Aaron turns the tables on Erin, asking her to share her story of coming out, referring to her being open and honest about wanting to date outside her race. Even though the two situations, sexuality, and race are vastly different, there are common themes when vocalizing preference. Fear of acceptance, being a big one, and living up to societal standards, but most importantly, finding the courage to honor your true authentic self. As humans who are often a product of our generation, environment, a...
Mar 16, 2021•1 hr 30 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Do you have a self-reflection practice? Self-reflection is no more than being your own best friend, confidant, and trusted advisor. Remember the definition of insanity, doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different result; self-reflection will prevent that from happening. Erin shares her personal self-reflection practice and how it's been beneficial to her growth mindset as her relationship with self evolves. Challenge yourself to start a self-reflection practice today to prevent an ...
Mar 10, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 25
On August 9th, 2015, Erin made a list of everything she wanted in a man. She listed out each characteristic, attribute, and trait she felt would make her a perfect match. Then she swiped aimlessly, said yes to almost every man who asked her out, ignored red flags, and tried to mold the men who appeared at first glance to mirror that list into the man she envisioned. Erin listened to the advice of relationship experts and coaches. She shared her journey openly on this podcast. She was willing to ...
Mar 03, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 24
Matchmaker and Founder of Single in the City, Laura Bilotta shares tips on how to date while we're still in a pandemic. She explains why she believes video calls are necessary to qualify your dates, and she shares her suggestion as to when the video call should occur. Laura and Erin discuss chemistry and compatibility, sharing personal dating experiences and what they've learned from different relationships. The two-state the obvious, women love gentlemen. If you're currently single and need som...
Feb 24, 2021•54 min•Season 2Ep. 23
Today, Courtney is a Sober Coach and Host of the Sober Vibes Podcast. She shares her story in hopes to help women who may be experiencing a similar relationship with alcohol. Courtney explains to Erin that her belief is trauma is the gateway to addiction, and alcoholism does not discriminate. Erin asks Courtney for some tips for those who are sober and dating and those who may have swiped right on someone sober. Life doesn't have to end once a decision to be sober is made. Courtney will suggest,...
Feb 17, 2021•50 min•Season 2Ep. 22
You're Such a Catch was invited to host a Kiss & Tell booth at the Manhattan Village Pop-up Market. It was the first of hopefully many live events Erin attended. Event attendance was mostly women, women who were vulnerable enough to share they had given up hope when it came to love, dating apps, and finding the one. Erin shared her personal story, from being a divorcée to recently manifesting a man. She encouraged the women never to give up, continue working on themselves, and remain open to...
Feb 10, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 21
With any new year comes a fresh slate, but a new year isn't necessary to change your thinking, your perspective, or to make a decision to choose happiness over fear, doubt, insecurities, and any event from the past that holds you back from greatness. If you've been unable to move forward after an event or trauma, make a conscious choice today to leave the past in the past. Find the lesson even if it's buried by hurt, pain, or sadness. The next step, push forward, one foot in front of the other u...
Feb 03, 2021•16 min•Season 2Ep. 20
Everyone told her she was funny, she should do standup, so she took an improv class, and the rest is history. Amazing Grace! This body-positive funny girl learned to love her curves and find comfort in front of the camera. Whether she's rocking grannie panties or a thong, you'll always know. This was her bit on Spanish Playboy Radio back in the day. Since you couldn't see her and only hear her, she'd describe her panties to the audience. Now you can see 360 degrees of Grace on her Lay Down Comed...
Jan 27, 2021•57 min•Season 2Ep. 19
A single Kate Steinberg was swiping on Hinge, Raya, and Bumble in search of her perfect match. She was going on dates each and every week, hoping to find a strong connection. One night she got home from a date with a tear in her tights, seven glasses of wine deep, and thought maybe she was destined to be a Cat Lady. Tune in to hear how Kate manifested her own love story, in that very castle she saw, in Austria, on a reality TV show with a fairytale ending you won't want to miss. In my best Natas...
Jan 20, 2021•45 min•Season 2Ep. 18
The two discuss the importance of being upfront and honest and why someone might ghost versus spitting the truth if they're not interested. Erin also asks GQ some of the juicy questions women submitted, wanting his male perspective: How can I talk to my significant other about our slow sex life? You say you like a girl to be aggressive and text first, but we get ghosted when we do. Why? How do I know if a guy is really into me or if he's just lonely because of the pandemic? I've been hooking up ...
