Too many of us delay our happiness in the endless pursuit of achievement. While chasing goals and reaching the next mountaintop is essential to your growth as a man, sooner or later you’ll realize that this journey has no end. Every goal you achieve will be immediately replaced by the next, and if you don’t fully understand this you could be sleepwalking your way into old age without ever actually enjoying yourself. The goal of today’s episode is to reconcile this discrepancy and help you to cor...
Dec 14, 2023•24 min•Ep 518•Transcript available on Metacast One of the most common reasons guys get blown out by women is they are simply too nice and agreeable. Women crave a playful back and forth, it’s what excites them and builds attraction. You don’t want to be the nice guy, you want to be the exciting, funny, seductive, and romantic guy, and you can achieve this by using the push/pull technique, which is where you playfully mix pulling her towards you and pushing her away which keeps the interaction engaging and exciting. However, this technique do...
Dec 11, 2023•20 min•Ep 517•Transcript available on Metacast In the current dating landscape with Instagram and dating apps being so prevalent, women are spoiled for choice when it comes to men. They have access to near-infinite attention and compliments from guys, which leads many women who develop a grossly inflated idea of how attractive they really are. This is dangerous for you as a man because if you buy into their perceptions and believe these women are out of your league, it’s going make you convey a lack of confidence, lose frame and ultimately m...
Dec 07, 2023•22 min•Ep 516•Transcript available on Metacast Modern society has been carefully lacing the idea of masculinity with negativity, calling it toxic, damaging, and unhealthy, when in reality nothing could be further from the truth. Masculinity is not only important to you as an individual, but it’s masculinity that builds and maintains the society we all rely on every single day of our lives. It’s time to forget society's attempts at telling us our masculinity is bad and embrace it once and for all. And by doing so, you’re going to unlock your ...
Dec 04, 2023•22 min•Ep 515•Transcript available on Metacast The dating apps are one of your main ways of meeting new women, but there’s no denying that it’s a very competitive market these days and your profile is going to need every bit of help it can get to stand out from the crowd. One of the easiest, yet under-utilized ways to give your profile a competitive edge is to leverage videos to show off your value, humor, and personality in a way that photos simply cannot compete with. In today’s episode, Mark explains exactly how you can do this easily, fo...
Nov 30, 2023•18 min•Ep 514•Transcript available on Metacast To fully understand why women like what they like, and pick the guys they pick you need to understand hypergamy which is the fundamental idea that women want the best man they can get and are completely willing to drop their current man if a better option presents itself. So in today’s episode, Mark is interviewing Paul Bauer of the "Come On Man” podcast where they discuss how hypergamy works in detail, and explain how you can retain your girl by leveraging women's nature and using it to your ad...
Nov 27, 2023•24 min•Ep 513•Transcript available on Metacast One of the most commonly searched terms in the topic of relationships is “How do I get my ex back?”. Understandable, she’s broken your heart, and every attempt you make to beg and plead for her back just seems to drive her further away. The main reason this happens is because our natural instinct to appease and submit to her is fundamentally wrong. If you really want her back then there is one option and one option only available to you, you need to start working on yourself. In today’s episode,...
Nov 23, 2023•21 min•Ep 512•Transcript available on Metacast We are subject to the development of flaws and weaknesses due to the traumas we experience throughout our lives. Whether it be anxiety, difficulties focusing, being prone to getting stressed out, or overthinking. These weaknesses are often instilled in us during our childhoods, and we go through our whole lives seeing them as exactly that, weaknesses. But believe it or not, if you frame these behaviours correctly, there’s almost always a silver lining to these so-called ‘flaws’ that you can use ...
Nov 20, 2023•16 min•Ep 511•Transcript available on Metacast So far on the Unapologetic Man Podcast, you’ve been given over 500 episodes worth of invaluable information when it comes to seduction and masculinity. But this podcast is fundamentally just a taster, the real magic happens in Mark's 3-month coaching program which is where all the highest-level secrets are shared. So for the first time, you’re going to be given a peek behind the curtain with a full coaching call between Mark and his students. You’ll get to see and experience first hand what it’s...
Nov 16, 2023•51 min•Ep 510•Transcript available on Metacast Although the intention of flirting is to build attraction in the other person, simply being nice and agreeable with them is actually one of the least effective ways to get someone to like you. If you want to flirt like a pro, you need to learn to tease, bust their chops and be disagreeable, all in a playful way and with good energy. Sound difficult? Don’t worry, it’s easy! Today Mark is sharing his “Play Fight” technique which you can use to hit all those disagreeable and playful beats with a fr...
