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How Low Can You Go

Apr 06, 202355 minSeason 3Ep. 114
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This week our ladies Tambam and AJ first speak on their S.I.N.S of the week,  which included NLE Choppa walking Sukihanna like a dog, literally, LSU win against Iowa and hoops star Angel Reese being unapologetic with her competitive actions. Next, for their main discussion they speak on age differences in dating, and how low they would go dating a younger man. Is age ain’t nothing but a number? Lets discuss. 

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We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning there for a new episode that we talk back. A show dedicated to you niggas and these hoes. It's your co host aj Holiday. What's up Tim? Hey y'all, lest meet Tim Vam. I love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning in. This show is also dedicated to everything in between you niggas and these hoes. Let's not forget them. Let's be inclusive.

How are you doing? Oh good girl? What's that out? Nothing? Just tearing up these atl streets? Not for real. I went to I went to um Tam. I can't think I'm the name of it. You know, Atlanta got so many black owned restaurants with vibes. I went to this one Jamaican spied, had dinner with a nice young man and it was a good time. So you have time to eat since we've been here. Shit, all right, I'm a fine time to eat to found five time for nothing else. I had some brunch, I had a gochet

two days in a row. I had a nice ass seafood omelet over there. Yeah, I had the snapper at this place and I ate out the nigga plate. It was the first day. Pretty ass. You know, he had a lamb shank. That ship was delicious. Look pretty ass. Look frustrated too, Yeah, because, bitch, why you ain't order what you want? Get off my plate? Gets I could have ordered both, but that would have been very explicive for him, So let me just taste it. You can't

have a piece of my fish on the plate. I don't like people eating off my plate, Like, please order what you want. You could have a little tiny piece, but I don't just be sticking my fork and people shitty. I don't like it. I don't just stick it in there. I asked, you know, and he considered if he was clearly aggravated because you asked that nigga's greedy? Who's greedy? You and him? Yeah, that's wrong with you, sharing Harry my nigga, You greedy bitch, eat your food. That's where

I'm thinking. No, y'all, listen, y'all, we're trying to get fine by the time this goddamn live show April twenty second, I got a hot two pounds Faye. Pull in yards, y'all, pull up we're coming out first, so y'all get there early if y'all want to see us. Don't be like, damn, we came to see we talk bad, but we didn't get there till four o'clock. Doors open at eleven. Be on time. Okay, be on time. I'm sure you're pretty sure parking gonna be crazy because this is uh, it's

a pretty decent sized venue. But they're expecting at least three thousand people, y'all, So yeah, come early up and participate. We look forward to seeing all of you. It's gonna be a time. We're gonna have a time. I'm glad we're going on first. So now we could just shell and watch all the shows and cut up with our fans in the audience. Yeah, we're gonna be pulling up

on y'all and listen. We need a few volunteers. Also, hit us up in the DM if you want to participate a little bit with us, yeah, or you can email us out. We talk back n T at gmail dot com. We need some some some crowd participation. Give you guys what we what we got going on this week as stupid and then that news sins it a week? All right? So for the first time since loving basketball, people are paying attention to women's basketball in real life, and we had a beef like this since Citra and

uh Monica. I love it. I love it for them, man, Yeah, me too. So Caitlin Clark, which is a badass white girl, we're not gonna play with Kate Card. She was killing it the whole season and taking niggas down. But when she met with LSU, they gave her the same energy

back and they lost. And people were upset because Caitlyn Clark was doing the the John Cena wrestler gesture like you can't see me throughout the season, and then when Angel Reese from LSU, a young beautiful black woman, did it back, there was a lot of negative energy toward her doing the same exact gesture. And that's crazy because it literally is the same exact gesture. People were calling her class lists and an idiot and all these different

names that they just did not give Caitlyn Clark. They said it was her stunting, They said it was, you know, just the sport, and there's trash talking in the sport, you know, But when the black girl did it, you know, I don't know, I can't think of what rapper it was. But when he said it's cool when they do it, it's a problem when I do it, fuck them? Yeah, baby, that's so real. Yeah. And she was really holding her hand up like pointing to her ring, thinging like we're

about to get this ring. We're about to win, right Okay. Also, my thing is it makes no sense for us to continue to do the comparison thing like, oh, they did it and then now we did it as a problem. We already know anything we do is gonna be a fucking problem. But it's cool, you know, the we had we found the victor and it was LSU. Congratulations to those ladies. Jill Biden went on to say that she wanted to, uh have both teams come to the White

House to celebrate LSU's win. And I thought that was yeah. I thought that was wow. Uh. Reese tweeted like, I think the fuck not? I mean not in those words, but basically, because why are we sharing this? This is the accolade that only the national champion gets. Why are we Why are y'all trying us like that? We're not gonna share? Are we not coming? So? Right? Um? And I also saw the lsus Alexis Morris requested to celebrate with Michelle Obama instead if they were to come to

the White House, right, And I hate that. It's you know, it turned into a race thing into instead of a sports thing. You know, it took away from like the sport really earnestly because we're talking more about that than the stats exactly. And so also that Don Stanley, the coach from USC. She had some words for for critics too and for the media because they like it's like this all their thugs playing basketball. First of all, this our ship. Black people dominate sports period. At what point

do you think you're supposed to win? I'm confused, you know what I'm saying. But now, yeah, that white people dominate like ice, ice, hockey, hockey, Yeah, baseball they bring they bring the the Hispanic Center for baseball and shit like that. But we're supposed to win lacrosse, y'all, Yes, y'all got y'all ship, We got our ship. Basketball is just one of those things. Yeah, Like so it should be expected. But I feel like they are actually sore losers.

