Keep That in 2022

y'all can see us how you feel. I'm good. We did our show ninety nine episodes in a fucking row and no break, and we have people messaging us like why y'all have recording this week, Like bitch, we need time off like everybody else were having like breaks in between seasons. We didn't get that. So now here we are and hopefully we'll do video for you guys going forward. How was your weekend? Good? Christmas? Just past? Uh? I didn't do ship on Christmas but sleep and didn't feel

like Christmas for real? Did you get everybody said that this Christmas wasn't Christmas thing. It wasn't. This is the least most Christmas feeling I think I've ever had. But all it is, you know what my Christmas wasn't. I didn't anticipate it being very Christmas Eve because my family was all scared about, but my mom surprised me. Drove up to Charlotte, and me and my mom hung out. It was so cool when she told me she was pulling up like I literally cried in the bathroom level.

I shared a thug to my nigger cry. And then we, um, we just watched. We watched Best Man. Y'all. If y'all haven't seen it, y'all need to go watch The Best Man on Peacock. Yeah, Peacock watch Best Man. It was really good. It's a little cheesy couple of Tyler Perry moments, but for the most of our on the Tyler Perry Producer, you know how, not necessarily bad weeks, but very super lighthearted, like probably not realistic moments. But for the most part,

it was really good. And it's a good story about friendship and relationships and things like that. So we watched that, and then um, I took her out to look at like I found online, like a couple of houses in Charlotte that you could go the lights and one of them had like the light set to a radio station, So you go to the radio station and the light show happened. So that was fun. And her road around and did that, listen to music and just talk. That

was cool. Girl. Wedn't even had traditional Christmas dinner. We had fishing, shrunk fry fish. But you know what nobody wants. If you have traditional Thanksgiving, you don't want traditional kursmals. We didn't sea food for Thanksgiving this year as well. Okay, y'all didn't have no I made a macaroni. That's about it. But I'm sicker than nigga food. Sorry, Yeah, what's the nick? What's the nigga food? You know, knack bones, pigtails, just

all the crazy ass. You don't have no pigtails. Yeah, you have this whole stupid I don't know if you'll know what that is. That's the country ship where you have like neck bones, pigtails, oxtail, all of that in one pot. I can't do it. I haven't had porking nigga food. I said that, But other than that, I don't do much This weekend for real, man, I relaxed a lot. That's good. Getting ready for today relaxed. Yeah, hud episode, how you feel, I don't know. I don't know.

We got a lot a lot more episodes ahead of us, But I'm excited. I'm happy to me too. That's a big accomplishment because most podcasts, from what I read the statistics is they don't make it past seven episodes, and most new podcasts get like, you know, five hundred downloads an episode. I'm saying we had a little help. So what bit we had they can't get mad at the cheat code, and we also had a little contract we had to bring ask the work. But let's get into

stupid internet news. Uh, Tory Lanes case and trial. Have you even fallen at all? You know? I watched a little bit, but like I said in our last episode, I'm over it. You know, I was kind of over it by the time they were going to court. You know,

all of it was sad to me. You know, Mike says something like I saw on like shave Room or something where Meg was like she wished she would have just died, and that was sad to see that she was feeling, like because she was getting a lot of tacks from the public just because she came out and

spoke against him. So initially, Mega Stallion, she wasn't trying to come out and say anything, but Tory Lanes and his publicists like they were feeding the blogs on information, so that made her have to come out and say what actually happened. And she said he shot her. And people are mad because, you know, in their minds, she lied because just because she lied about sucking him, whose business is that? Right? Why does she have to tell Gail the truth? Is that Gail's business to even as

it wasn't. But I feel like she should have just been very honest about the whole situation from the beginning. Why why because about having sex, about everything involved. If you're gonna go on an interview with Gail Gail Key like, you had to know that something the truth was going to come out in this situation. But I feel like

people have um conflated to two. So, yes, she did lie about having any type of sexual relation when I have sex with the she lied about it, right, But how does that like, uh like negate the fact that he actually shot at her? She said, if I don't come and don't count, period, because that's the rule, that's the rule. But she said, you know she lied because she knew her friend liked them. She knew Kelsey Kelsey Harris, which was her best friend. She knew that he had

she had a crush on Tory Lanes. I don't know whether not they were intimate, and I don't believe that I ever came out. But the narrative the defense attorney was sticking with is that this is a man who was working with two home girls and she got ugly when they found out. Right, But um Mega Stallion really didn't change her story about him saying Dan's bitch and shooting at her feet. I witnessed accounts said that, um

he saw some flash come from a woman. He did say that, right, So that's another thing the defense is trying to say, Okay, well, her friend possibly shot her. But on top of that, the the eyewitness said that he saw the little man his exact words, start shooting erratically. Now the blogs took the ship to the internet and said, oh, he was shooting in the air, but the actual witness said he was shooting erratically and then the woman fell to the ground. I'm over it. I'm really over the

whole thing. I mean, he's about to do something, He's in jail now right at Yeah, he went to jail. I wondered how long he's gonna sit there. So he's facing up the twenty two years and nine months. They say, Dawn, you know what, like I hate any violence against a black woman any time, obviously, or any black man too. I just feel bad for everybody. I feel bad for him because he's also talented individual. Whole life is about

to be change changed completely. And then I feel bad for her because she had a very traumatic like she lost her now she's ultimately lost her best friend. That girl was her best friend. And listen, y'all, I did a podcast called Tequila Talk and I said some things about bees and experience I had is in college and let me tell y'all. It went the world star and they drugged my ass over the coals on World. Sorry, y'all,

