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Your Ex-Boyfriend’s Podcast

Your Ex-Boyfriend’s Podcast is a critical look into being human, centered on one man’s journey to be healthy, happy, and fulfilled, led by Justis Tena, your local jack-of-all-trades. Each week on Sunday, we’ll discuss a different topic related to personal growth and navigating life, ranging from fear and shame, to finding purpose and joy, to critical thinking and setting boundaries. Solo episodes by Justis will be alternated with special guests, including nurses, police officers, sex coaches, therapists, teachers, friends, family members, and many more. All the while, we’ll be analyzing things through the lens of one college dropout turned blue collar philosopher, and keeping in mind that if it’s not hard, it’s probably not worth doing.
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Episodes

Episode 58: Boys' Trip Musings

I'm back! At least for one episode! You're just going to have to listen to this one. Two of my best friends and the Wolfpack mascot took a trip with me to the ocean. Here's what happened. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM: @your_e...

Aug 05, 20241 hr 17 minSeason 2Ep. 58

Episode 57: Psychological Safety, FT. DR. I. DAVID DANIELS

In this episode, I welcome an awesome guest to the the show, Dr. I. David Daniels! Dr. Daniels is an expert in all things safety, specializing in psychological safety in the workplace. We talk for a bit over an hour, and it's one of the denser episodes I've done, in terms of information per minute. Don't talk about it; be about it! Dr. Daniels' Website Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatev...

Nov 07, 20231 hr 19 minSeason 2Ep. 57

Episode 56: Labor Day (Burn It Down, Boys!)

First things first...if you want to hear the kickass intro-protest song in it's entirety, make sure you stick around past the end of this episode... So! In this episode, we get riled up about Labor Day and the organized labor movement in the good ol' USA. We're going to talk about what Labor Day is about, what we celebrate and why, and who it was that made it happen. Labor Unions in this country are vital and it's something everyone should be talking about. The song I used for both the intro and...

Sep 05, 202336 minSeason 2Ep. 56

Episode 55: The Sunday Evening Episode (Time To Rant)

In this episode, I channel my inner red-headed comedian and vent about some things that bug me. Featuring rants about the following: climate change/wildfire smoke, safe spaces, fathers and sons, giving a shit, bakeries, and podcasts that I enjoy. Nielsen's Pastries The Monday Morning Podcast with Bill Burr Overheard at National Geographic Black Box Down Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write m...

Aug 27, 20231 hrSeason 2Ep. 55

Episode 54: Resources For You (My Recommendations)

In this episode, my first "list" episode since number 10, I throw down a handful of books, podcasts, and smart people whose work and opinions I value. Throughout this podcast, I've mentioned all of these and more, and it seemed like a good idea to finally list some out and give all my dear listeners the direct path to them. Everything listed in this episode is also listed here, below! Extreme Ownership, by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin Boundary Boss, by Terri Cole Untamed, by Glennon Doyle The Gi...

Jul 29, 202359 minSeason 2Ep. 54

Episode 53: Work Hard And Keep Your Eyes Open (Mix Bag)

In this episode, we jump to a few different topics. On my mind recently were the following: 1. "Body count" negative bias 2. Social media "experts" 3. Being ok with not being ok With this first Mix Bag episode, I'll touch on the previous over the course of about an hour, sharing my thoughts and personal experiences. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Ins...

Jul 10, 20231 hr 6 minSeason 2Ep. 53

Episode 52: Return of the Ex-Boyfriend (Cottagecore For Sure), Part 2, FT. CAIT

WELCOME BACK AGAIN! In this episode, part 2 of 2, I channel my inner Luke Skywalker and make a return to the airwaves after a little over 5 months. If you're just listening to this show for the first time, you should know that Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast has been on an extended hiatus since the New Year of 2023. With #51, I dove into all manner of topics with my long-time friend Cait, including religion, trauma, hurt, the future, purpose, and chillin'. With this episode, #52, we continue the con...

Jun 26, 20231 hr 14 minSeason 2Ep. 52

Episode 51: Return of the Ex-Boyfriend (The Dad Glow-up), Part 1, FT. CAIT

WELCOME BACK! In this episode, I channel my inner Luke Skywalker and make a return to the airwaves after a little over 5 months. If you're just listening to this show for the first time, you should know that Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast has been on an extended hiatus since the New Year of 2023. With #51, I dive into all manner of topics with my long-time friend Cait, including religion, trauma, hurt, the future, purpose, and chillin'. Return listeners, I'm glad you came back. First time listeners...

