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You Are Not A Frog

Dr Rachel Morrisyouarenotafrog.com
The podcast for GPs, hospital doctors and other professionals in high-stakes, high-stress jobs who want to thrive rather than just survive. You studied for years, you’re really good at what you do but you’ve noticed that you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, overworked and under-resourced. You may be comparing yourself to a frog in boiling water - the heat has built up so slowly that you haven’t noticed the extra-long days becoming the norm. You may feel on the edge and trapped in the very job that you’ve spent years working towards. Here’s the problem, frogs only have two choices; stay and be boiled alive, or jump out of the pan. The good news is that you are not a frog. You have many more choices than you think you do. You don’t have to quit, and nor should stress and burnout be inevitable. It is possible to be master of your own destiny, to craft your work life and career so that you can thrive even in the most difficult of situations. There are simple changes you can make which will make a huge difference to your stress levels and help you enjoy life again. Your host is Dr Rachel Morris, GP turned Executive Coach and Specialist in Resilience at Work who knows what it’s like to feel like an exhausted frog. In the podcast, she’ll be talking to friends, colleagues and experts all who have an interesting take on resilience for clever people in high-stakes, high-stress jobs so that together you can take back control to beat stress and burnout, survive and thrive.
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Episodes

Doctors with ADHD

If you struggle to keep on top of certain activities or you find a rigid schedule too constricting, you might be neurodivergent. And there are plenty of places you can turn to for support, and practical systems you can implement to thrive as a doctor. This episode is in partnership with the Physician Mums Facebook Group (PMGUK) . Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need...

Mar 17, 202555 minEp. 262

The Trouble with Wellbeing

The key to beating burnout is not more wellbeing webinars; it’s giving you agency and autonomy over your time. Here’s how you can start to take back control. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get the Zone of Power handout Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Mar 10, 202527 minEp. 261

How to Be Kind Instead of Nice (and Why it Matters)

Kindness builds trust in teams, and teams that trust each-other work more smoothly. When mistakes happen, they’re addressed from a place of positivity, not blame. Here’s what kindness is, and why it’s not just about being “nice”. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Visit our website for links and show notes Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take c...

Mar 03, 202557 minEp. 260

How to Make Long-term Behaviour Change Stick

Committing to behaviour change is one thing. Making it stick when life gets in the way or others’ needs conflict with yours is another matter. Alasdair Cant returns to explain how to keep going when change is tough. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Feb 24, 20251 hrEp. 259

How to Leave Work on Time

If changing ingrained behaviours was easy, no-one would have unhealthy habits, work too much, or fail to enforce boundaries. Here’s what a behaviour change expert has to say about making positive choices that are aligned with what you really want. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and...

Feb 17, 202515 minEp. 258

How to Choose What Kind of Problem You Want

How to make the right decisions in the short-term so you don’t create problems in the long-term… featuring Brian the robot hoover. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Discover your Zone of Power Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Feb 10, 202522 minEp. 257

How to Plan Your Year for Peak Performance

What are your goals for the new year, and how do you plan to meet them? This conversation with former Paralympian Dr Kim Daybell will help you focus on what’s important, so you can have a happier, healthier, and more productive 2025. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Watch this episode’s bonus video Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control...

Feb 03, 202551 minEp. 256

Are You Amplifying Your Overwhelm? Here’s How to Stop

How to beat perfectionism, people-pleasing, conflict-aversion, and the many other things that amplify your sense of overwhelm. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get links to all our resources via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Jan 27, 202520 minEp. 255

How to Manage Your Energy Instead of Your Time

Focusing on managing your time can lead to overwhelm and a sense that there’s just not enough. But with a few simple exercises, we can think about how we manage our energy, not our time. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Jan 20, 202546 minEp. 254

How to Stop a Difficult Conversation Going Bad

When someone asks “Have you got 5 minutes for a call?”, here’s how to set yourself up for success to ensure neither you or nor the other party feels defensive or unfairly treated in a conversation that could involve conflict. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Jan 13, 202520 minEp. 253

How to Overcome the Toxic Effects of Shame on Your Team

Shame has a toxic impact on individuals and teams. But there are practical steps we can take to minimise it and create safer, more open spaces. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Jan 06, 202555 minEp. 252

How to be Ridiculously Relaxed

Prioritising relaxation when you’re under stress is easier than it sounds – but it’s possible, and it starts with saying “f**k it”. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Dec 30, 20241 hr

How to Survive in a High Stress Job When You’re Neurodivergent

What’s it like to work in a high-stress job with autism, ADHD, or another neurodivergence, and how do we support colleagues whose brains work differently? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm. ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Dec 23, 202456 min

How to Stop Turning “You” Problems into “Me” Problems

When someone brings a problem to your door, the first thing to ask is “is it mine to solve?” The second question is “What are the consequences if I let them solve it themselves?” Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now

Dec 16, 202421 minEp. 251

How to Take a Good Long Look at Your Career

How do you build a more sustainable career in an ever-shifting landscape? Is it all about “keeping up”? And what can we learn from the next generation of medical professionals? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your mind, take control of your tasks, and get yourself out of overwhelm....

