Ep. 74 "Ghostest With The Mostest"

should have been like my birthday weekend. I just went out to dinner and stuff, just a little regular stuff's spectacular. I'm I'm heading Atlanta this week While be in Atlanta? What's going on in Atlanta? I want to come? Oh girl, I don't want to come. You can't come see you like hopefully. Maybe I don't know what's going down, but that's why I'll be at I might getting into some some fun times down there. Possibly, girl, Um, I didn't

do ship this weekend either? Kind of this weekend? Damn, Lie, didn't you post a video what she was doing this weekend, A little drunk video. You remember that? Oh yeah, I got drunk. Does that counting something? That's regular? Ships? He nobody? Okay, So I went to a few bars. I went to Taboo, I went to Crave. I love Crave, man, I'm going to get some. But it was like too many niggas

on me and there because I went by myself. When you go out and see it at the bar alone, it's just like, yeah, because they think you selling pussy. Oh is that what it is? Let me see if this bit charging or not? Yeah, girl, I enjoying myself because it was just too many men interrupted my little lamb chops, Like damn, get out of my face. And that's what you went there for. I went for lamb chops and who you really went there to eat? Yeah?

I really did what you had on. I had on like this little two piece number like it wasn't like you know, imagine if you went in there with your little two pieces now around and nobody said nothing to you, how to funk? Would you feel? You know what? Honestly, sick niggers yesterday, I was just I was okay with not being bothered. It's okay. I would have been okay with that all right? Oh then also I did do ship this weekend, chirping because I went to a concert

Saturday night. I went to the Legends tour. I think that's what it was called. Was Trina Rick Ross was supposed to be on it, but he come. Tia was supposed to be on it, but he wasn't there either. Um two chains, Jeez, Gucci and jar Rule. I had so much fun. Like I woke up yesterday. I had been singing so much and screaming so much at the concert that when I woke up Sunday morning, AJ was like, damn, you sound like a whole man. Good morning to get mowing. I think get mo owning to you. That was so

that was it. And then Friday I did definitely didn't do anything because I had to work early Sunday morn Saturday. So that was my weekend. Sounds like fun, It wasn't fun weekend. Fun weekend? So what we got going on the stupid internet news this week slash news. Some stupid ship happened. Uh, there's a tampon shortage. Apparently we're running out of tampons across the nation. So I really stopped

using tampons anyway, Like I don't using care. I guess when they say we're running out of toilet tissue and pads, it's really gonna be a problem. All Right, We're gonna have a lot more shortages. That's just what's gonna come for the last election. But there has never been a you heard me with the last election that's happened. It

comes with the last election. Okay, yeah, how funds? I try to told y'all, if you're tampon users, go ahead and stock up, ladies, if you you know, go to the store, you see something, gets something, because you're gonna be we're gonna be bleeding on rags out this bitch by. I feel like, you know, uh, feminine products should be free anyway. They should have been free tampons, pads and something like, and then the price of the stuff just

keeps going up. Like it's just not fair. I feel like if women just start walking around bleeding every guy then where it probably would have been free, but we just kept paying for that ship. Nobody want to see that? Uh what else? Oh? Young Miami started her podcast Karrisha Please and did he was on there looking like what you like about me? What is we? What is we? Tell me what is we? You can't help about the love people like that, Like that's like one of my

cousins from the hood somewhere like us. That's what she is us in a way, you know, I mean, I don't we you know you you you know. I just mean in the aspect that she saved herself and she's gonna say what she feels. And did he what is we? Nigga? Don't play with me? Well we go together? Were acting bed? I just I don't know. I feel some type of way about older men that only be dying younger women like that, because I really feel like they'd be used

surfing them bitches energy, like to stay young? Like did he looks young as fuck? And I mean not like in a fake way, like really in a more sorcery type way. You're surfing a bitch energy. We'll see if here I started looking at old let me find out. J swear? Did he what are the witches from Focus Pocus? He's just such? He might be an energy vampire. Yeah, he might be an energy vampire. I don't know. Man, did he look young? Man? Did he look really youthful?

And look? This is a I also want to give you all a prime example of what a hole and a slut is. These are two different types of sexually liberated women. Right that the Asian chick Gina in or how ye Gina in? How do you ever pronounce her last name? That's a slut? Did you see that picture she took with Diddy's hand like Caresa got a whole show? And all you posted was this man's hand on your damn breast on the internet? Yeah, that's He's like, she ain't got no show. How you know she is sluck

because she posted that's a slut. Kresha is a whole Coresia getting check, Kresha getting the money, Kresha got a show, Kuresha getting trips? You heard? Did he? He He was like, don't we have fun? Yeah? Like yeah, that's did I want to go? Yeah? Please gotta pick tam up? Did he add her to your damn here? Um? Look, Kevin,

what what the funk would you do? If you airbnb your your place out and you come back in time in town and the cleaner says that the person that was staying there won't leave or so there, what would you do? Were gonna have to fight? I feel like going to jail would take a less time from fighting then going through courts trying to get her out of my house. I'm not about to be miserable in my own house where I lay my head. That's just not happening. I just go to jail. I'll do it on Monday

so the court is open. I won't do it over the weekend. And I'm about to beat this bit up. She's gonna want to get the funk out of my house. You gonna want to stay here, You're gonna be shipping up. You're gonna be poisoned, like I'm gonna poor. So a woman is going viral on social media because she rented her air She rented her home out to try and you know, bust down her mortgage. Faming a little bit. So she rented her home out on air Baby, was it just a room? Okay? So she rented a room

out on Airbnb. And this person is staying past their book date basically, And I'm trying to figure out, how does does Airbnb not intervened at this point? Did you? That's a big old girl too, That's what I said. No spotters, right is after ten years, not after a couple of nights. That's after tennant. Yeah, you gotta squad the police and they can't put her out. That's some bullshit. Is she still paying? No, this is not a part, This is not a hotel. Like I feel like she

should be able to end the agreement. That's that's that's really weird that that can happen to somebody that later will be one to get out of my house because I'd be in there acting real food. And she walked past camera. She was like, I ain't going nowhere, deal with a big burly. But she the girls like, see see it right there, see it, see it right there. She's like, getting out my house. I ain't going nowhere, a bitch. You can record if you want to. Damn,

that's nuts. Yes, that's crazy. I just don't. I don't think it's a good idea to airbnb in the home that you live in anyway, Like you should airbnb other properties, not your actual living space, right if I mean, if you're gonna be away from your home for an extended period of time, it's smart to go ahead and airbnb d I would block off access to my main quarters though, like whatever, people I don't like people. I like so, I don't even like my own girl did that. Once.

