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You Are Not A Frog

Dr Rachel Morrisyouarenotafrog.com
The podcast for GPs, hospital doctors and other professionals in high-stakes, high-stress jobs who want to thrive rather than just survive. You studied for years, you’re really good at what you do but you’ve noticed that you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, overworked and under-resourced. You may be comparing yourself to a frog in boiling water - the heat has built up so slowly that you haven’t noticed the extra-long days becoming the norm. You may feel on the edge and trapped in the very job that you’ve spent years working towards. Here’s the problem, frogs only have two choices; stay and be boiled alive, or jump out of the pan. The good news is that you are not a frog. You have many more choices than you think you do. You don’t have to quit, and nor should stress and burnout be inevitable. It is possible to be master of your own destiny, to craft your work life and career so that you can thrive even in the most difficult of situations. There are simple changes you can make which will make a huge difference to your stress levels and help you enjoy life again. Your host is Dr Rachel Morris, GP turned Executive Coach and Specialist in Resilience at Work who knows what it’s like to feel like an exhausted frog. In the podcast, she’ll be talking to friends, colleagues and experts all who have an interesting take on resilience for clever people in high-stakes, high-stress jobs so that together you can take back control to beat stress and burnout, survive and thrive.
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Episodes

How to Stay Calm When You Don’t Know What Will Happen Next

You’re used to dealing with uncertain outcomes for your patients. Here’s how you can use those superpowers for yourself. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Am I Stressed, Overwhelmed… or Burning Out? Beat Stress & Thrive Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Oct 13, 202529 minEp. 292

If I don’t do it, who else will?

Why saying no could lead to better outcomes for your patients, your colleagues, and you. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Oct 06, 202555 minEp. 291

Clear and Direct is Better than Hinting and Hoping

How to ask for what you need clearly instead of hoping they’ll take the hint, and to set expectations without feeling bossy. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download Rachel’s Email Clarity Checklist Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Sep 29, 202526 minEp. 290

How to Stop Toxic People Pushing All Your Buttons

Dr Claire Plumbly shares strategies for nervous system regulation when dealing with angry patients and difficult colleagues. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Sep 22, 202545 minEp. 289

How Bad Does it Have to Get Before You Act?

If you’re overwhelmed at work, jumping out of the frying pan might seem like the only option. But there are things you can try today… you just have to commit to the life and career you deserve. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Sep 15, 202517 minEp. 288

Why “Keep Calm and Carry On” Fuels Burnout

Burnout happens when work stress and home pressures overrun our support structures. When we understand this balance, we can take steps to address burnout before we reach breaking point. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and resources via our website Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogF...

Sep 08, 20251 hr 9 minEp. 287

Why Doctors Don’t Ask for Help – And How to Do it Right

Stop being gaslit into thinking your situation is futile. Apply Rachel’s script to ask for help in getting necessary care so you can be at your most effective, even in a struggling system. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Beat Stress and Thrive Am I Stressed, Overwhelmed... or Burning Out? Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Sep 01, 202523 minEp. 286

What Do You Want from Work in the Second Half of Life?

When it comes to work, what we seek can often shift in mid-life, from recognition and status towards meaningful contribution and purpose. What do you do if you’r at that crossroads in your career? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Aug 25, 202546 minEp. 285

Why You’re Stressed When Everyone Else is Calm

Stress is created from the mind, not from the outside world. If that’s true, how can we stop listening to the unhelpful stories our minds tell us? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Aug 18, 202552 minEp. 284

How to Get Better Sleep

Why we need to sleep, why REM isn’t the whole picture, and what to do when anxiety keeps you awake at night. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get 20% off Steve's sleep course with code FROG20 Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Aug 11, 202550 minEp. 283

How to Eat Better and Keep Your Energy Up

When that afternoon slump hits or you’re at the end of a long shift, what can you reach for instead of the biscuits in the cupboard or the cake in the staff room? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Aug 04, 202559 minEp. 282

The 4 Books to Read This Summer to Set Up Your Next 6 Months for Success

Essential reading to help you learn more about your brain and the brains of those around you, do less, and make decisions from a place of clarity. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Jul 28, 202532 minEp. 281

How to Boost Your Leadership Skills (Even if You Don’t Think You’re a Leader)

Everyone in healthcare takes a leading role at various points in their career, even those who think they “just” handle admin. Dr Paul O’Dwyer explains what skills you need to develop in order to become the leader your team needs. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFe...

