Ep 61 "Count Deez N.U.T.Z" with Pour Minds Podcast

how was y'all weekend? We always started talking about our weekend is, So how was y'all weekend? Oh do this weekend? I felt like we got drunk this weekend? Week Okay, so oh yeah we did. We chilled this weekend. We had a chill weekend. We always go out with the boys with a five and we went out with last last week. We went out with them. We had a good time. It was definitely turning out. They they had a thing with the Atlanta Halls, so we went up there and y'all know, we just like to show up

and drink. Yeah, that's all we do. We just show up drinking. So we got drinking the game and we went out afterwards like it was just and then we went out the next day. So that was in Atlanta, just along weekend and a different because y'all know, y'all stay out till seven in the morning in Atlanta and no reason. O. Yeah, Atlantic said Corona. Every club be open to like, yeah, like Charlotte, y'all coming out to Charlotte this weekend Wednesday for a show. Y'all have two shows, right, yeah,

two o'clock. Everything done that. Yeah, that's actually like Houston. I mean he's put a strip club. The strip clubs that he was going to be opened a little later. Our strip club will be open, but you can't drink nothing. So I was I was just like, yeah, on bottom a j what do you do this weekend? This bit would be lying. This bitch always says she don't do nothing during the weekend, but ain't too much as we can brunch a little bit, should we recorded and stuff

this weekend? That's about it. What did I do this weekend? Nothing? I didn't last weekend I went to Vegas and I did too much. So this weekend, I had to chill, like, I had to take it easy. I was like, I'm older now. My body can't like if I do too much one weekend. The next weekend, I got a chill. I can't move like exactly. I want to go out at six and be home by ten o'clock. Wait, okay, you keep saying, y'all, girl, don't ask so crazy ask questions like you the fan. We always talked about our age.

I'm seven. I don't care that about that long as I got Okay, I'll I'll be party three this year, so I'm starting. Yeah, so y'all like y'all acting like y'alla, We're gonna leave it at that. I'm telling that part. Okay, sorry, tell our listeners about your show show because I feel like y'all are just like us. Y'all are very honest, very unapologetic with the things you have to say, but just younger. That's the only really difference. I'm gonna leave

that alone. I'm gonna leave that. Um you want to go, yeah, I mean I can't. Saw Lix and are our best friends. Um. We met in Houston because I'm from Houston, she's from Orange. Takeeas but she lived in Houston for like teen years before she moved out here. So we actually met working in the strip club together. It was like my first real bar teaming job, and she knew how to bar team a little bit or than not a little at okay, a lot of okay, a lot of me, Like she

had to make all my brains. So you know, we linked up and I'm like, girl, if you back these, the money down real quick. And so we started. So we bust our money down one night. I don'tgot how much he did, like, and we've just been friends ever since. And so I moved to Atlanta in twenty seven, six seens. I was here for like a year, then I Convince started to move out here and maybe like five six

months after she was here. People will always see us together and how we interact with each other, and they'll be like, y'all so fucking crazy, y'all need to have a show, like y'all need to do something together because y'all personalities is just too much together. So we decided to start a YouTube channel. And on the YouTube channel, we're just doing all types of sheets from beauty totorials, cooking to toorials. How we girls everything, we gotta get

a check from someone all. So yeah, so um, we had to wind down Win and Stay Stay men, which was like a twenty minute statement that we were doing on our YouTube channel and most people just really gravitated towards that. And so her friend that already had a really popular podcast told us that we should turn it into a podcast. So at the end of eighteen we changed that I ain't support mines and we officially made

the podcast. And you know, it's just a shot with both of us talking about our lives, navigating through a land of being young, dating, dealing with the mares out here, and just the struggles that we've been through our friendship because we went through we've been through rough patches and our friendships and she's been our year in. Yeah, the show was just about our friendship and about our lives'