Jun 19, 20231 hr 45 minSeason 2Ep. 51

Episode 50: Look For The Helpers (More Important Than Fear), 2022 Finale

In this episode...we say goodbye for now. In addition to my handheld recorded reflection on what this podcast has been for and what I hoped to be to my dear listeners, I bid farewell in this episode, for an as-yet-unknown amount of time. There may be more of Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast in 2023, and there may not. We shall see. Regardless, what I want to say is THANK YOU! To everyone single one of you who supported me in this endeavor. You're the best. And I'm glad you were there. Please reach ou...

Jan 05, 202338 minSeason 1Ep. 50

Episode 49: Agency and Ownership (Information and Feelings)

In this episode, we *quickly* go over a couple concepts regarding interacting with the ones you care for. Take responsibility for yourself and ONLY yourself. And understand that every thought, action, opinion, interaction, and conversation is DATA to be used. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend'...

Dec 19, 202220 minSeason 1Ep. 49

Episode 46: Both Things Can Be True (Two Cheeks On the Same Ass), Pt. 2, FT. JERMAINE JONES

In Part 2 of this two-part series, I continue the conversation with my friend, former classmate, co-worker at The Agency, and IBEW brother Jermain Jones. We'll discuss all manner of topics, ranging from the heartfelt to the stomach turning. If you want to hear about alpha males, Andrew Tate, ice baths, fair labor practices, just showing up, imperialism, police, BLM, abortion, and how everyone has privelege, take a listen. WARNING: Explicit/NSFW. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or ...

Dec 09, 20221 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 46

Episode 45: Both Things Can Be True (Burning Down the Couch), Pt.1, FT. JERMAINE JONES

In Part 1 of this two-part series, my friend, former classmate, co-worker at The Agency, and IBEW brother Jermain Jones makes a visit. We'll discuss all manner of topics, ranging from the heartfelt to the stomach turning. If you want to hear about labor relations, racism, being a man, feeling your feelings, making money, dating, and much more, take a listen. It's quite the ride. WARNING: Explicit/NSFW. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and...

Dec 05, 20221 hr 37 minSeason 1Ep. 45

Episode 44: Special Response to ”Attachment Theory”

In this episode, I give a huge thank you to all of my new listeners who made my previous episode, "Attachment Theory," the most listened to episode of Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast to-date. As of this writing, over 16,000 new listeners have found that episode, and this podcast, and the number continues to grow. I am blown away and can't thank you all enough! Following me pouring my heart out, in the second half of the episode we'll discuss some principles we've touched on before and how they apply...

Nov 21, 202234 minSeason 1Ep. 44

Episode 43: Attachment Theory

In this episode, I finally catch up on my research and attempt a concise explanation of Attachment Theory and how it manifests in people's day-to-day. There's a whole world of "why" we, as human beings, attach to others in the ways we do, and this episode isn't about that...but if you want a crash course into how these attachment styles pop up and interact with each other, this one's for you. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forw...

Nov 14, 202250 minSeason 1Ep. 43

Episode 42: Loving Yourself (Relationship #1)

In this episode, let's take a look at why your relationship with yourself is so important, and why I've been struggling with mine recently. Tears?! Maybe... Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM: @your_exbf_podcast...

Nov 08, 202230 minSeason 1Ep. 42

Episode 41: Full Body Chills FT. ROGER a.k.a. POWER-327

In this episode, my good friend Roger shows up to the podcast to chop it up about life, liberty, and the pursuit of a day-shift work schedule. We'll touch on fatherhood, being an electrician, being a union member, working at the same horrible job for over a year, serial killers, podcasts, and hitchhiking through the desert. Come over here and let me tickle you! Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say....

Oct 31, 20222 hr 23 minSeason 1Ep. 41

Episode 40: Living Authentically (Fallibility = Change)

In this episode, we talk about walking the walk and how that may very well be the best way to start influencing the world around you in a positive way. Live authentically, and in turn, impact others authentically. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gm...

Oct 23, 202225 minSeason 1Ep. 40

Episode 39: Speaking Kindly With Yourself

In this episode, we very quickly break down why the manner in which you talk to yourself is so important. We'll hit the Placebo Effect, self-fulfilling prophecies, and childhood trauma, all in only 15 minutes! Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail....

Oct 16, 202218 minEp. 39

Episode 38: When You’re Wrong

In this episode, we talk about why being wrong, failing, making mistakes, and getting the chance to change your mind are all good things. It's required for change! The Tim Ferris Show: https://tim.blog/2022/04/19/terry-crews-2/https://tim.blog/podcast/ Think Again, by Adam Grant: https://adamgrant.net/book/think-again/ Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on ...

