Today, we're diving into the sun-soaked paradise of Madeira, Portugal, where Paul and Kevin share their epic journey from Seattle to this dreamy island. They've been living it up on Madeira for over four years now, and let me tell you, they have no plans of ever leaving! We’re chatting about everything from the cost of living, which is basically a steal compared to Seattle, to the laid-back lifestyle that makes you feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard. Plus, they spill the tea on what it’s l...
Aug 13, 2025•1 hr 41 min
We’re diving into the sunny vibes of Nerja, Spain, and trust me, it’s not just a pretty beach town; it’s the kind of place where you can actually picture yourself kicking back in retirement bliss! In this episode, we chat with Richard Carnaby, who’s on a mission to build his dream home on the eastern Costa del Sol. He spills the tea on why he and his husband chose Nerja over more touristy spots like Marbella, and let me tell you, their reasons are as delightful as a churro dipped in chocolate! W...
Jul 30, 2025•1 hr 18 min
In this episode of the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, Mark Goldstein speaks with Tomek Gurzynski, a 54-year-old Polish-born adventurer and longtime airline professional who lives in Medellín, Colombia. Tomek shares his journey from the United States to Colombia, discussing the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and vibrant culture of Medellín. He emphasizes the city's safety, LGBTQ inclusivity, and the affordable yet high-quality standard of living. Tomek also offers practical advice for those ...
Jul 16, 2025•1 hr 24 min
We're diving into a super important topic today: the political climate of your potential retirement spot. It’s not just about sun-soaked beaches and affordable rent, right? We’re here to help you figure out if that paradise you’ve been dreaming of is actually a safe haven or just a pretty facade hiding some shady politics. Trust me, understanding the local vibe and what’s brewing politically can save you from future headaches. So grab your drink of choice, and let’s chat about how to be a savvy ...
Jul 02, 2025•18 min
We're diving into the fabulous world of Living Out, a unique 55+ LGBTQ community that’s all about creating a vibrant and accepting space for our fabulous queer elders. In this episode, we chat with Loren Ostrow, the mastermind behind this fantastic project, and trust me, you won't want to miss his insights on how Living Out stands out in a sea of retirement options. From its warm, inclusive vibe to its stunning amenities, Lauren shares how they’re flipping the script on aging in the LGBTQ commun...
Jun 18, 2025•1 hr 10 min
We’re diving into the fabulous world of Florence, Italy, where our guest Tom Leonard is living his best life in a city that’s as enchanting as it is historical. Tom spills the tea on everything from the cost of living to the vibrant Italian culture, plus a sprinkle about his own journey from California to the charming hills of Florence. He’s not just soaking up the sun and pasta; he’s also juggling his digital marketing gig while brushing up on his Italian skills and indulging in local cuisine. ...
Jun 04, 2025•1 hr 13 min
Ready to explore Flagstaff, Arizona? Today, we’re diving into why this mountain town is a fab spot for LGBTQ retirees. Our special guest, Nancy Sullivan, spills the tea on everything from the breathtaking nature to the welcoming vibe for our community. We chat about the outdoorsy lifestyle, the rising cost of living, and how the climate’s changing—spoiler alert: it’s getting warmer! Plus, we’ll dish on the arts, culture, and those delicious local eats that make Flagstaff a hidden gem. So grab yo...
May 21, 2025•59 min
Discover why Nashville, Tennessee, is becoming a sought-after destination for LGBTQ+ retirees in this engaging discussion. Mark Goldstein interviews real estate expert Evan Thomas, who shares insights on the city’s vibrant LGBTQ+ community, affordable living options, and rich cultural scene. With a mix of Southern charm and modern amenities, Nashville offers a unique blend of safety and social opportunities, making it an ideal place for those looking to retire. The city has something to offer ev...
May 07, 2025•1 hr 30 min
Welcome to the Where Do Gays Retire podcast, where we explore the vibrant and welcoming community of Nice, France, a top choice for LGBTQ retirees. Jameson Farn, a long-time resident of the French Riviera, shares his insights on what makes Nice an ideal place to live, from its stunning climate and walkability to its rich cultural scene. Listeners will learn about the affordability of living in Nice compared to cities like Vancouver and the importance of understanding local customs and lifestyle ...
Apr 23, 2025•1 hr 26 min
Welcome to the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast! Today, we explore the vibrant coastal city of Viña del Mar, Chile, through the eyes of our guest, Suber Corley, who shares his inspiring journey of relocating and thriving in this beautiful locale. Suber discusses the unique Mediterranean climate, the affordable cost of living, and the welcoming atmosphere for the LGBTQ community. He reflects on the ease of life in Viña del Mar compared to his previous experiences in the U.S., emphasizing the city's s...
