Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I answer a couple of questions and concerns from last week and talk about how I got started in Kink and Porn Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jul 21, 2022•41 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I talk about dealing with stress in healthy ways, specifically about combating intrusive thoughts and anxiety that all of us deal ...
Jul 13, 2022•53 min•Season 2Ep. 31
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice on what to do and what not to do in Poly relationships as well as answer some questions from our last poly episode. As alwa...
Jun 29, 2022•38 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice about how to be a Dominant person without alienating everyone around you, both in and outside of BDSM and Kink relationships. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jun 15, 2022•35 min•Season 2Ep. 29
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I ask Katja to put on her constitutional scholar hat and help us understand how overturning Roe v Wade is not just undermining reproductive rights but how it might very well have dire consequences for the Kink and LGBTQ+ community. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at...
May 12, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Season 2Ep. 28
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I want to talk about Trust, earning it, keeping it, dealing with trust issues from past bad relationships and finding the courage to trust again. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
May 04, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I address a listeners question about whether it’s an issue or not to have a significant age gap in a BDSM relationship or in relationships in general. I talk quite a bit about my own experience in being both the younger and older person in a long term relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Sh...
Apr 14, 2022•36 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week Katja joins me for an in depth conversation about Kink and family, How and when to talk to kids about sex and Kink, why its so hard to speak candidly with family about intimate matters and how to balance a BDSM relationship with a family relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and l...
Apr 06, 2022•52 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I discuss about when and if to talk to your family about kink, especially in relation to kids. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Mar 31, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 24
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Mar 23, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 23
In this weeks episode I explain the three levels of submission as I see them; Fear, Reward, and Fulfillment. I also discuss the importance of clarity in Dom/sub communication. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Mar 09, 2022•24 min•Season 2Ep. 22
In this weeks episode I go over the qualities I think are necessary to be a happy and successful submissive. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 26, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 21
In this weeks episode I have a conversation with Katja about qualities she looks for in a Dom as well a wide ranging discussion on Dom vs Dommes. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 16, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 20
In this weeks episode I go over seven virtues that I believe it takes to be a good Dom. What are your thoughts? I always welcome feed back and I’m interested in your thoughts on these as well as other attributes you believe are important for a good Dom to possess. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 10, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 19
In this weeks episode I give some advice on how to interact with people who are new to the scene especially in regards to personal safety with a bonus Q&A with my subs where they get to ask me anything and I have to answer. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Feb 03, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 18
In this weeks episode I answer a listener's question about how consent makes it OK to "hurt" or other wise harm someone you care about in BDSM relationships. I also talk about how to help your partner get over that initial hesitation they may have when it comes to BDSM. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Jan 12, 2022•28 min•Season 2Ep. 17
In this weeks episode Wicked Katja joins me for an in depth discussion on how an online BDSM relationship transitions to an in person relationship, how we managed our long Distance D/s relationship over several years, how our 24/7 Dominant/submissive relationships works day to day and I also talk about some new episodes and projects I have planned for the coming year Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Dec 24, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 16
In this weeks episode I talk about Sadism, humiliation, and degradation play in BDSM (you dirty little sluts) How Sadism, which would normally be a negative personality trait, can be a healthy and positive aspect of Kink and BDSM relationships. I also discus how to negotiate boundaries in humiliation and degradation play. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Dec 01, 2021•27 min•Season 2Ep. 15
In this weeks episode I catch up on some of the questions I’ve received recently including: Is there a hierarchy in Polyamorous relationships? What are some relationship red flags for you? Can you have a romantic BDSM relationship and why are you so sweaty? Answers to all those questions and more in this weeks episode.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Nov 25, 2021•37 min•Season 2Ep. 14
In this episode I talk about how to deal with jealousy in Polyamorous relationships, successful ways of harnessing and redirecting that energy into positive outcomes, and caution against allowing NRE (New Relationship Energy) to cause you to neglect your current partners. I also talk about introducing your monogamous partners to the idea of polyamory. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Nov 17, 2021•30 min•Season 2Ep. 13
In this episode I talk about Daddy Doms, Mommy Dommes, and Big/little play in general. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Nov 10, 2021•30 min•Season 2Ep. 12
In this episode I answer a listener’s question about how to ask their Dominant for more intensity in a session, why can't my submissives look me in the eye, how I feel about my gay fans, and what’s my favorite food, all that and more. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
Nov 03, 2021•43 min•Season 2Ep. 11
In this episode I talk about Primal Domination and Prey style submission including the importance of establishing consent in a BDSM style that is long on action and short on discussion. I also answer some listener questions from last weeks episode about common submissive issues like low self esteem and my rather cynical philosophy on human motivations.Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com JtvNoZuIZ2JcIPuOXJjK
Oct 27, 2021•42 min•Season 2Ep. 10
In this episode I open our section on Domination with my personal Dominant philosophy as well as addressing some bad habits and toxic traits I often see in Dominants. Why do Doms do what they do? What do Doms get out of a D/s relationship? What is my personal philosophy on Domination, all those questions and more in this weeks episode. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
Oct 20, 2021•43 min•Season 2Ep. 9
In this episode I wrap up the Submissive portion of our series and talk about Pain Sluts and Switches with an emphasis on the importance of intensive aftercare often required after extreme play. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
Oct 13, 2021•28 min•Season 2Ep. 8
In this episode I answer a listener's question about Polyamory and BDSM and address some common misconceptions about Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. This will be the first in a series about Poly and how poly and BDSM overlap, as well as some more generalized poly relationship advice. I also talk about the dangers of assuming that monogamy works for everyone and the problems with trying to force everyone into lifelong monogamous relationships. We will be returning to our BDSM 101 Series next ...
Oct 06, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 7
In this episode continue our BDSM 101 series and talk Service, Tame me, and Slave style submission. I also give a business update and offer some advice on the importance of diversification if you are an online creator. www.WickedFellow.Com
Sep 29, 2021•31 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this episode I answer some listener questions about what to expect and how to behave at your first event what my secret kinks are, and inclusivity in the BDSM scene. You can also listen to this on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and most other podcasting sites www.WickedFellow.Com
Sep 22, 2021•54 min•Season 2Ep. 5
In this episode I talk about Brat Play, Good Girl/Boy Play and Age Play. I also talk about the importance of accepting peoples kinks. You can also listen to this on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and most other podcasting sites www.WickedFellow.Com
Sep 15, 2021•28 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this episode I talk about the nature and spectrum of submissiveness and go more in depth on Bedroom/Romantic submissives and also Rope/Bondage submissives. www.WickedFellow.Com
Sep 08, 2021•28 min•Season 2Ep. 3
