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video games? Oh? Yeah, you know what? I really just want to say death to all spam calls on my phone, Like everybody, I get so many spams. I swear I get thirty spam calls a day. It got to be some type of ag against it. It ain't even your phone no more. I even put my phone number on that website. You know, it's a website out there you can go to and like put your phone number in there to make sure you don't get those type of calls. But I feel like ever since I did that, I

get more FU calls. I'll be cussing the people out. I'll be cussing them the funk out. Look. Sometimes I play with them, especially, don't got them Indians really like Okay, if they call and be like, yeah, can we get your social No, don't say I got I keep get a call I says my Social Security number is suspended or expired. I'm like, how does that happen? But whatever, let me get a new one anyway, because I could

use it. But I'll play along and then I'll start like giving them different numbers and I'll play along for a little bit. Then I'll just start cussing their grass out and they'll cuss you back though, fuck ship whenever I feel like it. But if I rushed to the phone and it's like one of them, I'm mad, I'd be man like, leave me alone. I'll be thinking, it's my it's one of your motherfucker's tell about my extended warranty, Like, man, get out of here. How is your weekend, tam? What

you had going on this weekend? Y'all? What the fund did I do this weekend? Oh? I was in d C Uh? Yeah, I went to d C. I Um. I was there because one of my good girlfriends had her retirement ceremony from the Air Force and I went to do her hair and a couple of other people's hair. And then I slid and did um tequila Talk podcast in d C with Walton Jazz and they were a lot of fun. They showed me a lot of fun, a good time in uh d C. Took me out to a club call Sacks uh that night, got me

a little table, got me a little bottle. You know, I had my name on the mark and it was a good time. Uh So they want to come and do our show. They definitely gotta come and do our show. I talked about you a lot on this episode a j So you're gonna have to go listen to that episode because I spoke about what y'all have been talking about.

What's the show about? What are they? No, they're not a couple of DIF friends and you have a drink of tequila and they have like trending topic similar top shelf bottom shelf, like should they like and ship they don't like? And you know, they pretty much just interviewed me talking about my podcast and you know, you know, our show and things like that. It was a lot of fun. I told them your story about the dog eating the poop girl, not you telling people my worst

life ship. I wish y'all can see how my ex is running around the room like act like he puking in his hand, and he was like, I'm trying to rush the cleaning ship up and my dog ate it. Yo. Yeah, I had to tell that story. That ship was funny, stupid. That ship was funny. Literally, what about your your weekend?

Oh hold, let me just tell y'all the club sacks in d C. Baby Future DJ came in with he got this biggest section in the club and brought twenty strippers with him, and instantly the club went from a normal regular club to a strip club. Seriously, like they was naked strippers. It wasn't like they were strippers off duty with clothes off. No, these strippers came in and was naked. I was like, wait a minute, what happened here? I thought I was in the regular club. I didn't

even bring anyones. Where do I get the ones at? Then? It was like, uh, like up top there was like a burlesque show going on up top. I mean it was just like a lot. He just got strippers on demand on the manholes door. Dad. Stripper's Baby sounds like a business idea to me, right, Like I swear during

the pandemic. I put a pole on my Instagram story asking people if they would pay for virtual shrimp Club during the pandemic, and people was like, nah, they're all of a sudden at Busy and Tory Lanes was on some virtual stripper type ship, like why not, but nobody was paying for it. He was paying them. Put your pussy limps on live. I'll give you all now. The way Instagram and ship set up now, I feel like you could put tips and all that ship. Now you're

definitely gonna be little only fans. Let let another pandemic come around. It's gonna be a uh a J's virtual. I don't know whore house for real, but no. So this weekend I just I hung out a little bit. Um. I went to y'all know, I like outdoorship. I like animals, I like birds, like oh little creatures. I went to this place called um B City. It's in South Carolina. One of my friends surprised me, or even one of my friends. My friend surprised me and took me there

like he took this bitch out for a walk. So that's what we did this weekend. And then Sunday night kind of animals they got tigers, lions, and bears on my No, they got some tigers. No, hell no, they got tigers, all these different types of monkeys. Um, hundreds of thousands of bees, a bunch of birds. I got pictures to the birds. Was like, damn near attacking me, bitch. They was on my weaves, on my head, on my hands, like he just was on my body. What if a

bird would have tried to take your week? Luckily it was blew down that day. Luckily, but you just see me on video set we're fighting birds, bitch, because while you're playing too much. That's nice day. It was nice. I was I like little, I like ship like that, like the ride bike like NIKEL take me the right bike. That's the type of should I'd be liking to do. And um, Sunday night, I just hung out a little bit. So somehow I got friends in Charleston now, so I

got I'm happy. People be calling me to go outside and they think I'm new, so it's even better. Yeah. Yeah, So that was my weekend. You know, Um, I think next week I'm gonna go to Atlanta for the whole week, hang out down there with my bestie. Okay, good because I'm gonna try to set up some ship for us down there, a couple of a couple of little rendezvous down there. Pull up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got a podcast in Atlanta. We're pulling up. Yeah, We're trying to

pull up on y'all for real. So that that stupid bitches. Internet news all kind of shipping going on, not nothing like super crazy. Um, did you see what's going on with Dion Sanders. Oh? Yes, prime prime, The prime situation is what we're gonna call it. A situation is just proof that two things can be true at once on the area because nigga, get your bag and then also at the same time, damn, you're just gonna leave us

like that, all right, y'all. So, um, Dion Sanders just took a job, and what I'm hearing is he's being paid five million dollars um. He took a lead coach position at the University of Colorado Boulder, UM, and he'll be the head coach over there. So a lot of people took the online, you know, took to the internet to say how disappointed they were and Dion Sanders for choosing his career over you know, HBC used because he's

been a coach at Jackson State. I believe what since the beginning of the pandemic, like in the nineteen early and that's his first coaching job, right, So an HBCU. He's also an hbc you graduate also, right, So a lot of good people come out of HBCUs, A lot of black uh business professionals come out of HBCU. So our schools aren't the worst, but we are underfunded a lot of times. Right, Um, sports is what brings any

school the most money. You know, if you're not like a damn Ivy League college, you know how they get their their checks, but you know, you gotta invest in sports. So now I saw a lot of things in the past with him, like complaining about, you know, not getting the support he needed to even like help the school, like help him help them essentially. Right, So now what was this initial m I doubt that his UM income at Jackson is anywhere near five so three thousand dollars,