They do not need to be going to the White House because that's just not how it goes so why are y'all catering to Iowa right? Interesting? We know why. We know why they they were driving seeing that white girl busting Nigga's ass on that court, they was like, oh yes, emminem, now this so they was happy about that shit. I'm an angel came out there with her foot and the next that shit. Yeah. So in Eli Choppa is Sukiana did a music video, um, and it was pretty explicit some of the images that I said

song has called slapped me out. Let's be clear, Okay, So I guess the images from the video matches the art if y'all didn't see it over the weekend, Nlli Choppa is uh walking Sukiana. It's her and another girl and they walking him like a dog. And when you be saying he take his bitch for a walk, he took me for a walk. That's what I think of, bitch. You need to stop saying that, you know what the hell I mean, though, like, just take your woman outside.

I'm definitely not saying walk me like a dog. By my goddamn twenty four, we've like what the hell like? The hair was a chain and they were on their knees walking on the ground. You know what, it's so funny because never mind, I ain't about to tell y'all my business like that, do it? Okay? So my friend had this is my guy friend. We're not like intimate, like this is my homeboy. But I was at his house and I was like. I went in his room and I saw like a leash in that motherfucker and

I was like, what, you ain't got no dog? What is this? And they had spikes on it and he was like, oh, that's just what mister nasty time. So I put it on and I was like being silly though you know, I'm stupid. He was walking me around his bed room. I was like, you'd be really having bitches in here like this, and he's like, yeah, you want um now. But I was like that was different because I'm not doing that sexual with you. But people

really be into that. So I mean it is a reflection of art in a way, right because this is a real lifestyle, that type of hit. Yeah, people really be into that, so I get it. But I suffered from secondhand embarrassment when I saw it. When I saw stared I and I think either last year or the year before, it was a Colombian singer Jay Baldin. He was also walking two black women on a leash and women was black women were an uproar? What is this? How there's some people cheering it on? You know? I

have a love hate relationship with Sukiana. I like Suki because I think Suki is actually very intelligent, you know what I'm saying. I said this a couple of weeks ago, Like she will put like different books and ship she's reading her story and stuff like that, like, and I have hope for her, and all of a sudden, she just do like some extra disgusting. She'd be like I'm followed, you know, Like, uh, it's just too much for my timeline.

I just can't. And then you got a little girl, Like you got kids, right, what happens when they see this? Did you see her a little spat with little Mama? Yeah. But here's the thing right now, I just feel like Sukiana, you don't want to go back and forth with her because she's just in a space where she's free and she don't care about the opinions of others at all,

which I can appreciate. But at the same time, it's like, maybe you gotta get a little older and get a little bit more wisdom before you understand that some of these things are detrimental to you know, your child got to grow up, you know, and how are you going to explain this to them? I mean, this is our this is our lifestyle. So I'm assuming that her child would have, you know, probably follow the same footsteps, and she's okay with that. Yeah, well who am I listen?

Isn't it's a judgment free zones, Like I definitely be judging bitches. But I don't want little Mama on this shit. Man. You can you can say it's like artistic expression all you want, dog, It's it's kind of but some of the ship does not belong on like TV on the internet. It should be like behind a paid wall. But you know what, some people, some people would say the same thing about our show. Our show is not like that.

What the hell We talked about sex, We talked about Dickson balls and eating booty, and people would be like they just give anybody a microphone, you know. So it's like, like I seen it. Somebody was like, bring back shame that I'm a Hypocryptiday and wait nah, they ain't it.

That's they ain't it. Yeah, velope and look and speaking of booty, and because it seems like we've been talking about booty in the last couple of weeks, this chaotic three h five was on that um that show off the porch, like the it's like an online yeah, isn't it off the porch? Right? Yeah? Yeah? Girl. He's surrounded by his five girlfriends, he says, and they all motivate him. So they're his muse, right and in addition to you know, being his muse, they all eat his booty. He says.

