This week I begin a new series on conflict resolution in relationships. Step one, lets figure out if this is actually a conflict or is this a problem I need to deal with myself. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comThis week I answer a listener’s question about T.P.E or total power exchange. What does it mean in a BDSM context?, is it something you actually want in your D/s relationships? What does it actually look like day to day?...
Mar 28, 2025•43 min•Season 3Ep. 74
This week I answer one of my most frequent questions “How can I ask my partner to be more dominant?” As well as give some advice for people just getting started as Doms in D/s play. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comThis week I answer a listener’s question about T.P.E or total power exchange. What does it mean in a BDSM context?, is it something you actually want in your D/s relationships? What does it actually look like day to day?...
Mar 03, 2025•39 min•Season 3Ep. 73
This week I answer a listener’s question about N.R.E New Relationship Energy. What is it, how do you deal with it from both sides of the relationship and other good advice for having happy polyamours and any other kind of relationships. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comThis week I answer a listener’s question about T.P.E or total power exchange. What does it mean in a BDSM context?, is it something you actually want in your D/s relationships? What does it actually look l...
Feb 20, 2025•37 min•Season 3Ep. 72
This week I answer some questions about how punishment works in a BDSM setting. Ho can punishment fulfill a submissive, Does there always have to be punishment in BDSM and kink? How can punishment be an effective tool in deepening a D/s relationship? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comThis week I answer a listener’s question about T.P.E or total power exchange. What does it mean in a BDSM context?, is it something you actually want in your D/s relationships? What does it a...
Feb 06, 2025•36 min•Season 3Ep. 71
This week I answer some questions about how punishment works in a BDSM setting. Ho can punishment fulfill a submissive, Does there always have to be punishment in BDSM and kink? How can punishment be an effective tool in deepening a D/s relationship? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 30, 2025•39 min•Season 3Ep. 70
This week I talk about the soft and hard styles of domination, how should Dominants approach the needs of their submissives? What is the most effective strategy to ensure a healthy happy D/s relationship? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 23, 2025•33 min•Season 3Ep. 69
This week I continue our conversation about being truthful in your relationships. Who is deserving of your truth and do you deserve the truth from the people around you. How does honesty effect your personal relationships and how to we come to terms with our own true selves. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 16, 2025•46 min•Season 3Ep. 68
This week I talk about being truthful in your relationships, especially with yourself. How does honesty effect your personal relationships and how to we come to terms with our own true selves.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 09, 2025•40 min•Season 3Ep. 55
This week I answer a listener's question about what is and what is not topping from the bottom in a Kink or D/s relationship. How to avoid topping from the bottom, and how to communicate your needs to your Dom without stepping out of line. I also talk about how important it is for Doms to encourage their subs to communicate in a healthy manner. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Sep 13, 2024•31 min•Season 3Ep. 54
This week I answer a listener's question "Do you think BDSM can be therapy? Join me as I talk about potential pitfalls and benefits of therapeutic Kink. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Aug 22, 2024•36 min•Season 3Ep. 53
This week I dive in the question of how Artificial Intelligence will affect the adult entertainment industry. Will powerful A.I. tools make porn safer for all of us?, will computer generated porn take over and displace human performers? What does the near future hold for all of us?” Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jul 14, 2023•36 min•Season 3Ep. 52
This week: BDSM breakups. How do Kink and BDSM breakups differ from your normal vanilla break up? What can Doms do to help provide relationship aftercare, what happens when a sub wants to break up with their Dom? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
May 19, 2023•32 min•Season 3Ep. 51
This week: Surviving breakups. I talk a lot about how to have successful healthy relationships on this podcast but sometimes things just don’t work out. I talk about how to get through the end of a relationship and hopefully come out the other side with your friendship intact. I also answer some listener questions about my relationship with leather, other men, and why I haven’t released any adult content in a while. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links ...
Mar 30, 2023•42 min•Season 3Ep. 50
This week: part two of my interview with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. With trans and gay rights being a hot topic in the news we talk about why and how these social issues have become a political battle ground. We also talk about how some groups actively recruit disenfranchised and isolated men. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and li...
