Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. All right, y'all be back, Let's get into this dumb bitch story right quick, okay, And it's not the shame dumb bitches, right.
It's because we've all been yes, a few. Honestly, I still I still go back to her every nowaday, and I'm still for her. What's your story? That sounded like, okay, you're on the couch. How did that make you? So? My ex was my ex. We were together from my senior year of high school up until about probably about a year ago, so we kind of spent our whole adult lodge growing together. So you know, we went through some ship So I dealt with like, you know, other girls.
He dealt with, you know, me having to show him stop playing with me, some other guys and all of that. But I when I moved to l A, there was about a year and a half into two years that he was not in LA with me, and we like we were broken up, but it was like not a real breakup. It was still like very toxical here. It's like you're not supposed to be doing this, You're not supposed to be doing that, but realistically we're across the country,
so we're both doing a lot of shit. And I said to him, like, you know, I want to date other people. This just doesn't make any sense. You're not coming here. I used to always feel like I'm tired of waiting on you. You always got some shit. I gotta wait on you to figure out and like, get get me together, come to la, like whatever. So we're doing that, that whole runaround thing and all that. And I was at work one day. I was on the tour bus twenty eighteen. My cousin called me, and she
don't really like call me. This is like one of my cousins, so like we were all like all of my cousins are close. I'm not particularly close with this cousin anymore. Y'all will hear why. But she had called me, and she called me a couple of times, so I'm thinking something's wrong. So I'm in the middle of my tour. But so I take my phone out and I text her. When I text her, she just reads it. I'm like, hey,
I'm at work. Good she didn't. So she calls again and I'm like, okay, she's calling me, and I just said he had that work. She like, you know, she know what I do for work, so it must be something really wrong. Mind y'all. I'm on a tour so they're like twenty five people on my tour bus. No, actually we were. We had just wrapped the tour. I was loading the new tour bus, but there were people
on the bus. So as the people on the bus, it's like, you know, like if you am seeing an event and y'all not about to start yet, you said I could keep the crowd going. So I'm talking to me on the phone where y'all from all that stuff. So she calls me and she's like, bitch, such and such got her best friend pregnant. And I was like what And she was like, she's pregnant and he's trying to have her not he's trying to have it where she doesn't keep the baby. He don't plan on telling you.
I'm just calling you because I wanted you to know. And I'm like, like when I saved my whole like I never fucked the feeling like that in my life, Like my whole life just dropped to the bottom of my feet. I was like, what the like I couldn't even like, like, I'm like, this has to be a joke, Like there's no a bit a bit is pregnant, but on top of a bitch being pregnant, it's like bro like you know the you know, the connection between the two of us, Like she not my friend, but like
you know my cousin. Here were people that like you know, you've seen, you've been around. My first question though, was, well, why am I just getting a call down because she's pregnant, y'all upset that he don't want her to have a baby, Like the didn't call me when they started sucking each other. Oh I didn't know. I didn't this. I didn't that she told me that. You know, they were just like talking. It was nothing whatever whatever. So now I'm like heed it.
Everybody getting it. So I'm like but when I say bawling crying, I mean like I couldn't even talk, like my job. They just saw me into the phone and then I just like broke down. They thought somebody died, so they took me off the tour bus. They got another tour guy to come and replace me. They're trying to calm me down, and I feel like a dumb ass bitch because I'm like, I can't say to my job, like you fend had a baby on me. He's like, girl, what go to to work? You got bills to pay?
But like I couldn't get myself together, Like I literally couldn't get myself together. I'm calling his mom. I'm cussing her out, like you fucking knew the whole time you didn't call me. I'm calling him. He's like into the phone. When I finally get him on the phone, I'm like, so she's pregnant. He was like what. I was like, so she's pregnant, Like, don't fucking play with me? And he was like, who called you? She called you? And I'm like that's your response, Like right, why? Like why
am I? First of all? Why am I finding out the way that I found out? And then who called me?
Like the fuck like they only care about who told? They mad at the bit you told, not their action, right Yo?
When I say I was going off, I was going off, y'all. I freaked the fuck out. I screenshot at her Instagram. I posted her I didn't look. I told my cousin to send me her number, and my cousin at this point Shoann redeem herself. So she sends me the number. I ain't call her yet, though I posted her because I wanted her to know that I knew, and I wanted her to know in a very big way. And I regret so much of this because I'm like, bro,
that man chose her. They done with that girl, he knew, Like, you know, when you fucking somebody without a content on what you're doing, you know you making that decision. That girl ain't owe me nothing. He did right, But I posted her. I tagged her like, y'all, go go send her some love. She's expected to be, baby, and like, I just did the most and I'm just like, I was just so fucking angry at everybody. All of that to say, I went through hell. Like it was hell, y'all.
He ended up sleeping with her again, trying to control the situation. And I'm on the tour bus again. She sends me screenshots and him talking about he on his way over.
And I see that's when the bitch become a problem, because why oh no.
She she She definitely was. She knew what she was writing. But yeah, I said all that to say, y'all, I went back to him. What was the canalyst that ended? It Actually nothing to do with the baby. The girl, the beautiful baby boy is here and like a few years old now love him to death. I mean me and her ain't friends, but like I don't even think about her, like life has moved on. It was just like personally, like I felt like I was growing and like wanting him to do more. And just one day
I just woke up. My mom got sick. We found out my mom was bad on the stage for a cancer. She's good now, But when my mom got sick and I was going through that process with her of just like her fighting for her life, it just really woke me up, Like, Bro, what are you doing all this for? Like you spend so much time away from your family, from your loved ones, like for this career thing and all that, but like what is this really for? Like are you really going hard? Because you really do spend
a lot of time away. And I just woke up and was just like I'm not doing everything I need to be doing. And I don't feel like the man in my life is doing that for himself either. And I don't think that us being together is going to help that. I think that I'm a crutch for him and I need to be inspired every day, like I need a man that's going to push me. I need a man that wouldn't have been okay with a lot of things that I was settling for, and it was.
And I love him to death. I think he's going to be a great husband for somebody once he realizes his own potential. But again, I think I realized that I was back in that space of waiting for him to figure it out, and I didn't do it no more. I just couldn't do it no more. And then once I decided to express that, it turned into disrespect and all this other stuff. So then I, oh, yeah, I really gotta get up out of here now. Yeah, I feel you.
That's a lot of our story, life changing things, pushing it into perspective.