I love it because it's the same for us. Now, let me ask you this as friends and business partners, because I saw you said you came out there with three dollars, right, So how do y'all navigate maintaining the business relationship and the friendship and the lines not blurring? Um? For us, I think we have to separate it. So it's like when we walk into a business meeting, it's not our best friend lex Andre hanging out and we

don't spill it into each other. So if we're talking about poor Mond stuff, we're not talking about us going out and sucking some Lega's last night, you know what I mean. So, and if we're out partying, we're not talking about the meeting that we have tomorrow. So if she does something in a meeting and we're kind of getting into it in a meeting, I don't bring that to our personal life after we finish our my okay, just for a happy hour like we outside. So we've

done a good job at separating that. And I think it's because we had such a time or we weren't getting along. So we were like, you know what, forget this podcast, forget this, let's mend our fresh air, you know, because um, I think what poor mind? Just like we've never seen women that look a certain way do this because everybody feels like bad between quiet. So we was like, no, we have to make this work, Like, we have to make this work. So I see y'all ever fight Yeah,

yeah I didn't. I didn't try to tuckle, but I did kick her out of my apartment one night because she didn't want to leave, and I'm like, and I came back and and I'm pushed shot and though I'm like, girl, you gotta go get out. And then I followed you down, kick kicked me up the house and you follow me on the hallway like a bitch, where are you going to beach? It was a wild time in our friendship. I'm just so glad we you know, you made me

through that because it was really wild. But yeah, I definitely think because we got back in a good space. That's also what contributed to the show. Because we had never meted to therapy. We went to therapy. Yeah we've never gone out. Yeah we didn't never do therapy. We knew it separately, but we never we went together. But I think it was yeah, yeah it did. It didn't

help us out, so why weren't you all? And then we had to learn to appreciate what we brought to the table, like what our strong suits were and what wasn't what wasn't strong for like where you lack, this is where I'm great, And where I lacked, this is where you're great, And let's just accept that and I already know I got all right, So I like, I struggled to people I need to say nicely right nicely, Yeah, I'm not I'm good with the nice nasty. I kind of like you, I kind of like. But we found

a way to navigate that. So all right, we have a segment called Dumb Internet News where we talk about ship that's going on in the world and social media and things like that. So we want to talk with you all about our good brother Kanye and Kim Kardashian. M Hm, you know was crazy. Somebody just said they was like, Kanye, all he's really doing is talking about issues that are real issues and putting himself at the

forefront of it. It's like you just like arguing with your baby mama, Like this is not like, oh they're talking about oh they're trying to keep black men out there out their homes. You're Kanye West, Like, stop acting like you have the struggles of like the regular black man, like trying to see his kids, Like, don't do this. Kim caught his ass out this morning because he was like, like you just left that, yeah, right, stop faking like I don't let you see your kids. You just left here.

With the babies. Yeah, she just acting a little bitter. He being a little bitter. I mean, I'm not I would be kind on setif I lost Kim Karnashre and myself. I mean yeah, but I think that's the problem with me and maybe saw upset when they was a woman that's meme online. It was like Kim like crying in the car and it's like a still image and it was like, this is when Kanye ship is straightened up.

You don't went to a bit, stop crying and stop arguing, right, we don't know by that time to being she don't care no more. I do think it's a little strange with like him dating like the kimblo. Okay, we just had a conversation about it. That look, if my ex starts dating a girl that looks exactly like me, patty with my means where cause I do like men who

have preference. Like if I seeing a nigger who like this bitch looked this way, that bit like you don't have no you just be, you don't have no time, you just have a low preference. But like this bitch is playing Kim Kardashian for Kanye. That's what I see and that's what I was about to say, but I was like dash a billionaire, I'd be like a hey, I'm not gonna lie. It's do you love it and Bible, Bible. I can't do what. I got too much integrity for that.

A billionaire nigga, you're gonna get all kind of endorsement deals. People gonna be look at Pete Davidson on the way to the motherfucking moon. Now you know that he's going with like that doing he like de bas okay, So I don't know it's on paper in real life. Kanye is a billionaire as well, right, so I feel like he's doing at the Spike Kanye a little bit like he left up for being a white man can go to the moon, but they're gonna let a black man actually attend to go to the moon. Nigga is not

going to go to the moon. And exactly the white man black to the moon don't do that. The skik don't do like that. And he probably is doing this to spight him too, But but who cares because you're being paid baby petty too, because Kanye' for you cut the nigger head off in the video and married the nigga like it was white. He talked about him on the phone. He just d But I will say Kanye creatively has always pushed boundaries. So everybody reacting to that

video like, oh my god. So it's like Eminem used to do stuff like that all the time, all the time. Like somebody expressing, um, crazy ideas are crazy thoughts through their music is not something new, but the climate is out different now. You know people can start but amagining people girl, ex Baby mama making music and you see an image of your head chopped off and put in the fucking ground as given. I got you bothered, like me to. I want you bothered. It would be making