they drugged my ass about my life. This is my experience where y'all so mad if you said something bad about me. Starship, there were somebody talking about I don't love myself. Yeah, because I kept talking to the person and that was calling me dude. That was a joke. We were friends, like it was a joke between us. It wasn't like the whole campus. I told the world, Okay, so get over it. So I just imagined that was just a little small group of people who was breaking

me over the colds. And I was like, like, for like two minutes, I was like feeling some type of thing. Yeah, you can't read. But then but then I got over it. I remember I was a bad bitch and fuck them, right, But imagine having this amount of people discussing your life and having opinion about you and her full opinions about

you without knowing the full truth everything. Because as far as I'm concern, all of them kind of recanted what they initially told detectives and what initially was being reported. All of them had a whole different story, especially Kelsey, and one of the things she told of the textis detectives is that Tory Lane is like right after offered

both of them a million dollars to not talk. And five minutes after the shooting, Kelsey sent a text message to um Megan Stallion's um bodyguard and said, Harry Tory just stopped shot Meg nine on one and then she told, you know, in front of the court, she was like, I don't know why I sent that girl exactly now. Even though she had immunity right so she could tell whatever, whatever you know, happened in court, she still didn't say

that she shot him. She could have said that and he could have probably walked, but she still, you know, stood with the fact that she didn't shoot her. Meg didn't shoot her self. She's the only person who's seen who didn't have access to a weapon who then shot her. So I'm confused as to why people in the public are dragging her, and it just feels like, you know, and I'm gonna wrap this up in a second, but I just want people to to this could be your mom,

your sister, your daughter. Just because you don't know Mega Stallion directly and she's not related to you, that doesn't mean like your family, the women you love or exempt from this type of ship. Everybody's you know, everybody can be pimped out and nobody is exempted from this pimping. So I don't know, and that's why, Yeah, I feel my heart goes out to her, and I hope I'm glad that gentleman party is standing by her side, and

I hope that is very little for her. They even try to drag party for coming out and say, you know, if something happened to black women, he's glad, like people can come out and speak to you. Dad. They tried to say he was abusing cash Doll. Cash Doll even came and said, like, why y'all keep saying that that's a lie. So this is the way the internet creates narratives. Can we leave like some in the Internet. In a little bit, we're gonna get into that, into that these

random as trolls. Um So, I saw on the Shade Room that Brittany Renter said that she was she didn't A lot of us have regretted. I saw that. Yeah, you know I could. I could identify with some of that. Honestly, there's people for my past. Yeah, I'm sorry to this man. I do not know this man, girl, I got fuck you money for anybody like we really like should get real stupid. I might just have to get rid of a few people, Okaytening she j I'm not people come

up missing every day, be and I mean that. But you know you're implicating yourself right now, So just don't tell people that this is for entertainment purposes only until somebody then you and jail in the sal you're gonna tell, I ain't telling. I don't know if everybody shut the funk up. They don't have a case, but they can talk too much, you know how to go all right? Next? Oh it's like I don't want no, I don't know. Gunna said he did not snitch you. Okay, right right?

You right? Anybody back to Britney. Yeah. I remember getting dragged a little bit on one of the first podcast outside I show that we did together. I won't call any names, but I would think they're supposed to be like our sister on the same network. But it was coming for me because I said at home and doesn't heal?

It doesn't. So when you going through bullshit and you're using sex as an outlet, you're gonna feel even more shitty because you probably want a little bit more intimacy from a man as opposed to just getting smashed and dash. So now she's older, she has a child now, and now she's reconsidering some of her earlier activity, and she

was somebody online like with the attitude. I don't get like sex just whatever, but it's definitely an exchange of some real fucking energy and that just shows her broth as a woman. You know, there's a lot of women that cannot dotified with that. And that doesn't mean that they had sex with a ton of people. It could be two people that you know. So I get it, you know, I mean, but she also doing like side chick chicken sandwich commercials Get your bag though, oh for Crystals,

Charlot man ship get the bag. I'm not man. That might as well make it work for you, right, No, you do not have Britney ray not seeing that it's the side chicken sandwich for Crystal. But I know about the side chick chicken sandwich, but I didn't know if she was like endorsing it. She's in the commercial. She looks. Yeah. I like Brittany Rayner as far as I'm concerned. Her and Maria carry are the same peop who play who. I don't get it. They look alike, do they not?

We're cars fifty years old and her and Brittany Rayner look alike. All right, So shout out to Britney Wrinter, get the chicken sandwich. They come to South Carolina. All right. Let's talk about suki Ana. Did you see um? Suki Ana said that she makes dinner she cooks for women's husbands on Sundays. Yes, I don't know what. Maybe she can't have to be funny. I think she really want to cook that nig chicken sandwich. Yeah, vegan cauliflowers. Oh yeah, a real quick like. Yeah, I do vegan chicken like

you give your one real meat. I got some cauliflower chicken for you. Sukihana is funny as hell. Man, I ain't cooking for the other body, nobody else, wife, That's not my job. Excuse me. I'm not cooking for somebody else in us, and that's not my job. But why just the husband? Can I get a meal, Suki? Because you want to side a bit to cook for you? Why not? If you I'm not even from the side page. You don't know what she's trying to put in your damn you're just the side bag you're gonna eat from.