I'm just like, where the fuck did that come from? You know? This is the real stupid internet news for the week, y'all, and they keep him motivated. But you gotta have money to keep five women happy. So but here's the doctor fauc you need to get into a public service announcement. At this point, he needed to get on there and tell everybody, like, stop eating booty. It's out of kitchen right now, it's a it's an e dog. Somebody needs to be somebody matter, right who get eco

lining the throat? Need to do an informercial. I ain't mooney and now I can't breathe throw my nols. Please stop eating. But Oh, somebody don't get mad at me for that, ain't it. I'm sorry, y'all, I tell John, but I can't happen. You'd be that and eat your dad masophic its up with some goddamn fecal matters, right, Eli, come on, man sa manilla down the throat. Oh yeah, listen now, I do enjoy a good booty looking looking every once in a while. Okay, it's just the act

of it. It doesn't really actually feel good. It's just like just a super I don't even it's an intimate I don't know. It's just a super nasty thing. But yeah, I think it's something about submission, like somebody completely submitting to you in the most uh degrading way. Right. Think about animals, Like animals be licking at each other, but they also drive cars or read books, so they get a sophisticated animals. Now, sophisticated animal that's why we should

know better than look at each other. Butthole. Well, I guess dogs have different bacteria in their mouth, like to help fight certain diseases and shit like that that humans don't have. And that's why you can let your dog lick you in the mouth and you running die right from letting your dog lick you in the mouth. That's what they licked their ass and other people ass and shit on the ground. I saw I mean the other

day to say, that's what I love about humans. We'll lick each other buttholes, but ask for another fork at a restaurant. If there's a small stand on it, can't use each other straw right, listen, h So listen. Lisa Pipping has been catching a lot heat. I actually had a text argument one of my homeboys, but he was basically calling her a pedophile being with Michael Jordan's son. So Michael Jordan's son is thirty two, Larsa Pippen is forty nine. Right, he's basically saying she watched him grow up.

Those First of all, Scottie Pippen and Michael Jordan are not friends like that. They probably cool, but she did not watch him grow up, because let's be clear, she's a whole ten years younger than Scottie Pippen. And he was like, I'm not bringing up sex. You brought up sex. The sex of the person. He was like, it doesn't matter if it was a man or a female is still wrong. Or I mean a woman or a man is still wrong. And I'm like, you are talking about

this because it's a woman doing it. Because Scottie Pippen's new girlfriend, Yes, how old she is twenty five, nobody says about it, thirty two years younger than him, and it ain't nobody talking nothing about it. Michael Jordan's wife. I mean, she's probably about fifteen years younger than him, fifteen twenty years younger than him. But when it's a it's cool. When they do it, it's a problem. Will not do it right now. It's not my cup of tea.

It's not something that I would be interested in doing, especially if I was forty nine. They look at me, they're thirty two year old. But that's our business. These are grown people. He's not a child. When I give me, not a child. When I when me and my husband get into like fifteen sixteen years of marriage and we decided to have an open marriage, I'm giving me a young one. He's gonna be hating. He gonna have him

a young one too. We're gonna live forever because we're just gonna be feeding off the energy of these young people. The only difference is you're gonna still be able. He might not be able to please that young man. That's the shit that that kills me about older men dating younger women. Y'all can't keep up with them. Y'all can barely keep up with women like this, We in our prime. As far as sex, you know what I'm saying, Like, bit, y'all be in heat like a puppy. Yeah, like a

grown ass dog. Okay, definitely be a heat. So you forty fifty sixty year old trying to get on, well, here's the forty run for your money with women young. I don't think they're looking for physical satisfaction from older men. I think they're looking for financial satisfaction, absolutely, But viagrad I fucked the game up, so they don't want to just hold hands anymore. They actually want to put meat in you. Fiagrat fucked the game. I'm see Alice, honey pack,

the blue chew, all those things. Ye, where's the stuff for women's libido? They'd be hating on us. Yeah they don't. They don't have that really. Oh no, they do have this thing um not for libido. But it's this a lady who has a sweet and uh one of my friends. She owes a salon suites and she does like this procedure. It's not a really like a procedure, but it's like a wand that go on your couchie and to tighten it.

Oh so it's like rejuvenation. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. So when we had the Dick doc on TikTok and Um, doctor Mills, the neurologists, we talked about that stuff, like there are things like medical procedures that women can do to um, to you know, tighten the muscles, media, add more moisture, shit like that, but as far as like libido, I

guess aside from doing like hormonal treatments. Yeah, men men have like all of these things that they can because they just expected to fuck forever basically, when really, y'all camp more power to them, because I want y'all to be able to fuck forever. You live longer when you're still fucking, I feel like, right, you gotta be heart healthy to take any of those kills anyway, Yeah, that part. Yeah, So that's what we want to talk about today, y'all. How low can you go? How how young is too young?