Feb 22, 2023•33 min•Season 3Ep. 49
In the weeks episode I have a conversation with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. What does it mean to be “a real man”? Who gets to decide what a man should be and how they should act? Join us for part one of this conversation in my ongoing series about non toxic masculinity. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www....
Feb 19, 2023•29 min•Season 3Ep. 48
“In the weeks episode I tackle the very difficult subject of whether or not I believe mainstream porn can lead people down a path to CSAM, especially porn that has an “Age Play” element. This a very sensitive subject for many and I do want to warn anyone listening that I do discus the exploitation of children in the episode. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 12, 2023•34 min•Season 3Ep. 47
In this weeks episode I talk about age verification, how do we make certain that kids aren't watching porn. Can we have reliable age verification? What age is OK for porn? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 11, 2023•20 min•Season 3Ep. 46
Is rough porn, or pornography in general, unethical? Does watching rough pornography cause people to commit crimes or become abusive? Are content creators responsible for the actions of their viewers? In this first part of a new series I give my thoughts on these questions sent in by a listener. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 21, 2023•24 min•Season 3Ep. 45
Would legalizing sex work resolve the Incel problem? Should “Real Men” bother with consent or just do what they want? On this weeks episode I talk about these issues and more. Thanks to our new Patrons: Saavik, Miss D, and MJ your support is so important to the this podcast. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 14, 2023•33 min•Season 3Ep. 44
In our first episode of the new year I wanted to get back to some Kinky fundamentals and with Consent being of foundational importance to any relationship I wanted to take a deep dive and talk about this very important issue. What is consent? How do you give it, how to receive consent, how is consent withdrawn? What is a violation of consent? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com...
Jan 04, 2023•38 min•Season 3Ep. 43
In this weeks episode I talk about Kink and mental health, specifically when does kink go from being a healthy and fulfilling part of your life to becoming something that causes you distress and and real harm. A very good article about the fight to de-stigmatize Kink and BDSM can be found here https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/01/bdsm-versus-the-dsm/384138/ Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com...
Dec 09, 2022•31 min•Season 3Ep. 42
In this weeks episode we continue our conversation with author and activist Race Bannon, we talk about the more fluid role of domination and submission in the gay kink scene in contrast with the more rigid roles in the straight scene. You can find more info about Race here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Nov 18, 2022•32 min•Season 3Ep. 41
This week we have the second part of my conversation with Katja about playing with multiple people in a three way plus situation, negotiating Power exchange with more than one person and I also answer a listener’s question about some Kinky Dating red flags. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Nov 12, 2022•46 min•Season 3Ep. 40
This week we have our season 3 premier and we are happy to bring you an interview with author and activist Race Bannon. Katja and I had a wonderful interview with Race and in this first part of the interview we talked about his origins in the Kink and Leather community, changes he’s seen in those scenes, and some differences and commonalities between the gay and straight kink communities. Links for Race Bannon here https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFell...
Nov 04, 2022•34 min•Season 3Ep. 39
In this weeks episode we are joined by MeanStreakMileWide for a conversation about how the Kink world intersects with the Legal world. We talk about how consent works in a legal setting, contracts between Doms and subs, how important societal changes effect our lifestyle and more. While we are talking about the law in this episode, remember that this is for education and entertainment purposes only, it is not legal advice and does not establish an attorney client relationship. If you are in a ki...
Oct 27, 2022•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 38
In this weeks episode Katja and I talk about our experience playing with multiple people in Kink environments, both intimately and non intimate settings. We also have some great news about our upcoming season of Wicked Wednesdays Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Oct 20, 2022•28 min•Season 2Ep. 37
In this weeks episode I answer a listener’s question about how to know if they are submissive as well as how I know when I’m talking to someone who is submissive or dominant. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Sep 15, 2022•35 min•Season 2Ep. 36
In this episode I answer some great questions about collars from our last episode and give more tips and advice for healthy happy three way sex. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Sep 02, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 35
In this episode I answer a listeners question about collars, what they mean in the BDSM and Kink scene above and beyond a piece of play equipment. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Aug 25, 2022•29 min•Season 2Ep. 34
In this weeks episode I talk about threesomes, how to have safe healthy sexual relationships with more than one person. In this first episode I address the importance of communication and consent when you first approach the idea of introducing another person to your relationship. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Aug 11, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 33
