Best known for The Art of Thinking Clearly, Rolf Dobelli has helped millions of readers sharpen their thinking and sidestep the traps that cloud our judgment. In his latest book The Not-To-Do List, he flips traditional self-help on its head; arguing that the key to a good life isn’t doing more, but doing less of what doesn’t serve us. In this candid conversation, Rolf shares practical ways to reclaim your attention and energy: how to stop overcommitting, why reliability matters more than talent,...
May 20, 2025•31 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Tan Su Shan’s story is more than a career trajectory; it’s a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and redefining what it means to lead. In this special and intimate conversation during Love, Bonito's IWD event, Su Shan, now the CEO of DBS, reflects on her journey from intern to the top of one of Asia’s most influential banks. She opens up about the moments of self-doubt, the lessons learned from “demotions,” and how she learned to command a room without changing who she is. From cultivating c...
May 06, 2025•28 min•Season 2Ep. 41
What’s really going on inside the minds and hearts of today’s teenagers? In this powerful and eye-opening episode, I sit down with Dr Cheryl Loh, one of Singapore’s leading adolescent psychiatrists and a mother to two teens, to explore the inner emotional world of adolescence: a time of searching, shaping, and often silent struggle. We unpack what teens are truly longing for, not just connection, but a deep sense of belonging, identity, and emotional safety. Dr Cheryl shares why so many adolesce...
Apr 14, 2025•56 min•Season 2Ep. 40
In this powerful episode, Wes Kao; co-founder of Maven and pioneer of cohort-based learning, joins us to explore what separates good leaders from great ones, and why intentional communication is at the heart of it all. We dive into everything from how to sharpen your judgment and make faster, better decisions, to why concise communication isn't just efficient, it's essential. Wes unpacks her signature concept of “avoiding negative inception” and shows how certain well-meaning phrases can actuall...
Apr 01, 2025•37 min•Season 2Ep. 39
After Leo’s episode, I was deeply moved by the messages that poured in, not just about his story, but about the unspoken weight many of you are carrying in your own lives. So many asked: How do you support someone you love when they’re struggling? How do you stay steady for them without losing yourself in the process? In this intimate solo episode, I share my personal experience; what it looked like to walk beside Leo during one of his hardest seasons. Not from a place of having it all figured o...
Mar 24, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 38
Leadership is more than just strategy; it’s about self-awareness, emotional mastery, and the ability to lead from a place of integrity and presence. In this special live session, renowned leadership coach Joyce Chen joins a room full of entrepreneurs for a deep, unfiltered conversation on what it truly means to lead with consciousness. This episode features four live coaching sessions, where Joyce guides participants through some of the most pressing leadership dilemmas: 🔹 How to hold yourself ...
Mar 10, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 37
This conversation with Gurmit Singh moved me deeply. It’s not just about a career; it’s about the constant pull between ambition and presence, the delicate balance between success and self-worth, and the courage it takes to step away and realign with what truly matters. Whether you’re in the thick of building your career, questioning your path, or seeking clarity in life’s transitions, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends. I can’t wait for you to hear it. For over two decades,...
Mar 03, 2025•50 min•Season 2Ep. 36
At 77, James Dyson is still inventing, still questioning, and still challenging the way things are done. His story is a testament to the power of persistence, the beauty of thinking differently, and the magic that happens when you refuse to give up. James knows what it means to push through doubt, failure, and rejection. For years, no one believed in his vision of a bagless vacuum. He was rejected over 5,000 times, told that customers wouldn’t want to see the dirt they were cleaning, and advised...
Feb 24, 2025•26 min•Season 2Ep. 35
Some stories carry more weight than others. This is one of them❤️🩹 When we sat down to reflect on 2024 and share our hopes for 2025, we had no idea just how deeply this conversation would unfold. Leo opened up about his journey of rebuilding; navigating change, rediscovering purpose, and finding the courage to start fresh in his 50s. We knew it would be emotional.. but in that moment, we were reminded of just how much strength and growth this season has brought. Life’s transitions are never ea...
Feb 18, 2025•37 min•Season 2Ep. 34
As we close out 2024, I’m taking a moment to pause, reflect, and share the lessons that have shaped me this year - lessons about growth, grace, and becoming. In this wrap-up episode, I open up about navigating change, embracing challenges, and leaning into the questions that carried me through some of my hardest yet most transformative moments. From asking “What is this here to teach me?” to “How did I co-create this?”, I share the mindset shifts that helped me move through discomfort and uncert...