But they gave him a shot. Do you think that Dion Sanders would have been able to go straight to a bigger right, No, he wouldn't have been able to go to just straight to Colorado. He had to have a winning track record first as a coach. You know, they want to took it your ass. But I don't blame if he ever applied, though, I wonder if he ever even tried. He is Dion Sanders. Let's be clear, he's uh phenomenal baseball and yes, so he may have been.

His start may have been very genuine, you know, trying to help HBCUs and even while in Colorado that work can continue, Yeah, because maybe he could like set up games with HBCUs for Colorado and get them schools to make money. They are gonna beat them big schools. It's gonna be on the pop, okay. But he ain't trying to bring him out there to beat their ass though,

trying to win. But I mean, and you know, I saw an interview with him in when he first started, and he said that these big school was offer your job. He said that would be something he would have to entertain. So it was never He never said that I'm gonna be at Jackson State for the rest of my football coaching career. You know, he never said that. But if I was a student and I turned down an opportunity at a p w Y just based off of him, being my coach. I feel away. I might feel away

like Nigga I could have. I was supposed to go to Colorado, right right, Yeah, So I know two things could be right at the same time. Yeah, So I don't I don't blame him because I'm pretty sure his goal is to get back to the NFL to be a coach. So this is the road to that, right, you know what I'm saying. So I think that he has started something and maybe some other um retired football players they could pick up the torch right and keep

it going. That would be dope if they just you know, but you know, everybody, just because you can play, don't mean you can coach absolutely exactly, because I know some of y'all athletes can't even hold make a good sentence, you know, formulate a good sentence. So how you go and coach exactly? So I want to read this right quick from Gary Chambers, just a little piece of it. So he said two things can be true. One can

be happy to see Dion Sanders advance his career. I believe he's special and has the capacity to do something special anywhere he goes. It just felt good to see him bringing all that black power to black to a black institution. Um. Him leaving does impact right. Um, we have to be able to have more than one perspective at the table to have an honest conversation. First, Dion Sanders can do whatever he feels is best for him and his family. Second, people can feel different things about

how it impacts others because it does. And HBCU is where Coach Prime got his degree and his head coach job. Um, the Winningnessam, excuse me, the winning winning is coach in football history is from an HBCU. HBCUs had and still have value. Um. The question for now isn't about Coach Prime. His decision is made. Is how do we carry what he started forward? And that's just what it is. Yeah, because that's what you're gonna have to do. I mean, ain't know you can do about it? Yeah, yeah, Like

what are we going to do now? For the HBCUs. He's just one man. He's just one man. I just feel like there's like the savior complex people be having, Like y'all be looking for this this one person to put all your faith in that's gonna change everything. Na, it starts with that nigga in the mirror. So everybody has to. But I can't coach. You can't coach. But there's a lot of black men, I know, a lot of good and I mean, it can start with your

little league teams in your city. It can start there, you know what I'm saying, like to make sure those boys go to college. Like it just has to be like a network, which I think it already is. But I'm just saying, we can't just be already with one man. We can't. We can't and the yeah, they mad and mean while I ain't doing ship, you know what I'm saying, but talking on the internet. Right it's the ones who don't even pay their student loans. Girls them student loan.

You pay them student loans. I'm deferred right now, all of us deferred, bitch, all of us spend the fur for the last two to three years, relaxed, and when I tell you, I'm paying them the bear minimum for the rest of my life. Oh I did get approved of that twenty though. Did you apply? No? Not yet. Every time I try to log on and say I can't apply right now because trying to block it day one, bitch, I was in there. You know, we're all white collar ship.

I saw an article, well not an article. I saw the Jasmine and that Kiki Palmer posted a picture of herself in her uh the father of her child, in a very loving embrace, looking very happy, and people were making comments to her that weren't very kind, and it said I just saw a few comments of people saying I was ugly because I wasn't wearing any makeup. And I really want y'all to get to help y'all need, because makeup isn't real. I'm beautiful in real life because

of who I am, not what I look like. I wish I could bottle how I feel about myself and sell it because some people take comments to heart, and these people just say anything. I mean, truly, it's insane to say anyone is ugly, but especially me laughing faces period, because Kiki is not ugly, far from it, right, and she's got a beautiful spirit on top of not being

an ugly person people saw me. I mean, I'd be calling bitches ugly sometime, but I don't be doing it in a common I don't say it just like my mind. I would never go up underneath. I'll put like like the crazy eyes or something like that. But I'm not going to just be like, oh, this person ugly, that's hella mean that girl is pregnant, you know what I'm saying,

Like your face does change a little bit now. I didn't notice like she had acne in the image, which I don't think Kick has ever not have had acne, you know what I'm saying. But other than that, she's a very beautiful girl inside out. And on top of that, y'all bitches getting confused with these shelters. Okay, that's not you, like when we see you in person, that's not going to be you. Right, So to come at somebody for not wearing makeup, just being human, right, just being a

human person and being authentic. You ugly because you're projecting because you're insecure. But I don't have nothing to do with Kiki exactly. Let me tell you, ugly on the inside, ugly on the outside, no matter what you look like. Child people need to get a grip. Child. Humanity is just fucked up right now, in shambles, you know. And I know, I guess I'm a hypocrite because I do be calling bitches ugly. Sometimes talking like bitches is ugly. Let's be clear, it's a lot of ugly bitches out here.