She had a couple rent out a room at her um in her in her town home for like two weeks or something like that on Airbnb, and man, she ended up having to do a whole counseling mediation session like they were fighting. They were fighting in her house, bringing the energy, staying in your house. Mm hmmm. She didn't live there no more, but yeah, that that really happened and she had to sit down with them and police getting called all types of dumb ship what some

strangers some fucking random strangers in your house fighting? Yeah, so did you see these uh, these thirty one white nationalists from this uh what is the group called the Patriots something some girls group? Yes? My thing is why y'all got all these people faces covered. Let the community see who these people are. Notice that they still let these people keep masks on their faces. So these people got arrested in Idaho for they were planning to riot

at a Pride rally or something like that. Yep, mm hmmm, why, I don't know. I mean, you know it's white men, khaki shorts or khaki cargo pans, blue shirts. They just yes, like they think that they're the ultimate race and they're the only person only supposed to be the only people that exist on this piece of land in particular, so for some reason when they're immigrants on this fucking land. As far as I'm concerned, right, it's crazy, m hmmm, But I'm glad they got in front of it first

time for everything. Yeah, they said they were just a few miles from the parade and they were all piled into the back of the U haul truck. Are you haulvan? And man's gonna jump out with the bullshit? I guess they said they had one smoke bomb. That's a lie. I bet you these people have pissed. They all got charged with misdemeanors. It's all bullshit. These police officers essentially probably was arresting their family members and friends. That's why you all get to see their face on the news.

Uncle George home exactly, child Listen, goodness, um, So I saw in the shade room. I don't know if you guys saw it. Delonte West was back outside. He seems to be homeless, and his mental illness, he's suffering, and he had like a cardboard sign asking for some type of assistance and it's it's sad. Um. Do you feel like he it's just not getting help or he don't want the help. He may not want it, because I know Mark Cubman last year, UM, the owner of the Mavericks.

He did try to help him. He got him into rehab, give him a job, all that good stuff. But UM, a lot of times, like people who end up on the streets with mental health issues, it's not like people give up on them. It's like, you gotta want to help yourself. And then he may just be that far gone. I think they said that he was doing like embalming fluid and ship like that. Now, from what I read, this man has had mental health issues his entire life. Damn there right, But he was stable enough to make

it to the NBA. As far as I'm concerned, he didn't end up the current Delonte West until his I think he played in the NBA, I mean NFL. Excuse me, what the funk? I think he played in the NBA for about nine years. But y'all know this is the same man that said he fucked Lebron Mama. What happened? Here we go, Well, y'all, welcome to a j as conspiracy corner. Go ahead, what happened? You know, you can't funk with the king? What did they do to Delonte West?

Did they hit the reset button on that nigger? Did they? I don't know. Did they spike his fucking juice or something? I don't know, but it's very strange. Yes, he might have already, be right. I would like to know if if there's any stats we can get on the number of homeless, uh drugged out NBA players that ever lived, because I just feel like this is a real one off, and like he got on Ron James. Yeah, he got on Lebron james bad side. Now, whether he sucked his

mom or not, that's what he claimed. And I know they talked to each other in the midst of games, but this is his teammate. It's not like this was somebody he playing on another team, right, weren't they teammates m hm at the time. Yeah, so you know, I know, like people trip on each other like while they're playing basketball to try to throw you off your game, like, yeah, I'm a sucking baby mama ship like that. But that's not what happened. Like this nigga said he sucked up

bra mama. He was in a relationship with her and now he is on the streets a totally different person. I just find it real strange. But m h, well, we hope we're praying for you, Glante, that you get it together. My boy. That's all I got. Yeah, it's a sad state of affairs job, drugs man. That ship is magic, especially crap. I'm about to start. I'm about to start keeping a narcane in my purse. What just in case you see somebody's I'm tired of people dying

from this fitt and all. If I it's around me, I'm gonna hit youall with this arcade right in the trip, just like what's the movie? Movie was that? Yeah, that's what I want to do, is just like that. You just want to hit somebody. We just want to hear somebody. Well, listen, before we finished up with this segment, what you think about Kevin Gates and the ship that's going on with Drinka. Try not to think about Kevin Gates. Did you listen to the song? I didn't hear it. I didn't hear

all of it. I think I heard like a snippet on Shape Room or somewhere like that. But I saw him saying like he was trying to protect her image and all that. Well, we don't even know who he's talking about. We're assuming that he's talking about her, right, Yeah, And all we see her doing is making tending to her farm and tomatoes, yeah, making ship grow like you. I don't people who can make things grow with their hands. I don't see them as bad. People like plants field

energy too. So I feel like what's going on with them is that that nigga no longer has access to her energy no more. And and and he showing out like it's bothering him that she's once you get like once you're in a toxic relationship and you get over a nigger like and it ain't no going back, Like, yeah, they're still married. I think he just borrowed a new truck and all type of ship. But okay, I got your kids, you still got to take care of me.

He was. I don't know if it was him or somebody was saying, how their last child isn't his, Okay, take a blood test. That's some ship of narcissist would would put out in the media to make somebody else look bad when you really just been sucking up, right, you've just been sucking up and now she's tired of, you know, dealing with that ship. I know he said he had came out of the ocean. He was gonna eat the whole dick. I had to rewind it because he did not say that. I was like, oh wait,

Kevin Gatester came out. That's why they broke up. And see that's how rude was started. That's not what he said. He said. It's so fast though, I was like, wait, what slow it down. I was like, I like, you hold dicks out the ocean too, Cavin. I get it. I don't know, but shout out to them. Man. Marriage is not easy. And I guess supposedly they were in a open relationship at some point, but I don't know.