Why she ain't trying to be my sidevage? She tried, She just cooking. I'm just trying to see if I can get a plate. I'm definitely not even from the side baitch, And technically, to me, it's not the sidebitch's job to be cooking. This is how should get sucked up? Why are you cooking for somebody else husband? She technically didn't say she was interested to be inside. She said that was just her for her husband. She did say she don't get it. I need to see the full

episode to understand what the conversation was even about. I don't get it. She looked like she could cook now still, na, dude, be fucking cooking. You haven't seen some of her video. Yeah, she definitely be cooking. She got kids, just kids, chicken fingures, mystery beat McDonald's mystery Meat. No, I like to be hunter, but yeah, I feel like you know bitches or the other woman. We had a whole episode on mrs what's the mistress? What's the side? Bitch? Like everybody got a job,

Like that's your wife's job to cook for you? Like I'm fun, okay, come hang side, but just don't cook meals, not for somebody else's husband. They just go to eat, Yes, stick me out to dinner. What the funk? I look like cooking for you man? That's what your wife for? No, I get it, I get what you're saying. I'm just trying to get a free shame. But okay, So now

Christmas is up. Now we're going into the new year, all right, So I want to get into uh, some things we want to leave in two Like, what's some things you want to leave in I can list a few things, okay, So we'll talk about that when we get right back from miss break. So I made a list the things that I want to get rid of leaving, right, Yeah, just leave that ship and never look back. Like the girl walking up the steps with a little bag. I'm

sick as ship. We were walking up to the steps since two thousand four, yeah, because you know what got resolving, all right. So one of the things that I definitely want to get rid of or leaving is text messages from businesses and phone calls from businesses fashion over she and texting me in the middle of night, be flying like even though I love these, you know, some of these companies and I don't really shop at she and

I'm fashing over no more. I used to run it up with them, but not the halls used to get like the I used to run the bag up and fashion over back and like two thousand third, about three hundred dollars worth of ship, only a hundred dollars worth of that ship. And said half back or just give it away. I would always end up giving you too much to send the bad But I hate that they text me all the time. I might be thinking, it's a nigga and it's Fashion Over, right, I get Mommy,

I ain't got no nigga. You know what I'm saying. You got them? Why is Fashion over with text me at two in the morning. I don't know. They gotta make sure you know about the deals and see I'll be wanting to unsubscribe to a lot of them things, and then I just don't because I'm like, I don't want to miss a deal. I don't subscribe to Fashion over, but it's a couple other companies like yummy here, like when Black Friday, bitch, let me see what they got going on? Just go look at it, right, You know,

I really opt out. I always intend to opt out a lot of ship but then I just feel like they keep coming back. I don't know, I even did I put my phone number like on the website, you know, so you can opt out of telemarketing telemarketers. And I feel like ever since then, I get more random ass text messages about weight law said like who the fun Sometimes you don't even know what they're calling about because I hang up on them or I start talking to them.

I started ascelling them for money, Like can I send you all my phone bill? Because obviously that's y'all ship, this ain't my phone no more? Do I want to donate to Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Department? Fun the police? Thank you? All right? So one thing on my list I want to leave in the Kardashians, all of them. Uh maybe not like uh black China little girl, but the rest of them, the rest of them just gonna stay. In twenty two, I was so sick of him. I unfollowed

Kim Kardashian like last year. I never followed any of the other ones. But I don't know. Kim Kardashian has done a lot of different things as far as legal in legal terms for black people. Okay, So it wasn't last year that unfollowed Kim Kardashian. It was actually this year when she did that UM Make America Great photo shoot? Did you see that she had like the blonde blonde here And we actually talked about it on one of the previous episodes. UM what they call it? The Cheeto girl?

Thing where the little white girls are going back to being white and they don't want to act black anymore. And I feel like the Kardashian family really infiltrated black black America period. You know what I'm saying. I'm you know, white people assisted as well, but uh, I'm sick of him at this point. And now you whitewashed. You're basically telling us you're going back. You have had gone here for the whole year. So that's a statement as far as unclecerned. So we can leave that ass You know it,

don't make me no difference. They can they wherever they are. One. Another thing I want to leave in is the vibes. Everything is not a vibe. Oh it's a vibe. Your vibe. She's a vibe he's got. This is low vibrational. This is high vibrational. Let's leave the vibes. We can lead them a low vibrational plates though nam wasn't that wrong with that girl plated to burgers on one plate? Wasn't Maybe she didn't eat, maybe she wasn't gonna maybe she was saving one for later. We don't know what she

was doing with her plate. Mind your plate business. You need to focus on your plate. Leave those vibrations. What was low vibrational was how she attacked her about what she was eating. That was low. Situations were low vibrational. I see where she was trying to go with him. Yeah, but let people eat what they want. I trying to nick nickpick nick nickpick with people's plates. But I do be watching. I do. I can't help it. I mind

my plate, my my plate business. But just the vibes, because everything is not a vibe, and everything is not everybody is not a vibe. I get tired of hear and say, I agree, um, COVID nineteen. I would like to leave COVID nineteen. It's probably not going anywhere. Uh uh. But I feel like this winter is kind of ramped up. See okay, it seems like I saw somebody posts that they had the flu and it was way worse than

COVID could ever be. Could it be that a lot of people had the food before, like because I was told on season because I read that the PCR testing um couldn't differentiate between the flu and COVID nineteen. So who's to say a lot of people Because annually a lot of people do die from the flu. So I don't know what we were dealing with, but I would like to leave COVID nineteen. I'm scared of that ship.

