Ep. 46 "What's Your Love Language?"

know what that means, but I feel like I'm doing it. Yes, I don't have my emotions. My emotions are all over the place. I don't have PMS. You know, I never did like i'd be the same every day until not. When I'm being messing, I don't even talk to people feel so you won't even know. I'm gonna just be laying the down. But I don't be mean. I feel like I don't have no choice but to talk to

motherfucker's especially with us another contract, you know, contracted. It's like I got a choke hold in your life on my neck. And look, we are very good business partners. We are definitely fulfilling our contractual oppligations. Every problem is light work. Yes, it's actually fun. No, no, last it's a good time. Listen. So, how the funk was your Turkey day? Girl? I ate so much. I just I felt bad at the end of the night because I just ate to gluttons. Man, I ate she that I

don't even eat like. I don't eat sweet potato pie, but I ate it yesterday. I don't even really like it, but I ate it. I ate two slices like sweet potato pie. I don't like pies. You like yams. I do like yams. Man. I know it's a different insistency. But dog, who don't like speepotative by? I think everybody me? I just said, I don't like the world. Who don't like I don't like pies? But what's the difference between I know, the difference between a pie and a cake.

But so you don't like mashed up fruits and vegetables? Is that what it is? I don't know. I don't know. I think it's a texture. Oh you know, you might be inspect it's not. I think sometimes I do because my tone gets comes across the wrong with people all the time, and I I think I might be mildly on the spectrum. Shout out to us. I think everybody on the motherfucking's spectrum because that in a way, because

I definitely can get on the spectrum sometimes. Then my sister and her fiance could not stop touching each other. It was getting on my nerves, like, get off each other. Damn y'all like each other that much. I smacked the ship out of both of y'all. Not you here because you already had a turkey date, bitch. I know, I would say it's so bad. I had grabbed my sister for ma for of her fiance. It was just like, you want somebody to hold your bitch, Come here, I

hold you, hope, relax. My turkey day was all right, man, but you know I'm not the meat eater, and especially on Thanksgiving, that's when you're gonna get all the pig feet and the neck bones and turkey wings. You know one thing I miss. I missed turkey wings, and I do miss like my barbecue chicken off the grill. Other than that, I could do without all that ship. So I had to cook my own lot side of collar greens and I mean my own little mac and cheese.

What what they gotta mac and cheese there? You can't hand. I just prefer my mac and cheese, that's all. Damn. I don't not feel like fight your girl. I I would get that to myself, ye'all. I don't feel like nobody mama mind or yours about the mother. Okay, ain't gonna say, but my low ass hannamac and cheese is going bitch, That's all I'm gonna say. And the other one still, the big one, the big one still there. Damn. You gotta accept change. Change is good and cheese don't

cut it. We had a good time though. We were dancing, drink doing what every black family does. We play games. We danced, We raced in the street. I don't know if y'all do that where y'all from, but I always end up racing somebody at the end of the night at some point, drunk barefoot in the street because I'm from South Carolina. So I raised and I want I smoked him home per usual with that Bookie was looking like right down that street, bitch, like too of your

basketball's on my back. They probably thought you was gonna lose because of that booky like it's holding you down. And no, that ship catapults me it lightspeed, bitch, ask me gone. On the video you can hear me say, bitch, shame goodness. Yeah, but I don't know, I have no I ate a bunch of sweets yesterday and I feel terrible today. On top of the lequor. It's like, you know, come Monday, I'm doing like a real live detox because I'm still not detox. I'm still not done. I'm going

on vacation, so I'm just gonna eat. I'm gonna eat like I'm gonna eat a lot. I'm not gonna lie, but I'm probably eat like fresh fruits and vegetables and fish like, but just a lot of it. But I don't want nothing heavy like that ship got me feeling that nigga iis was real yesterday. I was knocked out between eating all that ship and running my old ass running down the street at full speed a bitch with sleep by seven o'clock for about an hour. You should