He's kind of disrespectful that goddamn sold I can see him talking to like saying on nasty about Nikki because she has made her um rap nigga industry song before about different rap artists and stuff like that. But Beyonce, that's how you're gonna talk about Beyonce. Oh yeah, he did, Like that's the same song where he's talking about Yes, yes, he's gonna talk about jay Z wife like that, a prominent black woman in the community. That's how you're gonna

talk about her. That's a problem for me. You're disrespectful, right there was on a line. Yeah, you're willing out at this point, boy, and you're married with children, yourself relaxed. What can you do? Man, Listen, you gotta hit the reset button on some of these niggas got like that, which brings us to our topic today. Good y'all listen. We're gonna take a break right quick. And we do

have a special guest on this week. We got Hunted Days of some of y'all following him on Instagram so I can see who we talk about are talking with this week. We'll be back. What's up, y'all. We got a special guest when we talked back this week. Okay, we got u Mr Um. These holes need me himself Hone Davis coming, Thanks for having Thank you. Now, Look, what's your real name if you want to use it or you just want us to call you hunt Days

or something. I mean, people call me lou My real name is Yeah, my real name is which is Nigerian, but people call me Louke. It's easier to pronounce alright, Louke, alright, lou welcome. Lou has a unconventional nonprofit organization. Maybe I had donating orgasms and such. Tell our listeners a little bit about yourself, Mr Hanned Days of Summer Um. Yeah,

that is true. My ministry at the moment is to basically revolutionaried sex and the way that it's done, at least the way that men are doing it um in order to make it more female centered, orgasm centered and understanding the female anatomy. And the way that I go about doing that is when I learned myself, and now I go out and actually demonstrate that on women in real time, to record that and use it as tutorials

for men to learn from. Hala hala. So basically you're going around fucking bitches and recording it and sharing it if you you can put in a nutshell that way. Yeah, okay, I'm educational poem. Yeah yeah, yeah, I feel like that that might be needed because men definitely be out here thinking they know what the fun they're doing. And if a woman hasn't told you that ship bomb is not sometimes I'm gonna be lying a lot of times. Yes, So if there's any whack dick out head is definitely

our fault, you tell me. It was very surprising to realize that women weren't enjoining sex or coming And uh, yeah, I thought that if that was the case, then you would have said something, right. I think I don't understand why it's you know why you don't. Yeah, I think female orgasm is like a new world thing. It's a new thing, right. I feel like our grandparents weren't coming either,

and they probably definitely wasn't saying nothing about it. There was coming at the Remember there was a time where women would go to the doctor and the doctor come and it would have to do it like depression and mental health were making um, and they would go for that hysteria. Yeah, and that's true because I've I've suffered from hysteria because I thought I was about to get from dick and dick temporary insanity. It's insanity for sure. For sure. It does change the move. Yeah. So how

how do you find these you call them volunteers? How do you find about how? They mostly just on social media? Instagram? Um, sometimes I meet him in person, but mostly from Instagram social media. Yeah, sometimes I get referrals and stuff like that too, but mostly Instagram. Yeah, but we uh Tam and I. We do have a company we're working on is called uber Meats. So maybe you could do. Maybe you could be you know, one of our delivery guys. Possibly. I mean, I'm only a little equity. I can't just

work there. I'm only a little We got you. We can talk about it. We can talk about it, especially if you found the niche thlf. Do you charge these women? Are these women paying you? No? The compensation is the footage, so that the experiences cash it because you never know what's gonna happen in the experience, Like you know, it's it's kind of a numbers game with that, right, So sometimes it depends on the amount of time I have with them and stuff like that. So it's kind of

a numbers game. So um, you have to have as many such as possible in order to get a certain type of experience. Because a woman can orgasm, but it may not be an educational video. A woman can orgasm and it may not be entertaining to watch as far and also get education from it. So it's like you gotta have the right scenario, you know what I mean. So that for me, the footage is the compensation so that I can get exactly what I need in order to fulfill the purpose I'm trying to accomplish. So that

to me, that's that's all I need. I pay all the money up front. I'm gonna get my ship on that on the back end, no pun intended. So so while you do so why are you doing it? And you do? You stop it, looking at the camera and be like, so, guys, hold her leg like this right here in my nigger, Like this is how you need to hit it, bro, Like, is that what you're doing?

You do? You stop in the in the middle of sex and started talking to the It depends on the on the type of session, because I know that that can put them out of the mode. So sometimes I have to go back and do narration or capture the voice over. So you you post these are only fans, right do you still have only fans? Like I haven't subscribed now I've seen that dick on Twitter. That's about it. Now, I just be hoest Twitter is wild? What is wild?

As it's a porn site? Now? Yeah, I mean I missed Tumbling to be honest with you, Tumbler is like the more artistic version of Twitter. In that sense, it was the same thing. Anything goes. But then I think y'all who bought them, so then they stopped the porn stuff. But before that, you can get your dick reblocked. That's a wonderful world. Everywhere else you get your account suspended.

On Tumbler, they was like, oh, it's beautiful passing around, you know, shame Tumbler was like back page must feet. So the women who participate in this are these women like women who don't get dick or like what, I don't understand any women who don't get good Yes, it's it's it's really like every walk of life, to be honest with you. I've met some very well established, like career women doing airthing, and I've met some women it's just like young, nothing really going for them, you know,

they and that. But every spectrum it's not in enjoining sex. So yeah, I mean from all over. Has it ever been a case where you was like, uh, I'm sorry, it is gonna get hard. Okay, Okay, So all right, so I have like a certain thing that I do in order for that, you know what I mean. It's like if I know it's gonna be a session where um where it will be in a sense like more work.