How old it's too old? I like them in between, Okay, I like it like a little salt and below zaddy. You know what I'm saying, And I like a nigga a new TikTok, shame it. Get your life, y'all, stay tuned. We'll be right back. We back, y'all go up. Hey, has you got I got grady peany? Hey, let's be clear. These means can't go too fucking loath. Listen, how young

it's too young for you to day? I would say my preference is like forty seven year old, but okay, I'll go like thirty three because that's a good number. Thirty three. Thirty three is the youngest. Yes, all right, so ed in And that might be too young, but restarts suggests that younger men are seeking older women. One survey found that eighty one percent of women are open to dating a man teen years younger. Ten years Nah,

so I'm thirty eight. You know I'm at trans age. Okay, I am not dating a man who is twenty eight years old. Of it's not dating. I'll try to stay in the thirties, right, well, looking, I might little younger because listen, men restay sexual peak of their twenties, you know that, right, So by the time, so you're saying by the time they are like to the age I like is over it. I don't think that's true. That's what I was saying. Look, it's a dick from forty

seven yellow niggas, okay, and you feel like it's better. Yes, Like they know what the fuck is going on. So why do they say that men reached their actual peak in their twenty versus women who reached their sexual peak in their thirties and forty I think we talked about this last week a little bit, because I do have some friends who have not been getting dick from their

significant others. Now. The younger man no, well a little bit, a little bit younger than them, and the women are like around my age kinda, and the men that they're with are a little bit younger, and they're not getting as much sex as they want from the men. See, So that's that might be a thing, but I don't know. I've never tested it. I've never been with a super I think the youngest dude at this age I'm currently at that I've been with is like thirty five. The

youngest guy. They laugh, how dollar smashed, you're a yo live He was like twenty seven at the time. And I'm trying his age show English fluid. But so he's not ten years younger than you. I'm just ever take I'm tree is age, so my age is very fluid, sir. So I don't know if it was tears Cram muddy little age could have been somewhere in there. And listen, this is all right. This is a few years back.

So this is like when TikTok first came out, Like let's break a TikTok, of course, right, So we're at my house trying to make a TikTok and I couldn't pick a song. He was like, hurry up and pick a song, and I was like, I don't know. He was like, it ain't gonna be no Luther Man, but there was Luther on Man. We used this. Maybe I like younger man because I have like a fear of death and being older, older man making you feel closer to death, and younger men feel make me feel close

to th lit. I think that's maybe what it is. I don't think we're here. I don't think it has anything to do with the man. I think it's just my immortality. So as you day an older man, you feel like you're gonna die in a year. I feel like I'm gonna get older quicker. You know that might be with um. You know I talked about did he asks a lot? Like I really feel like did he be ciphering the energy of these young women? Like because did y'all did you see him? Like did y'all see

him during the pandemic? Like did he has salt? Member here? And shit soon? As like what twenty twenty one like pandemic? Kind of older, kind of older? Twenty twenty two, he had his black ear back and he's with Karasha and you just got this young ass girl you just had a baby with and now he's like looking all young and vibrant. All think about it, Think about rama soon keep their grandkids. They stay younger, They stay youthful, right, dude,

they ain't they eat like black broke. Tired of the kids, Oh they need tired of the kids. But they know what teethtok is something that motherfucking thick top. They know what it is. They stand a youthful I don't know something about older, dude, just to be making me feel I don't know, you know, honestly, I don't know. I've never even danged older dude. So, so you've never did anybody like five years older than you ever? No, all when the funck was that we're in a role with

some young niggas. Okay, let's be clear. My lucky numbers like forty seven. They are like established, you know what I'm saying, Like you can they can take you to do whatever you want to do. Um, you know, picking dick up and dropping dick off. You know what I'm hacking. We eat baggle inches. I can do it. I cannot funck with a young like I do that super young Like what do we really have in common? What are you having coming with the younger? Younger men? All right,

so I love to tell jokes. It's always a good funny ass time I'm cracking jokes. I like, so you're childish, Yes, I'm like smoke. I'd like to smoke. But they were spoke together, and then I'd like to educate. And I feel like younger men are more pliable like putty, where's

these old interesting? Or more like submit? So you know, I was talking to this guy at some point I felt like it was always like ah, like a tug of war with information with him, like he would tell me about some shit and I already know about it, so it's almost like some like weird energy like he I think men do want to be able to teach women something. So like if you already act, you kind of act, got a act stupid a little bit like, oh really I didn't know, but I have a I'm

not a fucking bimbo. I'm not pretended like I don't know some shit, So like we would be exchanging information like I'm sitting at him ship like you know, like esoteric shit, like just stuff I'm into, right, And it was always almost like it was like a battle of fucking information with this nigga. So yeah, I will ask like I don't know that some stuff. I will pretend teach me how to she pool? How do you hold

the stick? I bit you blod me while bush I see, I don't know how to play with people like that, so maybe I can't, uh, And then I'd be thinking about people mama's too, Like I already don't like niggas with mamas. I hate d you say that. Please stop saying. Why it's the truth. Why do you hate niggas with mamas? Do you want a nigga mama is dead. I want a man who mom is in a healthy relationship. If you get with a man who has a single mom, it's a whole fucking problem because this man has been

her man says he was a child essentially probably sean. Yes, yes, So that's why I prefer men. And I mean I see like as a joke, but I'm really fucking dad ass serious or like maybe y'all have like a strange relationship, like maybe she lives across the fucking country or something like that. You don't really see your mama, like I'm your motherfucker MoMA. That's toxic, friend, How is that toxic?

