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And this is me tiamvam, I love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. How is your weekend?
For a year?
You look cute?
Mama? Hey a you even going stick up to Mayo? Just past y'all.
This was my single day Mario dress. Honestly, I just had to throw it back on for y'all. See I can see it, and I really didn't like. I went out, but I didn't stay out. I was out for like thirty minutes because me and my friend who was supposed to meet me kind of got into an argument. So I just went back home.
Y'all gote an argument before she got there, or she just left your eye somewhere.
She never made it, so I just went back home and took my little dress off. I had took a lot of drinks in there thirty minutes though, I look. I took two shots of margarita and a glass of champagne. So by the time I got home, I was like lit.
Yeah, I didn't do shit this weekend. No, no, because I was just like, you know, i'd be having a mentally prepare for this type of shit, like to record. Oh really, yeah, So I just I was in the house last weekend. I hung out a lot. This weekend. I really just stayed in the house and stowing it up down here. Late as fuck. But anyway, I'm always still be late. You can count on that shit.
Listen. I woke up back ten o'clock, like we gotta record.
I did go to dinner Saturday. That's about it. Okay, did where you go? I'm gonna eat where? Just this little little vegan restaurant in Charleston.
Vegan.
Yeah, bitch, you know what, No fake meat.
I like my real meat.
I don't see how I could ever be vegan. Vegans be fat, uh dub it carved up. That's why exactly. They eat too much carbs. No, but I still eat seafood. But bread sweets. Like right now, do you know food Lion has some ice cream sandwiches that got butter pecan ice cream in the middle.
Bitch. Okay, baby, do you know all the new snacks?
I know all the good fat ship Okay, let's be clear that shit has made that's good. Honestly, you know they say yes, butter pecan ice cream. I swear to God meeting that's just as I was three, I love butter pecan ice cream. If you would be hating on it though.
Listen, when I was a kid, I would be the only one who wanted mint chocolate chip on the ice cream.
Yeah you're a serial killer. Yeah whatever, because who the fuck eats mint and chocolate together?
I don't know. It was so good and it was like it looked different than all the other ones, you know, so I had to have it every time. Let's meet in a stupid internet news like that.
Look, this is so much for me. Okay, so apparently uh to see a Tennessee hotel manager Nashville in Nashville Nastyville in Cashville, fifty two year old David Neil was arrested after he snuck into a male guest room while he was sleeping and got intimate.
With his feet, so he was in there. The nigga woke up and the white man was sucking on his toes.
Yes. The guest tells police that he woke up to David's mouth around his toes and immediately confronted him. The guest says he recognized the manager as an employee who had entered his room the day before to help him solve an issue with the television. David was a night manager at the Hilton Hotel in Nashville at the time of the incident, and he made a key card before entering the room at five am.
Like, how you just had to have them feet? Ah.
Boy must have had on some Jesus sandals and he was like, I got to go get them feet. I was thinking, like Dad, he might have checked in and had a little thong.
Sand up five o'clock in the morning, Right, what would you do if you woke up and that man was in there sucking on your foot.
I'm kicking him in the face. I'm definitely kicking them in the face. That's why you don't know.
You look at your toes up. I do, like my feet suck when they're in the air. Okay, but I do be looking at dudes in the face like nigga. I was just walking around barefoot in here, like.
Like it's one thing if you are like having sex and you got your legs up and he just turned to the side and grabbed one of those feet and put in his mouth.
Okay. But to have a.
Strange, old, elderly white man wake you up out of your sleep with your big toe in his mouth is wow, I'm kicking you in the face.
I would just charge him. I accept visa massacred American Express Like I was just Hell, you don't want me to listen. You don't want me to tell you ain't trying to go to jail. Listen.
He might go from sucking your feet to like, okay, now it's time for you to die.
Anybody who do that is crazy. Draft up, it's crazy. You're right, Maybe not not so much.
I don't know though, So I want to get into King Charles the Third and Queen Camilla have officially been crowned after an elaborate ceremony. This is the first coronation at Westminster Abbey since that that of Charles's mother, Queen Elizabeth, back in nineteen fifty three, so he finally.
Got a job.