I just don't have sex a couple of days before the session or whatever so that I got all the dick that they don't need or whatever, because it's it's really about the motivation, you know. This is all the dick I brought with me. Baby, Hey, I don't do it, You're gonna have to want at the month drop ship. I mean, it's it's definitely an energy thing, man. So

I keep my energy high going into certain in any session. Really, I try to keep my energy high so that I can get through the entire thing, you know, because it's like my goal isten to come. My goal is to make them come. So I'm trying to keep myself in like a certain state of a rousing the entire time. And uh, I haven't really run into that yet, but

I have been turned off by a woman's energy. I'll say that my experiences have shown me that judging how the sexual experience is going to go based on the cover of the book or whatever is not not a good way to determine what you're going to enjoy it. So I don't judge based on that. On what I'm going to experience, you know what I mean. So but the energy though, that let me know everything. So you spend like a whole weekend with these women, like how

often are you working? I need like a little breakdown, right, Like, um, I do it in phases so that I don't burn myself out. So sometimes like um, when I'm traveling or whatever, Like when I was in Atlanta, it was like every day, sometimes every other day. Women ain't getting in Atlanta. There's too many women. Wow, okay, well I didn't. Oh yeah they do. The ratio is crazy. The women's and men ratio is crazy. And then you have gay men that don't even want no couchie, right, and then there's the

culture there too as well. Yeah. But it was very therapeutic in Atlanta, like very therapeutic, like without me having to give It was like like freemas side, it's our long hand, not with the massig. These are two different things. And then our long session like oral head session. It was just all therapy. In Atlantic. It's like wow, oh my god, your I was ready to do an educational video and he's like, oh, this pussy too good. I can't make no video. This video's gonna be two minutes long.

You know what? You know that has happened before, that has happened. Actually, yeah, sometimes it gets hard because it's like, at the end of the day, I need to I need to learn from the experience, right, and uh, if the camera is going to interrupt that, sometimes then I won't. I just have to skip that ship. Sometimes if I feel like it's going to suck it up, then I just skip the camera, you know what I mean. But most of the time I don't so, but that's happened

a couple of times. Yeah, for sure. Do you what's that thing called holding? You know what I'm talking about? Like, you know, have you done? Not not touching you? But it's explain it, explain it for those of us me I don't know. Cup holding is like man watching his wife get sucked by somebody else, Isn't that what it is? Essentially? And also taking care of another man's kids. There's another phoner cup holding. Actually we don't talk about wait wait

wait mean like, hey me just raising somebody's kids? Are catching the kids we're we talking about. I'm confused. I'm confusion. Do you say swallow kids? But I've seen that taking care of you said taking care of the man though the husband is catching it. Oh no, I'll never respect you again. You don't, I'll Nike a bus on your face. Right, Yeah,

this is hilarious to me, Like I respected. I respect it because you know, I think women can function better if they're having better orgasms, even just getting good good head like, so is it is? It is? It is? It? Are any contraceptives involved with the sex, because I personally don't. The thing is I had I've had good sex with condom, but mind blowing sex is not going to be with a condom. Like you know, it very it does very But I'll say personally that they are getting in a way.

They are getting in a way it makes you want to do things a bit different, um so where it would mean less people and fewer farm between type sessions and ship so it's it's kind of counterproductive. But if at the end of a session a woman says I couldn't get there because of the condom, It's like, well, damn, I just waited all that time, the money to energy, you know what I mean. So it's like, why even do it that way? But yeah, I use condoms unless the want to comes by testing and stuff. So, but

they do get in the way. Someone literally just told me that today. That's the reason why you didn't have to work out. So you like oil up a lot with the condoms, right, you gotta have a lot of loub Well, yes, I put I'll put loup on the inside because it makes it feel like the real thing. And I use the skin condoms, so they're they're pretty um, they're pretty close, you know what I mean. But it's not like the real thing. So what type of condoms? Nothing like the real In my head, I didn't want

to be the one that same. I'm glad you do. What kind of condoms would be using? Tam do feel pretty good? Right, Okay? They're the closest thing the real life real And if you put if you put a little loup on the inside, you know, not too much, there's a couple of drops in the tip, then it'll feel like the real thing on the inside. Also, you know what I'm saying. So, but then you run the risk of it slipping off if you if it gets too well at the end when you come sometimes when

you pull out, it will slip off or whatever. So like three or four drops you got kids, Okay, it's even better, Like you could just do what the funk you want to do out here, all consenting adults. All right, So when a j told me about what you were doing, I was like, this nigga is fucking disgusting. But then I looked at your page and I was like, no,

he's more of an artist. He's more of a teacher, and the artists versus I just started with some nigger running around with his dick in his hand, Like, who on the fuck? Just right now? Like here you go. I totally get that. I totally get that. That's that's most people's first suppressions. Now he got a lot of chance. I actually looked up this nigger, got a lot of things. Okay, you know when I messaged you, I was like, I want to talk about you. I think you took the

post down. But um, in regards to ghosting, right, okay, we want to go into a topic. But listen, if y'all want to hit him upbout that dick, but we want to talk about ghosting. We're gonna take a break right quick, y'all. We'll be right back ur Listeners, who do y'all think goes to most men are women? Definitely man. No no, no, no, no no no no hold on hold no no, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. What am I thinking? It's definitely women, definite women women will yes, y'all do

women were friends? Zone were friends? Ze y'all, don't disappear in the heartbeat. No, no, we're friends, zon and real quick because we still might wanna spend the block for that free meal again. You'll block the free mill very quickly. Also, yeah, I block a nigger quick, definitely tell me, but buster blocks to be my name. Hello, beautiful good Mornings is just left on red on Instagram alone. Let alone in

that let alone text messages come. Most's not necessarily ghost and the ghost and is not We was having a conversation and then you disappear, You don't think. Sometimes there's such thing as a mutual ghost. I've experienced mutual ghost, like we both decided to stop communicating as far as I'm concerned, because I hit you back and you hit me back, So it's like a mutual ghost, and I don't feel I definitely don't feel ghosted if I've never had sex with the person, because I wouldn't give a

funk if we stopped talking to not. I think women feel ghost because men don't have sex with them, right, Women usually ghost the nigga before they have sex. I listen, I only get ghost about niggas I don't fuck. That's what I'm saying, because I don't. When I don't have sex with him, they get tired of playing with me and then they just as this ship, which is why women should wait. Because if he was patient enough, he

would hang out. So that's that's important. Waiting a little while just to the real nigga can show up, because he's gonna show up right here. So you had a post on your social media, says ladies, what is the purpose of keeping a man that wants to sleep with you and the friend zone if you're not interested, that's a very good question. Well, I know the benefits, but I wanted to hear see if when it was gonna be but lunch, I just told you so block again

for that fish dinner. Seafood dinner, Thank you, sir. I mean, but I like, I like, I like good people, and I mean, if I realize, like, hey, this person is not somebody I want to sleep with, but I think I think they're super dope, Like, why do I have to as a woman. Why do I have to then discard that man to protect his ego in some way essentially, like I got to completely not talk to him, nom, I gotta ghost him, right right. I want to be

his friend. I want to be his friend. Like you can't fund every woman in the world, Guys, you just can't. I mean you are exactly yeah, but we can try still. And the fact that the man approached you on that type time, it's like, this is what I like in it too, right, And I got attacked for saying this actually, but I'll say it again. I don't give a fuck.