have probably ran some more. I'm sprints a get them calories about you get that food off. You're right well, I raised twice and I want both of them hosts couldn't mash my speed. I was Chicari rich tod I want to raise you one day. I run pretty fast. Girls, the funk out of you seeing that video, nig you look like mother fucking told I didn't. I didn't. Okay, all right, let's go to you. We're gonna record it for the show because I'm gonna smoke the funk out

of you and we're gonna see. We're gonna see. Yeah, and then you're gonna be out there, you cheating, you cheating, the low short ass sucking legs. Their motherfucker's go. We're gonna raise and we're gonna record it. I didn't share it with y'all. Say I can see a j Louise, So what else do we got going on? Yow oh. Kanye West said he wants cam back he geminiion. But yeah, I don't think she's dating that white guy. I just really it's been a lot of time together. They're doing

a movie. No, they she fucking with them. I think the whole family gonna so they're separated. You can date when you separated? Did they get separated through the courts? I'm assuming she's publican. I said, you Kim k don't waste some mother fucking time. That's me. Yeah, I like that. I like that. I used to not like her, but I actually like her. She does a lot of goods. I never not like Kim Kardashian, always like Kim King I did. I always felt like maybe she was a

you know, culturally appropriated blackness for a while. But but looking at the worst that she does, like in like um just to reform and getting niggas off death row and all that stuff, like I gotta I can't salute that. I can't even lie. But then, you know, stuff like that is also still to me, it's still a part of white supremacy because they would put allow somebody like that to get in a position to make those changes

because you have people, there's groups behind her. It's not like Kim Kay is doing this stuff by herselves and I forgot right, But it's her platform and her face that makes it go through. I'm saying, and that's that bullshit. You know what I'm saying that, um, because I feel like our organizations we should be able to do that without this bing make it happen for ourselves, right, we can't, But however, she can get in there and do the work.

I'm proud of it, right, I'm yeah sat um My twin funk with her man because he definitely because I know exactly how she feels like when you see your ex with somebody like you really almost want them back in your mind even if you ended it. It's just like Danny about to go on and live happily ever after somebody else. I'm mad. I'm mad. Look a little kid, but you don't even one day ask back. You just only one them because they were somebody else. That's all

it is. Kanye, I'll be your girlfriend. Yeah, kill each other. I wouldn't kill kanyeall understand him. Y'all kill each other. I can see you outside now with a white face man walking around looking like you about the robber, Brady. Look, did you see that there? UM? A lot of people are insinuating that UM, you know, the distribution UM label or whatever Empire records that Young Golf was associated with it.

They're saying like the owner of it may have had they're saying the owner of it, and they're saying the owner of it may have had a UM life insurance policy on him. And mind you, a few of their artists have been killed. Um. Hold on a second, Well, that's smart. They have a life insurance policy on him because they have. Why are y'all? So you're trying to say he having them killed for the money. It's possible, very well possible. I don't know that's another conspiracy. Oh

did you over the holiday? Did you see the new movie by um Kevin Harty? I watched it today. You watched the whole thing. I've watched it. What's your thoughts? All right? So Kevin Hard has a new mini series on Netflix call True Story, and it's really good, y'all. Y'll need to go watch it if you haven't. It's nice to see him doing something besides comedy because I don't thinking that funny. But I like him doing serious ship like I do. I prefer him doing stuff that

or he's not trying to make us laugh. He has his times. A couple of his specials were funny, and then you know it's like hit and miss. It just may not be our cup of team. But I do think he's funny sometimes. Yeah, sometimes there was that deer brous ship. I still use that when I'm late. What's the joke? Uh? He said he was late because he ran into a deer borough on the highway. Is a half deer half zebra animal on the highway. Yeah, I still use that ship. I ran into a deer bro stupid.