He's been living off his mama for all them years and now he's seventy three and now he finally got him a job. And Camilla, let me tell ya something. Camilla is camea living proof. She living proof that if you stay down, you're gonna get on because she was definitely his side chick, that became his main chick.
She is not she's an illegitimate queen at this point.
She is.
She's an illegitimate queen, Like she's been his side bitch since before Princess Diane passed away. Uh huh, she can't be the queen?
Is that right here?
I've just finished watching Queen Charlotte on Netflix. That shit came out two days ago. Yeah, I watched all six watched it because I love, love love. You know, a lot of people don't know that Queen Charlotte was a black woman, and you know now they don't know because of it, because of Netflix.
Well, they might not even believe it to be true. They'll be like, oh, they just used all kind of kill.
She definitely definitely throughout history that with black people, right, and she was a Queen of England, right, and you see on those movies like how many black. I feel like the whole royal family is in there right now, are illegitimate, all of them? And I feel like, uh, Meghan Marko is like the return of their original lineage that's supposed to be in that house. That's interesting. I believe she's more.
Are we all more? Well?
More means black, But you know, I don't claim to be a more because the moors. This is my belief. I believe that these niggas showed up to the shore, other niggas was already here right h some white folks showed up first, some pale faces showed up first. We wasn't fucking with them. So they went to Europe and came back with some people that look like us, our cousins. And that's how we got overthrown over here. Okay, that's very possible. I'm not a motherfucking more. Okay, I'm from America.
But this was them a rocking empire at one point, supposedly allegedly, and anyway I.
Think I might be more so. Yeah, I do not.
Respect the current queen. Okay, I mean it's I feel like their their time there is going to be short lived. I think Megan Marko and her husband is going to be in the Royal House, in the royal seat very soon.
Yeah, with you know, during our lifetime for sure, because they in their seventies. But absolutely apparently they got some secret sauce there to keep you alive to at least a hundred. Yeah, but that's only twenty more years and we can.
Get into those conspiracies of what that sauce actually. Uh, I want some sister, No, you don't, bitch, why you want some adrenalron? You know where it comes from? Girl? What is the you know what a jennal cron is? Jordan, y'all want to know some of our listeners know what the fuck I'd be talking about? Why do people stay young? Okay, what's the actress that was on give me something my birthday? Adrenal cron is like blood from children? Oftentimes I don't want that.
Yeah, they be.
Blood letting kids. That's how these people stay young and look like this. Remember the actress who was on Ellen I think, and she was saying how she gets these vampire masks and it's from the blood of the foreskin of a baby.
Oh I had one of those. I didn't know what it was though, like, my institution, don't look at me. It wasn't blood.
Was it your blood because something It wasn't.
It wasn't no blood in it, as to my understanding.
Next it wasn't. It was no blood in it.
But she was like, oh, I want to give you this new mask we got in it's all over Hollywood. It's gonna be from skin.
So I was like, let's do it, bitch.
And then while it was on my face, she was like, oh, it's made from baby foreskin. And I was like, y'all, I'm calling the police on everybody in here. What you mean. She's like, no, from you know, circumcised babies. They use it from the foreskin. And I was like, don't put that on me no more.
That sounds very wait until afterwards.
That's why I said, I said, why wouldn't you tell me that a friend. She's like, because I know you would have said no, but your skin is gonna look amazing. My skin look exactly the same.
I don't know. I feel like you want them people sometimes I ain't wanted them people.
Typic get me some for my birthday. Well, I didn't know it was baby. Then I didn't know. Whatever, Nick, what's going on? We're gonna talk about? I wanted to talk about Usher and Chris Brown.
I heard they got into a fight over the weekend, but I can't validate that, and I don't really have no true to you on that, but I just wanted to him.
Look like a fight to me. That's why I wasn't sure about it. Don't nobody want to see Usher and Chris Brown fight.
We want to see them dance battle, Like I don't want to see y'all fi what is.
The next concert? Right? What is the verses? That's what I want to see. Don't was fighting because Chris Brown was like because remember like maybe a year or two ago when Versus a super super pop and they were. People were suggesting like Chris Brown and Usher versus, but you know, Chris Brown was like, man, I learned from Usher, Like you know that's one of my people or whatever. But maybe I don't know. I think Chris Brown is a phenomenal human, both.
Of them, both of them.