Dec 30, 2024•26 min•Season 2Ep. 34
In this inspiring episode, Yvon and Leon Bock, co-founders of Hegen, share the extraordinary yet challenging journey behind building their brand and family. They open up about the tough realities of entrepreneurship, the sacrifices made, and how they’ve supported each other through the dark days of self-doubt and struggle. From Yvon’s breastfeeding journey to Leon’s leap of faith into entrepreneurship, they discuss the power of partnership in both business and life. Yvon also delves into her new...
Nov 25, 2024•56 min•Season 2Ep. 32
In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Valentin and Hwee Keng Maeder, the inspiring parents behind Singapore’s young kitefoiling champion, Max Maeder. I was incredibly curious to learn how Max — a world-class athlete with remarkable character, mental strength, discipline, and resilience — was raised to be not only successful but also grounded and confident. From the interviews I’ve watched and read, Max strikes me as an exceptional athlete and a genuinely great person, someone clearly brough...
Nov 04, 2024•50 min•Season 2Ep. 31
Yip Pin Xiu, Singapore’s most decorated Paralympian, shares the untold story behind her journey - her unseen battles, silent strength, and unbreakable spirit. From navigating life with muscular dystrophy to becoming a world-record-holding gold medalist, Yip reflects on the personal sacrifices, moments of self-doubt, and the powerful support that fueled her resilience. She opens up about redefining success, challenging misconceptions about para-athletes, and her hopes for the future of Singaporea...
Oct 28, 2024•41 min•Season 2Ep. 30
In this fast-paced world, we’re constantly pushed to do more, achieve more, and optimise every moment of our lives. But what if true fulfillment comes not from doing it all, but from choosing what truly matters? In this episode, I sit down with Oliver Burkeman, author of Four Thousand Weeks and Meditations for Mortals, to explore how we can live meaningfully in a world obsessed with productivity. Oliver’s work challenges the cultural pressure to be endlessly efficient, encouraging us to embrace ...
Oct 21, 2024•32 min•Season 2Ep. 29
In this episode, I sit down with Dr Anders Hansen, one of Sweden's top psychiatrists and the bestselling author of Mind-Body Method, to explore the intricate connection between the brain and physical health. We dive into his groundbreaking research, shedding light on the misunderstood nature of anxiety, and the vital role that physical activity plays in boosting mental well-being. Dr Anders debunks common exercise myths, reveals surprising brain discoveries, and shares simple lifestyle changes a...
Oct 14, 2024•27 min•Season 2Ep. 28
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and sexual exploitation, which may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care while listening, and consider your well-being before proceeding. Today, I have the honour of sitting down with Cassie, a remarkable survivor of cybersex trafficking. Her story is not just a tale of resilience; it shines a light on the dark realities of online sexual exploitation that many of us would rather ignore. Cassie's journey began in the...
Oct 08, 2024•33 min
Have you ever felt like you’re on autopilot, going through your daily routine without a sense of purpose or excitement? Many of us find ourselves trapped in roles or tasks that leave us feeling unfulfilled. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone - there’s a transformative journey waiting for you. In this episode, I chat with my coach, Joyce, about the incredible power of discovering our Zone of Genius. My experience with Joyce helped me gain clarity on how to spend my energy for maximum impac...
Sep 30, 2024•22 min•Season 2Ep. 26
I had the joy of spending time with Ssonia Ong of Ong Squad during her visit to Singapore, where I was deeply moved by the strong bond she shares with her husband and 5 children, aged 2 to 14. Their close-knit family culture radiates warmth and genuine joy, and I was eager to discover the parenting principles that guide her. Ssonia’s story of reinvention is truly inspiring. When she was 38, she bravely pivoted from a fulfilling career as a child trauma counsellor to become a thriving content cre...
Sep 23, 2024•47 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Do you feel your mind could be sharper, more focused, or more agile? You're not alone. Many of us are searching for ways to enhance our brain health and unlock hidden capabilities. In this episode, I sit down with renowned neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki to explore how we can tap into the incredible power of our brains to improve our daily lives. Dr. Suzuki shares fascinating insights into neuroplasticity — the brain's ability to change and adapt — and offers practical strategies for boosting co...
Sep 16, 2024•36 min•Season 2Ep. 24
In this special 10-minute episode, I chat with Janet Lansbury, a leading voice in respectful parenting, about the power of empathetic caregiving. We explore the crucial roles parents play in creating a nurturing environment, the art of observing and waiting to let children grow, and practical strategies for fostering strong parent-child and sibling relationships. Janet shares actionable tips to help you build deeper, more meaningful connections with your children and enrich your parenting journe...