Because you don't think it is toxic that you want to young ass nigga that you can fucking teach some shit. That's toxic. You want somebody who come lol to carry They get you're not a fucking educated bit. You know you latericator girl like, I don't want to see something something wrong. I love mama's I'm not man. Yeah, Because you want to use the mom to manipulate the sun, I do not. I I'm a paulcture even sound get telling the truth. Nobody don't want to use their mom

to I always want the mom to love me. I want to hear I because I want to have a healthy relationship. I want to have a good love and dynamic between my man and his mom. Well yeah, but like all right, let me ask you this because I've seen this a power struggle between the girlfriend. Because this sounds like that's what you be having, like a power struggle. No, it's only actually happened once with a mom at once

with a sister. So I would a car and you go to pick up the mom and you're in a passenger seat, will you let the mom getting the flat No, I'm not getting out the front seat and getting in the back seat for your mom. Why not? Why just get in the car? Let's rob He like, what's the problem because that's his mother. Okay, but it's not just a car, it's a car. Why am I getting out the car. It's not a boy anymore. This is a grown man. And here I am. I'm his woman, I'm

his wife. Mom, you're not sucking his dick like I'm sitting in the front seat. She burnt the dick for you to stop. Nah, I would totally get out and if she'd help getting in the car, I'm helping your mama in the car because I was I love you so much that I respect your mama the way you do. No, if I was a mom and my son was with his woman, I would not overset my boundaries, right, because you have to have some with parents because if you don't,

they'll be trying to write your relationship, you know. That's that's what I try to avoid when't in relationships with men. I would not require her to get out the front seat and get in the back, Like that's fucking weird. I don't think about requirement. I just think about I'm gonna choose your mother the way I treat my mother. My mom is not riding in the back. Why, Like my mamma would probably brought a ride in the back if she would to die in the back there's school.

But it's so you want to ask, hey, mom, you wanna get in the front. That's yeah, I'm that one. But what is the difference between the front and the back? I see like or exact seas you're like that you'll be chauffeured around Like to me, like, that's the that's the queen spot really in the back seat, Like what you want to be in front for you want to die first, so we get an accident. I made you make power strung a little with the mama. No I have. I've never actually had an issue with a man's mom.

The only time I actually had like a kind of weird change. Would it meant what my exes mom is like, I'm like, listen, your fucking son is coming to my house unexpectedly every fucking day for the last couple of days. If you don't get him to stop, I'm gonna have to call a police on him. So it was really the safest fucking life. And you know what she said, I'm not getting that vowed. So from that point on, I didn't talk to her no more. But that was it.

We just y'all continue to deal. You know surely that after I finally like cut it off completely, But like, what what kind of shit is there? I'm trying to help you save your son's life because at this point I might shoot him. Bitch. You don't even know teasing not to call your mom a bitch if you listen to Nigga whatever, it's too like a people. In no way, I'm not disrespected with the moms. Mama is usually level, but I don't I just don't even the sister is

like another ex of mine. Like his sister is like on my beat the fuck up list before I get off this planet. You know what I'm saying, Like she like stole my head list. See, I'll be baking them home. Girls. I liked the sisters Mama. Oh girls, I made the mom. I tricked the mom like my mom, Like I was so good with my one of my nigga's mom and family that they broke up, Well, we broke up. His mom tried to hook me up with her doctor. Oh that's a good moment. See, I can deal with that

type of momas. The moment knew her so was a ship, she was like, man, she even like he don't even deserve her. Man, I'm about to hook her ass up with my mother down in colleges. That's how it went. But that's how it should be. You don't feel like it just has to be a happy mom. It has to be a happy mom and happy sister. If them bitches a single, I'm not fucking with you. If your mamma and your sister are single, I'm not fucking with you.

That's just what it is. You're gonna come out a lot of good follow you when then I quality come from from a lot of toxicity. Okay, well that's like you would tell you the bitches. No, I'm not with them, make it. Oh, I have first back on time if we got off topic, all right, dating a younger man. So do you feel like there's a double double standard with an age camp, Like are women not? Like if a woman is dating a younger man, we'd be like, yes,

sin get that shit. But old, Like my dad is seventy one or seventy two, his wife like forty five, she is. She is as old as she's keeping him youthful. But I don't give a fuck. What I care about is when thisn' nigga get real sick and we're gonna take care of him. Like, I appreciate her being there because now I may not have to be right before she did get real like I am, like, I really appreciate her as my dad's the wife slash that mother of who's the damn near the same age as me?

Like yeah, yeah, I appreciate her. So do you feel like there is a difference to tweeting the way we treat man who date younger woman? Yeah, because I I don't I understand why men want younger women, But I do not understand why women want older men. Old notn't that old like you know a nigga old women they got that like great line running fucking putiful. Yeah. I had an old man try to lie to me with four to four. I'm like, I don't know what you like I'm holding for. I'm like, you're blind like a

try you're fucking cataract. It's like in my face. I see the surgery, so they'd be lying. Yeah, I think cards, so what's too high? That's whatever the dick has to work. I think viagra has fucked the game up a little bit. Like you know, we just out here outside. You might date older men, like I said, because there's established and they might got a nice little cheg medi a wife, life in shorts. Right. They used to just want to hold your hand. Now they like really want to put

dick in you, right because of Viaggrey. But if that's your man, wouldn't you want him to put unless she's just there? For I don't want an old dick now, Okay, So I said my lucky Now about let me just say one of my friends we went to all star wee kid one year and the Jordan we got out. We were at the Jordan party, right, which is pretty scouse, a little party, and she met this much older man Sason.