Girl, I like Usher, I like you didn't see that. I'm talking about as far as artistry, like Chris Brown is like an actual artist, like he beat on painting some ship up like this like some really nice. He's an artist, he's a singer, he's the rider. He does a little bit more than Usher. That's all. That's all.
Well, we're just talking about as far as the music is concerned.
And who do you think dance better? Usher or Chris Brown?
So I would probably have to say Chris Brown dance better because he's the younger one, but he probably like a little bit more flexible than Usher is now. But Usher been skating all year. I feel like a little bit Blmber.
I feel like I should dance better because I don't know.
It's just something that I want to see y'all dance off.
It's something about all niggas dancing that just look goofy to me. Well, Chris Brown tall, Yes, Chris Brown is really tall.
They all look short to me.
Usher is short. Chris Brown is like over six foot really yes, same. I think I just think dancing is for like smaller people that you know, tw niggs be looking stupid than they clothes like they showed just be real pointy and ship like. Little niggas look a little compact like they just like baby clothes. It's so cute. That was weird to be anyway.
All right, So that's it for our stupid You got anything.
Else with That's it, man, I'm sick of humans, all right. So we're gonna take a little break.
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I tell y'all, listen, there's a lot of things going on with black women right now, in particular right and I kind of want to start this episode off talking about one of our recent episodes from a couple months ago. We had on Navgreen, right, one of the funniest dudes out here of our generation as far as I'm concerned, him and Colins Miller. But we posted a clip and we've been being dragged drag action, viral drag.
Okay, Like I don't even want to rely on that post. When I see it's a comment, I don't even read it because it's just.
Like, okay. So I was kind of bored this weekend because, like I said, I didn't do much. So I did, like clap back a little bit, because I mean, we do talk back, but I'm not I feel like a lot of times listeners and these social media people, people online, they just want to respond, so I give it to them. Sometimes other than that, you can kiss my ass.
But only for fun, Like I be going like boys show y'all went to your page.
You ugly shut up. One dude that was like you're out looks think that's all I commented to his ass or like shut up, but really be pissing me off though, gets my girls grinding. When I go to comment I meet, I typed out something that won't.
Let you comment.
Yes, that pieces me off. I'd be so mad you and them if you're not following. We talked back. You can talk as much ship as you want in our comments. I don't give a fuck, but you gotta be following. You can't just be coming over here to talk shit and leave. You can't be coming fucking shit up and leave. No, we ain't having it, so at least give us some social digital currency if you're gonna talk ship, and then you know we okay with it. So all right. Let
them know what the conversation was. Man, what woman find I you frightful? She ain't even really feeling like that?
Like, I ain't compete with nobody.
I don't want to. I don't want to nobody, listen. I don't want a man that is accessible to everybody, but nobody else won't. Yes, like what if I want you?
If nobody else, nobody else, somebody.
Got absolutely I want you. Everybody probably want you. That's how I feel about it. Nobody said that I want or we want a man who's unfaithful.
Right, but that's what they took it. A's like, that's what's the problem with you bitches?
And somebody calls us refrigerator. Wait, well, did you want to fight you? Because if y'all wouldn't even date anybody who looked like your mama, right, okay, let's be clear. So I actually had to filter out the word hole and a couple of other choice words. And then I saw people doing garden tool. I guess they realize they can't come and hole, so they do garden tools. So I blocked that ship, like the disrespect is unbelievable, And.
Why were they so mad?
That's the thing. And it was just men.
You didn't see women under there. I mean it was a couple of people. Means under there, under there? Oh, there's something wrong with all right, here's the thing. Nobody said we want our man to cheat on us.
Nobody.
We just want someone who get who can like, who wants somebody that can't get nobody exactly.
The energy of a man who has never had access to the women he thinks he deserves is just different, right. You know what I'm saying oftentimes, basically what I was trying to comment to somebody yesterday. We don't want intels, because that's essentially.
What it is.
Somebody who's involuntarily celibate. Celibate can't get the pussy. It probably hasn't gotten the pussy that they deserve since high school. And you just all here acting like your mama, Just like a disgruntled ass black woman. That's what I see in these comments. Just mean, right, just mean and angry and just ugly. Maybe mama's I'm just mad the hell is wrong with y'all. So I don't know. I want to read something of the coot. That's some of the nastiest ones.