me feel superior. You're like, yeah, I got something. I personally don't want to see my head, don't head. I love Kanye. First, I was trying to trigger that man by saying he's in bed with his wife. He was, that's not his wife, no more so why are you using that in particular, like I'm in bed with your wife and sent because he wanted to make him mad. All right, I'll be pulling me if you was Kanye. Kanye can't him Okay, they all be, But honestly, let's say what I what I really think there show was

about to drop on Hulu. Chris got the script ready this morning, clucking at eight o'clock. This is all to me. You think it's I think it's I think it's all all of Yes, I do, I absolutely do. When I tell you, think about the stuff that we've done, that we've created just to like make a moment. But you really think Kanye will play along? Absolutely because it's gonna make him money. It's making him money. He has been in the blogs. When you are a send the media,

you get paid from being relevant. Kanye and Kim are so relevant right now. I mean, girl, So they're doing their jobs content everything. I think it's yeah, every day I'm really sinking. Yeah, I'm telling you, but you gotta talk about it because she is so fucking fantastical, Like you gotta talk about it. I love it. It's getting a wild performance. Did y'all see Stevie Ja giving head, getting head during giving getting head during was getting hand

during an interview. Imagine being the girl giving Stevie j Head's right, right, girl, you're down, bad girl. I mean it is it is. You know a few better people I could think to your head if you aren't the videos because her dad like her hand came and the girl was like, whose hand is that? But the hand look a little manly. Oh, don't do that, man, don't don't do that. Not Stevie, Stevie. But I think that's weird, Like I always say this. We talked about sex on

the show a lot. But y'all, I hate extremely horny me to. They're weird to me. So you can't wait till after your interview was done, you're weird, Like you're not one of that interview, though, I would want to interview him while he get hand. I'm extremely harny, though, But it's the head good. It's the head good. If you can have a whole conversation with a bit, it's not greious, it's not a head I feel like he

was trying to do that. I think he was just really high, you know, because he just got that he was on some drugs. He was high. He was so happy to be on Start Island with Didny. I am bad not he probably happ but I'm not gonna do him. Like the Stevie jury is allegen. I'm saying that like a whole joke. Everybody. You know, I was so happy about it. He kept making that a point. But I'm sorry as an interviewer, if I'm trying to interview you, yes,

I would have been because don't just know. I would have asked him, I would you get filacial or head right now? I would have asked him right there the proper please please, ma'am standing up, introduced yourself to the show. You're already here, so now, okay, So everybody's been holding the heat on Jada Smith for the last year and a half. Basically, did y'all say the interview with um Will Smith and Gail Oprah's old lady? And he said, like,

what the sheet they never cheated on? Basically said, you know, how do you guys work through all the infidelity and your mad and your marriage? And and Will Stoptorn was like, you know, there's never been any infidelity in our marriage. Me and Jada discussed everything, and you know, me and Tam on the show we talk about monogamous, non monogamous relationships all that all the time. And so for us,

it's more so about open lines of communication. It's not really about you want to funk a bit, you come ask me for permission, like even if it come up, like how do you be with somebody for twenty years and not want to suck somebody else? Like, let's just be on it, start talking me about it and maybe we can fit it in the schedule or something like that. Right, So I understand when he said like, there's never been any infidelity because we talked about everything. What do you guys?

I mean I get that because look I'll be two weeks in and be like, okay, because I got somebody else. I mean, I feel that. But then I feel like when they beat the red type of talk interview, it seemed like when he brought it up, she was very uncomfortable, and he seems like the way he brought it up like he was are like not to say that he didn't know about it, but he felt from as older people, I can see why he felt some type of way. First of all, um, what's all boy name? And that

your friends friend? First of all, that's your son's friend. It's more so about like on that interview, what I saw was Jada not deflecting and taking ownership of how she sucked up. Right. You know, oftentimes in relationships, we might bring up something Nigga did the justifies the ship we did. Jada wasn't doing that. Jada owned up to the ship and it was about her. She was the one that sucked up. And I think it was more so about like you're working with somebody that I on't

got ship to lose. You see what I'm saying, Like you brought some real drama until our fucking However, whatever type of lifestyle we have, like you chose to do these extracurricular activities with a fucking kid who blew your spot up, So it's just different. But I will say this, the only reason that we had to talk about it was because everybody had found out. But then he's so Will probably sucking with somebody who ain't got shut to Louis, I found out they he's never got cold. They just