But yeah, the movie that show is good. I mean the mini series is really good and it definitely uh, especially if you're someone who's fame, you have fam er, you've gotten a lot of money, you don't got it out the mundy and made your way up and you have concerns about Oh no, I can't say that. I don't want to tell you all that ship as a spoiler. But you just you know about who's around you and who's what attensions are good and who's intentions are bad

for you? Like you never know? Right, do you mean gott to be rich to have that happened on going on? Right? Hell, that's just people don't know what you're going on in life, and they count your pockets. Happens to every baby. Yeah, but that was good. It was good. I don't know what I was expecting, but it was really good. I like the whole thing. I didn't I didn't have any expects. What's the snipe looked good too? He looked like he on a vegan diet Who Wesley? I think he is vegan?

You know? Mm hmm he looked he look does he looks healthy? Mm hm yeah. I like Wesley's night Wesley. He's turning to look like too Wong fool Wesley back Man when he was younger and a woman. That was one of my favorite movies back then. Did you watch that movie Thank You Everything? I like that movie. It was John Legga, Jamo, Wesley Snipe. Who else was in that? Girl? You don't know? No nobody name. I don't know what

you'd be really into fucking movies now? I just watched TV. Okay, I had to use my fucking brain space for some other ship. I can't be remembering this stuff this same way be forgetting people. I remember every phase, but I will forget your name, Holly Berry. I had a movie come out called Bruce I. It's Louis Losing Isaiah two part though. Go watch it it is. I saw the preview for it when I was flipping through Netflix. I passed it by Lesbian. I'm about to go watch that.

I ain't never get to see Holly couch you before. I'm tuning in. It's just so nasty, yes, Holly, Yes, so you ain't have no Thanksgiving bade this year. No, man. People were sending me like their fees to be my Thanksgiving babe. You've seen that ship going around, like two hundred dollars. I come and I'll smile and talk with your family. Five hundred dollars. I whisper I love you across the room for everybody to see. I don't want to pay, So I ain't have no hollebey. He could

have had somebody there. No, mm hmm mm hmm. Did you like I said that too fast? Yeah? This is the first year, uh in a while, the first holiday season that I've been single, So no, no bay at the dinner table. I've been single every holiday since two thousand sixteen. You said, like Kevin Hart when he she don't say his age, Yo, Nancy, Kevin Hart might be like funny, how it was a certain person you went to college with, and that nigga is just was fucking funny,

just regular. But I see that nigg and do stand up and I had second hand embarrassment. Yeah, yeah, he's just naturally funny. But like when you have en scripted, it's not it's just naturally funny. So maybe that's Kevin Hardship, like he's gonna say some funny ship that kicked back at the house right off the dome. But yeah, I've been in there single by myself every year since two thousands sixteen. I'm getting used to it. It's not so bad. My niece didn't say something to me that made me

almost double backslap her ass in front of everybody. But I didn't happen because I said, y'all need to get in the kitchen. Y'all need to figure out y'all need to learn how to cook some of this stuff, Like come in the kitchen with us and learn what you're gonna do. When you get a man, you can't feed him no turkey sandwich. She's like, well, you know how to cook all that stuff and you still ain't got

no man. Girls slapping out here. Girl. I had to walk outside with my mimosa and I had to recite Sierra's Prairie to myself three times before I walked back in the house. Bitch, hey, she would have got her asks be that, like it's the truth now, it's the truth now, right, but you have to say it. I just want you to like that's your DNA, bitch, because you would have had that same rebutto at eighteen. Yeah,

you would have said the same ship to her. And my mama thought it was so funny, and I was like, girl, you ain't got no man hen you're laughing at with that? Go to old potato salad. Keep nigga, I don't even know what these niggas want. No more dogs. Do they even want to eat? I don't even think they want to eat. They ain't working no more door dashed, the fun everything up for a bitch. These niggas just want you. They don't know what they want, girl, is what you

fucking follida ass blindly do what they say. I'm sicking niggas telling me they don't like the word no, so I can't tell you know about nothing. I don't like the word okay. It just depends on what the funk I'm saying no about it. If it's anything to do with my anatomy, no, nigga, I can say no, no, I'm not getting on the scale in front of you. See you can see how much I wait. No, nigga, why does it matter you like? Do you like fat bitches or not? Like? Girl? You're not even a fat.