So what I liken it too is like when a chick say something to you and like let's say she swung at you and she missed you, but it was like across like that now you feel me, but somebody is holding you and you can't get your lick off and you have to sit there and take that, right, Like, there's not necessarily any type of training or any type of program or how to do that. You just have to like boil down, simmer down. That's how man feels when he wants to have sex. So too, it's it's

torturous to play that game to him. You see what I'm saying to you, it's you're getting a benefit from it, but to him it's torturous, which is why, in my opinion, is not a safe place. It's not a safe place for a woman to put them in. You don't think nine times I'll attend this, particularly this particular man that just got swung on. Like, I see what you're saying. You talk about testosterone that build up, right, which I do think can be very dangerous if a man doesn't release.

But that man nine times at the tend is fucking somebody. He just can't suck me right now. I don't know about that. So now, so now we're talking about in sales, then ain't getting I mean to be honest with you, Compared to women, the average man is an in celle. That's that's what women don't understand about man. Yes, it's not easy for us. It's not easy for us. I know people say I'm attractive and stuff like that. I would like this my whole life, right I have another

Instagram page. When I message with me from that page, they blocked me. So it's it's like the gaming as easy as people think it is. You see what I'm saying, if it wann't for the blue check, the notoriety, and hey, he's like a guaranteed orgasm, who knows what the fuck. But on the other side of it, you know, it's people out there that is getting it. But it's not like how women think it is. It's like, y'all, yeah, in essence, you'll have a privilege that blinds you to

that of the struggle of what it takes. And typically women are dealing with top notch guys, at least a couple in their circle and their rotation. It's gonna be at least a couple of top notch guys they've experienced, So then that kind of excused the perspective of where he can get versus with the average guy that you wouldn't even pay attention to you to get. You see what I'm saying, because those guys are the majority. Those

are the guys that Wi Wi wal Murt target. Y'all might look at the guys that target according to my page, women will look at the guy's target, not Walt Murt. But you know what I mean, Like, those guys aren't visible, but we see the women in those places. You see what I'm saying we're trying to fund them even if

we got money and ship. So is it women that needed lower their standards or is it actually if men are mostly the ones that are into if you're saying that there's more men that are in cells, and we think and y'all in cell, like we talked about it one week, it's just a man who is in volunteer early. Right, So we have a man on saying that most men are most men are, you know, some men may not

take it to heart. Some men I don't know. But when do you when you think then that it's not women that need the lower lower standards, maybe it's men that need the lord our standards. Because I feel like there's ratchet pussy all over, Like there's like rat puss you all over. But even ratchet pussy pussy all over to you say, even doesn't do anything for your ego, even ratchet pussy once the top night you got it, you know what I mean? Like that's that's that's not

the thing. It's like the ratchet pussy isn't necessarily looking for a guy beneath them, you know what I mean? So even they because it's what's beneath it's just the way that we measure our value is different. So beneath to a woman and beneath to a man, there's two different things, you know what I mean. Like for y'alls, it could be his economic status and for guys, like her economic status doesn't might not disqualify it. So what

is beneath is different, you know what I mean. So for in that sense, I could say that women should lower their standards, but everybody want the best. Everybody's gonna want the best, So it's not realistic to say lower standards. But it is realistic to say, look at the statistics and see how much of what you want is actually available?

You know what I'm saying, Because that's that's the reality, unless you plan on taking that guy from A to Z so that he can be who you want him to be or something like that, because he might not come package that way. But this, So, this is what I'm saying, Like, that's why I asked other questions on my page, like what's more important financial intelligence or emotional intelligence or be an emotional even I've noticed some of

those posts because I do want it. We want to try and answer them for you as women, right, Okay, so now this post, this other post, you said, ladies, do you notice and this goes to what we're talking about right now. Leadies, do you notice men that work in places like Walmart, Whole Foods, Target, fast food restaurants, et cetera. If so, would you ever give them a chance? And I'll answer first, I just turned thirty eight years old.

No the fuck I'm not Okay, No, I don't think it's reasonable to ask women, especially in child bearing years, rent two thousand dollars of goddamn uh month at this point, like, how are we to survive? You can't survive off love loves? But we didn't say, well, I guess I'm gonna say you in a position. But the person could be making uh hunting than tet right if they're management. But they're not. They're not walking around the shore. Thought, you're not gonna

see them. Okay, that's true, that's true. Yes, that might be a pro because then it's just like, nigga, can you point me toward the detergent and get out my face? Oh my god, point me in the direction of the detergent. Bro. What's so interesting to me when y'all say that, is that the I where I hear the main the main complaint isn't necessarily these niggs broke, is that these nigs don't know how to understand us. They don't they're not

emotionally available, They're they're not, you know, emotionally intelligent. Is those are the things that target No, No, they don't have nothing to do it where you were. I'm saying that's but that's my point is those qualities are the ones that seem to be lacking and complain about the most, not the income. Necessarily, women will say I make my own money, I don't need you, but that's I don't say that. I don't say that, and I never say I don't need a man. I'm not an independent woman.

I don't like that when they say that, though they never mean I don't want to eventually have the man. They're just saying that my money means that I don't need you, I don't need to have you. Men aren't necessarily saying that. You see what I'm saying, like, that's the money thing doesn't disqualify you in that sense. But a man can be disqualified because this money, even though

you don't need them. But what about the emotional qualities aren't those more important in financial qualities because those are the ones mostly complaining why do we have to choose? Because I thought, okay, uh, you don't have to They're equally important. They're equally but you can have all the emotional intelligence like oh, he's so emotionally intelligent and he expresses itself well, we talked so well in the cardboard box we live in on the side of the road.