I'm not saying that people aren't ugly Kikei Palmer though, for people to be saying she's ugly for having bare face. Ya. But here's the thing, this just mean to call anybody ugly, whether dogs. Some people be ugly and some people act to you right right cause beauty is what in the eye of the beholder, right, So you don't get to decide like it's only your opinion general consensus that somebody ugly. I'm gonna be clear, y'all can call me a mean girl.

I really don't give a fuck. I feel like if you're a nice person, nice girl, and you're also a pretty girl, you should hang around other nice, pretty girls. I have met some really ugly, physically ugly and ugly spirited girls because they just was unhappy. And I also know some bad bitch ugly bitches like they not. They may not be super aesthetically pleasing, but they are bad bitches all around everything else right, which makes them attractive. I think you just should pick the people who you

are around by how they make you feel. Do you feel good? Are you happy when you're in their space? Then that's how you choose your friends. I don't think you should choose it just on based on how they who. The Internet was just holding heat on about that that girl from Texas to Erica Bank. Yeah, she's like only bad bitches with me. Girl, you just got your body done two seconds ago and now you fucking flexing on people. That's not what I'm talking about. I feel like super

pretty girls hanging with a bunch of ugly girls. They have an instant curity. They too are insecure. That's why you're hanging with just like friends. Nah, because those friends be treating the pretty girls some type of way. I'm telling you, like you have, you have to have friends that are comparable to you. I'm telling you you just have to. Am I lying? Amen? Yes, you'll be trying to be fucking nice, bitch, And when we hang this ship up, you're gonna be like because the benches you'll

be calling ugly. You're calling them ugly for a reason. Look, let me tell y'all me and tell me friends for a reason. I ain't the only one who be on this bit ship. Okay, listen, I admit, I admit that I said I have called people ugly, but I don't be choosing my friends like that. But do you have any like real life ugly friends ugly? I don't think no, no, no, exactly, that's what I'm saying. But I don't think that is because somebody might say some of my friends are ugly.

Somebody might say that I think my friends beautiful, right, Okay, I think all my friends beautiful too, And I picked them bitches because they're beautiful. I remember that, know how me the guy look? I remember I went to Puerto Rico when my first friend I met when I lived in St. Louis, first guy, mad I met this bitch in the club, my friend Ryan, and we went to

Puerto Rico, um to her friends. I didn't know them until we got on the airplane, Like I didn't know them, And when we got to Puerto Rico we all laugh at trip. But I'm like, man, I'm so glad y'all pretty, because imagine going on a trip with some bitches that you really don't know, and it's usually the not so cute one who's acting mean on the trip. Yes, because I'd have been around them not so cute ones. That's the funniest ones. They had the best time, like the

energy they like like, damn, my love is ugly. Couldn't call her ugly? Then, I guess I am saying, it's like, yeah, that personality fucking matters. Yeah, yeah, you're cool. Like now you're beautiful to me because you're just so much fun

and just a ball of good energy. You ain't never been around nobody that wasn't aesthetically pleasing to you at first, and then you get to know them me like you kind of look like Gabrielle Union is something I thought you didn't before, but now you look like I guess it'll make you more beautiful. I don't know what y'all think they're gonna say. I mean, and guess why I don't care. So another thing I saw Tam, there's another post going on online. I think you might have sent

this ship to me. Um. The girl she was like going in um talking about how like a lot of pretty women can't keep a high value man, but a lot of things she was saying, it's true, like I know, like we have this high value man thing all of stuff going on, but the people that are in those circles, they have a certain type of lifestyle and oftentimes if you don't come from that lifestyle you may not know.

In this video, she was saying, how you know, she saw a girl come to an event with a guy, you know, high high value man and everybody it was a gala and everybody had on like gowns and ship like that, and she had like a little two piece number so you already like aesthetically don't fit right, um. And then they said the girl was like noticeably uncomfortable. She couldn't speak to any of the topics that people

were talking about. Right, but this girl and winding right, which is not all the high quality conversations so right that that ship is like they probably would start like that's the thing about that audio that kind of my nerves a little bit. Yea. Yeah. As if you're in a group of women who are from you know, maybe um operational on and you come here and looking a little different, they're gonna they're gonna be acting and different with you. They're gonna be asking you things they know

you don't know to embarrass. You don't know what this girl, they don't know what. We've seen the movies. We know how to we know how snobby bitches do. Okay, now me, I'm a renaissance woman. I could. I'm comfortable anywhere, I can speak to anything. I can't fit in anywhere if all else fels tells a joke, Yeah, like, so I'm

never going to be in no situation like that. But I can see them possibly being mean to an outsider because now maybe this woman is showing up to a guy that probably should be suited with somebody from their friend group. M So, now you this outside bitch coming in. That's really how these circles are m hm. So do you feel like you agree with her that you need to like advance your palette. Yes, absolutely, if that's the lifestyleue. If you want to high value life, you want to

high value man like. These are different types of people. They probably went to IVY like the real high value ship, right, They probably went the IVY league colleges. You know, they're probably CEO of big corporation ship like that. You need to be able to talk about politics, You need to be able to talk about, you know, the good vacation places like. You need to be able to talk about different types of yachts. Who knows. But she was like, what are your thoughts on what's going on in Ukraine?