Shut up. We bunked it all over Nigga forehead, come here, come here. We were like, all right, we're not fat. In South Carolina and Georgia, we might be fat and I here we're straight. F l A, Okay, we find it hell in the South, he just and that's where I live, so we geographically fit. Bitch girl, let's face

some bills real quick. So I had this conversation with this guy while I was driving back home from Thanksgiving about why we didn't work, and it helped me to create content for today's episode because I told him that he didn't want to love me based upon my love languages. He didn't want to speak to those love languages, and that's why we didn't work. Because he wanted to love me the way that he enjoyed being loved instead of how I did. So that was a problem for me.

And he said, because I want gifts, I just want to nigga to buy me what I don't want to know. Niggat to buy me just because that's my love language, don't mean that that's what I want to be bought. First of all, if I wanted to be bought, you probably couldn't afford it. I'm not you know what I'm saying, like, let's keep his spade. I'm not trying to be bought by you, but I do want you to speak to

my love language, you know. And I told him I grew up with I didn't we I grew up with a lot of love, but I didn't grow up grow up with a lot of stuff, you know. And I like motherfucker's stuff. And they don't have to be like, go buy me a house or go buy me that new Mercedes g l E that I want in white with black interior. Not that I mean, but if you're listening, yes, but if you know whatever, it don't have to be that.

If you see, if you listen to what I'm saying, and I said, I like vanilla candles, and then you come over here with a vanilla candle because you saw it was on sale when he was walking through turret, that ship absolutely mean something. That's yeah, that's a coach coch cooper thing. What I'm saying from Yeah, just a little ship like that. It's thoughtful and I like stuff like that. But I'm also the same way because I'll be walking through the store and damn sure to look,

I'm gonna pick it up. I feel like women always buying men low trinkets and stuff like that, you know what I'm saying. But they asked, they act like, I don't know. They always act like somebody trying to play them if they buy them something like I'm trying like I bought you ship too. I'm not trying to finesse you. But I like to receive things. I won't say like you say, um, like receiving gifts. Gifts is my love language. But I do love gifts like which what woman doesn't

I think? Um? Did we talk about the five love languages? So the five love languages is you know, words of affirmation, uh, quality time, physical touch, access service, receiving gifts. I would say my love language would probably lean more towards like the physical touch and quality time because which I like to lay up and watch TV and touch. That's my least one is to touch. I love it. I like the kids, I like I like huddling, and I do

like touching. But I don't like motherfucker's touching me, you know, like I have to be the aggressive when it comes to touching. I don't know, you know, what I'm not gonna say that because I don't like motherfucker's I don't like like that trying to touch. That's different exactly. That wouldn't I'm with you, it's no quality time. I'm not ready, but I would have like if when they can even touched my back and I feel like if you got slapped in the back, you know how your body would

just dirt for it. That's what it would feel like. Yeah, but I'm not about don't touch any quality time for somebody I don't like. So that's not what I'm saying. Like, of course you're gonna be like I've been with somebody. When you start start falling out of love with somebody, when they touch you, it's like, don't touch me. That's when you really when you know ship is over. But when you like somebody, you're feeling somebody like quality time and in touching like I love that. I love for

somebody to rub me up. We don't even gotta gifts and quality of the time, gifts and quality time. Mm hmm. So buy me some ship and send some time with me. Mm hmm. Yeah. You ain't gotta say like words of information that's cool to that would probably my third most important. But um I don't need that. I'd be affirming myself in the here. I need you to buy me some nice ship that you saw that I light, throw some gas in my tain, pick up the sandwich I enjoy.