You would know right tell me afterwards, Yeah, all right, Yeah, she was dealing with him, but he's like in his seven bees, but they should have like girls who you lighting balls? Was like back at her in the front for the back, swinging three. I cannot do it. I can do this the ward, like who else is in here? Like what the fuck snacking my puzzy? Anyone hand me

front the back? But I thought, fuck, I'm here. It was like doing all the things for her, like very very prison financially privately, flights like just on the PJ and all these things, but you could you gotta get hit in the front for the red blots and balls. And she hid their life a little bit more than for her. But I can give you, like, if you want that type of lifestyle, then that's like more important to you than you will stay with that, I know.

And I was living in Charlotte and had met this guy and he was probably like sixty five at the time, right around Charlotte and a Porsche nigga never had any kids, he was married divorce ones and he was outside like a young nigga. And I went to his place one time. I could not let him put dicking meat out. I just couldn't do it. It was just too too old. I feel like he probably would have sucked the shit out of me. I really feel like that. But it's like,

do I want to deal with old young nigga? That's what he was like, Why are you still outside like this? You got a girlfriend? Who? What was that pill that made you talk to him? Because I know he had that check and he's just gonna be fucking honest because I knew he had the bag, so that eric wasn't enough. No, I have to like you. I can't really fuck with somebody because yeah, that's how I have to like you. Yeah, I have to. I can't like I listen, I've tried,

and it just I couldn't do it. I can't pretend. But so long, like I'm just not whytering breathing nigga, I'm annoyed. That means that is not mean, like it's a true Why are you talking? Why why you walk like that? Why you eat like that? I don't get hell annoyed. So no, I can't play with somebody for men. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I guess fun girls. They that's what they were barred for. I don't know. But I can't play with somebody else like like that. Now,

there was a time and I did. He wasn't old, he was yo. There was a guy. I was so poor though, and I was like a college student as a college student. This is shameful though, Judge me, you guys. But I did deal with someone because of what he could provide for me at the time. I was so poor though. I was like a student and he was doing all the things. And I mean, he I'm not laughing at you're saying you were poor. It it's not like I was. So I was. I was better Where

I was a college student. I didn't have anything, and I just like picked up all my stuff and moved to Atlanta. And I did deal. But even at his approach, like all right, so nia's be mad at women for what wanting from him, But your approach, can't he lad, that's as you lead with shit, that's yeah, the times be out like we were. I was out somewhere at a bar and he was like go and then I'm super young, so I'm drinking. I'm a rared of hours. I'm much is that eight our pitty lolo? He was like,

go get go, get whatever. He's like, what's your drink? Hands like fool, I'm a rare the style. It's like, give me one hundred dollars bill and he's like, oh, get your son to drink. And then I came back with his change because I wasn't like the type of girl that would pocket anybody's money. And he was like, but then in your pocket, cook lid and single. I was. I was there right after that as a little young nineteen year old girls, right, you know, and ain't got shit. Old.

Was a guy desirved. He couldn't have been no more. He was older than me, but he couldn't up be no more than twenty three. Oh that's not old though, No, it wasn't that. It wasn't he was older than me, but he wasn't an older guy, right. But I was dealing with him for stuff because you know, let's say, all right, he might have caught me with it, but like tically, I would like to know how your personality is. If it's bad, I'm gonna go to opposite direction. It

don't matter how much money you've got. If I don't buy with you, I'm going the other way. But during that time, that's whatever I stayed, even though I gett like who he was as a person, because he was paying my rent. That's what up. And listen, I do what you gotta do. I don't suggest any young girl to be any situations sect you with older men, because you do want to get manipulated into some shit, you know what I'm saying, into a bad situation. And he's

just all right. So the crazy part was he got me to go into this apartment that I couldn't afford without him, you know, like, oh this a thousand dollars a month. Hey, I'm a young girl. I don't have I'm in school, so I can't work full time, all right, So this is right after Benedict. I can't work full time and I'm in school, and and I can't afford this by myself. So it's like, I gotta be nice to you right now. I gotta do all these thug girls because and I'm putting some shit in my name

that I can't afford without you. And I think he did that shit on purpose. So like some of the things that he did was just kind of like, you know, like control where I don't need money. I don't think older women do that to men, but for sure older men they get younger women so they can control. I remember seeing this post a lot. It was saying, uh, if a woman is over thirty five, don't fuck utter she already stuck in the mind. You this the old

last nigga saying this ship, So where's your bitches? Like what they looking like? I'd be bought and these men to post the bitches, I want to see who letting you sweat on them? Because nigga, you could never sweat on I'll be bought in the fucking seat. But he was like, yeah, if you over thirty five, she's stuck in her way. So what you're what you're telling the public is you want a woman who don't know the better. It's gonna let you do whatever you want to do

it today. Don't have no say so because she gotta fuck with you, right, Like what's type? And that's where I was, you know, like I feel trapped, but not for long. I got quickly about that ship that got me a roommate oh the fall fifth yom n. Now I'm now worry. But that's what I learned that I could not be. Well, there are people who can be with people for the things and if you are one of those people, cool, you know, I'm not knocking it.