Let's read some of them. And I'm saying their name too, because y'all clearly want some attention.
Who wants a man? How I tried to clean it up in one of my comments on there, which people still, oh, you confuse, you don't know what you're talking about. I explained how nobody wants a man who's not desirable to anyone else. I'm not saying I want a man who has fifty eleven bitches. I just want because the confidence.
Why do you want him clarity? It's something wrong if nobody wants his ass exactly.
You know, I know a couple of people in relationships with dudes like pull up and be like all your friends are like, girl, what the fuck?
Rowdy read rowdy dot reds said they only want faithful men after they get dog walk by niggas who don't give a fuck about them, and that's what they deserve.
Nobody said we did not want a faithful man. That was never said what is.
Wrong with these niggas?
And I just rowdy read.
Don't be giving these niggas. Oh you going to his page and see what he looked like. First of all, he looked like he got one eye, boy, shut up this comments on it. He looked like he had a decent meal in a long time.
Anyway, it's a lot of nasty shit. I'm gonna go visit the damn page and check it out. It's a lot of crazy ass comments on there.
This is why women pick promiscuous men, because ain't no man picking a woman every nigga won.
This is how this is. That's not true.
This is how we can pick good women and y'all can't pick good men.
That is not true that men do not pick women at somebody else want you see that in celebrity social groups all the time, and it's almost where to me and to me it's kind of like borderline because it's like you almost want to sleep with this man vicariously through this woman. That's how I see it. Why are y'all going after the same women that has that have
been with multiple men. It's like, it's not about the woman at that point, it's about exactly, it's about getting this thing that this other man that you deem, you know, top of the food chain has had.
Exactly exactly okay, because there's no reason for these same women to be passed around like that unless it's about that.
So what I commented on trying to give clarification, this is what I said. I said, men wife safe women all the time while simultaneously chasing the most desirable women. These niggas be married and everybody DM. So you marry somebody that you love, right, obviously you love them in whatever capacity right and homely who is this what's the twins from clips? Women of Clips the Rappers? Yeah? Did you see what his wife posted recently? She was like
she's never felt insecure dealing with him. She was like, you know when she walks into a room and there's all these rapper looking girls, but they fake body and all that. She's a real like she would be wearing some shit like this, like extracute whatever. But you don't have to put down these other women, like because guess what, I feel like you're only talking about them because you think they would fuck your dude, right, because he's gonna fuck right and they not leave them, leave you for them.
But he's definitely gonna beat some shit down. But men marry safe women and then y'all fraternize with the bitches y'all actually want Let's be clear, women just the same want men that are desirable, not accessible. So I want to choose you, lover. I want somebody who can get bitches, but choose me every day. That's all you were trying to say. Okay, and as a woman, you are supposed to find the suitable mate to procreate, I said. I'm also confused by the disrestract because isn't not men promoting
polygamy usually right. So now when we get into are like, oh, y'all want an unfaithful man, right, most men are unfaithful. Let's be clear, Ah, can.
We say most men are unfaithful?
A lot of humans are unfaithful. We can throw women in there too, you know, to be far, I said. The truth is men also created monogamy because if Polly was a norm, a lot of you would have zero access to women. The best man with the most resources would have all the women. What else y'all need explain? Because monogamy, to me, was created by men so that the ones who probably shouldn't even be pro creating could get some pussy. They can lock a woman in. That's
what it's about. It's not about love. Half of this stuff is not about love. Even in the Bible, the Bible does not say married for love. The Bible says if you can't sustain from sex, final wife, Right, that's what it says. A lot of y'all would not have a wife, a lot of y'all would not have kids. Y'all would fucking this happens happens in animal kingdom. Everybody doesn't get to have sex.
Yeah, they have to fight for it's natural selection.
Let's be clear. So now, if women were actually hypergamous, if women were actually dating to make sure that they secure the best mate to be able to take care of them and their offspring, a lot of your niggas would divergence. Let's be clear. So fuck you is what I'm trying to say.
I just felt like it was a lot of hatred, and you know what some people were saying, Kevin Samuels needs to come back.
He lives on through y'all niggas. You have the Samuelites out here. Okay, So Kevin Samuels, he's not dead.
