Ep. 7 "Is White Grass Greener?"

I didn't see it myself. It was someone down there and he was like was my boyfriend at the time. He was like, oh, you got a little great pat and I was like, first I was taking it back. Then I was like, are you doing hair? Are you eating? Like Bitchard died in a it all. I've been waxing ever since. You know, I used to die with my pussy. Go on, you are weird. I think I want to get like it, cut like into a little heart and do like a little red heart patch. Wouldn't it be cute? Yeah? Girl,

go ahead, knocked yourself out. Bit, I don't know. Thank you guys for tuning into a new episode of We Talk Back. It's your girl a j Welcome, my lovely Is this tim Bam? I missed, y'all. I'm drinking my coconut milk tea. She liked the milk with them balls in it. I don't like that. So how was your I haven't seen you since last Thursday? What do you do? I am ship going on. It's chilling out, being domesticated. That's what you do. You said that every week because

that's what the funk I do. Stay home and cook meals all we came. Sounds boring. Yeah, and try to prepare for our next show. Stuff like that. That's about it. I don't be doing none of that. I would. I went to stay forty eight uh, and I ate, so I was like, I felt like a glutton. This man asked me to go, and I was like, sure. Baby. We went up in that place and I swear I was eating off of his plate. He had to run to the car. I ate some of his food. He was gone, Oh, I just ate until I was stuff like.

I ate until I was uncomfortable. You know how you eat until you feel bad? Hell? Yeah, Like you need to perch. I wanted to throw, but I didn't do that. But it was delicious. I couldn't even tell you nothing, the man said to me the whole time, because I was just so entertained by my food. I've never been there before. It's new here in Charlotte. Stad that one day, I made another reservation for the leven. I came home and went to see, like they're booked up. Huh, what

didn't I have? He said, get what you want, and I looked at him in the serious face. Anything right, anything? Okay, all right? Let me start with fried um lobster tails. I had crispy shrimp, deviled eggs, bone in filetman twelve ounce. I had cream spinach. I had mushrooms I had they had cream corn crimbert. I had that too, Lobster and crab macaroni and cheese, two buns cheese on it, and three Hennessey sidecars, remy sidecars. I fu that food up. And he had like some beef spar rooms like that.

He had he ate some of those sides because they were sharable, but he had to be sparals. And I ate some of his ship too. Oh, and I also had crab cakes. Bitch. So did the nicket call you back after that? Yeah? He didn't call me. Yeah he know he better know. I like to eat, see me. They said, you don't get this thick because you know how to cook. No, I know how to eat. I can cook too, though our reservation was for four thirty on a Saturday, because you can't. It's hard to get

in there. And I was back home sleep by seven o'clock. Well, we usually don't want to talk about other people business on this podcast for real, So I just want to talk about some of the ratchet current events, the social media current events. See what you think about her? Okay, I've been seeing ben Zeno and his daughter. Wasn't that coit how you pronounced it. I don't want to her name it coy. It's like coile. It looked like toy because I think about like the fish, her and her

daddy are. I mean everybody. I won't say everybody has daddy issues that I feel like families always, you know, we always have problems in our families that sometimes we never discuss. But I just don't know if social media is a place to air all your dirty laundry with your parents, especially with your parents that you should respect. And if your dad wasn't a sort of a celebrity, would you even be online talking crazy about him like that? I mean, but you might be just nobody would care, right,

so you wouldn't do it. So because you a platform using it trying to tell your dad down a little bit, because I feel like that's something if you really want to build a relationship with him, maybe I'll should go to therapy maybe and he should initiate it. We're discussing this like people know what we're talking about. Um, if you haven't been paying attention, there's a former rapper because I don't know if he makes music anymore. Ben Zeno, Yes, and now he's a reality so him and his daughter,

who is also a rapper, a new rapper. She has that song about this a TikTok um. They're arguing back and forth about him being a good father to her over social media and he's defending himself against that. And it's ugly because she called her her dad a bitch ass nigga and say if she was a nigger, she would be He's as that was the funny part to me. Sorry that was funny to you. I was I was clutching my pearls. I don't give a funk. Well my daddy did. I would never I love my daddy so much, man,