But so there's a study that says fourteen play eight percent of women are married to men as young as twenty years. They're nior junior. Yes, that was well, I could do it were their share. Everybody's judging clear and um Biby Blaid's husband, I don't know if they were married or not. They're judging her and they're saying that like her friends are saying like, oh, he's like squandering some her. Well, then so what, I'm pretty sure she

has unlimited money. Like Okay, if I was a super old bitch like sheer, I don't have five of them. I'll have five of them young niggas, Okay, right, are you at the very I don't know. Maybe she maybe she's cipher an energy too, but she's I would say that she's like, it's keeping her youthful. And yes, I would have five of them. Could you imagine if he was young ass, she's like eight? Yeah, she brought eighty years she already gotta get him fun by thirty something

year old nigga. But she mighty got a pussy transplant. She might got a new pussy. I listen, she gotta know money like old and like not doing what it used to. I'm getting that no pussy. I'm I'm trayed to come in. I definitely want a new pussy. I'm not mad at Sheer. It's kind of like for for for and Rose. It's kind of embarrassing a little bit. Yeah, I can imagine that your man left himuni man he's with, but it's not any eight year or his share though,

that's any eighty year old. No, it's not the share City boys, City boys up. He's fucking nasty. Now that's someone who could like maybe he really do like her, and I'm just judging who. That's somebody who could be with someone for the stuff, you know. I feel like that Mary for stuff, Yeah, like for what they can provide. She provides the lifestyle that she eats gamp publicity, that's for sure, and I'm sure like all the fruits of

being share you know, that comes with a lot. I'm sure she's a she's been famous, for a long time and rich for a long time. Him he nasty that puts men look the same no more. How do you know she probably got refurbished. That ship is folded. That's a I fourteen years Um. So I guess younger men probably date older women for funny the same reason women

do it. So so who's judging? Though? So I don't think are men judging women judging other men for for dating older women, Like I think that we kind of judge you your women, or yeah, I do a little bit. I don't you know what, I don't judge. I'll just be like tough, I see you, but I don't necessarily judge him. I'm like, do what do what you do? I've been thinking about it, like I really want to have rid and said she want my daddy's wife. I want to know, like how did you meet this nigger?

Like why? And I know she listened to our podcast but she texts with some ship. But I never asked like how did you meet him? Like were you seeking him? Uh? Because she's not from South Carolina, so like did you come here specifically looking for old nigger? Like my daddy's a handsome man. So vide is security because a lot of women want for she just don't work. If I get an old nigga, like, I'm not working, I'm not

working anywhere. I'm working on his nerves. That's it. I'm not working anywhere like my my um high all his nerves. That a lot right here. They like that shit, girl, don't. Nobody like no calm shit. But if I wouldn't deal, if I were to get an older man, like, like a real older one, I would not be working anywhere. I think she probably provide him with peace, not meeting on his nerves. Niggas don't like peace. Niggas love no,

they say that, but they don't really like peace. They do a lot of these niggas are not fucking peaceful. They may not made a messful, but they won't peaceful me. Oh so they don't want to be the one to come into third my piece. No, nigga, I'm giving you fucking nail. I'm getting you starting to deal with until the fuck I get about the splat. That's what I'm doing. No, I don't think that men want piece. I think men

liked the drama. That's probably of making a feel young once some boundaries, But you don't want nobody there every time. It's just always turmoil on it, like we'll be feeling it in our bones that a nigga fucking somebody else you don't like nigga? Absolutely fucking not, because don't mumble at my house because I'm gonna shot you. I don't play that. God, never have her, never pop up again. No, I've never done that. But I have been in a relationship where a bitch kept popping up and it's like

do you live here? Like is this you're a second place? Like why do you keep popping up at this man's house? And I'm like, you keep putting dicking this girl, that's why she keep upping up absolutely house when you're not there. She's there. Yeah, but this ain't your nigga, Like I've been here for two weeks, bitch, Like, where were you up for the last two weeks? She was there to two weeks? Proud of you, nag maybe one night before, one night after, but you definitely eve been here for

two weeks. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that type of shit. I don't play them sipe of games. I don't touch my phone. I will touch your phone. I think you'll niggas be going. Old niggas be growing with the firm. Old niggas will hacky a computer. They'll have all your passwords. They got the good. They ain't good with your mama, they're worth good with your me. Yes, Mama loved them because they know how didn't do shit. Yeah, I want to build your house from scratch, old niggas.