Yeah you never heard it, did it? Bitch? I be beefed up on all these damn vitamins, beefing up vinamins? Would you want coming outside like that? I was in the streets, I'd be all side now, I'd be real careful. How do you careful from breathing? I drank tease, you know. I drink a lot of teased with garlic and honey, just stuff to keep mucus down in your body. And I started taking um. It's like a it's like a herbal laxative kind of but it's natural, and it keeps

your gut clean. That's where most diseases start at. So as long as you, you know, keep your your stomach good, you'll be able to talk about I don't want to talk about y'all give me so much. I don't even want to hear it. I tell you to go tell like goddamn story. I thought I was in a safe place. We are never safe. Just let's just let's be clear. You're gonna have to deal duy, you're not all right. Let me tell you another thing. I want to leave

um because I land your stitches like the biggest. My niece came to the house this Christmas with so snuff lufficus. I hate that ship. It is not flattering to me. Some people do the bottom roll too, Yeah, I hate it. I like, don't get me wrong, I like a false lash. Don't it's cute? But when it looked like two little baby birds said, don't your motherfucker face? I cannot seeing that. When the wind blowing into bitch face about the fall backwards, Yeah,

I can't do that. I hate that. Who made that cute? I've been wearing lashes for a long time and I asked my home girl out of that, I said, who was the first person you know who was wearing lashes? I came to college wearing lashes. Let me tell you who was the first person I saw wearing lashes. And this was a long time ago because and we were in college. It was Tina from the shout out to Tina New York Tina, and I was like just laughing so hard at her for putting lashes on her face.

I was like, what are you doing? A bit? You were boy with lashes? Why are you putting that on your face. We laid for the club like this is going on something, and I just thought it was the dumbest ship ever. Nah, I just you know, a little young country girl, and I just thought it was just outrageous to add lashes and the like. Maybe I didn't start putting all lashes till two thousand sixty, really, which

I came to school with long blonde weaves. Remember in two thousand and two, everybody, me and my home girl who came to school together, and my roommate at school, she was like, if you were in New York, people would laugh at you walking down the shoot that long ass bitch. By the second semester she had a chance Chinese bang, and damn, they're thirty inches down her back. This is litch. I don't know what you're talking about. Now.

I probably never go back to wearing blonde hair like that, but you know, once I started wearing black, it's more regal and nice looking, you know. Yeah, I just don't think those lashes will catch for me. And not shaming anybody that does like that, that's y'all, but I hate it and I don't want you to do it next year. Stop that ship get somebody else to do it. Zeus Network.

I would like to leave Zeus Network along with their whole sweet and that's including Crazy and Love, Christian Rock and U Blue Face, Batty's Southeast West North whichever one, and the Bobby I Love you put her per Yes. I want them to like you feel like it's TV. It's trash TV. I'm sorry. I know we talked on this podcast, but not that type of ship. I don't. I think we represent for women, just regular women pretty well.

That damn Showman, all of shows. It's just just trash. Yeah, a lot of y'all being paid to make us look like that this is representation. But you know what, that's a part of real culture, right, that's part of our that's that's a small facet of our culture. You know, there's like it's multi faceting. There's all different types of black people and that's a part of it. But do you think the positive parts get the same amount of publicity?

Not always? Not always low key like then it's kind of like when I watched like I like it until I'm done and they're like, turn it off, grandmama watching. So yeah, zoos networks give people like these black people get an opportunity, they wouldn't be making money, you know, and it's for all this month. You don't have to tune in. Where's integrity? Though? Is that you don't like the word integrity. I don't mind the commitment. I don't

mind the word integrity. I understand. I try to operate with integrity, but I just don't feel like they don't have integrity because they participate on these shows. If you have to, as a woman, you gotta get up and fistfight another woman to get onto a show. Well, they didn't have to fist fight to get on the show. They were fighting on the girl. They were fistfighting at

the goddamn interviews for the show. Really, yes, Tommy, Tommy was one of the judges, Like you know, when they're doing like the interviews to see who they're gonna bring on. She was fighting bitches like it's like ding ding ding. No man, a lot of these women got children, Like this is what y'all want? Like the Internet is fucking ink. It's not a pencil. You can't delete none of this ship. Yeah, I know I'm not. I think I'll never be a

state senator because of that blue booty video that girl. Whatever? What was the girl? I forgot what state she's from. But remember there was a politician working on the beach. A hand may not be over for me. All right, what do I want to get rid of? Grand Rising? Don't text me grand Ride? You love that? What is saying Grand Rising? I say, rich White Rising girl, grand Ridge Rising? What is that? It's some hoteps ship. So Grand Rising is more like, you know, wake up and

conquer today, or like rising shine. Some may say that same good morning is like a curse. It's in the Bible. Why because they said it says something like, um, if you say good morning or you yell good morning to your neighbor, they may take offense to it because they may feel like it's a curse. I don't know, I don't know. It says that in the Bible. Believe aboty good morning, and they feel like it's a curse. A lot of people don't even like mornings. You know what

I'm saying. That's mean it's morning, like they say, you gotta be happy your motherfucking days woke up today, Grant actually Grand Rising? Um. It's also more more associated with the penis, like waking up with a woody in the morning, swear to God up not y'all when I say some ship, just go look at that before you Yes, So why

they send it to me? I ain't got noding. So you remember when we had a dick doc on TikTok on a matter of fact, No, we had a urologist on um doctor Millhouse, and she said one of the earlier early songs lines of e d is like a man waking up without the morning. Would you know if it's happening you know too many times, you might have a long time. They did be hard every morning when

they were it's supposed to be like that's normal. So if you're waking up in the morning with a lot of softies like, that's like one of the easiest early signs for erectile dysfunction. So when somebody says grand rising, uh, it's also associated with Yes, it's associated with the male foul. Everybody ain't having a grand rising. But I still I would leave the the term in the hard dicks can go to two period. The first thing from here and

beyond humbling black women. Why it just feels like everybody just wants us to be like just getting your place. I don't want to be humble anymore. I want to act like I'm the ship, because you know I'm the ship, and that's why you feel like I need to be humbled. I'm here for that one. So I would like to leave humbling black women and Papio ship period. Yeah, whatever it is, celebrate it, celebrate yourself in whatever it is. I'm here for that one. Um. Okay, So people are

gonna be mad at me poorly done bbls. If you're gonna get a BBL, go to someone good, save the money and get a good one. I'm not saying don't do your BBL because if you want to do something to your body, by all means, I'm here for it. But don't pay two thousand dollars and go into some foreign country and only paying two thousand dollars. I don't know how much it, but you know, paying a small amount and then you come back looking like a fucking ant and then doctors here don't want to touch it.