I can never do my dad like that. Like you grow up and you realize, like your parents are just humans, they're not super superhumans. So you realize like the age they were with different things going on, and they're just trying to figure it out. Like and also, as a man, your thing is to get money, get money. So she

mentioned like at one point they went broke. That happens, So imagine the stress that would have been on a man trying to provide for his family and seeing them not being able to do to certain things like that they're used to. Because I bet they weren't broke broke exactly. So I don't know. I don't know. I feel like they need to do some damn therapy. You know how that shouldn't y'alla. If y'all want to put it on out there for the world, at least get a check,

because I'm y'all goa pay. Yeah, they can sit down and have a session with a real therapist. Yeah, because what is the dad supposed to do at that point? How is he supposed to respond to his daughter publicly right saying, nigga in public. But you got me fucked up. You don't get to talk about me like that. We're still on the outside looking at I don't know. I just hope her disrespect is warranted. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because just like respect, his earn soul is disrespect.

So if he's done things to um, you know, hurt her, harm her, if you just want to tend it from your dad, like, that's just not the way to go about it. If you want a relationship with your dad or you you need him, you need his advice. As she wants love, that's all it is at the end of the day, Like she just wants her father to

love her the way she feels like he should. Neither one of them honestly know how to really say what's going on because instead of saying all these ugly things that could just be expressed and what what the hurt is. And at a certain point, you have to have self responsibility. So no matter how you were raised or what your parents did or didn't do, you have to determine what you want to take from those situations and inform who you want to be it shouldn't always matter how somebody

else did you? All right? What about a little oozy verd j T? The motherfucker's this too young and too rich for me? I love it. She's like, I want some crablegs. They on the way. I'm gonna post what I want to see somebody me too. I love JT. I love a little ouzy Ver. I think he's very eclectic and he looks like very androgynous at times. They're just unique because she does. He does not seem like

what I imagined her to be with this thinking. Looked like he would probably be trying to compete with me and what I got on, Like, why do you my jacket? I swear he posted a picture like I don't know if he had her boots on or if she had his boots on, But these motherfucker's are sharing clothes, you know,

the youngest. I just see j T as a real nigger, and it just bothers me a little bit to see little Oozy playing with her publicly, Like remember he said something about her being dirty or something like that before to some other women and they put it out there. Right now, social media is saying JAT, you are not a city girl, not a girl that she's an entertainer.

It's this video a little oozy and he's on the back of a motor cycle holding onto someone and he's smiling so big, and it was so much joy in that man's spirit. Yeah, okay, he looks so happy, though. I was like, oh that per and listen, nigga, you're mad about okay. Also, did you see what Tyrese's ex wife somebody basically asked her. I think it was like, do you suggest someone dating a celebrity and she was

like hell no. Basically m hmm. I agree with her because these are the high value men that everybody wants, So that means that man isn't high demand for other women, so you almost have to compromise who you are to deal with those men. I've never heard her, but not even niggas don't necessarily even be high value, not a spirit definitely, not maybe money, but a lot of celebrity men just be whacked when you get next to them in person and get to know their real character and

arrogant and full of trauma, just DeVos. Yes, I'm gonna be evil. I know some evil richness. A lot of people have to do a lot of things to get to where they are. Depending on how much money you got, you had to have shipped on some people along the way. So it's about integrity. Yeah, so I agree with her. She was like, basically, you're gonna have to do all the compromising to be with someone of that success level. That sucks. Though, Is it just men? Though? That's what

I said, it's about integrity. Maybe women no matter if there are celebrity or not, maybe they just operate on a different level of integrity. Because especially when you bring children to the picture, you're not just cheating on your wife's that's the fact. Somebody else's asked, wait, where did that cheating on? So wait, you shouldn't kiss your kids if do you eat? Man, No, So once you're eating, as ever, you shouldn't kiss you not if you're not

eating mommy's ass. No. So mommy's asking the children's face, but nobody else has got it. He came out of mom's asked, I don't know why I can't put momma's ass back on your face. So she's talking about celebrity or somebody based on the question, and she's talking about celebrities. But this kind of goes into what I wanted to talk about today. To look before we move on to the next segment, let's have a word from our sponsors.