But this ain't even like every day. You gotta come in the house with something in your hand for me that. I'm not like that. But I just like nice gifts and then quality time because the type of men I usually date have money and no time. I'm finding that to be m a what's the word of a pattern? Everybody got money, they got money for gifts, but they ain't got no time. I'm tired of that too. You want neiggle with money, you want niggle with time. Man,

I feel like a mother. Even nigga is with money, like they make time for what they want to make time for. So if they want to see you, they're gonna make sure they make some time to see you. So I'm never letting the nigga use that as in a excuse, because that's what it is. When you fun with somebody, you want to see their ass, you want to touch on them, you wanna go eat with them, you want to be around them, even if they got to come with you with you to do the busy ship.

But I can't come with you because I'm busy too. Okay, I just ain't got time. You're a psycho, so you want to niggle to have time when you got We don't me personally. I don't want like if I'm supposed to always be waiting for you to be available. That's in bullshit. You know. I can't I respect when someone says they don't have a lot of time because I feel like I don't have a lot of time either between work and this. You can't sit in my shot

with me, You can't, nig Why are you here? This girl don't want you to see her or while I'm doing this. I don't need you just sitting in here listening to me, So like, listen to it when it airs, give me the stream, Nigga, don't sit in here while I'm right. So I can respect that you know someone, But when you do have free time, I want you to give it to me. But then what if they got kids? Then you gotta calculate your free time. Your free time might be one them kids. That's how I feel.

But you know we don't have kids. Just like selfish with that. But I that's one of the reasons why I don't like when niggas with kids or like the beginning stages where you don't know the kid, the kid can't hang around you, and this dumb ship that be going on. It's like this kid don't know who's who. You know what I'm saying. But that's what I don't like when the nigga got kids. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, you gotta wait, I gotta wait for you to be available.

Like I don't feel like competing for time between you, for you between you know, me and this kid all the time. It doesn't get comfortable until you know, y'all can all hang out together. You know. Now we can if we want to go do something fun, we could take the kid with us. But it's that little stupid, little funky stage I don't like. Yeah, that's weird. I don't like it so basically, but I haven't experienced that

that much. Um, I've only really taken serious one guy with kids, So the rest of them might be like, Okay, you gotta go with your baby, but I make it next, you know. But but there is only one guy that I've taken serious with kids, and his kids were on a different continent when we were dating, so it wasn't like they were always around right out of sight, out of mind. But then when they came around, it was cool.

By the time I did finally meet and we were serious, and they were sweet little girls, and I did grow to build a relationship with them individually interesting, so I never had to have another show about niggas and kids. Have you ever dated a single father? Yeah? Yeah, the kids were living two kids and yet one lived full time. Mm hmm. It would be regular. But then you know, you get with somebody like that and if you plan on being with them a long term, like you automatically

turned into mama. And I just felt like I never got any grace, like a grace for that, you know what I'm saying. I'm literally coming from this single ass fucking lifestyle to being a mama. I felt like that just over the summer that when we had kids, Damn, I'm my whole MoMA. Here. They're gonna get to go to work and I get to stay here with these kids.

You know, some days I don't eat, Like I'll eat some bullshit and be content and go to sleep, Like when you are responsible for other people's nourishment, like you seem like you always fucking cooking, like breaking lunch and dinner like this nigga had me in the schedule. Like even if he just ate just based on the time of day, he's like acting like he didn't even eat because of the time of day. Like breakfast is at this time, luncheon is at this time, and dinner is

by this time. If I want to feed that nigger dinner at five o'clock, he like, I eat. We did eat, Nigga, it just wasn't darker dinner at five o'clock. That's not late. That's a good dinner. No, that's to earn that. I'd be right there with him. Yeah, we ain't sucking eat that was a snack at five. No, you could have a snack later on in the evening if you're still hungry. But no, dinner is dinner time. It's dinner time. But there was my snack. I don't know what to him

trying to eat before seven o'clock. It's like, I can't keep up with my little personal should I like to do for myself When you have other people you're responsible for, man, shout out to parents. Man, jeez, you're a parents. Seems so hard. I commend you all. Man, he's like in a motherfucking yourn either. Yeah, they love them, but they don't like them all the time. Yeah, I can get that.