She was like, and she didn't. I don't even know she knew if that was where that was. Yeah, like you need to be able to fucking read a map. I don't think a lot of people know where Ukraine, Russia and Germany are on a map. I really don't, because people lately, a lot lately have been confused in Russia with Germany. Yeah, I used to live in Ukraine. I know, I told you all that before, but I did live there. Acts me that being I'll tell you all about it actually while I was living there for

a year. But see, those are the life experiences you you would have had to have to have these conversations these people. So she's not wrong. So this is another case of two things can beat you at the same time. Right, she's not wrong. But then it's like snowshy, real snowshy, posha posha snobby together exactly. And meanwhile, I'm gonna be me no matter where I go at. So guess what y'all bitch is gonna acts to me? Yeah, that excuse me?

How it is like you won't have to come down here if you feel like you're up here and I'm down here. I bet you by the end of the evening you could be drinking. Do say, bitch, Ashley, you'rself funny and I'm a slide with y'all. Hide by you man? Good this um? So look, good morning America child. Here go another black man or whatever ambiguously black man cheat. No, his goddamn black wife. His wife nacky with a good hair. Yes, okay. So Amy Robot and t. J. Holmes from ABC's Good

Morning America, they've been sleeping together. So the wife said that, you know, they did have some issues they've been working on, you know, but they're they're still married m hm. And apparently Amy got divorced in September. You know what this is a conversation about workplace romance is you know, that's a big thing. Like you're around these people nine eight to nine hours a day, five at least five days a week. Is it hard not to fund someone on

the job? Right? I work. I work in environments that are with females and gay men, so there's nobody for me to fun. But I wonder if I worked in an environment that included heterosexual men, would I be smashing? Right? Where I come from, Corporate America and you will definitely be smashing. Okay, let's be clear, somebody, I had a relationship with one of my supervisors ones uh, like a year or so, like we're still good friends, but other than that, Yeah, but like just that was like the

only relationship I had on the job. All the other times I'm working from home after that. So, but in an office setting, you're definitely going like you you guys spend a lot of time together, y'all joke, y'all, laugh, y'all, eat lunch together, like you're you're spending more time with this person than your spouse or than your girlfriend a boyfriend at home. So things happen, and it's not illegal. It's highly unethical, but they know they're not really violating

any um like um work hr ship. Well, they need to put that in the Code of Conduct manual, do not fuck nobody up here, Go to your man. You're on page thirty seven. It says right there on the top, don't fuck nobody up here those words in particular. It's hard, though, it's hard when you at least at least flirting, you're gonna at least be flirting and talking shit at least

that you're gonna at least be frattenizing. So and then these people are having these conversations, in depth conversations about different things. So a lot of times, um, they may put people together that have the same point of view on something, so now you'll have the same mind kinda. So he may have more in common and with her than his damn wife at this point, right who he's not seeing that often. I don't like that me either, But it happens. It happened, It happens. So they've been

both suspended. Um, they haven't decided. ABC hasn't decided if they're gonna, um, you know, terminate the two of them. But I don't think happen. Every time Mary Alice from Wyoming turns on Good Morning America, all she sees is his dick in her mouth. And I can't watch this anymore. So listen. This says the haunch is over. At ABC News have made the decision to take Amy Robock and t J. Holmes off the air, calling a couple's relationship a distraction, with next steps to be sorted out by

executive sources at ABC tell TMZ. ABC News President Kim Goodwin made the announcement during an editorial call Monday morning, calling it sit you wation and internal and external distraction.

Um gonna get fired? Yeah, I think so too, And it says Kim also said the decision wasn't easy and not a violation of company policy, like I said, Um, she added, and so I want to say that while that relationship is not a not in violation of the company policy, I have really taken the last few days to think about the work through what I think is best for the ABC News organization. So it does sound like they but let they ask go yeah, because now they can't even laugh at jokes together on the air.

It's like, oh, y'all think some ship funny, and they said keeping I don't even think it was like some So maybe he getting the doors too right because she, like I said, she got divorced in September. But y'all listen, when we come back from um this break, we're gonna get into today discussion this and this last like stupid in that news story kind of you know, it's sets the yeah exactly. So, Um, we're talking about side bitches, We're talking about mistresses, sneaky links and sneaky links. What's

the difference. I think it's the money, exactly. Bitch, all right, y'all, so listen, we're back. So a couple of weeks ago, I know y'll probably saw this Kaisha please. She was online. She was talking to a group of friends in the house and they were talking about the difference between sneaky links inside bitch as it was m hmmm, and I'm like, you know what, that's a real good topic. We need to talk about that, because then we've got a lot of sexually liberated women out here with your bitches got

going on though, right fun with somebody husband. So I think the sneaky link is just two people who come together to have sex every now and then, but they probably don't really talk on the phone, they don't really have like a emotional connection of any sort. Is just like straight physical yeah, hook up. And then a savage is like a girlfriend alternate girlfriend to your wife or your girlfriend. If you have one your main person that

you're with every day. This person gets trips, this person might get money, this person gets good morning text messages and conversations, but they don't get Valentine's they don't get Christmas, they don't get that. They might even get a baby, but they don't get No. Seriously, they might even get a baby out your asks, but they don't get none of the accolades of being the main girlfriend. And sometimes the main girlfriend might know eventually, especially if you have

a baby. About the side the mistress, it's just like a side but with more money. I feel like it's like a tax barket thing. Them high value men have mistresses. She's taken care of somewhere. She probably got her own little how high rise apartment, apartment house whatever. I think oftentimes the wife knows about her, right, you know, I think, but we so well taken care of that, she don't she Stevie wanted to the bullshit like, I'll deal with

the mistress. I ain't dealing with no petty cibit ship, okay, because I feel like to do to do like the cyber ship and the mistress ship. You have to have money, right, What type of woman is allowing you to do this? Right? If you're not compensating her? Yeah, like you really want this? You really want this? Other woman's man that bad? I don't he please compensate me, sir? Like you have to pay for the amininity. That's really what it is. So

usually the missions, I don't think it. I don't think it's like completely transactional like that, like where you just pay, like here's the money and be quiet. No, absolutely they're not, but they are. They are probably paid and taken care of well enough to where they gotta way those risks like I'm not about to funk this up. I'm chilling over here, like he got his wife. They do their thing. We take vacation once ice a year together too, Like maybe I don't want a man add percent at a time.