Dec 23, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 17
With a YSC Unfiltered vibe, Erin mixes up the style of this episode. She shares insights into the goals she set for 2020 and how she faired in reaching all she set out to accomplish. Understanding in 2020, so much was out of our control, Erin challenges the YSC Community to reevaluate goal setting for 2021. Erin covers four categories for goal setting in the new year: health, relationships, career, and self. 2020 was challenging for a lot of reasons. 2021 is on the horizon; let's make it Your Ye...
Dec 16, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Spoiler alert, they booked to attend a virtual speed dating event in the U.K. later this month. If you're looking for a laugh, Erin recalling her dates will do the trick: Guy who laughed uncontrollably even when I wasn't being funny. Guy who no-showed. Suborno! Guy, who has never had a girlfriend, lives at home and is scared of women. Guy who wants a cuddle buddy. Guy, who has a vocabulary consisting of one word, Mother F'er. Suborno Ghosh @brownbear30ish www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com You're Such...
Dec 09, 2020•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 15
Being the reality T.V. buff that she is, Erin couldn't pass up the opportunity to discuss Labor of Love with Stewart. After Erin asks all of her burning questions about the show, the two discuss dating in L.A., sliding into people's DMs, and Stewart provides a couple of noteworthy tips for singles out there looking for love. If you subscribe to You're Such A Catch Unfiltered, you're aware of another spoiler alert - Erin is guilty of sliding into Stewart's DMs. After the two wrapped recording, Er...
Dec 02, 2020•57 min•Season 2Ep. 14
Erin and Rebekah have a candid conversation about the parallels between being an aspiring author and trying to find love. Rebekah shares about her path as a writer, the rise and fall of her hopes being elevated, and the heartbreak and rejection that can come with putting yourself out there. Sound familiar? All of these feelings and emotions are present when you're dating. Rebekah's goal in creating this witty, charming, humorous picture book, to let singles know they're not alone. She wants peop...
Nov 25, 2020•49 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Susan Ibitz, human behavior hacker and serial profiler, is back for a big announcement. She and your favorite serial dater, Erin, are joining forces with the School of Love, online courses, and services centered around dating and relationships. The two are also launching a new live show on YouTube called Barbie and the Devil. Can you guess who's who? Tune in to hear how the partnership started, what you can expect from the two divorcées looking for their respective partners in crime, and how the...
Nov 18, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 12
Clare blew up the Bachelorette, and it was only appropriate for Erin to invite her friend, Cachita Hynes, the Queen when it comes to Bachelor Nation, to spill the te...quila. Cachita's seen every season! The two discuss what went down in those twelve days, what they thought about Clare's behavior, and give their collective two cents on the shotgun proposal. Cachita Hynes @styleonthespot www.styleonthespot.com You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfi...
Nov 11, 2020•48 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Rachel explains the fundamentals of astrology. She lays out how it works, what information you need to do your birth chart, and how to use it to better understand why you are the way you are. She sheds some light on which signs prove to be the most compatible and which pairings will need to put some work in to feel understood. Rachel Rose @thehealingroseholistics www.thehealingrosehollistics.com You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Me...
Nov 04, 2020•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Would you be proud of that resume, or would you feel obligated to fudge the details in the history section? Eeeek. Erin's Dating Resume: www.youresuchacatch.com/blog/dating-resume You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more. A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast. To make your pledge today, visit www.youre...
Oct 27, 2020•25 min•Season 2Ep. 9
Fast forward to 2020; there's a world-wide pandemic among other jaw-dropping events, and on September 27, when you thought things couldn't get any worse, Azerbaijan declares war with your home country of Armenia. You're still over 7,000 miles away. The media isn't covering what's going on, and you fear history repeating itself, a second genocide. This is Ani's reality. Ani Shaboyan @anie_smua You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Membe...
Oct 20, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Michele, who used to grace the sidelines on the football field as an NFL Cheerleader, now sidelines the dating world through her blog, books, and YouTube Channel, Sunday Scaries. While deciding which is more frightening, dating, or paranormal activity, Michele reconnected with a friend from her childhood. This man knew the value of a Dime, knocked Michele off her feet, and the two tied the knot during the pandemic living happily ever after. Michele Russo @thedimeseries You're Such A Catch is an ...