Sep 10, 2024•11 min•Season 2Ep. 23
In this episode, I sit down with Sadhana Rai, whose transformative journey from a high-powered commercial disputes lawyer to a devoted pro bono advocate is both inspiring and heart-rending. Sadhana shares her early life experiences in a modest family, where the seeds of justice and advocacy were planted. Her story is a poignant reminder of the power of introspection and the courage it takes to pursue a path that truly feeds the soul, not just the status quo. Through the lens of some of her most ...
Sep 03, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 22
In this solo episode, I’m inviting you into a deeply personal and intimate space — one where we can reflect, grow, and have honest, heart-to-heart conversations. It’s a chance for us to connect on a more meaningful level, exploring the lessons life has been teaching me lately and how I’m finding my way through them. In this episode, I cover: Reflections and key takeaways from past episodes Areas I’m currently focusing on to improve Behind-the-scenes look at upcoming projects close to...
Aug 27, 2024•32 min•Season 2Ep. 21
In this episode, I sit down with Valeria Lipovetsky, a woman whose journey from the world of modeling to the heights of entrepreneurship is nothing short of inspiring. I first met Valeria two years ago at a personal growth retreat in Ibiza, and since then, I’ve been deeply moved by her relentless drive, her commitment to self-improvement, and her ability to gracefully navigate the many roles she plays—as a mother, wife, entrepreneur, and content creator. Together, we explore the pivotal moments ...
Aug 20, 2024•54 min•Season 2Ep. 20
In this episode, I sit down with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, the dynamic couple behind Empowered Couples University, to explore the real challenges that every relationship faces. With over 802,000 couples served, Jocelyn and Aaron share their personal journey from navigating their own differences to becoming sought-after relationship coaches. They reveal the key skills that every couple needs but often weren't taught — how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and maintain connection ami...
Aug 13, 2024•40 min•Season 2Ep. 19
In this personal and inspiring episode, I sit down with Janice Koh, a renowned Singaporean actress, to explore her courageous journey through tongue cancer. At the beginning of 2022, Janice's life was upended by a persistent ulcer that was diagnosed as cancer. Facing multiple surgeries and losing a significant part of her tongue, Janice had to redefine her identity and cope with the loss of her voice—an actor's most cherished tool. Janice candidly shares her emotional turmoil and the resilience ...
Aug 06, 2024•45 min•Season 2Ep. 18
As a parent myself, I'm always seeking ways to expand my knowledge and create a nurturing environment for Ollie and Keira. The Montessori approach has been particularly intriguing to me because of its emphasis on fostering independence, curiosity, and respect in children. By providing tools for success, encouraging their abilities, and giving them space to develop independently, the Montessori way offers a powerful alternative to conventional parenting. It helps children develop critical thinkin...
Jul 30, 2024•40 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Have you ever found yourself wanting to make a change in your life or career, yet feeling inexplicably stuck? You're not alone. The gap between knowing what we need to do and actually doing it is a common struggle that many face. In this episode with our in-house guest expert Joyce, we dive deep into this challenge and uncover why it's so hard to get “unstuck.” We delve into the ‘knowing-doing gap’ and the emotional immune system, uncovering why we often resist change despite our best intentions...
Jul 23, 2024•31 min•Season 2Ep. 16
In this engaging episode, I sit down with financial guru and content creator Vivian Tu, known as "Your Rich BFF," to explore her inspiring journey from a hardworking immigrant family to Wall Street and ultimately to her role as a financial influencer. Vivian shares pivotal moments, such as leaving her high-paying job at JP Morgan to pursue content creation, and discusses the profound impact of her mentor on her financial habits and career trajectory. She offers insights into why financial litera...
Jul 16, 2024•47 min•Season 2Ep. 15
In this episode, I sit down with an extraordinary guest, Whye Kee, whose life story is a powerful testament to the human capacity for change, redemption, and the pursuit of new dreams. From his turbulent upbringing and experiences as a gang leader to his transformative journey in prison, Whye Kee’s path has been anything but ordinary. We delve into his early years, exploring the challenges he faced growing up amidst loan shark harassment and violence. Whye Kee shares candidly about his descent i...
Jul 09, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 14
This week, I am excited to have Dr. Robert Waldinger, the director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, join us for an enlightening conversation. This episode is packed with wisdom and insights from the world’s longest-running study on happiness. Discover the key factors that contribute to a fulfilling life and how happiness evolves over time. Dr. Waldinger also discusses the importance of quality relationships, balancing career and personal life, and the principles of intentional living. ...
Jul 02, 2024•31 min•Season 2Ep. 13