Maybe I'm okay with thisft you know, but how would you get in a space where you're okay with that? Like you're never you're just by yourself for Christmas every year. Um. I think a lot of women are habitual side bitches, like their mama probably was a side bitch, like this is this is just coming through the bloodline. Habitual habitual side b Yeah, this is just what they do. Like they may not be the type of woman who wants

a man, like a full time man. Um maybe they have other men that they entertain for those during those times. Oh yeah, that makes sense. I don't know, you have a you have a maid. But then no, because that don't because the man ain't gonna be okay with that. The man who's taking care of care of you, he's not gonna be okay with you having other men. No, but listen, there are women with side niggas, absolutely, But I feel like when a woman has a side nigga,

it's more of a sneaky link side nigga ship. That man ain't taking care of that woman financially, that's still your husband's job to take care of. You're just getting sucked by somebody else. That's what's happening. So who do you think better? I would think a guy would be better because they don't get as emotionally attached like women do. Women have a strength connected what I ain't gonna say women, I have a stream connected from my heart to my vagina.

So unless you call hopper, unless you like sell pussy, like really like that's what you do for a living, that heart gonna run straight to your COUCHI for sure, or other way around the couch. Women don't They like a whole grown men out here that don't care and just be fucking for fun and don't care and send

it at home right after and just don't care. And the man probably like you know, she got a lot of trauma why a woman got to have trauma when we just want to funk on you and have your ass leave because you do you do have trauma if you like that. But man, right, yeah, So I think that men may be better at being on the side because women have more integrity and we may be more

honest with the man on the side. Women. If you if I'm in a relationship with somebody and I'm cheating on them, the man I'm cheating with no exactly what this is. I'm not like making him think he could be my girlfriend. Like there's no gray area. Yes, men be pillow talking with the side bitch. So now when you don't drop dick off or money off or whatever it is, now you're hitting me up on my job. Is disturbing my day because my man ain't dropped dicking

money off. Like now you're trying to make me mad because you're mad. So women have more integrity when looking. Women have more integrity when it comes to cheating. You're all so full of shi it. Okay, that's so full of ship because this makes sense. Hold on, I just want you all to hear that she acknowledge. Yo, this makes me my sense to me, women have more integrity than men when it comes to cheating, because we're honest with the person that we're cheating with. Oftentimes that person

probably got a whole situation themselves. We ain't trying to tie up a single person. We fucking want somebody who got some ship to lose. That's not always true. But just be savages too and be out here. Tells that they love them and they're gonna leave. The husbands ain't not happy knowing that they ain't going nowhere. We did have some cheating bitches on here, remember, or one of

them was cheating. Yeah, but I'm pretty sure the man she was cheating with wasn't about to call her husband, call her husband, job pop pop up at the house. You know why. It's because of the type of relationship she has with them, the honesty she has with them. The one the woman that pops up at this man's house knowing he has a wife, is because you've sold

her a bag of it goods. You told a lot of times though they just be jealous and like, okay, if I'm about to make all y'all, have they fucking raw? That's what I do know. That's whenever a woman started acting real stupid. It's because you're man. Yeah, yes, that's what's happening. Because women ain't really really studying condom dick like that. We ain't really that concerned. I'm not. I'm

not deccessured about it. They gotta with a condom because I don't even like him for real, use condoms always, And I have loved someone and used condoms with them consistently because they did was outside and I just couldn't. I wasn't. I can't trust where they did. You know it was going when it left me, So I'd rather just not. I still loved him very much, I did, but I just I just don't trust nobody without a

condom at this point in my life. But you're putting it all down your throat though, like, like, what do you think on having down that throat? That can't happen to that couci. I put a condom on with you, don't s shut up? Who you lially trying? Who are you talking to? Who are you talking to? I put the condom on with my mouth. Look, I wish we was like on YouTube or something. Put it one in the chat. If y'all second, dick with a condom? Oh on the movies, like, who does that in real life? Me?

Are you serious? Are you just playing? I'm Li's stupid for no reason like this me, why are you lying to me? You in thousands of other bitches? Okay, yeah, and guess what, none of them other thousands bitches they might be snashing with a condom, they're definitely not. Like sucking dick with a condom. That is outlandish, y'all wasting condoms. Dog, I tried it that nasty ass latex tasty amount and it's like powdery, Like, why are you doing that? Gross? Yeah,

So that's anyway. I do haven sex with a condom. You know, I probably will press practice abstinence more than just I don't. I don't enjoy sex that way. I don't. So let's go to the doctor. But you ain't going to a doctor, We're not. But I go for me though, So I always got people work on my pussy, like, and I'm gonna ask you about yours. When's the last time you had a check up? Yeah, we all got to go together. But as a grown man and a grown woman, you need to be going at least every

three to six months if you are sexually active. No, So yeah, I got paperwork on this pussy. You got the pussy facts exactly, wh show me the dick facts, Show me the dick facts. So yeah, I think that mistresses are for Richmond side. Bitches are from middle class. Okay, you may not get you know, your full rent paid. He may contribute to it a little bit. Groceries, light bill ship like that. Whenever you need something you know you can needn't ask hire, Yes, he coming through. He's

gonna come through for you. Um, I think sneaky link could be. I don't even think, yeah, sneaking like it's just like everybody, because I think about um working in like a corporate setting and you seeing people who these are, Like, I guess I don't know your high value people. These people, Um, I know for sure business professionals, these holes, they like their low annual trips to the grille, to Jamaica, the fun on other business professionals they got. They had all

these low travel groups. Single is fucking all these low travel groups all over They're going to Egypt next year to buy or whatever. Like they are planning to get smashed on these trips and those that's a sneaky link situation. So it really doesn't ball down to like money in that case, it's just like too consenting adults with the ships.