Old niggas to build your house to scratch. The mama love them. Young niggas just like yes, I'm sorry with the wood. Yes, fuck the scratch. They just wear dirty clothes all day long, and they be at home depot all the time. That's what you like. I like dirty niggas dirty. Yeah, must the balls, not musty balls. I like men who can do shit with their heads. Yeah. Young men nowadays are not trying to do shit with their hands. They're fucking scamming. Okay, they're stealing my soul

security number. No, no, I don't mind if you know how to build it, as long as you can play somebody to build it. What the house, Yeah, you ain't got to know how to build it yourself. Bobby liking to do some things myself, So I don't want somebody who's always just want to pay somebody, like I want to listen to this thing together a school. I know how to give money, so you so deep. So is it really the age or how much money they got? Well,

younger man typically don't have more money, you know. Younger man are still trying to get established oftentime, so it can't be about the money. You know. With older men are you know, usually have created more wealth for themselves, so it's not money for me. So you just want to nigga, you can laugh with I just want to have a good time. I don't want to I don't want to be in the house, old nigga, I would be feeling like old niggas just want to stay in

the house. That's not true, like they want to go outside. I go outside of old niggas. What time have you, nigga? I only want to go outside for six to ten, eight drunk and fucking by ten. I want to do that. And then it is yes, nigga, he just bought it on. I try to do get outside and no, my body don't work like that. No more bit you yo, you

I'm little azed. I need to be out of the house by six, home by ten and that's it like I don't want to be played up in nobody faces past ten o'clock ten eleven o'clock, Like I really start to her instep pumpkin bitch lost her fucking sandal. Never I'm still out side, like I'm not really into like being in the clubs nowhere. They're like I'm over that, Like standing on couches. I still will do it, but

this is not for me anymore. Well, I do want to be out, Like I don't want to be in the house just watching b That's cool, but I don't want to do that, Like that's the highlight. I feel like when people get older, like TVs the highlight. I don't watch TV like that. Um. The only other issue I do, I would say I have what like older men is like health issues, Like if you are older, you gotta be going to the gym. You know what I'm saying, Um, you gotta be eating a certain type

of die. Well you should starting because I'm not about to be taking care of the old nigga with a bunch of health issues. That's where he goes to the gym and do all the things right and still have health. Is we all gotta die? Absolutely? But I feel like young Nigga is like probably pink. It's really really really yellow, you know, y'all, y'all like hearing no fucking water, just drinking casting me ghosts. But if we're all like when still drinking patrol, I do like I like an older

health health counts health conscious man. Yes, well maybe I you know what, I'm still skinking, probably because I'm fucking with younger men, So maybe who ain't trying to settle down? Right? But if abe yeah, but Ben, Ben, it's probably been good because there's a big part of me that wasn't trying to commit either. Maybe that's the maybe that's the actual conversation that's fair. So obviously, you know some of

this should be pre recording all that good stuff. Y'all gotta tune into YouTube page and check out us doing the limbo for this fucking episode, right seeing Hollo, can we go? And honestly, neither one of us could get really that low. I think I could go lower. I just I have a handicap right now, so I could get a little low, I think. So. Yeah, I listen the way these needs set up, I need to kickstand. I didn't kick stand, Yo, this is a good time.

I'm not going that low. Uh, Like I said, my lucky number is like I like forty three to forty seven something like that. Now I'll go as low as thirty five. That might be my my Uh, that's like the minimum. That's a that's as low as you'll go. Yes, thirty five at this point. Yeah, you mean, like as you'll do as my guy, as my man. Somebody I would marry, thirty five is going to be Okay, Okay, that's it. I mean I don't be you know what. That's my problem because I don't be considering marriage when

I'll be picking these niggas. Bitch. That's something for me to work on though. It's an area of opportunity for me, a learning opportunity. Yeah, that's what i'd be thinking about, Like damn, like, what's the life cycle I'm on? Where he at? You know what I'm saying. That's what i'd be thinking about because I had a conversation with a young man last night and nigga, you're hold like you're not on the same type of time I'm on you just not So I'm not interested at this point in

my life just be having fucking casual sex. Just to. I mean, yeah, look, kinda depends if we're going them up. I want to go to Thailand, so we haven to fuck taking me there, right if a finance twenty nine year olds like, let me take you to Thailand and fuck you and fouquet Yep, I'm there. Yeah you go. I'm flying twenty four hours about that, dick M I ain't crazy. It just all depends. It all depends, y'all again. April twenty second, Pull me in yard, Atlanta, Georgia. Doors

open at eleven am. Y'all pull up to see we talk back and all our cousins. It's a family reunion. We all gonna be in the same space. It's gonna be super duper lit. Hometown DJ DJ Louis V hosted by Shalamagne, A God and Jess Hilarious. Shit is gonna be litt I can't wait. Yeah, it's gonna be fun. I'm a little nervous. I ain't gonna lie because this is our first live show, but I'm I'm more excited than I am nervous. Yeah, man, we're gonna do We're gonna have a good time. Yeah, ye all right, y'all

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