wasn't the right. Will Smith is not like he got a clean slate. It's just that the he funk with adults that ain't about how you know that and he could have fun with some of young bitches that know how to keep their mouth shut. He needs to fun with me. Will. I ain't gonna say nothing and we're gonna have um goods and I ain't gonna will or Jada over here. I love big Willie style. I can't remember that freestyle he needed that. We used to be

laughing at. Oh yeah, when I thought my money up, I probably oh well Sen when I thought my money up ship, yeah, I probably kill looking right a bar, Big will you would be no call, give me a money cause cushion nigga right, Mama's I canna keep fishing, I know, but I don't think every relationship does have their problems, but it just sucks because they have to do it a party. They're not going through anything that any other couple hasn't gone through but their Will and Jada,

you know what I'm saying. So at this point, I kind of wish media would stop being so fascinated by relationships, like the relationship goals and oh my god, he cheated people they gotta do and all. But I think people are just fascinated in general by Selibery. Then when they eat in a relationship, they become even more fast. Maybe fishing if these two seper people, I just don't we talk about this stuff. I really don't give a funk about other people life like that, Like it's just like discussion.

But like whatever you choose to do ship that much like if Chloe, I know that I'm going back to this family. But if Chloe stayed with Tristan, I mean exactly, do I care a good last? That's a dumb it story about segments. That ship is just party. That man's a fool. Yeah, we didn't have an ice cream breaker. Uh, a little segment before we do that. Let's go to a commercial. Yeah, we'll be right back, all right, y'all.

So we played this game on our show called truth or false this or that, and we're gonna ask you some questions and you just pick one whichever aligns with you. Okay, so our listeners can get to know you much better, and so we can't too. So I'm gonna start. I'm gonna do all mine and then you do yours? All right, monogamy or open relationship, open relationships? I say monogamy, but it kind of the opening depends, right relationship? I agree?

But if I have to choose on home cooked meal or fine dining, finding the only thing I can make it what the period is? It just depends to me. I could cook. I just don't be one I like to cook. See yea, it's been like yeah, and then I have like I have a bad like palette, like I eat the worst ship, like I'll go on a date in order like neat loa like I am. I'll be going to Boston Market. I eat crazy, I eat crazy, crazy ship. So that's that rage texting ship. Let me

get the moving over mash you take to please? Okay, drink or smoke, drink drink happy and poor are rich and said the richest thing. I'm a fry in the rosary everything always chanel rade, the ram one of blue and in the green crying with put the partition up. Okay, fucking our love baking. I'm gonna make love making even if we ain't in love, I'm gonna still make love. See. I love to make love. I'm a love I love you everything. I mean, yeah, I love two kids. I'll

be looking. But let me kind of out. One time I linked the butt one time and I did not. I shouldn't talk about this flavor, right? What did it taste like a little bit? It didn't tastes like doodle like must see. I don't know. I just didn't like it. I was like, this ain't right, this ain't right. I'm not gonna lie. I haven't done it in a really long time now that I'm think about it. But you know, I make a little there like I don't I plan to do it, like for my man one day when

she gets old, you know, I get bored. I'd be like surprised. Don't put your legs up, baby, Let's do something different. I'm gonna hold you like I'm taking your tape for nigger. Yeah. I couldn't even eat it for real. I just I was like, okay. And the last one Orange, Texas Houston all right, no ah, it's like two hours so it's literally the last city before you hit Louisiana. So like the house I grew up in, Like I could walk to Louisiana from my house, Like that's how

it was. But there's nothing in Orange. I love being from a small town because I feel like I'm a balanced, like being from a small town. Then I lived in Houston for ten years, but I'm gonna choose Houston all day, every day. And then what about yours? All right? So b d B or a regular boyfriend, like regular boyfriend Dick that loves and cares about you, Babie Bean, because I don't know I ain't gonna love me bed be they love ship already, because the Nickel will be like,

oh I love you, I love you. He'll be treating to thank true or false. You can't take a nick unless he's ready to go mm hmm true. I'll say true, I'll say true. Future are Russell, Wilson Russell, don't know if you chase the BDB. I'm like Russell is like Russell is everything, great, job, great, look, he find his fuck pizza. He knows like he can run Future to try to run nigga that and just be rap about it. They don't know whom to be doing it. Yeah, maybe not no more my I just feel like future would