Yeah right, you and now you're getting fired for good one in America because you didn't fuck up or like Knia Long baby daddy, like she should have been married at man, that's her fault at least, like if she was playing on from doing what he did. No, absolutely not, but you'd have some paperwork on that dick that maybe you can be compensated for the heartbreak. That's what I'm talking about, because now she's looking for an apology from the from from the goddamn get from the team. Girl.

They may fuck They didn't embarrass them though, so I agree with I agree with Nia Long and that they embarrassed them because that is like her Man embarrassed the team. Absolutely, her Man embarrassed the team. So did the two holes he was sucking at work for the team. Yeah, they it was you know who knew he was in a relationship, the team and Nia. So they owe an apology to the Celtics into Nia. I don't feel like the Celtics or heard an apology. Um, the organization didn't do it.

They went in they're like cool, cool, Yeah, man, I don't agree to Hammy because I feel like there's okay, just imagine this is the same thing, work, work, relationships, same thing, right, So you don't think there's never been a time where a white man slept with somebody else's wife on one of those teams and stuff like that. It's not publicized in the way they did this. Man. Was it the Celtics that did it or was it

everybody else? And they had to do some damage control if, if how else did it come out one of the husbands, the husband heard her talk, heard his wife talking to him on their doorbell. So I don't know where it went from there and how. But look, even with this thing with um Good Morning America, they told the story to TMZ, ABC told TMZ do you see what I'm saying? So it could stay in the house if they wanted to. They chose to embarrass me along. Um what's his name? Ibaka?

Isn't Ibaka? Right? I don't know that. Yeah, they chose to embarrass them because I feel like it was a cover up for that ship that was going on with Brett Farb. Yeah, talk about that how he was embezzling all that damn money but yeah, so I don't know nobody or her in the policy. But then baka no, absolutely, and I wouldn't blame her if she stayed with me either.

I mean, people stay with people for more for yeah, like if you choose to you know, if y'all have the conversation that it takes and y'all find a way to heal from that ship and decided to fight through exactly, people would be like any kind of Like I couldn't stay with him after the public embarrassment and your baby daddy got your job doing the same sho oh, you probably stayed with somebody who wasn't even provided for you

and fucking you over like that? How about that? Right? Well, I don't have a journey for nobody when it comes to their relationships and matters of the heart. Right, I agree? But um, I found a good article. It's written by Tom Miller's on your tangle dot com, so it's like a blog site. Mm hm. So look, the title of it is there are only three kinds of home records in the world. When we use that term home record, you automatically think about a woman. Mhm. That's what I

don't like about the title home record. Because guess what, bitch is the home record is a motherfucker that's in the home, right first, that's the first home record there. Yeah, we can't hold those people outside the home acountable. But the first person that's in the home, that's the person who wrecked it. So, your husband, how are you gonna record home that's already rick? Exactly? Like how you expect somebody outside your relationship to respect it when the people

in it aren't. Yeah, I'm confused. Okay. So um, so this is the three kinds of home records this this blog post is talking about. So it says the mistress, which we mentioned, it says, you're familiar with the concept of a mistress. She's a woman who has a long, loving relationship with a man, or a woman in a complimentary capacity to the man's marriage. Both parties know that the man is being unfaithful in our traditional, in our

traditional understanding of the word to his wife. Okay. While some mistresses appreciate that they'll never replaced a man's wife in a legitimate slash legal sense, other mistresses hold out hope that he'll come to his senses and leave the mother of his children. Semantically speaking, I'm not sure where to go with this. But a man may believe he loves his mistress, his wife may know about her, and

a mistress may also be married. Okay, So now this person is listening out the pros and cons Okay, so says uh pros. Some level of affection may receive thoughtful gifts or trips. Couldn't make for a fantastic novella. Someday both parties know the deal. Cons um it's sort of becomes it sort of becomes a second marriage. He's not leaving his wife for you. Exposing the whole thing is kind of a dick move, even in the case of a breakup. Okay, So that's the mistress. That's sound about right.

Sounds right to me, all right, So now be on somebody's side. That would be the position I would want if I had to pick one of those. Yeah, Because what I was trying to explain earlier is that men do be men be all in love. Like it's not just women that fall in love inside situations. Men fall in love. You funk with somebody long enough, you're gonna fall in love. But I just want my you know, I don't even want my own. I do want my

own nigga. I just want to be the main Honestly, I don't anticipate that a man will never like we get together now and he'll never I would I would be hopeful that he wouldn't step out on me for the remainder of our life. But I just feel like, if you get a good creamative crap fass type, there's a hard there's a large chance that it could happen at some point in your relationship. Right, it would be naive to think that it it could never have not us, you know, I couldn It wouldn't be naive to feel

that way. But yeah, I don't know. I don't know where I was going with that. I just know I would rather be the main or if I'm gonna not be the main one, then I would want that first one. I wouldn't want to be the side bitch order sneaky link. So you do want to be the taken care of mistress. If I had to choose one of those three, ideally I would want to be the wife obviously, But if I had to choose one of those three, definitely the

mistress and not the savage or the sneaky link. The sneaky link just don't even sound that's not palatable for me for any reason. Why would I just want to fuck exactly? That's my thing now sometimes but no, um, sneaky link is like twice a year situation like I don't know, just somebody that you know gonna suck you real good, like you might pull up on the ass right quick. And it's just like that's just what it is. Like I knew where I could get some good dick

from and I went there. That's about I get it. I get it. I get it all right. I think from women like sneaky links is more so like the people who you funk with in the interim, like in between relationships, like you just know we if you whenever you get that little urge, that's not a sneaky link. That is a sneaky link that I feel like a sneak Like if you're just sucking somebody that you used to fuck because you horny, is that a sneaky link.