Oct 10, 202234 minSeason 1Ep. 38

Episode 37: The Juice Has To Be Worth The Squeeze, FT. CAIT LIETZ (PART 2)

In this episode, Cait and I continue our conversation from last time. We discuss the housing market, where your friends go during a breakup, having children, being a regular guy making a podcast, and how we all feel and deal with shame, thinking we're alone when we're actually not. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! H...

Oct 06, 20221 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 37

Episode 36: The Juice Has To Be Worth The Squeeze, FT. CAIT LIETZ (PART 1)

In this episode, my friend of almost a decade graces Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast with stories of her time in the health care industry as a nurse, college woes, and thoughts on primordial internet memes. This is only Part 1! So come back in a couple days for Part 2! Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyf...

Oct 03, 20221 hr 33 minSeason 1Ep. 36

Episode 35: Practical Application (From Theory To Action)

In this episode, we return to some previous concepts that we've touched on and try to apply it to the real world with actual actions. If you feel like you've got a decent grasp on the concepts presented so far in this podcast, and you want some guidance on how to implement them, this episode's for you. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'...

Sep 25, 202245 minSeason 1Ep. 35

Episode 34: Asking For Help (The Worst They Can Say Is No)

In this episode, we discuss my tentative motto ("...And that's ok!"), in addition to why asking for what you need is a necessary skill to develop. I also practice what I preach and ask for all my devoted listeners' help with improving this podcast. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast o...

Sep 11, 202236 minSeason 1Ep. 34

Episode 33: Manifestation Isn’t Enough

In this episode, let's try to figure out why social media seems to be pushing the idea of "manifestation" being this magical solution to all your woes. If you can dream it, you can do it? Not likely! EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM: @your_exbf_podcast https://www.instagram.com/your_exbf_podcast/?hl=en

Sep 04, 202229 minSeason 1Ep. 33

Episode 32: The Quiet Quitter

In this episode, we debunk some terms in the recent news regarding what it means to be a good employee. Know what you're worth, and get what you're worth. EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM: @your_exbf_podcast https://www.instagram.com/your_exbf_podcast/?hl=en

Aug 28, 202241 minSeason 1Ep. 32

Episode 31: Overfunctioning (Assuming Direct Control)

In this episode, we break down in less than half an hour, discussing what it means to "overfunction" in relationship with other people. If you find yourself trying to manage what other people think, say, or do...this one's for you. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: ...

Aug 21, 202228 minSeason 1Ep. 31

Episode 30: Release is Release, FT. VERONICA PURYEAR (INDELICATE COACHING)

In this episode, we debut my longest episode to date! Sex and intimacy guide Veronica Puryear, founder of Indelicate Coaching, spends over two hours with me discussing...you guessed it...sex and intimacy. In addition, we dive into relationships, vulnerability, attachment, pussies, penises, orgasms, and crying. Veronica can be found on her website, at https://www.indelicatecoaching.com/ or on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/indelicate_coaching/?hl=en She has also graciously offered some di...

Aug 15, 20222 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 30

Episode 29: The Devil’s Gooch Meat (You Get What You Pay For) FT. JON

In this episode, we make a return to the interviews! My old friend Jon, a high school band director, stops by the podcast, and we discuss everything under the sun. In the first half of my first 2+ hour interview, we'll hit the effects COVID had on the public school system, what music is, and the importance of personal hygiene. In the second half we'll discuss self-worth, finding purpose, Buddhism, the Akashic Records, and most important of all...Jonesy. EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM...

Aug 07, 20222 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 29

Episode 28: Boundaries, Part 2 (Show Them The Door)

In this episode, we take a second dive into boundaries. We'll recap the concepts touched on in Episodes 4 and 22, and hit new ones like "what does codependency mean?" and why martyrdom doesn't work like Jesus said it would. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbf...

Aug 01, 202234 minSeason 1Ep. 28

Episode 27: Extroversion vs. Introversion (Jungian Personality Theory)

In this episode, we jump into what it means to be an intro/extro/ambivert. We'll discuss what they mean, where they might have come from, and why you might feel one or the other. Please reach out with any questions, requests, or comments you have. I respond to everyone and look forward to whatever you have to say. Write me an email or send me a message on Instagram, and I'll get back to you! HOST: Your Ex-Boyfriend's Podcast on Podbean EMAIL: yourexbfpodcast@gmail.com INSTAGRAM: @your_exbf_podca...

Jul 26, 202240 minSeason 1Ep. 27
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