Like the intelligence with I'm some of the most intelligence would lead to some type of peace, some type of tranquility, the things that are more important than things that money can't buy, right, right, but how peace can you be in a box? In a box? But niggas is living in boxes with a woman and a dog with a woman living in boxes, right, living in boxes? Listen, think is will fuck you in a box if you let

off on a box the house. That's true, we will they all right, I exaggerate with the box, but definitely all like blow up mattresses looking bouncy house. Yeah, okay, I just don't feel like we should have to choose or you do have a post that says ladies, which one is more valuable in two and emotionally intelligent emotionally available man. That's option one, and option two is a financially intelligent, financially freeman, Like why do you believe that women?

Maybe this is not because you are posing a question, but I know these questions come from a place of bitch already know to answer. Ok, why do I have to choose? Why can't men who have found a way to make a sound living not come with emotional intelligence? Well, I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that you have to choose. Use The question just tries to figure out which one is more important in this day and age. That's all so, in my opinion, the money, because I'm

a senior. Ask to therapy and I'll put you on medication. I mean that's and see that's the thing. Like I can teach you how to love me, but I can't teach you how to make money. I mean, I guess I could easier. It's better to be ambitious, Like I teach people to make money for a living like that. That's one of my streams of income, right, I teach people how to make money for a living. The methods are easy. What's hard is the character development. That's the

hardest part. So I can find. Yeah, I can find tons of people that want to come in and make the money, and some of them will do it like you know some of these professional basketball players. You know, no offense to their to them who they are as a person, but they're dumb. I always say tall niggas is stupid. That's only like Nigga's six one and show. Okay, tell me and tell me a smart tall nigga. Tell me a smart tall nigga, and I'll give y'all your dollars.

Aside from Kobe, anybody else, I don't wanna hear about it. It's a lot of smart tall nigga starting around. Talk a black black man that it don't be the tall ones. It would be like the muscular ones that be stupid to me, the big muscle ones like broke another one, boss seas are funny. Good here, um, so you got another another question post to women ladies. With women initiating eight percent of all divorces, if you were a man, would you get married in today's society? You can't get

married to yourself. Here's the thing, y'all. And I just want to tell women this week, y'all. They had the financial reportings last week, they're predicting a recession. What are you three? Just hold off, bitches. These nigg is gonna be giving our ranking left and right. Because this world is built on double occupancy. Motherfucker's is not supposed to be out here alone. So it's gonna be a lot more coupling coming up soon to pay some damn. I want to come home. I want to come back home

by yeah, bet yeah, bet nigga. No, it's the women that divorced though. It's the women that want to come back home, right, If it's the women as divorcing, No, usually women, Okay, so women they probably um have put up with some ship for a very long time before they get to the point I wanted to have a divorce, you know. And when you when you don't see any ending to it, I feel like men will sit in bad relationships longer. That's your fault. Yeah, Because nobody tells

us that we're supposed to leave. They tell us what we're supposed to suffer for the women's sake. So when we're unhappy, we're right on course. I'm happy she's supposed to do. So. Do you think that men vokes are as vocal as women? Because I know we keep telling a man something. I just had this conversation with a man last night. For a man one to three times of me saying something becomes nagging. I've told you something one to three times, you haven't changed it yet. Now

I'm nagging. Now I'm in here correct and behavioral issues with a grown ass man. Oftentimes men have shipped going on, and they don't even tell you what the problem is so that you have an opportunity to fix it. They go outside the relationship to complete their happiness so they can stay married. While women might cheat leave the relationship. Men cheat to stay in the relationship because I think that women have selected I'm sorry, I think I think women.

I think women have a little bit more integrity. That's why they leave the damn relationship. Why why I'm gonna keep doing this ship with you and it's not working? Yes, because I feel like it's it's more miserable piece of mine has had single You don't have peace of mind when you have to bring compromise marriages for a peace

of mind. I feel like I feel like, I mean, it could be, but that's what That's what drives the suffering our society is that we we use the gamble as the main thing, and we try to achieve what we can hope for as opposed to what's probably you know what I mean, marriages. Marriage has an intended outcome, and we are not using it for that intended outcome. That's why no one is happy. So what's the intended out happiness from marriage? Marriages? Like business, you know what

I mean. And so it's you're not supposed to do it out of love. You're not supposed to do it out of happiness. You're not supposed to do it out of any of those types of things like it's it's for an intended purpose of family, family, society, jens, stuff like that, things that are outside of anything emotional, just like business can be, you know what I mean. So when choosing your family, it shouldn't be out of love

and happiness. It should just be basically for love and happiness is family planning, and family planning doesn't happen necessarily out of the emotion of love. Hal is out of intelligent love. You see what I'm saying. There's two different things, Like intelligent love is planning your future so that you know, it's like planting a tree today instead of eating the

seed and then you get shade later. That's intelligent love, you know, intelling The other love is we don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, We'll find a bunch more apples, will eat this apple today. It's like that. It's more passionate and suffering and romantic. And you know what I mean, intelligent love is is different. It's like it's beneficial. Tells your love sounds boring, you know, I know. That's why. That's why they can't market it. That's why they can't

market it. They gotta market suffering because suffering comes with like punishment reward is this, you know what I'm saying? Nobody wants this? Do you think men? Who's suffering it? Who's suffering in relationships more? Because we know that statistically, married women die sooner than single women, married men live longer than single men. So who's suffering the most in relationships? Um, honestly, we're dying, nigger. We're dying in two years early with

a husband. The husband. And I don't think nothing's worse than being like you can think of being single or being alone as sad, but it's nothing worse than having to live with somebody that you don't funk with. Single as the ship, I'll probably be single forever. I have like relationships, but I'm pretty much single, you know what I mean. Like and I like, So you don't want to be married at all at all because nobody people

want to get married for love. If people was like, hey, you should have had him on last, So it's just not practical to me. So I don't want to do it. You but you want a partner to grow oh it or no? You don't care about growing O with anyone who I believe in, you know, which was to come to earth and all that stuff. So these people that i'm with here, I've been with multiple lives, so I'm not necessarily interested in fulfilling something specific in its lifetime.

