's on it!). Rayna's IG is @rayna.greenberg Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy...
Nov 16, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep 37•Transcript available on Metacast Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali (Dyking Out Podcast) join the podcast to discuss CBD lube, sex on a bunk bed, and hate banging on a Trump supporter's bed. Ashley laments not being able to eat more butt. Gara shares the story of their first date with Jacob. Dyking Out podcast is available everywhere (Ashley and Gara are both on it!). Their IG is @dykingout and their TikTok is @dykingoutpodcast. Carolyn is @tgicarolyn & Melody is @melodykamali everywhere. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodca...
Nov 09, 2020•59 min•Ep 36•Transcript available on Metacast Medinah Monroe (Cocktales Podcast, Temptation Island, Dipsea) lends us her very sexy voice on this sensual episode. We talk about bringing a dildo into your hetero sex experiences and sexy authority figures. Ashley gets scammed on on a date. Gara's vagina blows up 5 times its size. Mediah's Podcast is called Cocktales: Dirty Discussions (cocktalespodcast on ig). Medinah can also be found on ig @coffeebeandean Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy...
Nov 02, 2020•58 min•Ep 35•Transcript available on Metacast Cosplay Icon Emery Pan (OnlyFans) curses this episode and gets our soundboard possessed. She discusses growing up in a religious cult and escaping to sexually experiment in a graveyard. Ashley has a confrontation with a cottage core ghost gay / tiktok lesbian. Gara has a 3 way make-out in a barn. Emery's work can be found everywhere under @emerypan Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. ...
Oct 26, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Ep 34•Transcript available on Metacast Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show and the new host of TruTV's Top Secret Videos) drops in to debate whether or not she is a lesbian or bisexual. No one wins. We also get into quarantine break ups, and Ali promotes herself from guest of the show to host. Ashley talks about how she met Jen and tells the full story. Gara meets up with KittyKitty44, but was it a date? Ali's Work: @alikolbert on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tikto...
Oct 19, 2020•1 hr•Ep 33•Transcript available on Metacast Comedian and composer Dylan Adler not only sings on this episode, but he also burps twice. We talk about his random threesome in a gay bar bathroom, getting strep twice from the same person, and not having sex to get over trauma. Ashley licks a foot. Gara gives someone notes on their bad kissing. Dylans's Work: @dylanadler_ on ig. dylanadler6 on twitter. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on ti...
Oct 12, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep 32•Transcript available on Metacast The queen sex of podcasts Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We F*****d, The Voices In Our Heads) joins the podcast to discuss her bi-curiosity, first time going down on a woman, and milking prostates. Ashley gets negged by one of Krystyna's fans. Gara has another run in with Denise. Krystyna's Work: @krystynahutch on ig. Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Vi...
Oct 05, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Ep 31•Transcript available on Metacast WILDLY successful YouTube Comedian Mac Kahey loosens us up for a conversation about poppers, poopers, morning sex, and also his farm boy boyfriend. Ashley gets rejected. Gara dates a robot alien. Mac Kahey is @macdoesit on all platforms Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Sep 28, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Ep 30•Transcript available on Metacast Comedian Matteo Lane (Netflix, Colbert, Inside The Closet Podcast) drops some seriously hilarious opinions on the pod this week. We get his thoughts on horses and horse girls, Alice in Wonderland, and Avril Lavigne. Most importantly, we discuss what coming out is really about. Ashley has a date with a horse girl (Trigger Warning: horse girls get ROASTED). Gara gets off to hearing about their partner's past hook ups. To our horse girl fans: we love you Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podc...
Sep 21, 2020•55 min•Ep 29•Transcript available on Metacast Comedian Joe Dombrowski (Ellen) tells us his horrifying, manekin-filled story of nearly getting murdered via Grindr. We also dive into his experiences with Ellen (yes, Ellen of Ellen), being a gay teacher, and crushes on non-binary people. Ashley fists like a classy lady. Gara bumps into their instagram crush in real life. Joe's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodca...
Sep 07, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Ep 27•Transcript available on Metacast Robin Tran (Comedy Central Roast Battle) joins us on the gay sex couch to discuss why she thinks sex with your clothes on is the hottest thing ever. Ashley has sex w/ Jen while her parents are home. Gara has the craziest sex dream ever. We also discuss why Robin calls herself the worst trans woman, and Gara and Robin realize they've seen the same porn video. Robin's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig, Twitter TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagogg...
Aug 31, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep 26•Transcript available on Metacast Breanne Williamson (YouTube) dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gara goes too hard with baby talk and accidentally cancels themself. Breanne's Work: YouTube, TikTok, ig TikTok: @ashgavscomedy @queerdancebaby ig: @ashgavs @garararararara Twitter: @ashgavs @gorgagoggling Newsletter & Live Ev...
Aug 25, 2020•1 hr 15 min•Ep 25•Transcript available on Metacast 