I have been on a clubhouse all morning and one of the main clubhouse room, which is a trending topic right now on Twitter. Um let me get to the hold. All right, this is the club room topic. I think it's time to give white men a chance. And there has been a ton of spinoff rooms. There have been a lot of nasty tweets. This room was created by a black woman, by black women between here, the UK,

all over the place, different women. UM so it's just not American women who feel some type of way about the treatment they get from black men within the community, and they're wanting to explore their options. And I just want to give my take first before you go into I see nothing wrong with dating outsiger race. They didn't want to hear the statistic that the majority of black men are with black women. I think a lot of times when black women see a black man with another

and they get upset, it's because they're single. So they feel like, you know, why isn't that man with me. Everybody has a preference. The majority of black men are with Black women, and the majority of black women are with black men. The only problem I have with black men who date outside their race is that they will justify it, not saying that they even have to give somebody a reason why. But instead of saying, I love my white queen because such such such such such white queen,

I love my milkie queen. I love my queen Elizabeth right, I love her because this all they need to then list the qualities they love about the white woman or the other woman that they're with, But instead they use that as an opportunity to tell all the things that they don't like about Black women. That's the problem I have with black men who date outside the race. So what I was hearing from the black women, some of them said that they have been dating outside their race

since forever. They just tied at a black community. Others were saying they don't like how black men treat Black women in general. So you're generalizing men, and you're generalizing Black women experiences with black men. There's a lot of things that we can't agree on about these niggas, And I can't say all the black men that I know or the ones that I have been in a relationship with We're just bad, you know what I'm saying. Let me tell you something. It ain't that nobody can tell

me about a black man. I love me a black man, period. That's what I want. That's what I'm gonna fight for it to the day I die. I know sometimes we can be toxic towards each other and our music, and aren't the way we talk to which women are the main consumers for music, so we set the standards on how everything goesry. But I'm always going to be exclusive to black man. It's just my preference. Though I don't think it has to do with what else anybody else

has to offer, or how great Spanish Latin lovers are. Whatever. I just love me a dark black man. They seem powerful to me. So anybody who was siding with black men, not even siding, but even trying to come to their defense even a little bit, they were calling them picknys. How, what's the pigmy? A pick me is like somebody who um like caters to the opposing side for a favorite. So so who is the opposing side of this? Black men? So black men black like me is the opposing side

for yes? Because these black women are now saying we need to explore options. Well, that's the problem. When you start seeing black men and you're a black woman as the opposition, that's already a problem. Let's that needs to be addressed. And why are you seeing your old men the only the type of men that you burst as the Yeah. And every time you want to say who raised these niggas, we did, bitches, You don't know that we raised these niggas from their mama to the women

that they deal with. We are raising these niggas. So a lot of things I want to put back onto black women, a lot of things that are fault. You can call me and pick me all day long. I know I'm not a pick me. So what that means like pick me? Pick me? Yes, that's what they call pick me. Yeah, like the head if you was on Clubhouse saying that you bit go to heim, listen, I won't say a white man. I can't see myself marrying

a white man now and other somebody else, some other ethnicity. Yeah, but a white man who is responsible for the relationship we already have. So you're saying you're being oppressed by black men, so you're gonna go to the another oppressor. But you should go where you're being loved period. I'm not opposed to black men dating white women. I'm not opposed to black women dating white men. I'm not opposed

to it. But I do find myself rolling my eyes interracial couples outside sometimes I don't be It's a subconscious thing that happens for me sometimes because especially if it looks like a well to do, successful black man and he's off with something other than a black woman, I might glance over to the table and cut my eyes real quick and then go back on about my day. But it's just because he's supposed to be one of our husband That's how I'll be feeling in my head,