And I don't feel alone because I know that that's an illusion not here but here. So I've never felt alone since I started to live that way, so I don't I'm not under that illusion necessarily that we are separated. So I know people feel separated from me. I never feel separated from them. So you know, my my closest companion is my spirit and that's all I need, you know what I mean, That's what I came here with us, when i'mna leave here with But I love everybody in

my life. Also, what's your what's you? What's your life path number? I don't know. Somebody told me what it was, but I forgot what it was. So that was a couple of years ago. Oh mine is number nine. That's my that's my last time on this realm ain't coming back to when I get the hell oup out of here. Okay, we're gonna miss you. We're gonna miss you, man. I don't know what. Then I'm going to someplace else where. It's probably super little over there, but I don't know. Uh. Oh,

I got one more post. It said, fellas, how old were you when you experience your first heartbreak? Follow up? Oh, this is for the guys anyway, And I really was going to save this for like a dumb bitch story for us. Sorry to ask him if he had a same story, because we always get these heartbreaks from high school stories, from these niggas like, come on, man, you got your heartbreak how many years ago? And we're punishing

every woman going forward for that. Interesting. I mean, I guess we could say the same with women that are afraid to be submissive. It's like they're punishing every man. They're conditionally submissive because they can't trust you because they were last Maybe several men did. I don't know, but it's like the same thing. Um. I feel like submission is supposed to be on both ends. We gotta submit to each other. If a man submitted to you, would

you respect him? If we're submitting to each other, meaning we worked together, yes, I would respect him. Do you want him to be a leader? You say, submitted to you? A partner? I don't want to. Okay, for a second, listen, let's be realistic for a second. Since the beginning of time, Queen Elizabeth whoever the fuck she was in that bedroom in the chambers telling her husband, listen, this is what you need to do next, this, then the third. Because

the Bible does say what y'all like to quote. The Bible says that the husband has took assault with his wife, right, yes, and he goes out. It does not. And I don't know what biby you read what boby? I'm not even a Christian, But man, listen, we ain't doing that. Priest for three years since this atestament were doing that. Let me tell you Tammy and Iamy and I both are descendants of Lilith. Okay, we ain't know side bitch eaves. Okay, Eve came from a nigger rib. They ain't us. God

created us equal. I'm listening. I'll do talk a lot, and I do talk back, but I do want. I'm tired of being the leader of my ship to say that, say that, and then I'm tired. God send me up about it down? What would you? But would you let go of the thing that steers the ship he came on? And That's gonna be the hard part because I've been steering my own ship my whole life. But if I met someone that I felt like I could trust to steer this boat the right way, I reliquish all that,

Like you got a big daddy. He's going into a storm and he's like, trust me, then what you know? Okay? So I personally me personally. I remember I had an ex boyfriend. I met him working at gas station a corner store, okay, and he had a CDL license. He was driving trucks, but he wanted to um work on trucks. At this point, I met him at a gas station by my house. But he told me his plan. I can funk with a man with a plan, whatever direction we're going in, I'm following, you know what I'm saying.

But I feel like oftentimes, uh, some men you they don't have a plan, they don't have any direction, and they're asking you to follow them. That's where I feel like a lot of women um fall off the bandwagon. You know what I'm saying, Like I can, I understand, Like, but then how long do you follow? How long do you let this person dream before you say, hey, baby, fuck your dreams. This is reality. We don't got no money left, like out here living in this box, the

box living like he's so emotionally? Why and why is it? Why? Why does it seem like like the struggle of is for black women like you gotta you gotta be at the ground, at the bottom with a nigger for him to you know, pick you, to see that you're the one, Like why do I have to go to struggle first before I get to you know? I think that's more realistic. How is that realistic? I mean not struggle, but building. I think it's more realistic that you have to create

together than somebody comes the way you want. I think the people that come to where you want are you know, like they say the top or whatever, But everybody else is you know, average at best, and they're gonna need to make a hundred. So what am I trying to say in a nice way? Listen, I'm not trying to offend nobody. I don't have my life all the way together. I'm working on it, right, but I have You know, men like to ask what you bring to the table, ma'am?

I mean, sir, can you tell me what you need on your table? You know you shouldn't ask women what they bring to the table if you, as a man, don't even know what you need on your table? Well, what do women? Went? Right? When when you ask the man or if you ask what do women want to be happy in relationship? Every man would say security. We all know because we have to know on where to get you. But y'all have the privilege of sitting back and it coming to you. That's why man asked that

because y'all never had to ask that question. You never had to think about that. I mean, we never had to answer it. You're saying, yeah's answered. I don't feel like you should have like you have to have be a man up with the sernment. Like we're talking about ghosting, right, men complain about how much money they're spending on dates.

As a man, you should only be dating one to two women because you would have used some type of discernment right to try And if your if your goal is to be in a relationship or to get married, right, if that's your goal or just they're trying, That's what I'm saying. So when you when you just when you're just trying to fuck, you want to spend money, You're gonna spend more money than you need to if you're just trying to suck. And you should just be honest

with women when you get them on the phone. I'm just sure you should, and then you will save money and you won't feel like she ghosted you after you spent money on a date. Well, the thing is she never wanted to fuck. That's the thing that's not true. Sometimes that's not true. Sometimes niggas will talk themselves. But women are not attracted to the majority of the men that approached them. I don't mean physically, I just mean overall. They're just not attracted to them for one or two reasons,

whatever it might be. But if you. If the man is continually pursuing you want something, you friends on him. Say, for example, he met you, you didn't give me a number, you gave me Instagram, and now he dims you good morning every morning. You don't want to suck him. But if he got the means to take you to a nice place to eat or whatever like that, maybe you'll take him up on that office. But he never had the chance to, regardless of how politely he asked you

or how bluntly he put it. That's that's the majority of us. That's that situation. That's why we know that's not true because I don't accidentally, I wasn't even like the time happens to me the timely. Yeah, I definitely for the most part, is it's not. That's what I'm saying, Like, if a man can talk himself out of pussy, ain't no woman talking herself out a dick unless she's like, yeah, by the way, I have a three letter thing. I've

seen a woman talk herself out some dick. She's like people would, Yeah, I mean it's only one that I know of, and you know, like I can only do from that small sample size. It's probably happened before because she was really stressed about getting some dick and I watched her. But the majority do that. So that's all I'm trying to say. It's hard out here for a pimp me. People just don't know I understand. I mean, maybe the men need to learn how to learn how

to please women. Maybe that would get you help. It does help, It does help act, but you have a you have a large sample size of men who don't see that they are supposed to they're above women. So I don't give a funk if you come I came like that trickles down to that. That like if you if that's your mindset for women, it's going to trickle down to the bedroom. Don't give goddamn if she's coming to not if you think you above her, Like I think.