The same thing with the teeth, Yeah, bitch, that's on my list. Teeth it ain't on my list, but I'm putting on my list, Like, why not take care of your natural teeth? No, some people need their mother. But I've got to get the right side. You can't be getting the extra bug right. And they go out the country to get the veneers and they can't get anybody to fix them here if they you know, back them or whatever. So yeah, with the bb that cheap version

stopped doing that. This is your body, and yeah, buds that matched your body like how somebody some buds ain't meant to be Like somebody's ain't meant to him like a big super fatty, you know, because your thighs be so small. You know, it just looks unproportional. It looks bad. Maybe they should go to women doctors because maybe a woman can understand like how the body is supposed to look naturally, as opposed to going to a man and you just throw a dunk on everybody. I seem like

there's always a man man doing the work. I feel like a lot of them doctors need to go to jail, locked up. Why do you tell them no? Right, just like money, you can't tell everybody. Yeah, every that ass does not belong. If the ass was for that person's body, they would have been born with it. A lot of people walk around here looking like SpongeBob SquarePants. Okay, they'll be trying to be too damn nice. That's what it is, because you can get like a nice little frame on you.

It's called like a skinny bbla bl Yeah, that's would look nice. And I just wanted to look like, you know, yeah is it hers? Is not? It looked good? You know? Yeah? Yeah. I think some people just throw that ass and it's just sitting in between the leg and the back and it just looks crazy. All right, Uh, this is for my maybe for me a little bit high fruit toast corn served, you know what. I want to leave that ship two for all black people because we literally died

in sweets in these streets. Okay, facts more people dying from sugar than any fucking or killing each other. Sugar sugar killing more people. You're right about that. I want to leave that because now the one thing I would say, one take away from the bomb administration is that he made it to where they had to put certain things on food labels, one being um, you know, make ingredients in there, and then like the bioengineered have you have

you been seen that on your packages? They're just a lot of ship I stopped eating like I don't buy no Callogg's, uh serial because all of us says bioengineered ingredients on it. You know what I really do, now that I think about it, it's not very much food that I eat that doesn't come already prepared from restaurants. Shame a restaurant or from the grocery store a restaurant. I don't really it's so bad, like I need stock in door dash bitch, because that's another thing I'm leaving. Yeah,

I'm gonna start actually cooking again. I used to cook so much when I was with any, but then it's like after I got single, I just stopped. You know, No, I rather cook because I know what happened to it. Like you don't know what the people be doing in these restaurants, even they know that's what you gotta pray over your food. What the hell prayer gonna do? I mean, you don't know what happened to that food before I

got in the package. I don't eat well. I mean, aside from like seafood, I don't eat like meats and stuff. I don't even like like package things. I don't like like juice packets. But I mean I can't see the bread. You don't know what happened to them grains before somebody could before you just got prayers and so that's okay, h what next one for me? Thinking the zodiac is absolute, absolute, period, I'm a cancer, but it's not. Yes, it's not absolute,

it's not absolutely. Nobody is because we have the same side. We're exactly alike, not exactly like. But you also have to know the person's rising and moon signed to get a pretty good calculate birth date, to get a pretty good calculation of what type of person you are. You a fucking cancer, bitch. I'm a cancer, but I know I'm not an absolute cancer. And I know the next kidcer is not absolutely I don't know. That's what I'm saying.

They're not nobody's. You can't line us all up that are born in the same month and be like, these people are exactly the same. I know for a fact. It's fuck you, Aquarious and it's period. Okay, Now you might you might be blocking your blessing. It might be an Aquarius that's gonna love the funk out of ut his his zodiac and he's like, yes, that's really had to produise the ship to me, girl, because I have been terrorized by goddamn Aquarius. Okay, that was one person, Okay,

and I feel like that's that's what they are. Ye period, Let's leave that in. Let's leave that because everybody's different. I don't know. I don't know. I feel like knowing someone Zodiac it's a okay, you can't hold them to that, but it gives you a nice little starting point, it does. Okay, that's fair. But I just said absolutely. I didn't say, like, you know, like nothing is true because I know I'm a cry baby, I'm sensitive and I'm loving all those

things that are cancer. I do align with that, but I'm not absolutely because I also can be a bitch and I can be like not so loving time at times, but that's cancer. Okay. Uh, let me see. Can we leave these petty asks conversations and who pays for what? Can we can we leave that? Is that a possibility? I mean every podcast clip you pretty much see online when it's like men and women, that's what they're talking about Black men and women. That's like the topic of discussion.

I'm trying to figure out why whatever works for you and your relationship. That's how I feel like whatever works for y'all is dynamic of what the world says how it should be, right. I just don't know why people like I guess I don't know. Men just feel like they've been kicking out when the average didn't feel abused

by women. I feel like men are feeling like bitter about relationships with women these days, and they feel like they're doing more than they should, which is crazy because I feel like men should feel like they want to be provided, but I don't feel like they feel that way anymore. I might be wrong. I think um ego, a healthy ego for a man would probably be one that's fed, he had taken care of the people he loves.

That's how he feels like a man, right. But there's a lot of men again, they may feel some type of way. Maybe they had been taken advantage of by bad women in the past, and now it's like, funk all your wholes. And we know a lot of these stories come from high school. Ain't even nothing valid that happened to them. Y'all are running through women, y'all whole fucking life, you know what I'm saying. But yeah, I feel like I feel like men like, why why don't you.