A sneaky link is win he could be in a relationship. Now, okay, okay, all right, you know what I'm saying, Like that's a sneaky link, y'all. Just like sexually attracted to each other. That's just what it is, y'all. Don't talk, y'all, don't talk on the phone about nothing, you so listen right, all right? So the side chick, A side chick represents truly the best and worst of all women traits. What does that mean? Exactly? All? It says, truly the best

and worst of all other women traits. A side chick is entitled to things like dates and gifts on her birth if they she may or may not know if the guy is married. She hasn't married herself, and treats it as a nascent relationship in any case. And um, nasan means like just coming into existence, and oh, like you know, like it's just starting. Okay, Yeah, So I mean sometimes when you meet somebody, you don't know what they have going on in life. So that's essentially what

it's saying. Um. Even if she knows her status, she may feel compelled to tell the original wife of the situation. The wife is likely unaware of the side checks existence, but may have her suspicions. Many of the man man's friends know about the side chick and anxiously, anxiously await one of three outcomes. She's promoted to the mistress, she's um unceremoniously dumped, often with the ghosting technique, or she decides to read havoc by exposed in the situation to

the light of day. A side chick may have a day of the week assigned to their relationship. Um and it says the pros are the sexiest, is dynamite, as you know each other's likes and dislikes, and the novelty has in no way worn off. While intense, the whole thing still has an air of casualness to it. The dates are great because you're both getting high off sneaking around. Cons She could be young enough to be his daughter. There may be money left on a dresser that muddies

the water. This a man wrote this, This is funny. It's fun to me. Um, this will probably not in gracefully. The husband, wife, or side chick may end up stabbed. That's funny, shame, So listen. Are you a side chick only if a man or mistress only if a man is married, if he has a girlfriend, or you a side check or is your nigga just out here choosing so? Because like girlfriend boyfriend relationships are prerequisites right for marriage. M hmm. I think it would depend on how serious

and how long these people have been together. If y'all living together and stuff like that, got businesses together, like y'all building a life together, heading towards marriage, and he's like out here choosing. I feel like that could be like a side bitch situation, Like he might have a side bitch. Some people take side bitches into marriages. I know some bitches who the nigga didn't choose, and this man got married, and you stole funking with him while

he done got married. You. Now, that's a whole another level of commitment to a role exactly. I know a couple of bitches like that. I don't feel like if it's a girlfriend, I just all right, y'all, no shade, but I just don't respect girlfriends the way I respect wife. So like I don't feel like it's a savage, a mistress or you know, if you're a girlfriend, if you're a wife. If this man has a wife, then you outside bitch or a mistress. If he has a girlfriend,

y'all just outside everybody out here playing right. I don't I don't see it that way, you know. I like to say and I probably joke about the ship. But I'll funk with somebody boyfriend, but I don't know my husband. Yeah, Like I try my hardest, I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna say i've never I've never done it, especially when you're dealing like older men like his wife probably got a boyfriend, you know what I'm saying. Like these sicker know each other, they probably for twenty five years,

Like they sticky each other. Like it's like nigga, long as you're paying these bills. Where in the girlfriend college fund, young bitch, you're fucking that, go bother her. Jeez, Wilson, go over there. She's just outsourcing some pussy like it's

basically what it is. But day my normal setting, my normal setting is definitely not the funk with somebody husband because listen, I'm probably beating you up about my husband, you know what I'm saying, Because I do have this thing where I do believe, yes, the home record is the person that's in the home, But women do keep cheating, going like your man can't cheat unless a woman is willing to compete, and oftentimes like this is, they're gonna do that. And then I respect women who played a

played a played the position like the mistress. I respect that the ones that get on social media and y'all blasting these guys and ship like that, Like I cannot respect that. You're stupid, Yeah, like why you do what you got you signed up for? Why are you out here and you're exposing yourself more than anybody exactly because with celebrit and he's like, everybody knows this guy is married.

His wife is a stupid you stupid bitch. Everybody knows this is a married man, and you chose to let him have his way with you, and then on top of that, you want to flex on his fucking wife like she wrong for being mad? Right, No, a bit you need to get beat up. Yeah, I agree, you need if you're gonna be fucking on somebody husband, you need to be quiet. Yep, yep. So the last one they let's hear is a jump off, which I think

essentially that would be like sneaky links. Uh activity um, So, like this thing is for women written by a man, but we know that men will cheat with people too. But I guess when a woman is getting fucked, a married woman is getting fucked by some outside dick is not seen as jump off behavior. It's just her being a slept is what men would say, so jump off

this term is slightly more nubulus um. A jump off is a gal or a guy he mentions, who is just around for the sex stuff, the absolute closest thing to luxury and this relationship UM is a rod and escalade. I stay at a red roof in and possibly Hanfair and possibly ca Fair home, or a Hamburger sandwich from McDonald's. This could be a repeated engagement, though irregular, or a single serving bone fest. Meet Ups with a jump off are typically at odd hours, involved a text message along

the lines of UM, and are fueled by alcohol. W y D is what it is right right UM. The key difference between a jump off and any other unfaithful activity is that it's clear, explicitly or not, that this relationship would never evolve past s a mis s, M S and smash. A jump off typically doesn't know if a partner is married, nor does she particularly care. This is expressly a key meets ignition transaction. A jump off situation is in no way, shape or form exclusive to

either party. And let's see, so the pros are this is just about sex um. To say that the effort is mutually meant minimal would be an insult to the word minimal um. You've you'd have to be a moron to get caught and cons She may show up in his phone as Rick, which is unfortunately sure for trick. Y'all may be giving each other worse and worse stains of her Uh, y'all may be giving each other worse and worse strains of her pies. What you may be enough of a moron to get caught and hold on

