Maddie Wiener is an amazing queer stand-up comedian that’s hot on the rise, with showcases on Comedy Central, SiriusXM, and Just for Laughs' “New Faces,” but today she’s in the apartment for some gay sex-ed. We discuss discovering your queer identity later in life, the insecurities of baby-gay dating, and we put out a plea to the Bottom Nation: get Maddie some of that “good-good.” Ashley sees the return of “Main-Main.” Kate is dissected by algorithms. You can find Maddie on IG and Twitter: @madd...
May 16, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep 116•Transcript available on Metacast Jay Jurden is an actor, writer, and comedian who you’ve seen everywhere: “The Tonight Show,” “The Late Show,” “The Late Late Show,” and more, but today he’s getting FREAKY-DEAKY with us! We discuss being in a throuple, the joys of genitalia across the board, and potentially starting a gay Pixar fan-club. Ashley continues the MILF trilogy. Kate reaps the rewards of his phallic garden. You can find Jay on TikTok, IG, and Twitter: @jayjurden, And you can see his upcoming stand-up show, ‘Jay Jurden:...
May 09, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep 115•Transcript available on Metacast Fan-favorite Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain), hilarious queer actor/writer/content creator, finally returns to the apartment for another “bre-peat episode” of sexy times and good vibes. We discuss getting romantic in ol’ Las Vegas, social blunders coming out of the pandemic, and if that super sexy stripper actually really DID like you. Ashley’s MILF saga continues. Kate makes a wet revelation. You can find Breanne on TikTok, IG: @breannewilliamson, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWi...
May 02, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Ep 114•Transcript available on Metacast Fan-favorite Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell), a must-see comedian/actor/writer on the rise, has finally returned to the apartment to exchange a few STIs with the crew! We discuss sexual health and STD prevention, getting surgery to improve your head game, and banging your long-lost cousin. Ashley meets a mamãe brasileira. Kate needs to buy a suit. You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @jakewcornell, You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you liste...
Apr 25, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep 113•Transcript available on Metacast Youngmi Mayer (Feeling Asian, Hairy Butthole) is a spectacular comedian and podcaster who is taking on the world with her sharp social commentary, but today she is slowing down to get sensual in the apartment! We discuss the inscrutability of sexual chemistry, complex perceptions of biracial individuals, and the need for proper Asian representation in our sex toys. Ashley gets real kinky. Kate tries to keep it quiet. Youngmi Mayer can be found on IG and Twitter: @ymmayer, TikTok: @youngmimayer, ...
Apr 18, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Ep 112•Transcript available on Metacast Emily Wilson is a side-splitting triple threat of a comedian who performs across NYC, and soon globally at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe and more, but today she is keeping it local for a booty-call in the apartment! We discuss Emily’s truly EPIC story of being a finalist on “The X-Factor,” the joys of motherhood, and the bigger joys of group sex. Ashley has lost her mojo. Kate is stuck between a rock and a plumbing problem. You can find Emily: @therealemilywilson on all platforms, And you can se...
Apr 11, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep 111•Transcript available on Metacast Shan Boodram (Lovers and Friends) is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert who has advised giants like Netflix, Hulu, ABC, and more, but today she is in the apartment to drop some knowledge on us! We discuss why straight men are so boring in bed, the confounding complexities of pregnancy, and how exactly to make YOUR clitoris happy. Ashley gets her nut for the first time. Kate inches closer to the truth. Shan can be found on IG: @shanboody, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/shannontboodram...
Apr 04, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep 110•Transcript available on Metacast Andrea Jin (Just for Laughs, Sirius XM) is an amazing shanghai-born comedian and writer whose work has been featured on VICE, CBC Comedy, and more, but today she has dropped into the apartment to wash her private parts. We discuss realizing you’re queer without having sex, feeling stuck in relationships, and fast food-based vaginal hygiene. Ashley blows through some red flags. Kate bangs with a broken butthole. Andrea can be found on IG: @andreajin, Twitter: @andreajin_, or https://www.andreajin...
Mar 28, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Ep 109•Transcript available on Metacast (TW: sexual assault) Fan-favorite Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise, Unhinged) is a multi-talented actor and musician, but today he is pausing his gay sex vacation to swing by the apartment! We discuss sexual assault in the gay male community, overcoming sexual trauma, and the intricacies of RuPaul’s media pantheon. Ashley steps up to her bully. Kate has ADHD. You can find Austin McKenzie on IG: @austineyes, Twitter: @apm_official, And you can listen to his new single, “Sending My ...
Mar 21, 2022•1 hr 22 min•Ep 108•Transcript available on Metacast Sam Morrison (Tonight Show Showcase, Stand Up NBC, NY Comedy Festival) is a top-tier stand-up comedian, gay diabetic widow, and Ashley’s bestest friend/future sperm donor, but today he’s in the apartment to spread the daddy bear gospel. We discuss dick-based sense memory, dealing with grief, and getting up in your mugger’s FACE. Ashley seeks closure. Kate hits the Big Apple, LESBIAN STYLE! You can find Sam on IG and Twitter: @samuelhmorrison, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoqH2PlyB2h...