Yeah, he'll never be dead as long as he is.
Yeah, that is scary to me. And what I do appreciate about Kevin Samuels is that he brought him for He helped us identify these people, and he helped us. He helped them raise their hands so we know exactly what the fuck they are and what we're looking at when they do come out. I appreciate that Kevin Samuels.
But he also opened up the conversations that we weren't having, So that's important. So that's what I want our conversations to, Like Bridge the gap between US men and women.
That's the prob.
We have a problem between black men and black women right now.
We do, and we don't. We don't see that as our good uh. Sister Ebany K. Williams called it white supremacy. To me, it is a form of white supremacy via black people, you know what I'm saying. So we're we already have all these different mechanisms in place to fuck us up. Black people literally just be sitting at home chilling. We'd be chilling. We chill. We like to laugh, like to have fun. We do goofy shit all day long. Meanwhile, there's a whole machine. But no for the we like
to chill hard. We love to love to be entertained. That's why we fucked up now. We love to be entertained. And it's a whole it's a whole machine making sure we stay at the bottom.
Oh no, I agree there, It's always been that way.
Yeah, And I just feel like a lot of people are forfeiting a game. So let's get into and we talked about this in stupid Internet news last week.
Right, Ebany K. Williams.
What she had to say and a la I'm talking about across the color spectrum, across the age spectrum. Trust me, I've done them all. They are not positioned to protect nor provide because of some of the statistics we just talked about. They're not earning the incomes, they're not having the resource.
Would you date a bus driver, You would date if.
He owns the bus, If he owns it. If he owns the.
Bus, that's that's a problem. That's a problem because the standards and requisites And I'm not talking about him laying on his sofa playing video games all day. I'm not talking about that. But the standards and the criteria that we use to measure men is off for who we are as women and who they are in this society.
Before ebdy K Williams came on the Breakfast Club, I messaged my good friend, you know what I'm saying, and I gave my perspective on what it was that she was saying before she even gave a breakdown, right, because that's what a lot of arguments start because of perspective. How people perceive what you're saying. How I perceive what she was saying is that we can do better and we should not be settling for mediocrity. Yes, she even went as far as reading the definitions. You know, I
love words, bitch. I love to look up the definition and the etymology of a word. So what she essentially was saying is like, why do we have to be And that was my message to my dear friend. Why do we have to be the essential workers? Why do the majority of us have to be the essential workers? Why do the majority of us have to be a blue collar employees? You know what I'm saying, We are put at a higher risk that you know, we're working the second and third shift. You know how much time
that takes off your life. You can't raise your kids properly. We just we got to get out of this position, and if we plan to collectively, something has to change so we can't cad ole people, men and women alike. And the thing people miss is that Ianla should have never asked Ebany K Williams would she date a bus driver? And that's just the fact.
Well, all right, I don't mind the question. I just felt like there should have been more common.
It was a misplaced though.
Yeah, why do you feel like it was misplaced?
It should not have come after what Ebanie k Williams said, because she she basically was asking, you know, how can women just women, you know, reposition themselves. She did not attach color, She did not attach race, none of that to anything, and the internet did that. Iona also did not attach any ethnicity to what Ebane was saying. Right, But that's how black men perceived it because Ebney is a black woman right right, identifies as a black woman.
And and and it's almost like there should have been something else that came before would you date a bus driver? Because it just didn't answer the question that Ebone came with. Yeah, I don't know answer a question with a question.
But I think what she was alluding to is that Ebony shouldn't base her mate on financial I think that's what she was trying to I don't.
Think she jumped right into that though. Do you think when Ebanie, well, the based off the clip we saw, right, I've watched the full thing, and that's not the context of the full conversation. And then you know, near the end of it, it did kind of you know, smoothed over. But I just feel like I don't want no more advice from elders. I just don't. It's certain things, yes, but I feel like our elders are the reason the men are how they are today. Y'all coddled the men.
Y'all coddled y'all boys, and y'all had us go to college and do all this things. Is nobody gonna take care of you, but you so be able to take care of yourself. And while our conterparts are white kind of parts, white women were finding their husbands in college. We just get an education. Now we go. We got student loans and all this shit. I don't like that.