Nov 13, 2023•20 min•Ep 509•Transcript available on Metacast The term Alpha Male gets thrown around a lot these days, so much so that it even has some negative connotations associated with it due to the term being misused. But when you peel back the curtains you’ll quickly see the idea of being an Alpha Male is not only completely positive, it’s absolutely necessary for you to become one, if you want to achieve ultimate success in all aspects of your life. So in today’s episode, Mark lays out what exactly an Alpha Male is and how to embody the Alpha minds...
Nov 09, 2023•20 min•Ep 508•Transcript available on Metacast Having a solid frame is without a doubt the single most important aspect when it comes to building attraction in women. When you have a strong frame and are not seeking approval and validation from a woman, literally everything falls into place. The way you act, respond, and hold yourself will naturally make women gravitate towards you. But as a concept, frame control can be a little esoteric, with multiple behaviors and mindsets that culminate into you having a strong, masculine fame. Today’s e...
Nov 06, 2023•35 min•Ep 507•Transcript available on Metacast Throughout your life, you are inevitably going to encounter people who wrong you in some way. Perhaps they betrayed your trust or didn’t treat you with kindness. Whatever the reason may be, it’s only natural we will hold a certain amount of resentment and hatred towards those people. But all of these negative feelings create an unnecessary burden on your mind, forcing you to needlessly carry around this extra emotional weight that only serves to hold you back. So in today’s episode, Mark shares ...
Nov 02, 2023•23 min•Ep 506•Transcript available on Metacast Women do this thing where they will subconsciously test you as a man to check that you’re strong, confident, and not easily bent out of shape. This comes in the form of small comments and digs at your character, or they might try to put you in the follower position while you’re out together. These are also commonly known as ‘frame checks’, and they will be particularly prevalent in those first few weeks of dating. The importance of passing these frame checks and retaining the masculine position ...
Oct 30, 2023•23 min•Ep 505•Transcript available on Metacast When you’re out in any social setting, be it a bar or a night club, and you spot that one absolutely perfect 10/10 that you want to approach, unless you are a 10/10 yourself, it’s going to be tough to walk straight up to her and get the kind of response you want. Before approaching her, you need to lay a little bit of groundwork to give yourself an advantage. This way by the time you actually go and talk to her, she's already noticed several things about you she finds attractive. In today’s epis...
Oct 26, 2023•33 min•Ep 504•Transcript available on Metacast One aspect of approaching women that perplexes a lot of men is understanding the difference between her showing disinterest because she wants you to chase her and give her more attention, and her showing disinterest because she actually wants you to leave. Unless you learn to identify and navigate between these two variations of disinterest you’ll be left either prematurely bailing on women who it could have worked out with, or overstaying your welcome and annoying her. So to help you out Mark h...
Oct 23, 2023•19 min•Ep 503•Transcript available on Metacast Even the most disciplined of men tend to struggle with self-destructive habits and patterns of behavior which, at first glance seem negative, yet we cannot seem to stop doing them. This is because there is a hidden motive behind all bad habits that are rooted in good. This is what makes self-destructive behaviors so difficult to shake. Fortunately, through the use of NLP, or Neuro Linguistic Programming, we can identify, remove, and then replace these destructive behaviors with new meta-programs...
Oct 19, 2023•23 min•Ep 502•Transcript available on Metacast A disturbing trend has swept across the social media landscape as women rally together in Facebook groups intended to oust men who are dating multiple women. In these pages, they will post your information with the intention of connecting with other women who are also dating you. To the untrained, this is a petrifying prospect as that spreadsheet of women you are dating can potentially converge against you, forever painting you as a player and ruining your ability to get more dates in the future...
Oct 16, 2023•20 min•Ep 501•Transcript available on Metacast Although hard to believe, the overwhelming majority of the pain and suffering that we experience in life is not actually real, it’s our overthinking minds spinning limited information into elaborate fantasies that we torture ourselves with. Our minds love to assume worst-case scenarios and force us to stew on them, which then influences us to make poor decisions and reactions. To truly ascend and find peace in this life, you need to understand this concept deeply and learn how to counter-attack ...
Oct 12, 2023•30 min•Ep 500•Transcript available on Metacast Sometimes it's easy to get lost in the sea of techniques, tricks, and gambits we use in seduction, to the point that we end up losing sight of the fundamental reasons why these even build attraction in the first place. So, in today's episode, Mark is stripping things back and explaining the fundamentals behind building attraction in women. If you're new to seduction, this will give you a solid understanding of how this whole thing works. If you're a veteran, it serves as a reminder of the core p...