Apr 09, 2025•1 hr 28 min
🌟 **Episode Summary**: Welcome to another exciting episode of the *Where Do Gays Retire* Podcast! Host Mark Goldstein catches up with Steve Cross and Harold Watts to revisit Ajijic, Mexico—a picturesque lakeside town nestled by Lake Chapala. This episode is packed with updates on Ajijic’s climate, cost of living, LGBTQ+ community, social scene, healthcare, and more. Whether you’re considering retirement in Mexico or just curious about this charming destination, Steve and Harold share firsthand ...
Mar 26, 2025•1 hr 36 min
Jac Blanco provides a compelling narrative about his life and experiences since relocating to Detroit from Chattanooga, Tennessee. The conversation between Mark Goldstein and Jac explores several aspects of life in Detroit, particularly for members of the LGBTQ+ community considering retirement. They begin by examining the city's climate, where Jack describes the four seasons and offers insights into the weather patterns that have changed over the years. He shares how winters can be surprisingly...
Mar 12, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Mark Goldstein hosts a vibrant discussion on retirement options within the LGBTQ community, focusing on the contrasting cities of Albuquerque, New Mexico, and Tucson, Arizona. The episode features insights from prominent guests Pam Myers and Jeff Schucart, who share their personal relocation experiences to these cities. The conversation starts with comparing each city's climate, cost of living, and safety, providing a comprehensive analysis for those contemplating retirement in a welcoming envir...
Feb 26, 2025•1 hr 33 min
Today, we’re diving into a big question: Is marriage equality in peril? Spoiler alert: it’s a bit of a rollercoaster, but we’ve got Evan Wolfson on the mic, and he’s here to break it all down. Evan’s not just any guest; he’s a legend in the fight for marriage equality, and he’s got the inside scoop on what’s at stake for the LGBTQ community right now. We chat about the progress we’ve made, the challenges that lie ahead, and how important it is to stay engaged and hopeful. So, grab your favorite ...
Feb 12, 2025•37 min
Pittsburgh emerges as a vibrant and welcoming city for the LGBTQ community, particularly for retirees seeking a safe and affordable place to live. Mark Goldstein interviews Mike Madden, a long-time resident who shares insights about the city's unique blend of East Coast and Midwest charm and rich cultural offerings. The discussion highlights Pittsburgh's appealing amenities, including its low cost of living, diverse dining scene, and robust healthcare access, making it an attractive option for t...
Jan 29, 2025•1 hr 2 min
Wondering about retirement in Providence, Rhode Island? This podcast explores the vibrant LGBTQ community in the city, featuring insights from Tim McCormick, a seasoned resident who has returned after years of living in various cities across the U.S. Tim discusses the improvements in Providence over the years, including its welcoming atmosphere and diverse neighborhoods, while also shedding light on the challenges newcomers may face, such as housing and the need for accessible living options. Th...
Jan 15, 2025•1 hr 9 min
Discover the unique advantages of retiring in Vancouver, Washington, as Gary Beagle shares his insights on the area's vibrant LGBTQ community, affordable living, and stunning natural surroundings. With no state income tax and reasonable housing costs, Vancouver presents an attractive option for those looking to settle down in a welcoming environment. Gary discusses the moderate climate, excellent healthcare facilities, and the array of outdoor activities available, making it an ideal place for r...
Jan 01, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Exploring Lewes, Delaware - A Charming Retirement Destination for the LGBTQ+ Community In this episode of the 'Where Do Gays Retire' podcast, host Mark Goldstein highlights the quaint town of Lewes, Delaware, as a compelling retirement destination for the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion covers key aspects such as the town's climate, cost of living, crime rates, and access to healthcare. Mark elaborates on the town's proximity to the LGBTQ+ friendly Rehoboth Beach, the tax perks specific to Dela...
Dec 25, 2024•19 min
Summary/Intro The podcast episode explores the appeal of Lewes, Delaware, as a prime retirement destination for the LGBTQ community, highlighting its welcoming environment, affordable cost of living, and proximity to beautiful beaches. Host Mark Goldstein interviews Terry Manzberger, who shares insights into life in Lewes, emphasizing its friendly atmosphere and rich cultural heritage. Terry discusses the town's climate, healthcare facilities, and the impact of climate change, noting that while ...
Dec 18, 2024•48 min
Discover the hidden gems of retirement in Europe as we explore Olvera, Spain, and Elvas, Portugal, two charming towns that offer safety, affordability, and a vibrant LGBTQ community. With their stunning landscapes, rich history, and welcoming atmospheres, both locations provide an appealing alternative for those looking to retire abroad. Join Mark Goldstein as he delves into the local climate, cost of living, and LGBTQ resources, ensuring you have all the information needed to make an informed d...