Yes, that was the dumbest thing we were sold exactly strong black woman. I used to like believe I'm a strong black woman. Like that is the dumbest shit I was ever. So I don't want to I don't want to have to be a strong black woman. That's not I'm tired of being strong. I want someone to come in and be strong for me.
Absolutely, And if we are collectively, if we're going to get out of this position, somebody something that has to change. You can't bring home the season. D's right. You know what I'm saying, you have to strive for higher education. And what Ebony was saying is that if this is yours, if you've maxed out on your potential.
But it's being But there are people who made seas and d's that are successful out here.
Absolutely most of the people I know that a millionaires dropped out of.
Right because one former. Our formal education is sometimes kind of biased when it comes to black people, especially standardiz. Yeah, so even though the testing is just not you know, for us, right, so we might make Season d's. And I remember being in these white spaces going to school, like I would be in advanced classes and I would
be the only Black in the class. So now we're doing group work and I have to be in the group with the fat kid, the emo in the exchange student in me, you know, like we're just all we're the minority. So now I'm in these groups with people and I'm like a badass, boss bitch. And now here I'm in this group and I'm like, I flunked out on purpose just so I could be in a room with my peers. Now, had I been in a school where it was black students in the advanced programs, I
would have excelled, you know what I mean. So you know already you know you can't base it on the Seas and d's. You just have to base it on ambition.
And so since she's a lawyer, I understand why she's see when she says c's and d's, I don't just see that as like a school thing. I see that as a life thing. You know what I'm saying. If you're settling for C and D type life, That's how I took that. I didn't actually take it as C and D like grading like the great instantant, like actual academia. I took that as like just in life in general, like if you're settling for mediocracy, but it's okay, and
mediocracy just means regular normal, the norm, right. But people took offense to the to the word she was using as it pertains to the working class. The thing is, why do black people have to make up a disproportionate amount of the working class while everybody else get the chill on their fucking boats. I live in Charles's, South Carolina. We got beautiful waterfronts and shit like that. All you see is these white folks. Are they yachts out there?
Like?
I want that?
You want that? But there are people who are okay with their regular nine to five job and are more happy than some of those people on those boats. And I think that might be what Ayala was alluding to. It should be more about what would make you happy than your finances. Yeah, but the thing, all right, let me just say this. I had a friend who was married and her man treated her her amazing. He was good with the kids, he was a loving, doting husband, but he just didn't make a lot of money and
she made most of the money. So she ended up leaving them right, and then she was outside and it was just bad. And she started dating rich men and men who were making more than her, and it was just never good. So she went back to her husband and they are happy as fuck. When she decided that that level of lifestyle was better than having all the things and being unhappy, she was happy with that man, and she had to decide she had to go outside and be a hole and decide that it wasn't good
out there. It wasn't good for her, Like she was better with this man who worked a regular job, but he treated her like a goddess. And I think that's what Yalla was saying. The conversation went a different way when it got into like, you know, being yeah, and it went somewhere else that it shouldn't have gone. You know, I don't think that is what because both of them have valid points.
You know, did you like Ayana's follow up video and it was clickbait? That's what I felt like. It was just like, I want some people to listen to me, because girl, I ever heard Ayanla say that she was a wonderful husband but a terrible mom, meaning she provided, but she wasn't there for her kids. Ianla hasn't married multiple times, where you'll mad at I really don't want to be married now, I don't think so well.
Sometimes the people who are already fucked up a lot give the best advice because.
They know what take. And then now this is viral and Ebony looks like a terrible woman. You know what I'm saying. You got black men online just acting like
black women are so undesirable, like nobody wants us. Like even if we be like, you know what, fuck it, I'm gonna be single forever, they're mad at that too, right if we just go ahead and rest in, okay, shit, I'm good and get my money, shit, travel with my homegirls like they mad about that too, right, So it's like you almost damned if you do, damned.
It, fuck them, fuck him. That's how I feel like. You know, you just gotta find out what makes you happy. And I hope emiy Kate does find that person for her.
You know, they was putting her like her previous person she was engaged as a white Jewish guy she was engaged to. But I'm pretty sure she's dated black men most of her life.
Would you date like a white Jewish man?
I would prefer an Italian. Okay, They're a little bit more olive skin looking, and they had the dark hair. Like if I get a white boy, like he gotta be a ginger or brunette. I just I just.
