Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal journey from a tumultuous past to a thriving marriage, offering practical insights on balancing autonomy and connection, recognizing red and green flags, and navigating healthy versus toxic arguments. Get your tickets fo...
Feb 24, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Ep 76•Transcript available on Metacast Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s evolution. Get your tickets for Jillian’s live event at 92NY here: https://www.92ny.org/event/jillian-turecki Record and submit your relationship questi...
Feb 17, 2025•50 min•Ep 75•Transcript available on Metacast In this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, make better choices, and create healthier relationships. From radical acceptance to knowing your value, Jillian unpacks the mindset shifts that will empower you to have your own back—no matter where you are in...
Feb 10, 2025•48 min•Ep 74•Transcript available on Metacast Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking free from toxic patterns, while also answering a heartfelt listener question about escaping a painful cycle. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt in...
Feb 03, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep 73•Transcript available on Metacast Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through their experiences, Jillian offers compassionate guidance on letting go with dignity and recognizing the difference between fighting for love and figh...
Jan 27, 2025•52 min•Ep 72•Transcript available on Metacast What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and content creator—to explore her journey of love, growth, and resilience. Valeria opens up about navigating an age gap marriage, the wisdom her mother shared before she said “I do,” and how she and her husband keep their connection strong after 13 years together. They dive into the ch...
Jan 20, 2025•51 min•Ep 71•Transcript available on Metacast In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning how to create fulfilling, secure relationships. As a thank you to her loyal listeners, she’s offering this exclusive sneak peek of the audiobook to insp...
Jan 13, 2025•52 min•Ep 70•Transcript available on Metacast In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their needs, communicate authentically, and build emotional security for healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with Yo...
Jan 06, 2025•51 min•Ep 69•Transcript available on Metacast As we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares actionable advice on building healthier habits, strengthening relationships, and approaching conflict with empathy. Jillian also discusses how to heal from betrayal and heartbreak, drawing on her own experiences to inspire listeners to let go of past pain and embrace 2025 with intention a...
Dec 30, 2024•45 min•Ep 68•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate insecurity and avoid true intimacy. She offers practical advice on fostering healthier relationships, maintaining individuality, and breaking free fro...
Dec 23, 2024•57 min•Ep 67•Transcript available on Metacast Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a powerful reminder that true healing begins with you. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillia...
Dec 16, 2024•56 min•Ep 66•Transcript available on Metacast While it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs, recognizing your role in relationship struggles, and overcoming ego-driven narratives. Through real-life examples and thought-provoking questions, this episode encourages listeners to reflect deeply on their own patterns, communication breakdowns, and the transformative potential of love...
Dec 09, 2024•55 min•Ep 65•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian dives deep into the emotionally charged topic of letting go, especially when it comes to relationships that are very unhealthy, misaligned, or emotionally unsafe. Sharing personal anecdotes, hard truths, and actionable steps, she explores why we cling to relationships that don't serve us and how to move forward with self-awareness and courage. She challenges listeners to confront the lies we tell ourselves, examine the beliefs keeping us stuck, and prioritize character over chemistry. Jo...
Dec 02, 2024•54 min•Ep 64•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-awareness play a role in our connections. She also answers a listener's heartfelt question about letting go of an unrequited love, offering actionable insi...
Nov 25, 2024•52 min•Ep 63•Transcript available on Metacast Today, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing their newest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations. In a world that’s become increasingly divided and disconnected, their revolutionary approach to dialogue offers us a way back ...
Nov 18, 2024•41 min•Ep 62•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares the two MOST essential things you need for a healthy relationship. She dives into the life-changing power of a good relationship, sharing why they’re essential for both our emotional and physical well-being. Reflecting on recent studies, she explores how fulfilling relationships built on trust, respect, and emotional safety can actually extend our lives and make us healthier. Jillian gets real about the importance of selecting the right partner,...
Nov 11, 2024•49 min•Ep 61•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, a no-nonsense dating and anxiety coach and the voice behind The Sabrina Zohar Show. Together, they dive into the nitty-gritty of love while dealing with anxiety, self-doubt, and the need for validation. Sabrina opens up about her personal journey from anxious attachment to self-acceptance, sharing hard-earned lessons and practical advice for anyone feeling stuck in familiar patterns or looking to build a healthier approach to love. Find Sabrina on Instagram ...