That's what I was saying. And black women, they you know, if you're single, you might find a problem with that because that's a man that could have been with you, just like Jez being with this girl, right, Why couldn't you find a black woman to lead? Right? And I mean that kind of thinking is a little ignorant, it is, but it's just how I felt like. It's honestly how I feel sometimes when I see especially just because a lot of black women are exclusive to black women like

I mean black men like myself. So that makes him that much harder and being thirty ish, bye, I have fear of because I look at my mom and a lot of her friends, and they're all older, and all of them are single, and they're just about content. Now I had my girlfriends, we eat and we'll be watching TV and we just we get dressed up and go out to eat, and they'd be just content with that, and I am not. I don't want that. But what if I considered I don't know if I could even

consider dating outside. When I think of outside, I'm thinking about everybody. I'm not just thinking about white men. Yeah, Dominican, which they would think would be black man, Dominican black, Well, so who else? Asians? It's in fly as Asian guys, like we're in Charlotte. It's a whole little click of them wrapped up in Charlotte. That that nigga, look, I call him a nigga, That Asian nigga from what's that movie? Uh? Singapore Crazy? They find itself. I'll take an Armenian nigger.

You like Armenians? I like them black beach, dark, black, light black, medium black. I don't like almost black all the way black. That's all. I like Biggati black with a big black dick girl. They wanted people to stop focusing on the title, which the title was black women should start dating white men. So if you you're just coming into the room, you don't know what all other

conversation conversation at transpired outside of that title. But based on that title, that clickbait asked title, that triggering title. It wasn't triggering from me because I understand people have preference, and I'm not here to make you feel a way about your preference, but you might want to explore really why you feel like when why are you generalizing? I'm never going to say that all black men are just bade black man ain't. Black men don't protect black women.

And with a nigger who want to beat your ass for me, that's like one of the characteristics I look for in a man, like I want to know I can confidently cut you the funk out and if you're a woman, he'll beat your exactly. I think you're gonna knock you out home for real. I'm not dealing with somebody I don't feel protected around, right, So I guess they mean in general, black women aren't protected. I've lived in every single city when any major crimes against black

people as happened. I've been in St. Louis when Michael Brown was murdered. I don't know who pushes that narrative that we're not protected by black men. I think they just mean in general, you know, because why I was mentioned in all these situations that I've happened with black people, because a lot of times black women are on the front line with a baby on our hill black men.

There's black men out there. Yeah, I'm not saying they aren't, but you don't think it's more Black women than black men that be out there, Like we show up for black men. So a lot of black women feel like black men don't show up for us. The whole thing is that black women are hard to deal with people

outside of the black community. They may let you do what the funk you wanna do, and they may be real passive and shut the funk up about it when she's going to talk ship and black men have a problem with you just even staying I don't like that ship. Don't do that to me. That's nagging or that's being negative,

or that's being loud. Cussing them out or whatever it is. Well, I feel like, you know, black women, I mean, we do have some beta females, but a lot of us have alpha female personalities and that's because of our upbringing. You can take that ship all the way back to slavery. I know, here we go with the slavery conversations, but you can't take it back because they would tear our men away from us, beat them, rip them up, tie one half of them to one horse, and tie the

other half to another, and beat the horses. Today ripped the black man and half in front of the black woman. So in her mind, she's like, I have to be very strong because I don't know when I'm gonna be out here by myself. And we raised our baby be that way. We raise our black women. The black men. Though, then you you treat the black men to be more submissive, right, don't because we don't want you rip apart out here in the streets. So now we have a whole generation

of strong alpha females and beta males. I don't want to say beta males. Is like beta males may be married too, but they're probably getting ran over. Nobody really wants the beta male. Some women do want the beata male because some women want someone who they can tell what the fun to do. I don't like. I don't want no man like that. I just want I just want equality. I don't want to be able to run over anybody, and I don't want to feel like somebody trying to run over me, right, But I do want