Why would you not want to take care of the woman you say you love? Why would you not want to aspire to one day completely take care of your family. Nobody's asking you to have all the ship together today, but that should be your goal. You're in goal, I would think, right, I would, I would agree there. But what if you're with a woman who makes considerably more than you, because I mean, we do scream the quality a lot. We we make oftentimes more money than in

some instances. Should it be a situation where he's taking care of everything even though you make more money. I don't think. Um, in order for a man to provide provisions, he has to make all the money, but you have to contribute. I feel like these niggas want to be bad bitches. Sorry if you feel some type of way about me saying that, but they want to be taken

care of. They want to be taken care of. And at what point, Like most little boys they grow up, most little black boys, because men and women, a lot of us grow up in single parent homes. It is usually just Mama there, right, So a lot of little boys they grow up like can't wait to get to the bags so they can take care of their mama because they never saw daddy do it. So now you have a woman, you have children, you have these women, you've created baby mama's out of Do you want your

son now to get old enough to take care of her? Like? What are you talking about? You will take care of your mom, but you won't take care of me. That's a problem. It is. So I don't know. I wish we could leave those conversations. Is some fucking poor shit. Just cut it out, alright, you know, then say that.

I think it's more so about just reflecting and then trying to do better, not putting women down for just having to do because y'all talk to you about us in the projects and now you talk to it about us in the boardroom. Which one you want? Fun your degree? I don't. I don't want other ethnicities like Africans like they give a funk about your degree. Their mom and the daddy, your husband, they give a funk about that degree. But in America and men don't. That's weird. I don't know.

We need a man. I don't want to talk about that alright. So one thing I definitely want to leave in two, But I don't know if we can leave it fitting all overdose m sitting all overdoses rampant in our communion. It's taking so many good people out last year and I just excuse me, last last month, not last year, last month, like I keep narcan with me just because And I don't even like participate any drugs

that would need it. I ain't really. Yeah, but they sprinkling the ship on the weed, That's what I'm hearing. But why would they put it on the weed? Where is the weed coming from? Let's think, let's talk about that. Where is the weed coming from a lot of the times,

where does it come from? Before Cali? I don't know, Mexico a lot of times, Mexico, Yes, a lot of coming a lot of a lot of drugs coming through Mexico through you know, coming from Yeah, okay, and if we know that, and calling me a conspiracy theorist, whatever it is, Okay. They want to control the population, what better way, and to take the recreational thing in mind, you this didn't start happening until they started legalizing weed

every place. Now, so you you don't know if they're picking it up in the in the cocaine of people stiff in cold or it definitely is now on a marijuana. So if you don't know where your supply is coming from exactly, like if we have where you come from, but how you don't know where they get it from. I do, I hear that grower. I know exactly where it's something from. But um, I haven't seen anybody die from that. But in that case, I do have narcin

in my purse just in case. But I just feel like, you know what I mean, these parties and people are like, you know, doing whatever they're doing, and I just want to be able to help an event that that happened. You know, did you see it was a post online? But it was a police officer. She actually just touched Yeah, I don't even gotta use it. You could just touch it somewhere and really die. I don't understand crazy. I don't understand, like, why would y'all create something like that.

That's how you know NIGGAS is not handling fit now. NIGGAS is not out here messing with ship that you're just touching. You can die. That's not our thing. So who's putting it out here like that? I watched that? You think remember the series? Uh oz art m h M it ain't us, that's not our thing, that's not our dermo. I don't know what y'all. You gotta be a motherfucker chemist, you know, to try to even mix with that ship and it has met suit ship like that matter Ni is just banging up and you know,

shoop it out there. I don't know. I don't know. Let's leave that in yep uh, that's my truth. I want to leave my truth. You wanna lie? N I feel like a lot of times people be lying when they'd be like, that's my that's my truth. Like just because that's your truth, that doesn't mean it's the truth. Do you see what I'm saying, So that's that's my truth? I hate that. But what would person tell outside of their truth? A lie? Bitch? No, I'm just saying, yeah, okay,

a lie. There's the truth and there's a lie. You know, so what is the truth? What you believe? Only know? The truth is what actually happened. Have you ever had conversation with somebody and they're saying this is what happened, but you know that's not what happened because that okay, So then just because that's your perspective, that still doesn't make it the truth? Do you see what I'm saying? There's such things absolute truth, which is what actually transpired,

and truth has evidence. So now if you can just say some ship with no evidence, is that the truth? It's it's a slippery thought when it comes to things like that, because I can see, I can see something, we can see the same thing happen and our story be different and it's still be true because of our perspective. Do you see what I'm saying? That's scary to me. It is scary because how did where did that come from? Though that that's my truth? Where is that? Where did

that come from? I feel like it's like a new generation thing, no bitch, because when I was living in Europe, I watched the news. I watched the news on a f N, which was a military network that, uh you know, this way the news from Americans active. And then I would watch the British news and it would tell the same story, but it would be totally fucking different, and it was about perspective. So which did you believe which made more sense to you than which gave more proof

and more evidence? Because that's what you get what. Okay, I know America be fucking lying with my home team. I had that. Okay, that's my shoe. Yeah, we can leave that ship in tween two. Um So the last thing that I want to leave in two is if you've seen somebody a fucking text message and you say I love you and then they say love you back without the eye on the front, that's the problem for me. Let's leave that. If you don't put that eye on the front, you don't vote with me for real. That's

how I feel what y'all think. If I texting Nick I love you, and he'd be like, love you too, lu vel Ven, here's me. That's a problem now, luv he trying to play with you, and I feel like men definitely know the difference when it's intentional. It's intentional. It's intentional. If you don't that, that might be the truth. Yeah, I love you, No, just love you, know I because because everybody loves you, I want to talk about me. You don't know I on the front. That's the problem.