Mar 14, 2022•1 hr 15 min•Ep 107•Transcript available on Metacast Caitlin Peluffo (Good Time Gal) is a hysterical stand-up comedian who performed across the United States and on your television on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, but today she is stopping by the apartment to dip her toes back into the gay sex game! We discuss exploring your sexuality, uncomfortable group sex, and the beauty of the butch woman. Ashley battles for cat custody. Kate gets emasculated by his sink. You can find Caitlin on IG and Twitter: @caitlinpeluffo, And stay up to date on when ...
Mar 07, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep 106•Transcript available on Metacast Angel Flores is a transgender powerlifter, political activist, and coach at the Liberation Barbell Club, a queer-friendly gym, but today she is putting down her heavy work to get sweaty with us in the apartment! We discuss transition milestones, dating mid-transition, and which tactics to employ in order to stare at titties. Ashley’s sex fest gets interrupted. Kate celebrates his queer identity. You can find Angel on IG: @arkangeljoy, on Twitter: @ArkangelAthlete, and on her website at: https://...
Feb 28, 2022•1 hr 8 min•Ep 105•Transcript available on Metacast Mak Ingemi is a lively queer vlogger/influencer with nearly three million followers across YouTube, TikTok, and IG, but today she is focusing her efforts on some pleasure with the gang! We discuss phone sex, maintaining healthy outlooks in relationships, and the lesbian curse of carpal tunnel syndrome. Ashley navigates the “Broad Squad.” Kate plans a name change. Mak can be found on TikTok and IG: @makingemi, And you can watch her fantastic content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi...
Feb 14, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep 103•Transcript available on Metacast Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints) is a YouTuber, ex-philosopher, transgender woman, and all-round genius who has decided to put down the books for some sexy times with the gang! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality, managing overwhelming romantic feelings, and our glorious new algorithm overlords. Ashley meets a true “chucklefucker.” Kate celebrates the New Year, COLOMBIAN STYLE! Natalie can be found @contrapoints on IG and Twitter, and you can support her amazing and thoughtful content on YouTube or...
Feb 07, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Ep 102•Transcript available on Metacast Legally, it's not a date. Yes, anywhere in the continental United States, must be 18+ to enter. Text NOTADATE to 877 497 0441 (or click here) Or submit via my website @ ashleygavin.com/win Full Rules Here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Feb 04, 2022•2 min•Transcript available on Metacast Eman El-Husseini (Comedians vs. The News) is a rib-tickling stand-up comedian and ½ of the dynamic lesbian comedy couple, the El-Salomans, but today she is stepping inside the apartment for an affair with the gang! We discuss finding true love, queer dating abroad, and ski-cucking your long-time partner. Ashley has a date, and she’s FREAKING OUT. Kate seduces a Spaniard. Eman can be found on IG: @eman_el_husseini; Twitter: @emanifique, And her comedy duo, the El-Salomans, can be found on IG: @th...
Jan 31, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Ep 101•Transcript available on Metacast Tien Tran (How I Met Your Father) is a riveting lesbian stand-up who has performed on Comedy Central and more, but today she is calling in straight from the mid-west for some cybering in the apartment! We discuss accidental injury in bed, terrible exes, and the intense historical rivalry between France and rural Illinois. Ashley encounters a “poly supremacist.” Kate has a subway stand-off. Tien can be found @hanktina on IG, And you can watch her on “How I Met Your Father,” streaming exclusively ...
Jan 24, 2022•1 hr 11 min•Ep 100•Transcript available on Metacast Hilarious queer comedian Franqi French (Stand Up NBC, Curb Your Enthusiasm) has been on a meteoric rise, but today she has decided to come BACK the apartment for more hijinks, laughs, and gay sex. We discuss public sex acts, late vs. early bloomers, and maybe accidentally getting too high before work. Kate prepares to lose their virginity. Ashley performs for geriatric swingers. Franqi can be found @franqifrench on IG and Twitter, And see her live while she is headlining the DC Comedy Loft on Ap...
Jan 17, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Ep 99•Transcript available on Metacast Gus Constantellis is a 1st generation Greek-American stand-up/writer, a hysterical human, and the viral “Greek Mom” who has performed across the tri-state area, California, and your TikTok feed, but today he has settled into the apartment to get wet and wild! We discuss immigrant parents, spontaneous sexuality, and MILF metaphysics. Ashley finds “mommy.” Kate gets down and dirty, literally. Gus can be found across the internet on IG, Twitter, and TikTok at: @constantlygus Merch: www.werehavingga...
Jan 10, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Ep 98•Transcript available on Metacast Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time. You can find Casey on: IG: @queer...