a black man though. Yeah, and there's another side up dating outside your race. You don't mean to tell me that white women don't experience some of the same ship we do. They do. They absolutely do, exactly, so you think the grass is greener on the other side, You don't know what you could just be a fetish to that white man. I just don't I just imagine if I was with a white man, like after we finished talking about Marvel and comic book some ship, what the

funk else are we gonna talk about? Like, I don't like, especially like during George Floyd and all this racial tension that we have in our country. I don't know that that white man could ever relate relate to me in the way that I need to. That that there is a cultural difference pain that's passed on the black people in this country that they will never understand, and I don't know if my white king could ever related to me. Black women are tired of the struggle love with black men,

so they're wanting to go and explore other races. I don't think that a black woman should die single. When you have other people out here that you can experience, you do not have to be with just a black man. So you about to date other I mean, well, you an't about to date nobody, but if you were, if you were single or you would you would consider dating outside of your race. Yes, I wouldn't consider dating outside of my race, but that to be my first preference.

You know what I'm saying. You don't know who who will come into your life. But I'm not just gonna block out anybody else just because I'm you know, I feel like one men of other cultures are intimidated by my butt side, like they'd be like, yeah, no, I can't do that. I'm gonna keep on going. I ain't even gonna be able to play with her like that. So I don't really have men of other I do have some white boys every now ready and split dark oak, But for the most part, I only get black men

who are even trying to, you know, push up. Well, Okay, so one day there's a there's a wine bar. I used to like to frequent a lot so pizza like little toppers and show like that. So I would go in there and I was talking to the guy who owns this, an Egyptian guy, and he was saying, he's always an interested in black woman. He doesn't know how to approach us. And also the reason why he doesn't approach black women because he feels inadequate in the dick department.

Because in their minds, all black men just got these big dumb dicks. It's not true. So they just feel like they won't measure up or they won't be able to satisfy a black woman. And that might be true too, but the per capita, the black men got the biggest dicks. Yeah, but all black men don't have big dicks. No, that's a lie. Exactly on average, so per unaverage, black men

have largernesses, they're larger endowed. Yeah, so that intimidates others especially and then when you gotta put a big old but on top of that, chill my dick, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna keep on walking. I ain't even gonna play with her. Look, but I have black men being like, yeah I can. But black men even with the littlest dicks that they feel like they just want a big booty. Bitch, you don't even got enough dick for that big booty.

So at least the white guys or whoever else they do know they're limitations black men, and they'd be wanting you to uh act like they tear your ship up, so you'll be in there like yeah when I did, ain't doing ship and in your group chat later big you know, I came over there with the vibrator your dad vibrated in the whole bag this naked listening at the bathroom door. But let me tell you, I always, if I like you, and let's say this sex isn't

that great, I'm gonna make you feel good. I'm definitely always gonna make you feel good. I'm never gonna make you feel like you know. There was one time where I told him get his stick was trash, but I said it in a nice way because I liked him. This is how I said it. Hey, baby, come here, sit down. I want to talk to you just for a second. What's up? Baby's um, but I'm about to say it's gonna be uncomfortable for you, and it's uncomfortable

for me. But because I care about you, I just feel like this is something that I should just say to you. Just spit it out. What do you want to say? Baby? When we have sex, it's over really really quickly, and like right when I'm getting warmed up, you're already done, and I'm just not satisfied at all. Like we have sex for like maybe five minutes and then it's over. Hell no, that's selfish, or maybe he just can't control he comes in. He would come in like, so,

wasn't it a little No? No, he had a nice size package and we had like super passion. I mean it'd be like TV, like were walking the door, tuking each other down and knocking it off the wall. And then he put that four minutes tops, it's just a animate it's over. I'll be like, damn no, hell no, y'all don't need to have skip the four play then, so he wanted more time? No should I shouldn't have to do that. So let's listen. He got up from the chair, he walked to the kitchen, and I was

just watching him. He didn't say a word. He poured him a glass of water. He stood at the sink, he drank the water. He didn't open his mouth, and I was just like sitting there like in suspense, like say something. And then finally he said, I ain't never had a bitch say nothing like that to me before. And you know what, is he gonna blame you with I'm bitches because he don't know the truth, and grabbed his keys and walked out. Left. You talked to him again? Yeah,