It's just not when they love languages. So affirmation is like somebody sending you text messages all the time, Uh, just affirming your day, Like would you like something like that? It's you know, honestly, I think my love language just change depending on the man sometimes because and how I feel about the being, because I would like that from somebody I like a lot. But when I get that good morning queen text fro when the guy ain't really

feeling I'm like, what get you all? Get your motherfucking man off my text good morning queen. But if I like you, I'd be like, good morning kings. I'll never say good morning king. I know me neither. I'm just I'm like a whole nigger. I'd be like yo, that's me. I'd be like ya yo. I don't know, but I do think your love languagees can change listening. Just like you said, from person to person, we got too much

control of women. It's like everything is cool and so you don't like a nigger, that nigga can smack your ass on the jam job is not sexual harassing unless you ugly. You know, I don't like you funked up, all right, That's why it's just best to not do it. I just don't smack nobody asks on the job whether you think she like you or not. The workplaces changed, guys, hasn't it. You used to be able to grab them by not no more. I'm going to take that that

love language um tests. What was the website again? So yeah, guys, if you want to determine what your love languages are, we didn't say that, Like, how the funk do they know what they love languages are? We took a quiz, so it's um if you go to five, it's the number five love languages dot com. You can go ahead and take the quiz and then tell you what your

love languages are based on your personality. It's a personality test, So go take that test and figure out who the funk you are, so you can determine what your love languages are. And that is how you want to receive love. That's not how you give love to others, right with your love language is how you want to respect and I think so you have to discover what your partner's love languages too, so you know you can give it

to them the way they wanted. And I think the easiest way is just to find somebody who may have the same love languages as you do, or just have the same definition of love as you do, just to make it a little bit easier. I don't know, I don't know. I just need to understand what your love languages are so I can fulfill them for you. They don't have to be the same as mine. If you need me to affirm you somewhere, I'll put posted notes up in the bar room, in your bar room so

you can be reassured. Most men, most men love language, maybe like uh, physical touch, words of information. I think men need a lot of affirmation, you know. They they're not as secure as they you know, may appear. Yeah, and they live in the world where they get beat up a lot by us. So I feel like most men like that's how they feel good. You're telling them nice stuff, how well they're doing. I'm good at that too,

Damn boy, you find that. I'm so proud of you, So smart you're such a good telling can he fine all day long? Because I like to look at men. You're such a good father, you're such a great son, and your grandma's so lucky to have you. I mean, that's how I talk to these things. But do you do that to all niggas or just the nigga you like? Just the niggas. I like the nigga who I don't like. I'd be like, well, I get the funk out of my face with that. Put the guy I told you,

just change the oil. It's like talking toad. No, I don't. I'd be nice. I'm too nice. That's my problem. No, I'm ladies, affirm your men. He may he may not. You know a lot of men don't know what love languages are, right, But I can assure you that those words of affirmation is most especially black men. That's gonna

be like the number one thing I believe. All Right, Do you tell you man how good his dick is and stuff like yeah, if I'm getting some good dick, I need you to know because it ain't good until I tell you. Don't assume not only during sex, or do you say to your grass up like you know that did good? Right, like, Oh, I'm working a day and my pussy is so sore. You take it so good? Yeah, you can you pay this? Look? Can you pay this?

And like if your ladies, if you try to get something about that man, you gotta affirm them first and then asks for right but not but don't ask right after the affirmation, then give it, give it for hours. Yeah, y'all trying to figure out how to get money out of men. Just give him a lot of send a lot of affirming text messages and ship like that and say it to his face, look him in his eyes and tell him how he ages. And also how are you so grateful for buy them something? Also real good?