Uh yeah, don't send me that. If I said if I text you I love you and you text me back love you, period, you don't love me, right, That's how I feel about it. Okay, we're on the same page with that. Yeah, tripping, alright, that's not crazy, right, it's probably man problems, Like what the fun I love you? I love you. I would say your daughter or your child or somebody you actually love you would say I love you. To make sure they don't know it's real, now, y'all,

nick is know what y'all? Bell Uh, let me see winter? How you wait? You said July had one more. I feel like I got a couple more winter, but just call this funk outside. And it hasn't been this cold since Hurricane you go, we need winter though? For what Mosquitoes? I think the natural like if it's summer all the time, the islands do pretty good. Oh yeah, yes, they had a lot of the I like winter. I definitely like.

I feel like my soul belongs and Barbados. I want a fucking beach house with a little black ass, little boy with blonde here. That's my goal. And then you yes, okay, you no. You know like a lot of people who you know, grow up by the ocean, a lot of diving, like the water changes the color they hear. So, yeah, that's what I want. What's okay, That's what I want? That's I want to get rid of winter, man, because

I'm just not. I saw a post that said, uh, if you had like yeah, but um, I like wintertime. I like having all the season. I just feel like they're important. Is all the changes that we go through are similar to the season of the year. Well, you know, winter is definitely a bad bitch sport because these bitches who used to be nicker don't know what the fund to put it on in the winter time, they still

be naked. Here's the thing. I remember being in college and we're like back in the day and having on this net he any hose with some pump freezing with some shorts like it's stupid, and going in the club yeah it's outside. No, you can't tell me. I want to find his fook like but I was. But I don't know how I did that. I could never do that now. I could never get away with that now. Yeah,

because we gotta pay for all healthcare now. But I just didn't even I used to be standing Ama Terris who ever got to pay for that day of Doctorville. Now you can't afford to get sick anymore. Yeah, not even that. I just would never. My comfort is a different. Is that a different? I laugh at young girls when I see him walk around where he was on, like in the mall and ship. Bitch, I know you're uncomfortable. Just where's your sneakers? I used to be that girl

all me too, bitch. You used to walk around campus where he was on, Like are you going at? Where are you going? Looking stupid? All young girls, now save your feet, trust me. I feel like my art's about to break right now, bitch because of what I did when I was y'all age, don't do it. They can't help it. Yeah, it's just I guess it's a write of passage. This is my last thing. And this is like for like the podcast and the clips and stuff

I see on social media. Um, can we leave men talking about generational wealth in two when they don't see the value and having a wife or a family, like how are you gonna have generational wealth without generation coming back to you? Like why are you trying to do that by yourself? You know you have to have like why do you not? And we still got to do that episode where we have a married man on so they can try and help some of some of our male listeners like what's the benefits of having a wife

like women literally keeping alive the right wife. Okay, make sure you as go to the doctor. You'll be out here sick, running around with all types of diseases for you to have a stroke don't even know it. Women are supposed to be responsible for the nutrition of the family as far as I'm concerned, Yes, you can outsource those things, but I would like to feed my family. Um. But yeah, you can't have generational wealth and a black community if the majority of our people don't see the

value in marriage. That's just where it comes from. You cannot have generational welcome. You have yourself spread so thin in between multiple households, like how somebody gonna be lacking? You don't take care of somebody because wealth isn't just money. So when you try to talk about general rational will, you got to consider all the other what you're teaching your kids, like are you there to even teach them anything? So I don't know, Um, did he just had a

last shold? I mean, he definitely has the money. And we can look at some just looking at celebrities, right, which is not the average man. Um? Nick Cannon his last well, I think he has another baby when we folth but the eleventh child. Um, she took to the internet last week and was I forgot her name. It's so many of them, Um, the black one, she was saying, you know how she you know, she's rid of a

toxic relationship. You literally signed up for that, Like how how did you think this thing is supposed to go? And then why is the black one who won't come to help? Spilled beans? Now everybody else speping, all that's a bullshit. She started troubling for that man. Everybody think he just right had taking care all these kids. Now it's impossible financially maybe yes, But you know what do these women do? These women all came from nowhere? Who

are these people? What you mean coming from? Like? Who are they? Like? I don't like how did he find them? Like you select them off Instagram? Instagram? Like where all the rest of the biggest it was the decks not calling his baby mama's hose. But you just did my baby, y'all. But yeah, like, where did you pick up all these different women to sign up to have the twelve Lost

tribes of Judah Abraham? Like were I guess I mean to Eastern own When it comes to that if you you don't want to have a baby with this man, all means do you. You know it's kind of like a poligamy thing going on because they're all like okay with the last one. She ain't okay with it now, she posting her bestie that she met at an art gallery at some point. But I don't know. Then you cannot have generational wealth without an actual family start there. Yeah,