I talked to him after that. He didn't want that. He never he never mentioned what I said to him though. It was like I never even said that path and then brought that same whack ass dick back. I was like, oh, maybe he didn't hear me. I I found him two more times and then I had to give him back to the streets. I really liked him, like I wanted him to be my boyfriend, but that wasn't gonna work.

So this is our fault that these needs to be out here thinking they're busting ship down because they just be pretending because they like an I never heard nobody saying no because they probably was pretending like that Dick was enough because they liked you and the Pickens sucking slim out here, Better go get you a white man who could suck your a long time. Basically, it's what

that story was about. Oh I changed his name to four minutes, shorty foe minutes, and it was so like it was so passionate, that everything was passionate between us. But the dick was trash. It was and nobody had ever told him before. That's crazy. That's the women. We have got to stop doing that. Ghosted. I'm pretty sure he didn't got ghosted before. Maybe she just didn't verbally tell you but when she But I liked him a life. I liked this personality. I felt like we matched aesthetically,

like you know, we look good together. But I can't live like that. You cheat. I would cheat on him, be sexually frustrated, nigga, what you want to eat? Right low black? As before, while he was standing at the stint quiet, I did suggest, like, maybe before you come over, you could just beat off so you will have released already in that way, you won't need to. He just didn't give a funk about satisfying it. Didn't know he

has some growing to do. I don't know if I don't know if he could control it though, and I'd be looking down at my couchie like damn, my know was good, But he needs to try an intercom. You ever heard about that intercomet intercom like you please come to the office. Intercome, like right when you're about to you just hold it back and let the adrenaline go down.

Also like think about babies, grandma's and stuff like that. No, just like, yeah, I guess whatever you got to think of to turn you off right quick and then get back into it. You want to just come and not let a bit come like what at all? Just four minute?

We never it would be like we'd be making out for like eight minutes, kissing and sucking on each other and all kind of stuff, and then as soon as the sex starts is over, I mean over over Like this, he would have not got another trial because if he didn't receive I know, I got that good stuff. So I would be like, Okay, you got to get adjusted, baby, I understand. I know you gotta get adjusted to all this goodness and all this passion. So I'll give you,

you know, a few adjustments. The hell we started talking about this one Nicke dick for twenty minutes. I know it was black dick too, bringing it back to our talet. Oh, because I mentioned the Egyptian guy, So maybe I have. I mean, I've dealt with some beautiful white men, some very handsome white men. But it's a disconnect. Yeah, there was a disconnect. You know, updated a white guy before like tried to hang out. But I don't know, it's

just different. It's just different. Yeah, it's cultural differences. This is one white guy. We were hanging out. We went on a couple of days. He was he looked like Captain America. Bitch. This white man was fine, okay, And he called me early one Saturday morning. He's like what you're doing? And I was like nothing. He was like, you want to go to the mall? What do it mean when you asked the black bitch if she want to go to the mall? He got to buy some ship. Girl,