Jul 21, 202550 minEp. 280

The Personal Cost of Working in Burnout

Are you borrowing energy from your life outside of work, just so you can cope with everything on your plate? If so, it’s time to stop, and rebalance your energy so you don’t burn out or lose connection with the people and things you love. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website. Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Jul 14, 202529 minEp. 279

How to Survive a Complaint from Another Clinician

Dr George Wright offers ways to tackle blue-on-blue complaints, and how to avoid going for the nuclear option if you have an issue with a colleague. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Jul 07, 20251 hr 7 minEp. 278

What to Do When You Can’t Fix the System

How to shift your locus of control and create sustainable change without burning out. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download our Personal Stressors Audit Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Jun 30, 202519 minEp. 277

5 Things Holding You Back from Getting the Career You Love

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side, but if you’re thinking about making a career change, understanding your values, strengths, and unique operating style can help you design a more fulfilling path. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Jun 23, 20251 hr 1 minEp. 276

Why Wearing the Busy Badge is Burning You Out (And What to Do Instead)

Four ways in which the “badge of busyness” you wear could be contributing to your burnout, how to reframe busy or over-scheduled, and how you can delegate without feeling like you’re just passing the buck. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Jun 16, 202527 minEp. 275

How to Stop Money from Being Stressful

If you’ve been putting off taking a look at your finances, this episode will help you do it, minus the stress and judgement. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra The Medics Money one-pager exclusively for Frog listeners The Medics Money Financial Wellbeing course Please note that the You Are Not a Frog podcast is a Medics Money affiliate and will earn a small commission from any sales completed through the above link. Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Gui...

Jun 09, 202545 minEp. 274

How to Say Yes When No isn’t an Option

The 8 reframes you need when you have to say no, but you’re worried you’ll upset someone or it’ll cause trouble at work. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Jun 02, 202523 minEp. 273

What to Do if Someone Challenges YOUR Behaviour

How to know when you’re reaching your limit, and what to do to prevent you taking it out on someone else. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

May 26, 202556 minEp. 272

Is All-or-Nothing Thinking Pushing You to Burnout?

Explore the consequences of binary thinking, why it’s damaging, and how we can reframe all-or-nothing statements so we can take care of ourselves and others. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

May 19, 202523 minEp. 271

The 5 Different Types of Burnout – And How to Prevent Them

Five diagnostic tools you can use to determine whether you’re burning out, and the practical actions you can take to try and prevent it. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

May 12, 202554 minEp. 270

What if Your Job Was Just a Job? (And 4 Other Thought Experiments)

Five questions to help you think differently about your work, in those moments when you find it more frustrating than usual. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get the full list of questions via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

May 05, 202520 minEp. 269

Is the Grass Greener on the Other Side of Medicine?

If you’re contemplating a change within or away from medicine, is starting your own business really all it’s cracked up to be? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Apr 28, 202546 minEp. 268

How to Beat Inbox Overwhelm

The mindset shift – plus the only 6 folders you need – to finally get control over your inbox. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Apr 21, 202527 minEp. 267

What to Do BEFORE You Get a Neurodivergence Diagnosis

What should you do if you suspect you might be neurodivergent? What’s the difference between neurodivergence and neurodiversity? And how can we support everyone to play to their strengths without feeling like we’re making allowances? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your Fr...

Apr 14, 20251 hr 1 minEp. 266

How to Protect Yourself from the Guilt of Saying No

Break the cognitive dissonance you feel when enforcing a boundary goes against one of your core values. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Apr 07, 202518 minEp. 265

How to Listen to Your Intuition

When you hear a voice guiding you towards or away from something, how can you tell whether it’s fear or your deepest intuition talking? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Mar 31, 202549 minEp. 264

11 Ways to Back Your Wise Self

How to overcome procrastination, follow through on your goals, and stick to the wise decisions you made in the past. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Mar 24, 202520 minEp. 263
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