Mm hmm. But you also gotta mean it to you. I mean you should. You ain't got it, but you shouldn't mean it. You ever told nig his sex was good? And I'm not one of those. I'm not about to play with you. I don't have some good little dick. I don't have some bad big dick. Like I'm not about it's not about that. So if the dick is not good, I'm gonna let you know I'm not satisfied. And I don't even like try to um I remember this one dude, how you say it? So this one

guy was working with once. I really liked him, were real good friends. And it's just like he was licking my pussy like stupid, just like a rug Like he wasn't he just wasn't licking my pussy dead. So I just sent him so many videos a pussy licking like just because it's not like he was unwilling to do it. He just he just said, yeah, yeah, I told him I had already. I had all these talked to him

about the head beforehand. So now I'm just trying to send you like some instructional guides at this point, because that's a big thing for me. Like I really really really really really like con lingus, like you really gotta I don't stiff, Like why are you going? Well? I like that. Sometimes it just depends. I like a combo, just combo console. But guy like you, you can't even do that. You're just licking this ship like a bowl of milk. I need you to watch these goddamn videos,

dog and like a kiddy cat. And you wonder why my shop always dry, Like you know, men, a lot of times women pussy be dry because you don't turn them on, Like your touches is not turned them on. How you doing they body is just not turn them on. Because when a woman is into a man, just a mere thought of him, that pussy might get wet, like I'm just thinking about you and like damn yeah, and then you hate cochi drying. No, you just was not entertaining.

It was sleep. You weren't affirmative. No, But so couches just be dry too, though, mm hmm, not mine, girl, I don't even sweat that much. That's how I know. It's just be straight fucking juices. What was that watching they was talking about, Like big girls like Hi, that stay pussy probably be super juicy because you got the pussy juice and add the sweat. You know that that should be does. I don't like that real mac, that

good mac and cheese because it's sweat. I don't like that coucci wingy and ch'awston like when you must see be called wingy, Like yeah, wingy is musty, you shame. Okay, hold that thought one second. Let's play some bills dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice Listen, I do have a dumb bitch story. It's actually an article though it's not um. It's not anyone uh no one's sentence for any advice. But this is an article I found in New York Post.

He says this woman was swindled out of a hundred ninety k by Kahneman after matching on tender. I just never understand how bitches be getting finessed on dating websites, like how it could be hopeless romantics hopeless. The motherfucker is what? No hopeful hopeless romantics don't say that. Listen. This says a Middle Eastern woman has been swindled out of it's a hundred and forty k U, a hundred forty thousand UM whatever their dollars, but it's UM equal

to eight thousand U S dollars. After falling four fraudster on tender um m rita Sebastian who lives in Dubai, matched with thirty eight year old British man Richard Dixter. Excuse me, Richard Dexter, he same City Boy times twenty on a dating app. The pair began exchanging messages, with Dexter claiming he was a successful businessman um selling bio farmer software. He told Sebastian that multinational corporations weren't interested in signing a major deal with him, and that he

was on the verge of a big windfall. The Daily The Daily Mail reported he purportedly proclaimed American company three M was one of the companies interested in signing a multimillion dollar deal. Dexter allegedly told Sebastian that he needed with some money to start production of a piece of the scientific equipment that would allow him to ink the

major contracts. Sebastian, who was based in Dubai but frequently travels to the UK, initially sent over fifty three thousand, three hundred dollars believing believing it was an investment that would also result in receiving substantial profits. She sent another nine hundred and fifty thousand two months later. Havening't been assured that Dexter could cover all losses she might make. And this nigga fine too. He's fine. He's not a I mean, he's a the ladies from Dubai. He's a

European white guy. Fine, fine, fine, Sebastian says that. Then um Sebastian says She then continue to send money to protect the initial investment, with Dexter promising that the windfall was just around the corner. However, the fortune did not materialize in Sebastian contacted the British Police. The cops commenced an investigation rating Dexter's home, where they found a document claiming he had more than five million dollars invested in

financial services company. However, the account actually belonged to a friend and final balance was just forty nine cents. He had forty nine sins to his name, well in a bank anyway. What he did with all the money? I guess he's been taking it out. Dexter was subsequently charged and pleaded guilty to seven counts of fraud in British court earlier this week. He is now facing the prospect

of jail time. Dexter used Sebastian's hard earned money on himself, but lawyers did not disclose how he splashed the cash. Experts caution hopeless romantics from sending money to people they met on dating apps, and Sebastian's sad experience is not all that uncommon, bitch? Is how are y'all getting finessed on these pieces of fish. I call it piece pieces of fish. This is tender she was on. But how like a nigger, I know, kid finessing me out of money.