Oct 09, 2023•27 min•Ep 499•Transcript available on Metacast We’re often told that when we approach a woman the key is to “just be confident” and everything will work out. But if you’ve tried this you may have found yourself striking out because you either stayed in platonic conversation for too long, missing the window of attraction, or you tried to escalate too fast which ended up creeping her out. You need a plan and some direction with your conversation. To help with this Mark has developed the O.Q.Q.P Sequence which, when followed, will ensure you ke...
Oct 05, 2023•23 min•Ep 498•Transcript available on Metacast When getting a girl attracted to you, it’s only natural to want to let her know how amazing you are, all your good qualities are surely enough to win her affection! But care needs to be taken in how you deliver this knowledge of your awesomeness to her, if you’re too direct, it comes off as arrogant and will have the opposite effect. So in today’s episode, Mark discusses a high-level seduction system that allows you to “show off” your best self to a woman, but in a way that’s natural and organic...
Oct 02, 2023•21 min•Ep 497•Transcript available on Metacast One of the harsh realities we all have to face is that adversity, challenges, and difficulties are going to relentlessly assault your life no matter what. Even if you’re doing all the right things. The trick is not to live your life with the expectation you’ll be problem-free if you just hit all your goals, but in accepting the inevitability that you’re going to face problems regardless of your level of success. Once you adopt this new mentality you’ll now have two far more practical tools at yo...
Sep 28, 2023•18 min•Ep 496•Transcript available on Metacast Women will naturally try to give you small tests that check your frame to make sure you are emotionally stable. Failing these tests is a surefire way to deflate any subsequent seduction attempts as you haven't been able to establish yourself as someone who's confident. Fortunately, there’s a really easy way to counter any and all checks known as “The Tempe Turnaround”. This simple trick will allow you to immediately turn these frame checks straight back at her. Not only does make you look ultra-...
Sep 25, 2023•18 min•Ep 495•Transcript available on Metacast One of the most common questions people like to ask is “How long will it take for me to get good at attracting women?”. The only real answer to this is “it depends”. Do you have any skill to begin with? how many girls are you approaching a week? Have you invested in coaching from a professional or are you learning by yourself? So to help answer this question accurately, in today’s episode Mark is going to break down all the variables that will affect how quickly you can get good at seduction, an...
Sep 21, 2023•21 min•Ep 494•Transcript available on Metacast Ever found yourself chatting to an older or less attractive woman and you have the confidence of a lion, but when faced with a woman you think is genuinely beautiful you turn into a jellyfish as your backbone decides to take a quick break, leaving you a stumbling nervous wreck? Don’t worry, it’s normal. Hot girls can be intimidating as we usually have a stronger desire to impress them, this makes you outcome dependent which leads to nervousness that breaks your composure. If you want to start at...
Sep 18, 2023•24 min•Ep 493•Transcript available on Metacast While being romantic is great once you’ve gotten to know each other a bit, keeping the mood light early on by making her laugh is one of the best ways to get her attracted to you. But we get it, you’re nervous, perhaps a bit self-conscious, and it’s not always easy to be funny in the moment. For that reason, it’s extremely helpful to have a ‘bank’ of funny things to say that you can fall back on should the need arise. Coach Mark Sing has a near endless supply of banger one-liners that will help ...
Sep 14, 2023•16 min•Ep 492•Transcript available on Metacast Ever tried to bring up a legitimate concern with a woman, only to have them get into their emotions and become angry, even though everything you’re saying is perfectly logical? This is because when women feel (key word, FEEL) attacked, they’ll immediately jump on the defensive no matter how logical you are. This begs the question, how can we eliminate these unlikable traits and behaviors without direct confrontation and making her mad? This is where the sheer genius of Preemptive compliments com...
Sep 11, 2023•22 min•Ep 491•Transcript available on Metacast The thoughts you have and the mindsets you adopt have a unique way of manifesting themselves in reality. So it’s essential to believe in yourself, and believe you can achieve anything if you want to have the best shot of becoming your the man you want to be. But life’s not easy, there’s no way around it, it’s going to fill you with stress, trauma, and problems and try to drag you into a negative frame of mind. Today’s episode approaches the concept of being your own hero, where you can reflect o...
Sep 07, 2023•21 min•Ep 490•Transcript available on Metacast As a listener of the Unapologetic Man podcast, you’re being filled with knowledge on how to attract women, but surprisingly a lot of guys struggle to find places where they can put these skills into practice. While essentially anywhere can be a good place to meet women, there are certain places you can go to where the vibe or female-to-male ratio leans things in your favor. So in today’s episode Marks going to give you 25 incredible places you can go specifically to meet girls, so no matter wher...
Sep 04, 2023•19 min•Ep 489•Transcript available on Metacast