Oct 13, 2020•57 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Erin switches gears this week, giving an update on her life, dating, and recent realizations. In her new "retired life," she feels as if she's had a complete shift in her energy. These new vibes seem to be leading to more in-person meetups, the goal. You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more. A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated ...
Oct 06, 2020•34 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Delfina Ure, Founder & Director of K.I.S.S. (Keep It Sacred Sister), joins Erin to share her story of survival and her mission to bring healing to survivors of sexual abuse by connecting them to care and community. Delfina Ure @keepitsacredsister www.keepitsacredsister.org You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more. A pledge of as little as $5/month can help o...
Sep 29, 2020•46 min•Season 2Ep. 5
These straight-shooting relationship experts share their personal story with Erin to encourage men and women alike to acknowledge their desires. Their suggestion, to communicate with your partner, say what you mean and mean what you say, and avoid playing games. Brendon and Simone believe this is also the most effective way to approach dating. Single men and women need to ditch the fairytale in their heads and focus on the relationship they want to create. Simone’s website https://www.simonemila...
Sep 22, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 4
You know that saying, when one door closes, another one opens? Ask Lauren Lograsso about that. Lauren's dream as far back as she can remember was to be an actress. After dealing with the industry's nuances, including rejection and disappointment, she felt the abusive relationship with acting, one in which she measured her self-worth, needed to end. She may have called Erin a sparkly person, but Lauren is someone to keep your eye on. She is laser-focused on her career and professional goals. She'...
Sep 15, 2020•58 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Susan also shares some tips and tricks on dating during the pandemic with our new favorite accessory, the face mask. Susan Ibitz @ humanbehaviorhacker School of Love: www.youresuchacatch.com/schooloflove You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast funded by the host, Erin Ramsey. YSC Unfiltered is a Members Only site with access to bonus episodes, videos, blog posts, and more. A pledge of as little as $5/month can help offset the costs associated with producing this podcast. To make your pledg...
Sep 08, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Erin commends Mindy for her strength and grace in handling the challenges that presented themselves in the marriage and friendships on and off the show. Mindy is the epitome of a YSC Girl who took a chance on love under the guidance of experts, and although she didn't get her happily ever after, she has not given up hope. Since the show wrapped, she's picked herself back up, dusted herself off, and put herself back out there. Mindy Shiben @mindy_shiben You're Such A Catch is an independent podca...
Sep 01, 2020•46 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Erin relives the journey from early episodes, her first guests, to the She Can Do It! The Empowerment Series and all of the dating and relationship experts in between. She touches on the most emotional episode, the hardest episode, the most listened to episode, and lessons she learned along the way. She realizes the cryptic message she was sending with her solo episode titles recently: Stop Overthinking It!, Is He The One? to Revamp Your Profile, Girl; back-to-back. Someone was going through the...
Jul 07, 2020•28 min•Season 1Ep. 40
Pondering the question, while sipping a Cosmopolitan in front of her computer, Erin realized we're all after the same thing, love. We want to love someone and be loved in return. Erin shares feedback from listeners, commonalities, shared perspectives, and roadblocks that we recognize may be prohibiting us from achieving the type of relationship or partner we desire. Write a Profile that Attracts Your Prince Charming: www.youresuchacatch.com/download You're Such A Catch is an independent podcast ...
Jun 30, 2020•11 min•Season 1Ep. 39
Erin gives the play by play of her marathon date last Saturday. Her Apple Watch clocked her at 18,000 steps - with a broken foot! The non-emergency police line was dialed three times. The two couldn't find a Lyft or Uber anywhere but were finally rescued by a taxi just in the nick of time. Erin was about to turn into a pumpkin. Find out who crashed the date, if Erin's margarita making skills were up to par and whether or not she got to see the lunar eclipse from the beach. You can't make this sh...
Jun 23, 2020•32 min•Season 1Ep. 38
Erin's heard that phrase tossed around before but never really taken the time to understand it and how choosing unavailable men impacts the progression of a relationship or lack thereof. Tune in for the telltale signs of an emotionally unavailable man. If it's a relationship you're after, don't avoid these caution signs or red flags, they'll only lead to disappointment. Knowledge is power, and identifying these signs early on will allow you to abort mission (if needed) and better set yourself up...
Jun 16, 2020•15 min•Season 1Ep. 37