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Ep 60•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, Jillian explores the balance between self-love and healthy relationships. She opens up about the challenges of accepting ourselves, especially when past experiences make it hard. Jillian offers practical tips on breaking the cycle of self-neglect and replacing it with positive actions, authenticity, and open communication. She emphasizes the importance of self-care in creating more fulfilling relationships and personal growth. Join Jillian in celebrating the release of her new b...
Oct 28, 2024•43 min•Ep 59•Transcript available on Metacast In today's episode, Dr. Emily Morse and Jillian have an open and honest conversation about the role of communication in both sexual and romantic relationships. They dig into how society often shapes women into people-pleasers, and why it’s so empowering to truly understand your own sexual pleasure and desires. They also touch on some deeply important topics like sexual trauma, mismatched desires, and how to navigate expectations in the bedroom—while busting myths around sexual performance. Plus,...
Oct 21, 2024•56 min•Ep 58•Transcript available on Metacast In this episode, Jillian dives even deeper into the world of red and green flags and highlights ones that people should never ignore. She uncovers some surprising red flags that might have more to do with you than your partner, and the most important green flags that are the greatest predictors of longevity and health in a relationship. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jill...
Oct 14, 2024•52 min•Ep 57•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian welcomes Peter A. Levine to the show. Peter is the world's leading expert on somatic therapy for healig trauma and reclaiming your life. He is the author of multiple best-selling books and the developer and founder of Somatic Experiencing, a naturalistic and neurobiological approach to healing trauma, which he has developed over the past 50 years. This is a profound conversation in which he shares tools and wisdom that every human being needs to hear. Be sure to check out Peter’s new boo...
Oct 07, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep 56•Transcript available on Metacast Everyone has beliefs about love and partnership. Some of them are beliefs that guide us towards healthy, functional relationships, and others can severely limit our capacity for healthy love. If we want to change our lives - specifically our love lives, we have to look at the core beliefs we have about love and how they are impacting out behavior and choices in relationships. Get ready to take notes! Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow t...
Sep 30, 2024•56 min•Ep 55•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship as well as the deeper roots of what causes friction between a couple. Please enjoy this powerful conversa...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Ep 54•Transcript available on Metacast In this robust episode, Jillian shares 9 strategies and pearls of wisdom to boost your self-worth and confidence in relationships regardless of your relationship status or attachment style. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ...
Sep 16, 2024•50 min•Ep 53•Transcript available on Metacast The health of a relationship begins with our relationship with ourselves. One of the leading causes of suffering - depression and anxiety, is a life that has not gone according to plan. Whether it's because you're single or childless at a certain age, your work is not what you want it to be, or you've experienced certain losses that you were not prepared to cope with. In this episode, Jillian shares what to do when life has gone down an unexpected path. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with Y...
Sep 09, 2024•42 min•Ep 52•Transcript available on Metacast Jillian welcomes renowned dating coach, author and podcast host Damona Hoffman to the show to discuss how to date like a pro on and off the apps so that you can find true love. Get ready to take notes! Damona's book "F the Fairy Tale" is out now. Find her at The Dates & Mates Podcast or IG: @damonahoffman Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jilli...
Sep 02, 2024•1 hr•Ep 51•Transcript available on Metacast There is no stress like the stress of one's relationship falling apart. The truth is that some relationships are worth fighting for, but they end anyway because we don't know HOW to save it. This is what this episode will teach you - how to save or improve your current or future relationship. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ o...
Aug 26, 2024•52 min•Ep 50•Transcript available on Metacast What makes someone "right"? What makes someone the wrong partner? What makes US "right"? Jillian shares three prevailing patterns that are responsible for unhealthy partnership, and teaches things in this episode that she has never taught before. Whether you're in a relationship or not, this episode is for you. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to...
Aug 19, 2024•55 min•Ep 49•Transcript available on Metacast In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches how to overcome relationship insecurity and to finally choose yourself. Think of this episode as one branch of a tree as Jillian continues to expand on how to become more secure in love in future episodes. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources men...
Aug 12, 2024•52 min•Ep 48•Transcript available on Metacast Get ready to take notes! Jillian welcomes entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host of the Women Of Impact podcast Lisa Bilyeu. In this incredible conversation, Lisa shares her journey from toxic relationships to finding radical confidence in life and in her relationship. Get ready to learn some incredible communication skills! Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the...
Aug 05, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep 47•Transcript available on Metacast