Something about a black man that just like I can like I can see Italian man.
I can see a.
Fine Italian and he'd be fine in it. And then I see a black man walk by, and I'd be like, oh, I'm sorry, white man, but did you see this keen that just walk by? So I don't know if I could be faithful to a white man, I would probably cheat on him with a black man.
What what type of shit is that?
It's the truth, That's what kind of shit it is. So I just probably wouldn't date them because I just love the skin on the black man.
Last weekend, I met a couple of white guys and I was talking to one on the phone for a really long time, and I was telling him that I see white dudes eating boogers a lot. Where you be at that. You see you're driving down the highway, you stopped at a stop, like you look look over you liable to see a white man. Just you don't know why I seen it.
You don't know he might be eating chicken nuggets from Chick fil A.
No, I seen you do this and stick it in your mouth multiple times in my life, so I have drawn a conclusion that they don't. They be eating boogers and oft the times.
Okay, well that's listen eating boogers. Niggas out here eating booty. Which one is worse? Okay, you judging the nigga for eating a little booger, but look, you get your booty lit and be kissing the.
Nigga when you come up. Related, Okay, don't watch the Mountain fris non I might kiss you. But listen, I was watching not alone and afraid. I think it's just called a loon. They like out in the mountains or whatever, like group of like different people dropped off in different and afraid, not naked and afraid. I think it's a loan. Oh yeah, so one is naked afraid. That one I was watching was on Netflix. It's called a loon. I
believe they were in Canada. But one of the women, she resorted to eating the boogers because it does have like a calorie. Yeah, like the like it has some nutrition, no value, Like, if you don't have anything else, you eat the booger.
Okay, I know that for the next time I'm out in the woods by myself.
So they got food that's gross. It's not nasty, it's not You didn't eat Bookers as a kid.
No, you never licked this, not like maybe by listen, maybe like by accident, but I've never been like.
Oh yeah, I've never et a booger. My cousin used to eat Bookers all the time. And she's eating damn eat dirt with a spoon. Chat. Oh no, I've seen people eat clay. I eat the orange clay with a spoon. But she's eat like the black dirt, tearing them Bookers up. Girl, But like, you know, you a kid run around, you know, and keep it moving. No, I've done that before.
I can say I've done that, but not like ooh since not delicious snack, no never, never. All right, So we say all of that to say, what, what's the final word?
Leave us the fuck alone? Okay, just leave black women alone, and don't leave us alone.
Stop attacking us, love us.
But the thing is, you have other black women now attacking another black woman. You know what I'm saying. The from the comments I've seen online, they're pretty divided. Even at the breakfast club. You have horrible decisions there. You have Mandy and Weezy. Weezy was signing more with Alaman and dj Envy, while Mandy was more so kind of in the middle, but more so on That's.
Why I'm in the middle, because I can't understand both perspectives, just you know, knowing my friend's story and how she went out looking for this, you know, the yacht life and shed and she found her happiness with mediocrity, you know, which is offensive to say.
You know, like maybe she wasn't the bitch she thought she was. No, she a babit.
She is a babbit, you know, but she like she's more happy than most people I know.
So her husband isn't like trolling her in a relationship. Now like he's okay, they are happy as fuck, that's nice. They are man.
Yeah, he's a great man. So and I'm and before I was like, girl, yeah me that nigga, you know. But you know, when when she decided she was ready to go, I supported it, but for that reason. But when she went back, I was like, girl.
Let me tell you, I'm not friend like shit with you. If you like him, I love him, mm hm. When you're ready to go back, shit, I'm gonna be so.
But when she went back and I just see how beautiful and how happy their family is, I'm like, Okay, So maybe it don't always take all of that.
And I know some.
People who are rich and miserable, got all the money and just ain't never happy, So it shouldn't be. I can understand why Ayanla would be like if he loved me and he treat me good and he loved driving the bus, I get that, But I also get ebany k who wants somebody who is you know, has the aspirations that she has in life.