stressed me out. I stressed. And if somebody come up to you and like trying to beat you in your nigga asks, do you want Russell next to your future? Russell looks like he's gonna get out there a little bit now, Russell gonna fight you get shot. Yeah, but I want you Russell. I would funk with, I would funk with Future. He'd be my side and the Russell be my main ship. Listen, I can't sunk a future on no fucking date. That Nigga is bad for uh, Nigga's always a good time boy. I'm too old. My

authoritists start acting over carp. Oh yeah, So we kind of talked about this. Would you play a bit for your B B D B I E. Shane Jones is playing Kim K character to Kanye. Would y'all do that a billionaire? If you look like a billionaire's ex? And he started like trying to dress you like her and stuff like that, y'all wouldn't let him do it? You know what? I would say this, It depends where I'm at, to be honest, what I two years ago? Sign me

the fun up? But right now? But right now now, because I feel like people who funk with me and that I've built this platform. But like, man, let's go on outside herself out she sell people altists like the sign. So I'm like, I could got better than me because i'd be k Kanye witch gloves the Oh yeah, I don't think I could do it now. I don't think I can do it. That girl don't fun with him? Jill what was her name? Julia Fox? She was just

trying to upgrade herself. She wasn't trying to be killed she knew who she was, She knew that this was her name is in the mouths of people that it was not in the mouths of before His muse though, like he'd be trying to he want a bitch that he could dress up. Yeah, take me to the game. Hey, but don't I don't care how, I don't care how many people fucking wearing I'm not wearing no rainboots. I'm

not doing it, my nigga. You trying to put some rainbow Why I'm not wearing no rainbow Mary poppers and no, I don't know an what they are, all right, So the last one is do real gold diggers trick first? Is it a good tactic out hit? Well, no on you until you spend it on me. I don't know who came up with that into him, because who oh if I spin it on him, he's gonna like niggers get excited because nigga is not used to getting ship, so they get excited when you get him a lotting. Well,

you better stay used to it. Yeah, used to it, because I feel like that's the reward. Like, even if it's a small shrinky, you could get that after you do something. Yeah, I mean I don't get it wrong. Like when I have a man that does a lot for me, I don't mind doing things for my man. I really don't. But like off top, Yeah, it's just something about it. Whenever I get a new dude, I just want to spend money on them, Like who that's illness. Maybe she's got a lot of money in this for you.

Somebody's child. Like when I get fifty five and sixty, if I'm still out here like this, I'm tricking on my niggas. I don't have a problem with that. Mhm. I'm not gonna three year old nigga and buy my PlayStation, give her some. They'll be happy with that. It will be like a by that time. It would be like a place that I feel like I would be a treat with since I'm not. If I was a nigga, I would be a treat to talking about, Like right now, yeah, just be fine, because beaches be fine. I would want

all the bad beaches. So I just like they paid for you to fucking go a lot of times. You'll be quiet. M alright, ah, right back, y'all. Let's pay some bills real quick. We'll be back. So I know y'all saw a young Dirk was million million dollars worth of game podcast Just a little Dirk. He said, the main reason why he um is with India is because she had a little body count. Then she she does have a child right outside of him. I believe she has one child. But anyway I feel about body count, girls,

I'm always gonna tell a nigga's three. Three We've been told y'all, so we don't even know if India is telling them the truth. I'm not saying that she is that she is she not, but we just always killed nigga's three, so who cares the nigga won't be like yeah, and they're gonna go on the podcast and be like, yeah, that's why gal lex up, she only got three bodies. Nigga is gonna be whole set like, because my thing is as a ground ass man, why the fund are

you asking me? Why doesn't matter? When in the grown ass pretty plus your old man on the podcast, they was like, yeah, man, that's why that's why you fun with this little boy who talked about body count because that and he got like seven kids, right exactly. Nobody count ain't even below. But you know, I feel like men always try to use that excuse like oh, we're men, we're supposed to be, but like, I'm sorry, I don't care if you're a man or a woman. Nobody wants

somebody who's been reading everybody. So if you want somebody with a low body account, I feel like your body count should be low too. If you're a person who doesn't care, then date somebody who doesn't care, but to kind of have like, we know your body count is at least over so you know what I'm saying. So it's like to be somebody that has um. I don't want to say his body count is hot because I don't know. But a lot of men out here have the high body counts and they want somebody with a

low body count. It's like, how can you require something that you don't have. How do you expect me to know how to suck your dick if it ain't suck no dick before your dick? They want the virgin, you know, I don't. I don't understand the logic. I really don't.