this ship gives examples. Let's see. I don't care to name him anyway, that was the part least pretty solid description of those uh those women or men when dealing with people jump off do not just get sandwiches McDonald's and herpies. Goodness now, jop offs do just get dick, and sometimes they might get dick from you and your homeboy. Okay, yeah, you're right, Yeah, I agree there the jump off. That's the sneaky link though, right, Nah, like sneaky link. I

feel like it's like more mutual. It's not like it seems like what the jump off is like the woman is getting played somehow, But that's not fair. Why the it's just that double standard. We gotta deal with We just gotta deal with it. It's just it's just true. We cannot do the things that men do. No, you know what I'm saying, I don't you know, I have no desire to have my dick in the dirt anyway, So exactly if I had one, I don't want my

couching the dirt neither. Right, Shoot, y'are young holes, man. We'll be trying to tell y'all. Listen, y'all can live like curiously through this damn show. Y'all don't have to go through these dumb bit ships. You know your stories, and y'all don't have to. Y'all can listen to this and make better decisions. So then that way you aren't in your fucking mid thirties trying to reflect like God, Dad, where the funk up at? Right? Don't like at the end of the day, just don't be a mistress, a savage,

a jump off, or a sneaky link. I mean you might get do the sneaky link every now, man, but don't be none of the rest of them. That's just lucrative fun the hoes unless it's lucrative. Do that ship got all it? You gotta pay for college? Girl, Let me tell you no, don't do that ship man, do none of that. Just leave it alone. Trust me that I put you in his will. Shoot U m hmmm, and be the main I just think is it cheating? If I think it's cheating. If the side bitch looks

better than your your girl, that's cheating. The side bitch always looked better than me, that's cheating. That is cheating. That's always she's always younger, finer. That's cheating. Yeah, it's cheating. And what's also cheating is if they're comfortable too. It gotta be extreme opposite. You went and found you from when y'all met, he would have found a version of you that he used to be. That is cheating. That's so hurtful. That is cheating. But then I also don't

like men who don't have preference. I cannot stand like seeing a woman that a dude is messing with. I'm like, she don't look nothing like me, she's nothing like me. Like, you don't have no preference. You just out here fucking on whatever. That is weird worst, that's the worst. At least let her be a bad bit. Yes. I remember this girl that I know from high school and she

was like really pretty. All the boys loved her, right, and uh, she grew up and started working with this no good ass drug dealing as nigger, and he went and got this girl pregnant. Baby. This girl can't, she can't. I don't think she know how to read. She's very unattractive, very unfortunate looking girl and uneducated and just bottom of the barrel bitch. It's just like you got her pregnant. I would I don't understand. She stayed with him too. And like I said, I don't have a judge jury

for anybody and when it comes to their relationship. But that have been here for me because you put your date anywhere, sir, you put your dick anywhere. And I am assaulted that you got this bitch bregnant. Shame. Listen my ex, the one that's in prison. Oh, I think you're about to come home too soon, so that I gotta listen. That ship don't got nothing to do with me, because I found out that that fool as a whole kid out here at the same age as how long

he's been in prison. So let's be clear. But anyway, So when exactly, but the first this first child, Um, we were and in a long dis relationship. We definitely was in a relationship when this baby was conceived, right and the morning the girl had a baby and he sent me the picture of the baby. I was like, yes, why because she looked funny, the baby, the baby looked funny. No, you're going for that. Babies be looking weird when na bitch,

she thought she was. But they had his fine ace nigga baby and she was gonna have a super gorgeous little baby and it just didn't happen that way. She's pretty now, but she had to grow into her looks. She definitely looks like her mama and daddy. But it's not a good mix. It wasn't a good mix anyway. It's the truth. And that nigga know it too. And if you listening, old girl, that was my nigga. You had a baby before and I slept it was like four o'clock in the morning when he sent me that

picture to him. And when I tell you like, I feel like, because I mean it was we was together, damn it, the whole pregnancy, so like I knew it was happening. So he said, and then furthermore, like my ex he is like my family member, Like I love him like a family member, you know what I'm saying. So even like if he do like little, I could not just discard him completely in life, you know what I'm saying. So so he sent me the picture of the baby, and I slept like a fucking baby, just

knowing like, hey, hey y'all got this log. Yeah, slept like whatever, that's y'all baby. But um, he was a nigger that never cheated with anybody that was comparable to me, Like I swear all the bitches was like super I'm brown skinned. Everybody's super light skin and two fifty pounds plus. Like he liked big light skin bitches. That's what that was his thing. And I wasn't that. So I don't know that was his preference. And what the hell are you doing with me? I feel like that was his

real preference. But I like men with a big girl. Now in prison, you probably know I'm not about to play with him. I was about to say he probably with a big nigga. I know he know that type of time, but no, I don't know, he might be with a big one. I don't know. The second baby. Mama wasn't a big one and she was brown skin, so I don't know, more proud to than people. And that baby, that baby, that beautiful baby. Yeah she's beautiful. Now.

I saw her last year. She's a beautiful little girl, but I hadn't seen her since he basically went to prison. But um, yeah, I wish them the best anyway, child, We ain't got no dumb bitch stories this week, okay, y'all, so listen. Rather you're the side bitch, the main bitch, the mistress that jump off, the kickoff, the sneaky link. Listen, be good or be good at it. Okay, that's just all I gotta say about it. That's a advice, my advice.

It's just don't be nobody's mistress, side bitch, sneaky link. Just be the main or nothing. All that ship is a headache and it never ends well for the woman ever, So don't do it, ladies, all right, man, I love y'all. That's it man, she Hey, look hey, if you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on an I Heart radio app at wherever the fun you get your podcast. That this is your co host AJ Holiday two point oh. Y'all following me on Instagram. We got YouTube,

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