Dec 09, 202451 minEp. 250

How to Catch Stress Early Before You Spiral into Burnout

Have you found yourself more irritable or tearful than usual? Are you losing sleep, avoiding things you enjoy, or beating yourself up about your own performance? Here’s how to spot stress before it becomes burnout. Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Download the Stress Curve PDF Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Dec 02, 202419 minEp. 249

How to Change Your Life One Tiny Step at a Time

How starting with 5 minutes of exercise a day helped a doctor go from liver disease to competing for his country in triathlons – and what small changes you can make now that will compound to improve your long-term quality of life. Get exclusive episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple, step-by-step process you need to calm your min...

Nov 25, 20241 hr 7 minEp. 248

How to avoid guilt on repeat

We often feel guilty for things out of our control. But why should we feel guilty about things we aren’t responsible for? Get more episodes and resources by joining FrogXtra Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group

Nov 19, 202453 min

How to Think Past “Right and Wrong” and Find Choices That Work for You

When we see choices or behaviours as simply “right” or “wrong”, we end up making decisions based on fear and judgement. But there’s an easier approach, and it’s 800 years old. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Nov 18, 202418 minEp. 247

How Stories Can Help You Beat Burnout

How novels, poetry, or a gripping film can help us lighten the emotional load, discuss difficult feelings, and allow us to become more resilient. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Bedside Reading – Tara’s podcast Find more links and resources via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the si...

Nov 11, 202447 minEp. 246

You Can’t Organise Your Way Out of Overwhelm

The advice for dealing with overwhelm is so often to do more, but what we really need is to rest. This quick dip provides a framework to help you reconnect with what you need, so you can make time for it instead of trying to tackle it with todo lists. Download our Overwhelm SOS Toolkit – Free download How to retreat when you can’t go on retreat – Free download Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are No...

Nov 04, 202422 minEp. 245

How to Make the Right Choice When You Aren’t Certain

Decision fatigue and fear of uncertainty can lead us to feeling stuck, unable to move forwards. In this episode, Dr Claire Plumbly returns with practical guidance on making decisions from a place of stability. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Burnout: How to Manage Your Nervous System Before it Manages You – Dr Claire’s book Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogF...

Oct 28, 202449 minEp. 244

The Magic Question to Unlock Your Deep Intuition

When’s the last time you stopped and asked yourself what you truly want, or whether what you’re doing right now is right for you? In this quick dip, Rachel offers a series of questions you can ask yourself to help you find those “hell yeah!” opportunities, and avoid the “hell no!” obligations. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your Frog...

Oct 21, 202418 minEp. 243

How to Promote Good Mental Health for You and Your Kids

Challenges and failures help teach problem-solving and emotional regulation. So how can we as parents promote independence while still being a source of safety for our kids? Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Get more links and show notes via our website Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now Download Your Free Overwhelm SOS Guide Discover the simple,...

Oct 14, 202456 minEp. 242

Does the Usual Productivity Advice Work for People Seeing Patients?

When everything feels urgent – or when other colleagues’ “urgent” stuff lands on your desk – it can feel impossible to get your other important work done. So how can you manage your time so that you can do the stuff that really matters? The stuff that isn’t just urgent, but is important to you and your practice? Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode...

Oct 07, 202420 minEp. 241

What’s So Important About Purpose?

Are you doing what you’re really meant for? If you’re not sure, how can you find out? And if you’re not where you think you should be, how can you find work that better fits your purpose? Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Solving for Why: A Surgeon's Journey to Discover the Transformative Power of Purpose – Mark’s book Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwh...

Sep 30, 202442 minEp. 240

How to Get What You Need When Even YOU Don’t Know

When’s the last time you complained at someone for something they “should” have done, only to feel bad about it later? We all do it, and it’s usually because a core need isn’t being met. This quick dip will help you identify those needs so you can take steps to meet them. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Download our free Overwhelm SMS Toolkit Mentioned in this episode:...

Sep 23, 202424 minEp. 239

Crafting a Career That Works

Are you feeling challenged and stretched in a healthy way at work? Are your unique skills being used to their fullest? If not, what might be holding you back from taking a leap into a career that can offer greater fulfilment and happiness? Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Get more links and show notes from our website Mentioned in this episode: Download Your Free Overwh...

Sep 16, 202444 minEp. 238

What to Do With That Nagging Feeling That Something’s Not Right

You can ignore the stone in your shoe for a few steps, but after a while it becomes unbearable and potentially harmful. The same is true of those nagging thoughts and doubts we have about work. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Sep 09, 202421 minEp. 237

Finding Your Opposite World to Beat Burnout

Are the things you do to blow off steam really helping you, or are you bringing aspects of your work life into your hobbies? This is a remix of episode 188 , edited to highlight the most impactful points and key takeaways. Download the episode’s podsheet . You can use it for reflection and to submit for your appraisal as part of your CPD. Join the You Are Not a Frog Facebook group Mentioned in this episode: ⭐️ Book Your FrogFest Ticket Now...

Sep 02, 202416 minEp. 236
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