Another thing men need to unlearn sexually is just because a woman is hollering does not mean it feels good to her. You might be just hurting her like that's true. I learned that lesson ntil I was in my third that's real. Yeah, because I guess your whole life, y'all. Heart beat the pussy, up beat the pussy, take her to poundtown. I took her to Pound Town and she in the hospital. Now we do here beat the pussy up, But what we also hear is women praising corn stars.

If women was like man funk that nigga. Mr Mark, you see all here spread lies and propaganda, y'all don't do that now. I used to like Mr Marcus. I was watching him from somebody one time on a bar on a flick and he had like this, a little dent in his balls, and I didn't like it. So from that point it'd be like little subtle ship like that. I'm I'm I might go shoot and I see like this, no ball sham. I did not like them. Balls, like

all balls are not created. I mean, if you expect all balls looking like you know, you perpet you waiting to stereotype, Like my boss is getting longer and longer, so you know, I'm getting some conscious anything, Yeah, anything I sit on like, damn, I'm on there. I think it's some stuff, maybe some nuts, some nuts yoga or something like that. Okay, do some nut up. Let me look into that, looking at some nut ups. Give me

a nut up. Yeah, I look into that. Yo. Okay, y'all, look, we're gonna take one more commercial break, we'll be right back, and let's see if we can get a simple story from Mr Hunted Days and somebody. There's no real easy way to say this, but all right listen. So, um, so we have a segment on the show. It's called dumb Bitch Stories, which you know, um, it's for women who have gotten played by man at some point that we have the Simp series, which would be like for

the men. Right, And it's not to call anybody a simp. It's not to call anybody a dumb bitch. It's more so, you know, we just want to reflect or maybe you currently being a simple currently being a dumb bitch, and it's more about you know, somebody taking advantage of a good person as opposed to you'd be in a dumb bitch or simply okay, okay, tell us how you got played. Well see, I would have to think maybe a bit deeper.

But the first one that came to mind was there was a this was high school though, but it was a girl. Yeah, every nigga goes back to high school. Every man, no, no woman who nothing happened in your twenties and thirties, that's twenties and thirties, I was the ancient as nigger. So yeah, okay, so it is the same story you got played by one and then from that. That's not that it didn't happen from high school, but in high school. The story the story that happened in

high school. Let me put this way. I was answered that this person because I was from Philadelphia and strength was it's like false strength. Basically, that's what made me answer that in those relationships, I didn't even know. That's why I said emotional intelligence. I think it's important. But in that situation in high school, the girl was pregnant with somebody else's baby, and I ain't even talking about

like three months. I'm talking about like she about the pop and I mean, I'm hugged up with the girl in the hallway while people was getting out of the lunch room and walking past and watching. It's like, dog, what's wrong with you? And I'm like, no, she's a good woman, man, she deserves this. Somebody needs to be here for this baby. So yeah, I was a couple, so you knew it wasn't your I met her with the baby. I was like, yeah, yeah, they say that practice,

I wouldn't have That's what I'm trying to say. I was a good I was set. I just moved from Hampton Roads from Norfolk. I was living in ports moved to South Philadelphia, like I was green. But I love him man exactly exactly. You know, it's a I mean, I don't know. Maybe you could have I don't know, not in high school, but as as a grown man. Would you you get with the woman that's pregnant with the woman that's get with like in a relationship, no has sex with I would like to stinting around that

because I've never done that before. But yeah, I would like some of that. You can see you know, um, I've never done that before, but a relationship now, I wouldn't do that. I think that's a good idea. You you way, you're coming right off for the emotional attachment to this guy. You have to be. You're about to have a baby that looked just like the guy. I can't compete with that, right? Do you think women should

date men who are just had a baby with someone else? Listen, you meet a guy that no, because I mean, she's a woman, so she should understand how women would respond to that. Because him, you know, he's probably he could need all the way detached by that point. But I don't think she's going to be you know what I'm saying. And I'm pretty sure that's going to be a recurrent situation in the sense that going back and forth both ways. So I wouldn't suggest it to anyone, Right, Yeah, okay,

because I met this guy, I'm tell your story. I met a guy and I thought he was cool, and we hung out, we kicked it. We didn't sleep together. Now we just kind of kicked in. He was like talking about taking me on trips and oh, you did you that? And he was like, but I need to be honest with you. This was Saturday night. He's like, yeah, I'm having a baby on two God damn Nigga ghost ghost, so like he can't even be mad. Like I wish I would have gold. I wish I would have goost

at my fucking ex, our first date, first time having sex. Anyway, it's a bit banging on the bedroom window, like you and there with another woman that I'm out here in the cold pregnant. I didn't go stand Nigga, though I stayed for like five years. I stayed for my ship dog. Right, you should have learned right then the cold dick. Yeah, y'all in the snow, y'all see that scene on the movie Just no, I wrote it. I don't know what none of that demon time, okay, demon time, like how

the day is the sun? I do only want out here. I don't have I don't have some good dick in my life. Okay, it's great, some great times, some bad times, like now that had some good sushiad they didn't got to say that. It's like did your code? Okay, that's it. That's it. One hand. I remember that time at any folk when yeah, alright, please tell everybody, especially the ladies, where they can get up or where they can find your video the summer h you and I t days

of summer. That's pretty much everywhere Twitter. Um, well, if you look at the Stroke Jenks, you'll find the content that we would just talking about the Stroke Jenks on YouTube only fans and but one day the summer on Instagram. Yeah alright, alright, y'all, Look, we appreciate you for pulling out. I had fun. This was fun. Yeah, you come back anytime you feel like, definitely will, because we we've been

needing men on you know, to get get y'all. We really don't give a funk about you all advice and ship. You're a pretty smart man. Appreciate that. I appreciate and I think that this is great. I didn't know that y'all was gonna be this funny. I don't know if I picked that up in the d N, but yeah, a lot of ship caught me off guard. Its great, had a great time. I know sometimes I try to come and professional and straight facing. Ship. You'll just put

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