Jan 03, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Ep 97•Transcript available on Metacast Brian Bahe is a hilarious Indigenous comedian, writer, and gay man who has been written up by NPR, Vulture, and the Los Angeles Times, and has an upcoming stand-up set on Comedy Central. However, thanks to the Covid-19 Omicron variant, the gang is avoiding the apartment this week and doing some cybering! We discuss coming out in school, underground sex parties, and getting horny via Pavlovian conditioning. Ashley charts her ups, downs, tops, and bottoms. Kate’s MILF fantasies go awry. Brian can ...
Dec 27, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep 96•Transcript available on Metacast Kevin McHale (Glee, Virtually Famous) and Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise) are an absolute power couple taking the world by storm, best known for their numerous performances across television, film, theatre, and music, but today they slow down to get intimate in the apartment. We discuss the dynamics of sleep kink, the ins-and-outs of topping, and… *ahem*… the 2nd Amendment. Ashley confronts toxic masculinity. Kate gets a lesbian circumcision. Kevin McHale can be found on: IG: @k...
Dec 20, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep 95•Transcript available on Metacast You've been asking for it and it's finally here. We've started a Patreon exclusive series reading YOUR gay sex stories! Each month we will release full bonus episodes with your favorite guests on our Patreon where we read your raunchiest stories. patreon.com/whgs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dec 16, 2021•2 min•Transcript available on Metacast Gianna Marie, or “gwizzle”, is a super wonderful, super talented goofball who can be found singing her heart from the confines of her car to nearly 4 Million followers on TikTok, Instagram, and more, but today she is sneaking into the hotel room for some fun with the gang. On yet another special episode of We’re Having Gay Sex, “Road Dog Edition,” we discuss messy first hookups, sex on anti-depressants, and managing your mid-western mom. Ashley meets herself a small-town, apple-pie gal. Kate toy...
Dec 13, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep 94•Transcript available on Metacast Chrissy Chlapecka is an absolutely fabulous social media influencer who is spearheading the empowering “BimboTok” movement, battling tired stereotypes with nearly 4.5 million followers across social media, but today the gang is in HER apartment for a wild time. In today’s special We’re Having Gay Sex, “Road Dog Edition," we discuss the positives of a “slut phase,” navigating unfulfilling relationships, and manifesting your best and baddest self. Ashley has trouble pooping. Kate breaks their big ...
Dec 06, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep 93•Transcript available on Metacast Akeem Woods is a hysterical stand-up comedian who opens for comedy greats like Tiffany Haddish and Godfrey, as well as makes frequent appearances on Kevin Hart’s LOL Network, but today he’s in the apartment to get into the nitty-gritty. We discuss differences in gay male vs lesbian hookup culture, strategies for taking better nudes, and the logistics of keeping a phone just for your sex life. Ashley “does the dance” with a ballerina. Kate has their first one night stand. Akeem can be found on IG...
Nov 29, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep 92•Transcript available on Metacast Ali Kolbert (The Ali Kolbert Show) is a side-splitting writer/comedian who has worked in some of NBC’s most prestigious programming (SNL, The Tonight Show, Late Night w/ Seth Meyers), but today she has graced WHGS with her hilarious presence. We discuss lesbian role models in media, dating during big life transitions, and the intricacies of tomboy fashion. Ashley gets introspective about her future. Kate grapples with their imaginary d*ck. Ali can be found on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @alikolbert...
Nov 22, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep 91•Transcript available on Metacast Jake Cornell (Going Out With Jake Cornell Podcast) is not only one of Kate's hilarious BFFs, he is TikTok famous, Insta famous, and truly hysterical. We get into his study abroad fling, age gap relationships, and how to get out of sleeping with someone but still using them for their mattress. Ashley goes on a date with Kate. Kate has to figure out if she was on a date or not. Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodca...
Nov 15, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep 90•Transcript available on Metacast Casey Tanner, AASECT, (@queersextherapist) is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive group, a queer-affirming therapy group (www.theexpansivegroup.com). But she is also absolutely hysterical and one of Ashley's favorite people on the planet and high-key crush. We dive into common queer sex therapy questions (like mismatched sex drive, and preparing for your first queer experience) and Casey's unfortunate dildo experiences. Ashley tries to win Casey's love and affection. Kate buys a d...
Nov 08, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep 89•Transcript available on Metacast Brilliant actor and comedian Jess Henderson (as seen on Shrill) joins us this week to talk toxic positivity, long distance dates, and reality tv self care. Ashley has a run in with a cruise guest. Kate finds a butt plug CW: We discuss Sexual Harassment on this episode, if this is triggering for you, then it might be best to skip from minute ~20:00 to ~40:00 If you need resources on this topic you can find some here: https://www.rainn.org/ThatsHarassment Jess Henderson can be found @embrace_mess ...
Nov 01, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep 88•Transcript available on Metacast 
