This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries. You can follow Emma on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.insta...
Mar 10, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we...
Mar 03, 2025•54 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes. You can follow Grace on ...
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her t...
Feb 17, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep 260•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamo...
Feb 10, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Ep 259•Transcript available on Metacast This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s...
Feb 03, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep 258•Transcript available on Metacast This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddi...
Jan 27, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep 257•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic fores...
Jan 20, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Ep 256•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is scandalous, listener! Our dear co-host and Canadian compatriot Breanne Williamson has RETURNED to the apartment from her mental health break, but today she’s in the apartment to break your BACK! We have a big catch up this week and discuss Bre’s sabbatical, lesbians in Florida, encountering vehement homophobes in the wild, and how Bre has been hiding a secret weapon: massive boobs. Even crazier, Ashley finally confronts “The Bachelor” cast member that dated her girlfriend and blo...
Jan 13, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Ep 255•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight another classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp from the "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gabriel calls someone daddy for the first time. You can f...
Jan 06, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep 254•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is REMASTERED, listener! For a holiday special, we decided to highlight a classic from our early, audio-only podcast catalog, complete with remastered audio and exclusive video that was only on the Patreon! Breanne Williamson dishes on her favorite dirty talk and sexting techniques, and re-tells the story of how she met her girlfriend of 5 years. We also get into the perks of being in an "opposite hand" lesbian relationship. Ashley has phone sex and gets vulnerable. Gabriel goes too...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 21 min•Ep 253•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is for the bros, listener! Snow The Product is an incredible rapper, singer, and podcaster whose music has topped charts and gained millions of views, but today she’s in the apartment to get some views on your BODY! We discuss coming out late in life after having children with a man, being a woman in a male-dominated field, abstaining from sex when visiting in-laws, and how you should definitely NOT surround yourself with employees that are ugly. Ashley can’t find the boob. Kylie ha...
Dec 23, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Ep 252•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a philosophical one, listener! Abigail Thorn (House of the Dragon, The Acolyte) is an actor, writer, and content creator that dives deep into ideas on “Philosophy Tube,” but today she’s phoning into the apartment to dive deep inside YOU! We discuss sexuality crises after good dates, the challenges of being a transgender actor, transphobia and freedom of expression in the UK, and getting banned from dating apps for being yourself. Ashley hits the red light district. Maddie unravel...
Dec 16, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep 251•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is an egocentric one, listener! Fan-favorite Georgia Bridgers is an actor, content creator, hot gay jester, and dear friend of the WHGS podcast, but today she’s finally joining us LIVE IN THE APARTMENT to get frisky with she, herself, and hers! We discuss touching yourself to the thought of yourself, having Tourette syndrome, and the ultimate pain of hitting your head while cleaning up after cats. Ashley burns her cooch. Maddie has butt cysts. You can follow Georgia on IG, Twitter, ...
Dec 09, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep 250•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a juicy one, listener! Carmen Lagala is a hilarious stand-up comedian and writer who has charmed you with her whimsical comedy on the Late Show with Stephen Colbert, but today she’s in the apartment to charm you into some LOVIN’! We discuss going on dates with the same exact woman, cradle-snatching your boyfriend as a 40 year old woman, and being an endless supporter of liberty…basketball. Ashley impresses her surrogate mother. Kylie shoots her shot (out of a bazooka). You can fo...
Dec 02, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep 249•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a smelly one, listener! Brittany Carney is a one-of-a-kind standup comedian and writer that will have you rolling on the floor laughing, but today she’s in the apartment to roll around in your beautiful armpit stench! We discuss the various smells of the human body, getting lost in armpit forests, and kissing girls while looking for your laptop. Ashley traces your scent. Maddie does cotillion. You can follow Brittany on IG and Tik Tok: https://www.instagram.com/brittany.goblin.ca...
Nov 25, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Ep 248•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a tasty one, listener! Tiffani Faison is a superstar chef, restaurateur, judge on “Chopped,” and winner of “Tournament of Champions,” but today she’s in the apartment to win your heart, taste buds, and loins with a delicious dish! In addition, Ashley’s girlfriend and actor Jen Davis fills in as temporary co-host while the other co-hosts are away! We discuss the perfect ingredients for a successful date night meal, her path to becoming a chef, why there are so many lesbians in the...
Nov 18, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep 247•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a cozy one, listener! It’s a family episode today as we are joined by both of our beloved co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Kylie Vincent, and sadly we must put aside sex and go all-hands-on-deck to save our KIDS! We discuss pets and the special healing bonds they form, giving the old “Gypsy Rose-Blanchard” treatment to your dog, and golden showers. Ashley is having sex in her sleep (featuring Jaime Wolf). Maddie is saving her ill rabbits. Kylie is closing the cyc...
Nov 11, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Ep 246•Transcript available on Metacast Kate is running an amazing hour of stand-up on Wednesday, 11/13, at the NYC UCB Theater! Support our Cancel Coach and get tickets at: https://ucbcomedy.com/show/kate-sisk-nycf/ This episode is LONG-AWAITED, listener! Kate Sisk is a stand-up comedian, writer, and former co-host/beloved “Cancel Coach” of the WHGS Podcast, but today they’re back in the apartment to update us on their new, improved self. You’ve been asking for them back, and we’re finally providing! We discuss starting testosterone ...