I agree. So that wraps up our list of things we want to leave in anything else you wanna add, I want to leave all the niggas that played over me. You can't come back these years, and that's it, all right, y'all. So we're gonna take a quick break, and when we come back, we're gonna get into a dumb bitch story from one of our listeners. Dumb bitch stories because we've

all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. So, y'all, This dumb bitch story is from one of our Instagram followers that wants to remain anonymous, but her story goes as, Hey, y'all, my favorites, I'm coming in for some advice this time around. I'm just I don't just jump right in hav an older sister. She's thirty two, I'm twenty five. Share the same mom, but my father raised all of us. I'm the who has always done everything for all of my siblings. I'm number three or four. They come to me for

assistance before they even go to our parents. My sister had an ex who was stalking her, damaging her car in her home. Me being the person I am, she'd always called me to protect her and her kids when he'd come around. I had a few trips with my man, which happens to be the stalker's brother. Yeam lined up so we wouldn't be in town. So I gave her a gun to protect herself if he did come around

while I was gone. Why And it's a lot of why wise on the end, Why did she allow my gun to get stolen and didn't tell me about it until I asked her for my gun back a whole two months later. I'm upset because one, I don't trust that it just went missing. I can see her selling it or allowing him or her kids father to borrow it, And she waited so long to tell me, putting me in jeopardy, and I feel like she's lying about where the gun went. I haven't spoken to her in three months,

but I love my sister. I just don't know how to tell her that I'm upset, and I don't even know if I want to speak to her again. I need your help. Your advice always helps me out. Sincerely, a mad ass scorpio ready to show scorpios um. First, don't ever give your weapons to anything unless you're selling it to them. Yeah, she never give your weapons. You should, like, uh, take her to go get her own, like you know this. Uh. She goes on to say that I asked her how

many guns did she have? And she has eleven. She wasn't missing it. That's why I was like, what took you? You know, what took you so long to ask for your gun back? And it's because she has so many. So she's a proud gun toting American. But but never

give anybody your weapon. You want to take people, If you want to help people be armed and protected, take them to get their own weapon, you know, so they can learn how to Probably they can't buy a gun, and probably the boyfriend can't get one, even he's taking somebody's pistol. I hope she reported it stolen. Yeah, that's what's gonna be my next advice. To report it stolen, you know, because you don't want to have no bodies on,

no guns that you're exactly um this is. You know, I always recommend people, you know, pass things up with their sisters, you know, their family. You know, the family is all you got, you know, at the end of the day, you want to pass things over your I'm a very you know, forgiven person. You know, I always want like just because i know I'm flawed and i know I make mistakes and I'm not gonna be the perfect I'm not going to be the perfect friend. You know.

I'm i'ma s trying to be the perfect friend and sister and everything. But I'm going to fall short. I know that about myself. So I want people to grant me the same grace that I'm willing to give often times. So you know, find out why didn't she tell her that her gun is missing. It took for me to ask you about my pistol for you to tell me we got stolen. Yeah, that's that's shady, shady. I wouldn't I mean that to me. That's grounds for termination of

your sister. That's her daddy jowl. That's her mama. They got the same mama at you, that's my daddy kid. They like, No, that's her. They came out the same. Oh that's not enough to leave your sister alone. It's not. I probably would never discard my sisters. I can't figure nothing my sister could never do to me for me that either, but nothing. I would definitely fight you. Yeah

we might tho, but I'm still loving afterwards. You're gonna catch this face, especially depending on what your responses when I say what my pistol at? Now? Have you like some people when you like back them in the corner you asked asking them some ship, They don't want to face. They're getting nasty. So it just depends on your response how I'm going to respond. But I wouldn't discard my sister because of that. But I would definitely file for you know, file a police report and they're stolen gun

and I don't know accounted as a fucking loss. She might still have. You probably just don't want to give it back. Maybe try her to get her own working for sure, though, if she got somebody trying to harm her, what I some therapy to lead us nigger alone. She's still working with the person, and she said she might have give it to him. That's what I'm saying, Like, I would not give somebody a gun who's not ready

to leave this person. If this person is like really really stalking you, doing shipped to you, like you can't be fucking with them in the interim when they're being regular, and then I'm gonna give you a gun just in case when he do get stupid. No, you need to be leaving him completely alone and then I'll help. Other than that, I don't get involved in people domestic ship sister or not, because I've been in situations where you you know, you try to help somebody and you're fucked

around and get hurt. Yes, So I don't play with people when it comes to things, especially with women and relationships with women. I'll give you advice a little bit, but I'm not I'm not stepping in that way. Yeah,

I don't typically would step in in that way. I've had friends who have been in like some violent relationships and I told them, like, you know, you need to leave this relationship or I'm gonna have to stop being friend because it was just got to a place where it was just so bad and I can't stand by. I can't I can't help you, but I can't stand by and watching them are exactly So what are you gonna I mean, when you start being a dumb bitch,

that's just where it is. Well, you know what matters of the heart is hard when people when they're dealing with, you know, being insecure and relationships and they don't know how to handle their emotions and love make you do stupid ship. I'd be a mess. But like, I hope your sister is okay. I hope um that y'all in your relationship. And she needed to get her own gun gets who's gonna training if that's possible. She might have felonies. I don't know how that works. She don't learn how

to use a weapon. I feel like felons can buy guns at gun shows. No, I don't know nothing about how. I feel like people get away but aint guns when they have felonies when they go to those gun shows. Because you ain't gonna tell me, like white people don't be having felonies too, And it seems like they always seem to get their hands on guns. I feel like everybody'll be getting their hands legally maybe having Yeah, I have to google that, bitch because I don't know how

that works. Maybe I'm lying, Yeah, I don't know. All right, y'all listen. We hope you guys have a very great Leave all the fucking bullshit heartache some of these niggas some family member excuse me. Yeah two, I'm skipping, bitch. I live in the future. Okay, leave it behind, man, go in with a clean slate. Um. Yeah, that's what I'm doing. I'm gonna try my best. You know, every year. That's how you can do. There's things that I wore resolutions for two that I'm carrying over into this year.

You know, I'm working progress. Progress. God, ain't n they didn't fucking begins. Get somebody else to do it. All right, y'all listen. If you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app or wherever the funk you get your podcasts at. Uh. This is your co host aj Holiday. Y'all follow me on Instagram. Also, we got we talked back uh e n T dot com. Y'all hit us up. We got consultations. All this good ship and listen, one thing we are not leaving in

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