He did not buy me ship. I was so bad. I was like, I know, your motherfucking playing with me. Don't get me out of my bad on the Saturday morning, and don't offer to pay for none of this ship? By what the funk was y'all looking there for? When the shopping, just walking around. I bought my whole ship and got back in my car and left. And then we were at the register and I was like waiting and he was waiting and both of his way. She

was like, the total is three eight one. I was looking at him, he was looking at me, bitch, and I was like, Oh, you're not gonna pay for this, And then he was like maybe a joke. He was like, Oh, I think I must have left my wallet in the car. Oh, you got me fucked up. Don't ever ask you to go to the mall with first of all, to pay for slavery reparations. If I with a white man, I want reparations nothing. He's not about to play with me, like we're gonna go to the mall? Why did you

invite me here? And I had to educate, Hey, yeah, that uses taxes. Any woman black or white to them all and not offered to buy the ship anything, right, y'all could have went to fucking Starbucks, right if you just want to hang around you for the day. See, that's weird. A black man ain't will never do no ship, Like, no, we know better than Nigga know. If he ain't got the money, he's not about to invite you to the damn Mama of all places. See, that's the type of

she like. That's what y'all bit just gonna deal with. I just feel like there's a certain type of black woman that dates black white white men in particular, because that's what the title was, and that's okay. I just always feel like, and don't get mad at me, y'all, but if you do, fuck you. Um, it's always a slim black bitch with big old titties and synthetic weaving and nappy leave out. Oh no, that one girl that's dating that white boy that played for the Chiefs, she's

a bad beach and he is fine as hell. Yeah, but the majority synthetic girls shut up the way. I wanted to make a joke about marrying uh pigtail. Oh no, that's awful, that's just that's that's racy with a pigtail for the rest of your life. Did you're talking about these bitches leaving leave out? They leave out bit happy? I can say that I cannot. Okay, I'm sorry, girl. These girls was pretty, but I did notice that the

majority of them wore darker skin. A lot of them had the story that you know, the black boys when they were in high school were the main ones that would tease them, talk about their lives, talk about their nose, all the things that we call beautiful. Yeah they're beautiful. Big lips are beautiful. Now you know what I'm saying. Like things change over time, people become less dumb, ignorant,

anyway less ignorant. But I did notice that the majority of them were darker skinned women who talked about being teased by black men, and I think that darker black men may also feel the same way. Going through school, people talking of all saying all type of crazy shit about you row up, you get rich, and yeah, and then you buy the light skinned bitch you always wanted or the white bitch you always wanted. Yeah. I can't see that, but that's something you need to work out

through therapy. I will not say all black men are bad because this is what you experienced with a couple of black men that you let have access to you. Because if you and I've said this before, if you have never experienced a good black man, chances are you ain't ship right. Anytime you say all of anything is good or bad, you sound ignorant to me, all white people are bad, all black people are bad. Like, that's ridiculous. You can't categorize everybody is one thing. It's just stupid. Now,

do I want to date any of y'all? No, just black, But it's not I want to have children with a black man. Yeah, I want some. I want some kinky, curly hair babies. They're talking about celebrities and you're looking at celebrity relationships the richard black men and how they pick, you know, even even celebrities the majority of them, or with black women. But it's it's all involved in money. So all men, all women want to high value man. So are y'all saying that black men are incapable of

being high value? Is that what you're really saying? That would be That would be fucked up. I know. But there was one time I was watching and I was scanning the audience, and I was looking at the woman that wasn't sitting next to them black men and a lot of chocolate. That's all I'm saying. Also, think about who are these people around. Once you get to a certain status, you you live in neighborhoods where there are no black people. Black people just love. Oh, I ain't

no black people my neighborhood. I aspired to live in a neighborhood with a bunch of black people, would have checked. That's that's my goals. Like you think you the ship because you have no black neighbors, because you get the remove, will yourself your children go to all white? What are y'all saying about black people? Right? What do you what

are we really talking? You know, that just depends on what's because there is like, uh, in bigger cities there are a fluent black, a lot of fluent Black neighbors. You know. Well, I can only think of like Atlanta has a lot of a fluent black neighborhood, and maybe Potomac, Maryland. I know Sharlotte has one affluent like an older black neighborhood, but they're really Chicago has a fluent black neighborhood in Chicago to I'm sure, well, Baldwin Hills, that's a fluent black. Yeah.