It's not any logic behind that. I feel like that's just something that men you to try to suppress a woman's sexuality, Like men hate the fact that we get on these platforms and we say what we like, we say what we want, because they feel like it's only cool when they can control it, when they can control

the narrative. That's what we talked about the other there on the show, because um, when we're talking about how like oh women and wrap now, how you know not now but they've always been sexual, but they're getting so much backlash now and everybody's like, oh, y'all rapping about the same thing. Y'all been robbing about this shop for twenty years. But when we take power over it and we say what we want to say, it's a problem. Yeah.

I definitely feel like me and do a lot of stuff to try to separate women from each other because they know the Peak Meet crew gonna be like, oh yeah, because I had I only slipped with two need this bishes out there and it seems like you're scaring the holes. That is why you only got two bodies and you

need That's what I'm saying, like two bodies. You see, it's a lot of beads, a lot of here is giving you not that girl, you got two bodies, right, we gotta change the narraby beat, Okay, you need to body you ain't getting no niggas when the thing is, you'll be to save if your pussy fund nigger who want to make your crown fall out, Like you're saving you got two bodies while he's sucking everybody while you're together, and now you got hurt. I'm saying, right, and now

you got hurt. Fees this because I hear who the hundreds and they feel like a hunted but ship like I feel like when you read when you reach a certain age, just like who cares Like we all have a pass But if I'm enjoying you right now or if we are in a serious relationship, care I don't care about me. It's passed for me as long as it's not like long. Just as there are limits, yeah, like I mean I don't think there are. You don't want those super passed around that everybody. Yeah, that's what

I'm saying. Like if I know too many women that you've been with, I don't want you to. I can agree with that. M you ain't about to have these holier When I hear the when I hear the phrase body count, it just makes me think of like a guy asking you how many men to be with, and she's like Tim, He's like, oh my, it's like because I feel like it's no right or wrong answer. That's why it's not realistic. We just was laughing at we

just always have that two body count bitches. So so we threw anybody here, but I got but I got moment and I said what I said, you know you gotta multiply bright there told me wrong. That's what Ja Cole said. You got a multiplied by three in your mind, but that's the number. It's three, right, And I'll see you. So if you're made asking somebody you didn't ask you how many people have been with this? Three? Hell yeah?

Because I say, if I if it ain't no keys or no video with each and I ain't got no keys. I got a couple of juniors out there, no Facebook. But honestly, if a god really asked me that, I won't be turned off. I feel like I would really kind of just shut down the conversation and try to wrap this shut up check me. Yeah, but relationship, but ain't somebody like you just met on the day. It's usually like I have been slut shamed in a relationship before yes, yes, with like somebody I have been with

for years. You know what I'm saying, it'd be imaginary. You can't even pinpoint and they got sucked with. It's just the thought of somebody else working with you, So I know it's in mental health. Is Have you ever been out with a nigga and he drapped somebody up that you? Yes, And I'm telling the nigga immediately, I don't sucked him because I don't want a nigga coming back, like, yes, it has happened. I remember one night it was me Jarlomagne, his now wife, and and my me and my X

now he's in prison. We hopped in this nigga's car like to get a ride back to our car. And this was years ago. And the nigga whose car it was like the Uber driver. That nigga was not the driver. He was a PHBB like so we hopped in his

card to get it. We called like a cab for where we were from the cars we were in anyway, so we we hopped int do his car like somebody else knew, right, But it's somebody I sucked with, So I didn't want like that person or him to come back to my nigga, like, yeah, I used to funk with it, because nigga's we don't give a funk about you until they see who you went. Now they don't even think about your ass, so ain't even about you.

It's about saying, yeah, this nigga bitch before. Yeah, to ask immediately, because I don't want nobody else talking about me. Man if I say two niggas I funk with in the club, Phil, because we can spend the block. You about to say you said it happened to you before. Hell, yeah, that should happen to me before. I was actually tuning because that was cool with each other. And I did not tell my new nigga that I had a nigga, and then all nigga told my news and he was

mad as funk. He blocked me for like, can we started this motherfucker right now? This niggah see I would be at I'm like, what's that change? I didn't even I need to go get my eyes because I said I was gonna make in the eye appointment. I didn't realize that was Jamie. I had a nigga called me or speaking phone with a nigga because this nigga he mustn't show the guy a picture me, right. He was like, yeah,