Dec 11, 2024•15 min
This episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast features an insightful discussion comparing retirement options in Spain and Portugal, focusing on the towns of Olvera and Elvas Vila Buim. Hosts Mark Goldstein, Bruce Joffe, and Russ Warren explore various aspects of living in these regions, including the friendly LGBTQ+ environment, cost of living, healthcare, and the vibrant local culture. They emphasize the importance of doing thorough research before making a move, highlighting the unique visa...
Dec 04, 2024•1 hr 29 min
Fort Collins, Colorado, is showcased as an ideal retirement destination for LGBTQ individuals in this enlightening episode of the Where Do Gays Retire Podcast. Mark Goldstein, the host, guides listeners through the city's unique offerings, emphasizing its welcoming atmosphere and strong LGBTQ community, which comprises nearly 9% of its population. The discussion highlights Fort Collins' only gay bar, celebrated for its quality and inclusive vibe, reinforcing the community's support system. Golds...
Nov 27, 2024•16 min
Pat Nelson is a retired Dean of Education. She served as a professor and dean at several universities, including the University of Alaska Fairbanks, Penn State, and the University of Akron. She is a Christa McAuliffe National Fellow for Education and an Anne Lister diary decoder. Patty Book is a retired academic administrator who has served as vice president of continuing education and distance education at several universities, including the University of Alaska Fairbanks, Penn State, Kent Stat...
Nov 13, 2024•1 hr 16 min
Scott Hier Born and raised in Syracuse, New York, Scott lives in Camillus, a charming suburb outside the city. He comes with a rich worker-compensation background, where he honed his negotiation skills over a commendable 23-year career at an insurance company, specializing in high-dollar claims for a decade. During the challenging times of COVID-19 in 2020, Scott pivoted towards a new passion—real estate. After completing his licensing in September 2021, he transitioned from his corporate role i...
Oct 30, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Waldron McGinnis is originally from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He lived in China for six years and earned his PhD from the University of South Carolina, researching high education reforms in China. Waldron spent twenty-five years in the Pacific Northwest of the US. He developed a master's degree and doctorate in leadership at a university. He traveled the world doing partnership work with global non-profit leaders. For the past thirteen years, he has lived in downtown Tacoma as part of an inten...
Oct 16, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Summary Climate change is a crucial factor to consider when choosing a retirement destination, especially for the LGBTQ community seeking both safety and inclusivity. In this engaging episode of "Where Do Gays Retire?" host Mark Goldstein explores various U.S. cities that stand out for their proactive approaches to climate change mitigation. From the eco-conscious vibes of Portland, Oregon, to the wind-powered ambitions of Chicago, Illinois, each city is committed to sustainability while maintai...
Oct 10, 2024•23 min
Summary/Intro The podcast episode delves into the experiences of LGBTQ retirees living in Malaga and Valencia, Spain, highlighting the allure of these Spanish cities for those seeking a vibrant and inclusive retirement destination. Host Mark Goldstein engages with guests Steve Aronberg from Malaga and Dave Piccolo and Jesus Bartoli from Valencia, who share insights about the climate, cost of living, healthcare, and the welcoming atmosphere for LGBTQ individuals. Both cities boast a high quality ...
Oct 02, 2024•1 hr 33 min
Steven recently retired from teaching high school math and enjoys having no responsibilities besides his family and hobbies. He has renewed his hobbies of quilting, cooking, and racquetball. He is currently ranked #3 in his age division in Washington State. Steven moved to Seattle after graduating from Gonzaga University in Spokane, Washington, in 1989 and met his husband in 1990. They have been together for thirty-four years. They have two adopted sons and await grandchildren, although none are...
Sep 18, 2024•1 hr 15 min
In this solo episode of Where Do Gays Retire , Mark Goldstein compares Sitges and Torremolinos, Spain, two of the most popular retirement destinations for the LGBTQ+ community. Mark covers critical aspects such as climate, cost of living, healthcare, LGBTQ+ community, transportation, walkability, arts and culture, dining, and safety. Stay tuned until the end as Mark reveals which destination is top for LGBTQ+ retirees. #LGBTQRetirement #SitgesSpain #TorremolinosSpain #WhereDoGaysRetire #LGBTQTra...
Sep 11, 2024•16 min
This conversation compares Torremolinos and Sitges in Spain. Torremolinos is in the Andalusian region, while Sitges is in Catalonia. Both places have a similar climate, with hot summers and mild winters. The cost of living is relatively high in both areas, especially for housing. Healthcare is accessible in both places, with private health insurance being standard. However, the public healthcare system in Catalonia does not cover PrEP for HIV prevention. Overall, Torremolinos and Sitges offer a ...
Sep 04, 2024•1 hr 39 min