I mean we weren't name in five places in this country exactly. So I feel like if you are really for the economic advancement of black people, you would not be talking this type of bullshit. I am a firm believer that you cannot sleep white and be pro black. I don't care who says what a who feels a way about that. I don't give a fuck. One of the guys I used to day, he became he got

really pro black. He's watching all those I can't remember the name of those videos, documentaries, and he was watching all that. He was like sup. And then his next baby mama was a white woman. I was like, now, ain't that a be what they call those uh hotel I will continuously try with a black man, and I will continue to love black man like I've never been hurt before. Me too, And I will continuously to speak life into y'all and love y'all forever. There's nothing that's

ever going to change that. Now, I'm gonna let nobody shoot on me and tell me he's reading right. I'm not gonna let anybody, no, no black man can do that to me. No white man can do that to me. But I'm not gonna just you mean hypothetically, are you're not shut up? Okay, you're not, no girl, I'm not there yet. I tried one time, I do it. I would like, that's what you want. Hold on before we get into anything else. Let's pay some bills real quick. So back in two thousand and eighteen, I tried to

go on the show Married at First Sight. If you watch the Charlotte episode, you'll see me in the beginning or whatever trying to snatch me in there. But I was not casted, and during the casting I made it very far. I made it to like right before they picked people, and they told me, like you know, they asked me, was I exclusive to black man? And I said, before I answered, that was like, before you answer, we just want you to know that if you are, that's

not a problem. But if you made the dating pool smaller for yourself and getting casted for this show, if you are exclusive to black man, I was like, I gotta be totally honest with your dr peppers. Y'all can't put me with nothing but a black man. I'm sorry, Like I'm sorry, And that's why I was only in the first episode about if you blake bit, you'll miss

me about ten seconds in the beginning. So I mean, okay, So that's essentially what these women are saying, like we aren't we're not gonna why should we die single because we can't find a black man. We need to broaden our horizon and did outside our race. I wouldn't necessarily say a white man, but yeah, so look, those are those people are supposed to be like professionals at what they do, matchmaking, and they have some type of signs figured out based on your personality and all that ship.

Your personality may not match with a black man. I don't know. My personality did not match with the black men who signed up to be on the show. The type of nigga that I like would never go on married at first sight. That's all that is. It's hard to get a niggnna marry you after five years you're

talking about married at first sight. Shame. So just be with whoever you want to be with, but just justified by shipping on another group of people fun the colors of the rainbow for I care, I don't care, But don't talk about my black man because that's the problem. We all need help, we all need to struggle together. We just can't give up on each other, and we can't publicly be trying to embarrass and talk to it

about you. And I know we talked back like we need to, saying all types of sh it on here, but I don't know I just feel I feel some type of way with other people do it. We can talk to you about black men, but you bad not bit we didn't have a podcast. I mean, we need to have an episode where we just talked to it about black women. Talked a little bit of shit about black women today. I guess we talked to about black women.

We equal opportunists, like talk about everybody. Yeah, because we definitely ain't perfect, and again, we are responsible for these niggves, so we obviously need to raise the standard. We need to all get on one accord, and fort is not. I don't know who came up with that. I got to raise the minimum pussyway because that's definitely minimum pussy wayes Okay, if y'all accept the forty dollars, I'm mad, But that's off the topic. I keep getting off the topic,

so I don't know. I'm gonna keep listening tonight. I want to see, I want to understand. I want to better understand where these women are coming from. Those women have their preference, and I understand their grievances. I just don't think you should punish a whole group of people based off your experiences with a few. You're ignorant and that's it. Well you you update me because clubhouse be wearing me out. Yeah, it's a lot of it's like

information overload a lot of time. I love it though, So we hope you guys enjoyed this episode of We Talk Back. Tune in next week. We are going to have a psychic on who's gonna tell our future? And let me know when I'm gonna get man And I want to ask the sack here, like why don't you tell us about coronavirus if you've got ability? So we're gonna find out. Make sure y'all hit us up on Instagram at We Talk Back podcast um. Also hit us up with your dumb bit stories or ask a black Friend,

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