And I think that's what most black women are asking. Nobody is asking you to have everything today because oftentimes we don't. I know, I fucking don't you know what I'm saying. I'm rebuilding my life for the last few years now, so I understand. But what I feel like, and I always I think I feel like I always say this, if you're with a woman who is not amused, is not who doesn't aspire you to do better until one day take care of her and your family entirely
leave her. She ain't the one for you, because one thing women gonna do is inspire.
But it depends on what taking care of the family means.
Taking care of your family like, so your wife can chill and actually raise your children and create like we can't. We can't do half the things we want to do, Like we're single with no children. So I do everything. You know what I'm saying, like not having to think about anybody, But I fly to Africa in the morning if I want to, so think about the women who are and most black women and black men are in the trenches together. I just don't know where all this
goal is that these niggas say we digging for. When y'all go to the other side and you're raped rich niggas go to the other side, these other sides, the white side, the Hispanic side, the Armenian side, and they get raped at the end of the day. But we're seen as the gold diggers somehow, and it's almost like Black women can't require more, we can't possibly think we deserve more than we got, Like you have to stay here, you know what I'm saying. And I don't suggest a
lot of times, not at our age. You know what I'm saying. Your twenties is different. Both are trenches, y'all, both trying to figure it out together. That's when and that's when you should have found your mate. Right. Oftentimes
they're divorced by thirty forty years old. Right. I don't believe in having an extended period of time where you're struggling with a man, because I believe that they resent you once they get on that person who saw them struggling in that way, who saw them in that light, they oftentimes resent them and that's why they go on to somebody who that know their struggle.
That's a crap show because sometimes they be like, this is the woman that was there when I ain't have shit, I'm gonna take her with me. It depends.
It really does depend. But I have well, I don't know. I've never been with somebody who was left. I'm always the one left depleted at the end of a relationship. And maybe people like me and most women right are necessary, right to get people to the next level. But I look at some of the people who have been in relationships in the past, is like, fuck, niggas, is damn prevailing, not prevailing? But they you know they they're doing well now. But I knew them when they have ship and I helped.
You, helped them grow and now another.
But I don't mind giving a bit of refurbished nigga. I always say that girl, girl that pissed me off.
I don't want to see that doing better without me.
It's like I'm joking.
I don't want to like because typically if we were like that, I loved you and I don't want nothing bad to happen to you. But I don't like the fact that some of them are married and I'm not.
Yeah, but those saying married men, they still be checking for you. You're right, they don't like that. That's not flattering.
I see you coming to town, let's get together.
Like number don't be hitting me out three to four years. I see you're doing your thing. I'm so proud of you because you married safe. Like I said, you married safe.
I am doing my thing and I won't be available, but thanks for thanks for affirming me.
Hey, we don't got a dumbit stories.
For the day, don't have any dumb bitch stories at all for today.
But that's okay.
Everybody's being safe apparently.
Yes, well you know, I guess moral of this story is, girl, just do you These niggas gonna talk shit regardless. It's just gonna be mean. It's gruntle.
Not all of them. Some of them are gonna love us. There were some allies in the comments. We didn't read none of the allies. It was something and like some men were like, man, these niggas must don't get bitches, clearly because they mad. So we did have some allies in the comments. We just want, what's my final word, find who love you and love them back and grow together. That's my thing. You don't have to get the man
who's already rich. You can help him get rich, or you can help him stay where he at like and y'all can be happy in that too. Just find what make you happy, and find someone who make you happy, and then rock with them.
That's all I can say. I don't have any fun on words. Money don't money because I listen. I don't want another viral moment people talking too razy with my face out. No, because you know, I was thinking the other day, I said, you know what, I should start being like Kevin Samuels but talking shit about men. I kind of already be on that type of time dog my mind.
Well, having men calling right and cut them out, well, what you know what, not even give them some truth that they may need. Right, Because Kevin Samuels wasn't always wrong. I just didn't like his delivery. Oftentimes it was hurtful. That's what I didn't like about him. It was the delivery that was hurtful. He'd be like, bitch, you fat and ugly, you are three like.
That, that's me. You don't have to talk to people that way, you know. But I feel like even I don't feel like Evany K. Williams said anything in a very negative way, right, but people perceived it that way. Yeah, The truth oftentimes feel like an attack for somebody who doesn't want to take accountability. This is true. Right, So that's my final words. It's not an attack. Okay, take accountability for some things black men and black women alike. Okay, period.
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