I used to sunk with her. The nigga I was talking, he didn't believe it, so he didn't believe like I would sunk with this person, right, damn that nigga. It was a long topic. So he didn't even believe that nigga knew me. So he called me like a bluetooth in the car, like you know, such and such, like these niggas in the car together. All I could do was laugh, I know y'all niggas, And he told you that the other guy was in the car. But yes, that suck up. But sometimes you picked the wrong friend,

you do. And that's what happened to me. I had leveled up. I'm gradings, but I will say every time the nigga got mad at me while I'm just working with each other, he would that's what I'm talking about, niggas you with that'd be trying to sh like you still be eating this whole ask but he like, why are you talking about? Which he said, say it again. Let's not forget all right, ladies. We have a segment called dumb bit Story Dumb Bitch Stories because we've all

been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. So we have people writing and send us d m s and tell us stories about the time they got played by nigga or a time that they thought the nigga was real and he wasn't. So we have one. We're gonna share what y'all. We're gonna talk about them, but we want y'all to think about your own dumb bit story and then tell us. God. Okay, all right. So this is from one of our Instagram listeners. I don't know if she cared if we say her Instagram because

honey Cocaina, pardon me, ma'am, it says good morning. I have a dumb bitch story. Been with this nigga for four years. When I got on him, I knew his bitch. I know when I knew his bitch of six years had just left him, So I guess I was a rebound but still stuck around. We lived together. He started back sucking with her, but I won't leave because his ass is paid. I don't have to work or pay bills. I'll rather cry in Rome then Atlanta. No shade. But I'm currently a dumb bitch, but I do love him,

So she's not really acts for advice. She just letting us know that she's currently in situation. She knows she's sharing her nigga with her his eggs girlfriends. Yeah, I think a lot of women are like that. That's all I was saying earlier, Like it depends where I'm at in life, because a lot of times women will deal with trash men because they don't work and they don't have nowhere to go, so they have to stay in their situation. So and a lot of times women leave

because I can take care of myself. Was with him, therefore, experience and that with kill like you. If you want to control a bit, you gotta get you a bit you need you, like you can't get up building and try to get here all type of ways and put her on the show for all exactly she got your money. Where are you about to say? What was your dumb story? I would saying, girl, my dumb beach story is very

similar to that one, same type of situation. I definitely knew, like I was looking with somebody who was like looking with everybody, but he used to do maship for me, So I just kept dealing with him because at the time, Like I wasn't really making my own money like that, and he was like paying all my bills, taking carry doing all of that ship. But I knew he was out here with mad beaches. But I just used to like turn a blind out of the ble. Remember a nigga, nigga,

my nigga. He took me shopping. I knew something was up because we got he was like a get dress, We're about to go to the mall. And he had this thing where I could get whatever I want as long as I could carry it. And bitch, I used to be walking out the mall sweat and carrying them bags, trying to carry on them. So we did that. Then we went to a game. This is in Atlanta, and then we went and got food. And while we were getting food, he was like, I got something to tell you.

I got twins on the way, love heart, I want Bitch. I had to act like I gave a fun I don't care. I'm not with you for that. Yeah. And see this is when I was like two and I and he was just not a good nigger. I knew what he was. I knew what type of time he was on. I knew how he was moving in the streets. But he just could take care of me in a way that I couldn't take care of myself at the time.

And that's why I was with So we had that baby, my mom had a you know, already knew what he was doing, so I just had to act like I was sad, you know, just you know, like just deal with it until you're ready to go. I guess I don't know. I'm at a point in my life where no, the fun not if it's somebody I want to be what I'm living with. I'm not doing with that type

of dump again. I got more integrity than that, because I'd rather just go on and figure the shot out with the next nigga, Like the next nigger could plain me, but you can't play me no more. Millionaires can't play with me. Kanye. I'm putting on the blue glove or the red glove whenever you're ready back. What about you? Leg Honestly, this is so bad. I can't believe this. Um.

I was dealing with a guy. We have been on and off for like six years, and when we were on and off, he would like me and him or off. He would always go back, like with his baby Mama like very much. You know. So I had like moved to Atlanta and we were trying to like rekindle the flame, you know, getting back pop. And I said, you know, I'm a my man ass beach like my man girl, my men, my man, my man girl. I when I went my man, don't she is not like So, So he had came to Atlanta and we just had a

really fun weekend. It was really really cool, and he was like, um, well I gotta leave here and go to New York. You know, I got some working stuff to do. So I was like okay, you know, and I was like, well, I want to come. He was like no, it's just like workship or whatever. So I was like okay, cool. So y'all know, I got my little face page, and so I went on my face page and never when he left, his baby mom was in New York. Baby. That was that brunch, having a