I'm definitely not letting a stranger. Right. She must got a bag though, hell yeah, Like because she sounds like she's an investor, like she has she probably he probably, you know, sold the idea to her and she saw a good investment opportunity. So he should go to job

for that. It's not like she just was sending him money just for nothing, right, But any investment, you take a chance on losing it, and even when you're buying pounds of weeds, like it might get long, all right, So so that you guys just take your you know, there's a lot though I'm not taking that l He's gonna have to get the funk up out of here if you don't go to prison. He got a desk. I lay on that nigga for two years, but he gotta get the funk out of here. You gotta get

out of here. Hi and J popping up back out after two years, like, oh yeah, you thought she was sweet, you thought she was good. Yep, I'm meeting that. They're gonna tender again in two years exactly as a different bitch. You're gonna get it. You guess what's coming to him? I mean, I guess that was a dumb bitch innocent series right there, because he ended up going to jail for trying to finess and she got played out of

a lot of money. I wonder this. Let me tell you what I get these niggas a baker dagger cheese to go. I'll make you a sauce. That's what I'm saying. At the house to go. You can't even sit down and eat it here. I'm just junking. I'm just joking. I'll be tricking when I like right exactly, be over there, packet bag lunches. Did you good? Drop a lunch? 'all te naked job, You're good? Back lunch with forty dollars. This is this is why I don't understand how men

say like women, these are modern women. We just don't do nothing nice, Like let's just be bending over backwards for men they want. I don't know what these guys to talk about. I remember one time I was dating this guy. He was military and he worked on the flight line, right and I wanted to bring him a sandwich because he was hungry. That baby was hungry. So I was like, okay, I'll bring you some food. And I went on the military base to bring him the food,

and I turned my car on the flight line. And I don't know if y'all know what the flight line is, but you definitely don't want to drive your car on it, Okay. So then the military police came to my car and they like rushed my car with guns and ship and I just wanted to bring a nigga sandwich. Why do you go through all these things, like good guys trying to teach me a lesson. Whatever it is, Lord, I've

received it. Lord, I don't know God is telling you to pay attention, bitch, because I'm pretty sure it was a sign that says, do not enter, do not drive your car on the flight line. I turned my happy ass right in it. Stupid, I'm about to go to jail, all right. So listen, we got a random sex fact So today the random sex Factors, It says, faking it, uh isn't always a bad thing. And this comes to you.

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same reasons women do it. Since sex involves a lot of fluids anyway, it's not always easy to tell whether he's ejaculated or not. Then we laugh. Ha ha ha ha ha ha. Then you put in that I'll be knowing because I smelling. But y'all, I guess, so I listen. I need to stop talking about my preferences on here. It's not like I just be out here smashing everybody. Rob Man, that's what you're gonna have you, But no, I don't think anybody assumes that used to smash everybody wrong.

I just think you smash every time wrong. It's just like, why do it if you're not gonna enjoy it? Like, do nobody feel like that? Damn balloon? And smelling like latex. Yeah, from my size, there's skin. Listen, there's condoms that do feel like we need a condoms We need someone. Yeah, we need a safe sex, safe sex representative outside of me to talk about the importance of protection because you're gonna have our all our listeners wrong. Listen. We need

to go ahead and populate the earth anyway, y'all. They try to say it's only black people out this bitch, we need all what no, I said, Ladies, don't abortion your wounds. We need more warriors soon. Listen. Have your babies, lady, Yeah, I have them kids. But it's easy for me to say because I ain't gonna had to take care of I'm using condoms. Yeah, I might even help, I might pick them up, but I love as I can drop

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