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Ep 245•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a wholesome one, listeners! Izzy & Emma, also known as Turtlewithhat, are a pair of content creators and filmmakers that are deeply in love, but today they’re in the apartment to go deep inside of YOU! We take a break from our traditional story format to dive deep into the story of Izzy & Emma: how they met, when they came out, how their love blossomed, and how it all translated into sick content. More importantly, between all the discussions of fidgets and firings of our produce...
Oct 28, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep 244•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a groovy one, listener! Austen Faggen is a television writer that has been behind some of your favorite shows like “Undateable”, “The Neighborhood,” and “Everybody Still Hates Chris,” but today he’s behind YOU, ready to give you a lap dance! We discuss working as a stripper after getting fired for speaking up about trans rights, the allure of sleeping with the opposite sex via threeway, and how being a nerd makes you stand out at the strip club. Ashley is dreaming about boys. Kyl...
Oct 21, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Ep 243•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a witchy one, listeners! Mal Glowenke is a podcaster, content creator, and late-in-life Lesbian that is sharing her journey with the world, but today she’s in the apartment to share with us the secret to manifesting PUSSY! In addition, fan-favorite stand up comedian Ali Kolbert steps in as our temporary co-host! We discuss positive vibrations and the powers of manifesting, coming out later in life, secret lesbian hookups on Craigslist, and how there’s nothing hotter than bangin’ ...
Oct 14, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep 242•Transcript available on Metacast This episode is a SAUCY ONE, listeners! Weezy WTF is a genius sex expert, writer, and podcaster that is dedicated to destigmatizing kink for people of color, but today she’s in the apartment to introduce Bottom Nation to the FREAK SIDE! We discuss a whole plethora of topics in the sex and kink world, like the gender’s roles within sex, attraction vs. fetishization, pee play, and other stuff that’s so nasty, you need to listen to learn more. Ashley is throbbing down there. Maddie is learning from...
Oct 07, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Ep 241•Transcript available on Metacast Today’s episode is an absolute riot! Russell Daniels is a hilarious actor who’s the star of “Titanique,” the understudy of Josh Gad, and co-host of “The Downside” with Gianmarco Soresi, but today he’s in the apartment to bring you down to the underbelly of New York acting! We discuss terrible jobs and their effect on your confidence, the nuance and ethics of drag performance in comedy, and how selling magic at Toys R Us is one of the least magical things in existence. Ashley is hitting on boys f...
Sep 30, 2024•1 hr 15 min•Ep 240•Transcript available on Metacast Fan-favorite Remy Kassimir is a stand up comedian, writer, and host of award-winning podcast “How C*m,” but today she’s in the apartment to share some FORBIDDEN KNOWLEDGE with you bisexuals in the crowd! We go full reaction mode today as Remy brings in a variety of topics, and we discuss the chaos of coming out, queerbaiting, the smokin’ hot stars at this year’s VMA’s, and whether or not everything is either a salad or a sandwich. Finally, Remy shares with us the ULTIMATE date night for bisexual...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep 239•Transcript available on Metacast Lesley Hart is an incredible Scottish actor and playwright who is best known for her great work on the long-running Scottish series “River City,” but today she is here to work on a way to get into your PANTS! On another installment of Ashley’s Fringe Fest podcasts, we discuss the long journey to fully coming out as queer, surviving closeted relationships, being an older queer, and how the hottest kind of woman is one who is HOSTILE! Ashley can’t crack Scotland (sexually). Lesley was in lesbian p...
Sep 16, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep 238•Transcript available on Metacast (TW // Self-harm; skip 30:42 - 38:23 to avoid) Anna Akana is an amazing actor, comedian, and veteran content creator who has been making you laugh on YouTube since 2011, but today she’s hopping on the podcast to make you NUT!!! From the backstage of our theater at the Fringe Festival, we discuss losing your gay virginity to YouTubers, struggling with bisexuality, mental health, and how masc lesbians may only be pulling due to supply and demand. Ashley is planning her proposal to Jen. Anna is fli...
Sep 09, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep 237•Transcript available on Metacast Tayla Parx is a singer, songwriter, and four-time Grammy nominee who has written chart-topping tracks for Ariana Grande, Panic! at the Disco, and Khalid, but today she’s in the apartment to write some EROTICA! We discuss how staying friends with your exes can go terribly wrong, the nuances of gender and queerness in songwriting, and what one must sacrifice to become the first gay Kardashian. Ashley is getting rejected. Maddie is saving gay rabbits. You can follow Tayla on IG, Twitter, and Tik To...
Sep 02, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep 236•Transcript available on Metacast Kylie Vincent is an amazing stand up comedian, writer, and one of the beloved co-hosts of WHGS, but today SHE is the one sitting on the couch to give all of US a chance at GETTIN’ IT! In a radical departure from the standard podcast format, we take a dive-in deep into the mind of Kylie and get to know our partner-in-pussy a bit better, touching on everything from abusive relationships to finding respect for your queer identity, and the existence of soulmates. Finally, we take some write-ins from...
Aug 26, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep 235•Transcript available on Metacast Brandon Contreras is an iconic non-binary actor, writer, creator, and star of the hit off-Broadway show “Titanique,” but today he’s in the apartment to recruit you into their MLM (Men-Loving-Men)! We discuss polyamory and levels of love, the beauty of queer collaboration, and how the best way to flirt with a gay man is not talk at all. Ashley is getting jealous. Kylie is getting lucky. You can find Brandon on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/ohhey_brandon/ https://www.tiktok.co...
Aug 19, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Ep 234•Transcript available on Metacast 