granda time, toasting the mosses all this stuff. I was like, my man, man man. Literally we get on the phone and he like he tells me the worst, like excuse. He's like, man, she had to come out here for some stuff of her business that she was already out here, so we just decided to like drink up like it wasn't even nothing like that. Like I'm miserable, I said, I know, but I know. He was like, I'm miserable. I don't want to be good. Oh, and I believe

every word. I believe every word. And honestly, she feel like I'm like trying to remember the situation. It was at the point to where they was like they were still living together. He was like, I'm sleeping on the couch. You think he was. I knew he was still they were still very much together, but in my mind he was my man. And everything he told me about her I believe. Yeah, I bet oh was I love because she used to be like what he says, it's not like that. No, I didn't say, he'll be talking about

his bitch to me. I don't like that. And see obviously I love negativity. I'm a hatter. You talk about that beach we don't talk about He was like, funk that home here. I was as, I don't, I cannot do that. I just feel like I'm too well to talk about a beach and I just can't do it. Like I've net mentioning like you it's not about cashing. I'm not even gonna bring it up. I won't bring it up. But I'm a dirty mack of supreme You open the dog, bitch was step minute hair you have

ever met? I'm am a dirty man. I'm the biggest hater in the world and I love that, and I love that for me. Like, alright, if there was the case, what happened? Why did it end? Right? We dropped inde and it's a second This is a listitive topic. Alright. Alright, so y'all, y'all gotta lave show here on Shirlotte. Two shows coming up, y'all, y'all on tour. Um, we're working on some more days with day going to Chicago. We got a Houston day dropping soon. We have an Atlanta

day dropping, so we dropping merch. We have like a lot of stuff like that. We're about to go to l A and get some work done. So but yeah, it's it's a lot of days that's gonna be dropping. So we were calling a little tours. It's a big tour we're putting up on y'all. We ain't got no tickets, y'all, solled out. Oh yeah, the fire show starting up, alright, we're coming up, y'all. Y'all gonna be right here, y'all up.

I need to because I'm trying to stop drinking. I don't smoke, I don't, but I need to start bag. We're gonna We're gonna put up on y'all. We'll bring your poor minds. We'll bring y'all, pour y'all some shots or something. I'm still gonna bring up. Well, this is my first time in Charlotte. Yeah, exactly. Are y'all here already? No, No, we're selling Atlanta. Yeah, we're still in Atlanta, but we

leave on Wednesday. We leave them, Okay, we gotta link up. Yeah, when y'all like Charlotte, I think y'all in Atlanta at two o'clock, y'all might still be up, just trying to go to big Like everybody that I know. This being to Charlotte. I thought they always say they like it's like Atlanta, but it's a little bit. It's slower many you can get to where then you're going without forty five hour of traffic. But I like it. I like

yalloa in Atlanta. I used to live in Atlanta. Yeah, yeah, that's where that you can't pay me the head meant in Atlanta, it's like the ballers who got access to a bunch of bitches. And then it's like niggas trying to live with you. Yeah, there ain't no, it ain't no. You gotta worry about steal your identity. No, yeah, like the first first schoold out here. Remember I was in a relationship and I was cheating on him with my little side piece. I went and I left for work,

and I came back and he was still out. It was kempt out, was eating my snack. I said, oh, hell no, you drank my rank craned apple June. It's cranberry juice. He drank my cranberry juice. This bitch had a nigga robbed her in Atlanta while he was eating her pussy. He was one and was had his hand in her purse at the same time. Fought all U some head one time. That's my dumb bitch story. I love a car cash, so I know I had like two to five dollars, and I don't suck him like

I was like. I went to the gas station when he was done, like to get At that time, the vibrators had batteries, so I had to go to the gas station for sucking batteries and I don't reach it in my pocketbook for like a couple of dollars I knew I had, and then like this nigga just sold you. He didn't leave because I don't gonna live like you know what you need? You need this one of sybody had not the number. I had cash because I really have cash that niggas find all is. So I paid

for some had one time. It was decent to jail, to go to jail. All right, So tell our listeners where they can find you, where they can find your show, your Instagram and all that good stuff. Okay, you can find us on all social media platforms at Poor Underscore Minds that people you are Underscore, m My, m d s and you can follow me at lex Underscore, p Underscore, and you can follow me at Dre and Nicole with three Yes and new episodes drop every Friday. They're on

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