We do have a simple story we received via Instagram. This is from a guy and we need your He needs your advice basically, so it says, what's up A J and Tam Bam. I need your advice on my current situation. I have a girl, but I just started back dealing with my baby mom on the side. Our son is three. I've been with my girlfriend for about two years, and honestly I love her and want to marry her. My child's mom and I have always been
really good friends. The relationship just didn't work out. I can't even begin to tell you how we started back fucking, but it happened. She knows the ins and out of my current relationship because again, we were friends. The other day, my BM asked me for five dollars on top of what I already pay in child support, and I told her I didn't have it, but I did tell i'd have to see. Last night, I get a text from her saying she wants to have a sit down with
me and my girl to discuss what's going on. I never gave her the money, and now I feel like she's on some bullshit. I really want to tell my girl at this point because I can't risk her finding out from anyone else. What y'all think. I should definitely tell your girl off the rep got to Yeah, it's it's gonna. It's gonna blow up in your face regarding if you don't, So you better go ahead and save yourself and tell your girl. Go ahead, tell them the
situation because I feel like she's trying to store them anyway. Liken, you tell me, you gotta see you want to have a sit down when you don't want to get the money. Eight bro, I already seen that, So will go ahead and tell her because if you don't, she is that baby. I'm about to tell her regardless she's just waiting on the right time, for the right moment or the right money, not sick or something not being't gonna. It's about to
tell it all. If there is no text thread that exists between you and the baby mama talking about Lincoln and talking about how good the dick us deny deny brother, she ain't got mad because we're happy she got to break us up. Don't you see what she's doing. You're a nigga, tell me you're a girl that quick. I'm trying to tell the brothers to communicate what it's good and be honest so they can get that shot out
of the way. And look at me, nigga, dude, though you know, like you the bot, the reason I'm another voice, I'm trying to get saving from from being hurt in the long run. In the long run, your baby Mom's gonna tell her regardless of something happen. You might not think this is a good incident, but it's the perfect red flag incident for you to realize, Hey, all right, this is something gonna happen. Mhm. He definitely needs to just tell her and shook on her. It's just hard.
It's just her so bad to tell it. You dog it just right. When you like two people at the same time and you really gen literally like two people and you can't you can't control your feelings. She she just got that baby mama, Cuchi. That's that sounds like what's going on over there. I don't know if he liked her married, And that's probably why your baby mama playing with you now, because now you're sucking herself. Of course,
like you got a child with this person. It's not like you could just turn these feelings off and act like you don't sunk with him. Real, it's now y'all back having sex. You got that emotional connection. I doubt they're using the conden right and now, Like because you you know, pillow talk probably with your baby mama even before they started working, Like maybe y'all had conversations and
she knows your relationship because he did say that. She probably also knows that you want to marry her one day. How how would that make the baby mama feel? I want to know, Like, at what point if he told her he wanted to marry to married a girlfriend? When did they started sucking? Because if they started sucking shortly there, I just wanted that power move exactly. I'll be like, see if you can steal a guy just because you see he moving on to some ship that guys do
that too. I sat you first, say what guys do that? I ain't gonna if I see you with another man, I'm gonna let you be. I want you to be happy. Wow. Know what happened was this chicken talking? The chick who I was talking to? She came and I'll tell me. I went to Darren and Burpie's uh coming show. She came and I'm standing riverside Darren, and she came and spoke to Darren and Burpie and then walked off like midway through this chicken balls, I was like a text.
I was like, what damn like, you're just gonna speak to the Burton And there you see me righting with stop oh and this is this and this, I'm like, get the fuk out of here. You know what I'm saying. It was dark and there you know you've seen me right you was you was sucking hurt and she did that. No, no, I want we used to fun. But oh she was
with a guy at that their joint. Maybe she told her maybe she was honest about her past relationships or who she was dealing to it and your name came up and he was like, but not I ever speak to that. Look, I don't got any trouble she was talking to. You're gonna speak to those two guys, don't speak. Did she give them hugs or just hugs? Like she couldn't hug you, She couldn't give you a You could get me the piece, SI, it's COVID give you a little elbow the head U. I don't understand that. I
don't stand that. That linkage all day every day. Okay, that's weird. Maybe she know the nigga she went and maybe she know he retarded, so maybe she knew like she couldn't even play with him like that, Like maybe he knew at y'all fucking boy and she can't even acknowledge you in that way to appease him. That's that could be what it is. Or maybe y'all ended foul and she don't funk with you no more. So she made did you go first? Yeah, because you say you
cut people off with no explanation. She was doing too much. She's doing too much? Who did that mean? She was just being extra extra with everything. She was a security guard at the prison. She used to pull up to your house with a flash, like, nigga, I know you went near when she was bringing in Contrabad. What you mean you certain people might say some stuff that throw red flags at you, and you'd be like, man, this is mother might be a little weird to throw it
off or something like that. Then she might do something that add on to that red flag. You just see, you know what I'm saying. It was kind of like that. It was kind of like that. I think anybody who want to work in the prison is a weirdo, Like, why you want to be in jail with these niggas all day? Mamma works in the jail. I do not listen,
because you'll be a jail too. Motherfucker's work like twelve hour ships, Like you're fucking jail too, laughing the heart being jail all day with these fucking random asks niggas Like, no, I can't my mother help them? Your mama, I don't know she works in jail. Well, she doesn't work in one jail. She goes to different jails and helps them with drug abuse. Okay, that's different though I'm talking about CEOs.
I'm not talking about like people trying to help, like CEOs ain't trying to know, like they're in their power tripping off the inmates and ship like that, like y'all want to control ship and y'all regular life and y'all getting off when you're grown as fucking men and women in prison and y'all in jail with them because you don't have no weapon. Y'all just in jail with them until you're getting paid to be there. No, that's the difference.
How much money these motherfucker's ain't getting paying no bunch of money to be up in the prison with the niggers. That's why they're be in there doing I llegal ship because they salary in enough, kind of like teachers for
