Ep. 39 "Black and Missing"

good old AJ time for about three hours. Girl, I'm so sick of talking to people. I'm gonna just not talk to people no more. You're gonna talk to people on this show because we're under contract. Hey, Like, that's about it. Did if I getting paid, I'm not talking. I'm sorry because I'm is. I just want to be surrounded by like minded people. That's the way. Yeah, I'm not trying to listen. Here's here's who I am. I'm not the type of person who tries to force my

point of view on people. My ego is just not that big. So I usually wait for people to come around, like I'll have a little random, littlebate, debates arguments, and like, I'm not talking about that ship no more. And then when that person then comes around, then we'll have a discussion about it. But I'm no longer interested in trying to make my fucking see the light. I'm just not. Yeah, I like, I like being in the room of diverse

opinions just because it's just helps with growth for me. Yeah, but I already know I'm argumentative, right, so to avoid any unnecessary stress, I just don't want to debate. Speaking of stress, this weekend, one of my friends um almost had a stroke only forty years old. Blood pressure was two thousand over two thousands, something crazy like that. You know, he almost went into board the line. I don't know what it was, called borderline stroke or something like that.

It had to be admitted to the hospitals. And he's trying to open the club. He's they got all these different businesses running at the same time, and I just want to talk to you guys about stress. Man, you can chase all the money in the world, but if you're dead, you can't have none of it. Exactly. Cut all that dumbass salt out of your diet. Start eating to live and not living to eat and minimize your stress. Guys, for real, that's that's my that was my weekend. I'm

out here running around buying stress. I mean, heart monitors offer Amazon and all ship for this nigga because I'm worried about him. You know, it's forty medication or something he is now and he's not even fat. Did he not know he had high blood pressure? He was in the mall, going in the mall, going to buy him some ship and almost fainted and they had a health him with a glass of water. He went to the hospital and they his blood pressure and it was like

astronomically high. So you guys, I'm just that's a word of advice. Take care of yourself because we can go up out of here. You know, I got a blood pressure cut because I can. That's what I bought him. Yeah, I can feel like I don't have high blood pressure per se, but if I get like upset, my should be elevated so quick like to why, I just gotta, you know, stop talking, completely shut down to come back, because man, I got multiple people in my family who

had strokes like around my age. So y'all take care of yourself. So let's talk about a little bit of stupid internet ship right quick this week. You know what's the stupid ship? Oh um? Well, I don't really think this is stupid, but so a lot of people did. There is a video that was going around of Bernice Burgos and her daughter and they did like a TikTok

about whiling out and ship. And then it was the video of them together in the club and the daughter was like rolling her hips to the music and Bernice was like, you know, cheering her own and ship. And it's people that feel a way about mother daughter duo being out playing together. My girl, people, so fu stupid. First of all, we're in our thirties and Granny's right now, are our age? You know what I'm saying, middles late thirties at this point. It is what it is. But

people just did not just start having babies young. She had her child young, and she grew up with her kids, so I'm pretty sure they're really really close. Bernie says, she's in her forties now, the right. Yeah, but her daughter is like something like that, yeah, with the child. So this is the two grown ups, yeah, the two adults. It's not like her sixteen year old daughters, and my mom is My mom is sixty eight, and I definitely be tworking in the kitchen with her. I'm sorry. There's

nothing wrong. There's nothing wrong with having a good relationship. Like I'm not your little friend. Okay, some moms don't have to be your little friend, but some mom's kids, it's okay. It's not a big deal to me. I didn't see nothing wrong with it. I don't know. I guess they feel like Bernice needs to grow up because she's a grandmother. Like no ship, you only as old as you feel. Who defines what that looks like? You know?

I definitely don't. I don't know. That's just not one of the things I give a funk about to even comment on. My fingers don't allow me to be a hater. So yeah, my mom is a lot of fun. I don't know if she'll go to a stripple up with me, but she'll she'll do just about anything or any drugs with me either. Now I think about, she really ain't gonna do ship. She's still a ton of fun, still a ton of fun. Look now you see how they're trying to cancel Dave Chappelle Now that's some real bullshit.

And I don't know who the hell is organization is, the National Black Coalition whatever, Like y'are not speaking for me, You don't represent me. Why why I'm scared to talk about this ship many because the elves g bt Q community and the trans community, which is also a member of l g b t Q, they are like the like the mob about this bitch. I don't want to die. I don't what nobody to like it me listen. First of all, God won't allow anybody to cancel us, first

of all. And the second thing is the basic thing Dave Chappelle was trying to communicate is that you're black before you gay. He really wasn't talking about the gay community. He really was talking about white folks. He really was talking about white people in that. I don't know what

the fun y'all were watching. And if you're watching something with a confrontation on mine, you already gonna be on some bullshit, especially with a comedian, because I mean, he made a lot of jokes that were misogynistic, and I wasn't like fun, Dave Chappelle, I have a real buzzy, like you know, I didn't do that man, No, we could be like that with them, like we got real pussy over here, like yeah, you know what he said, Like it's beyond pussy or impossible pussy. I'm scared. Don't

laugh too hard a bit. We're gonna be hell no, I'm not gonna have no episode next week. Listen, the fucking show is fighting if I try to cancel Dave Chappelle. Hell no, when Dave Chappelle did, he intentionally did that show to cause an uproar, and he knew were the last one for a while. He said it when he first started. And it's the falter. It's like, this is an end game. I'm not working with y'all people no more. Don't funk with me. I'm sorry, bitch me and you.

This is the beginning, this is the opener. So don't get us. Cancel if they want to cancel that, so be it for laughing at some ship girl. What are you yelling at me? Shut up? I never been scared of nobody. Hell I'm not about the people. Bully me. All right, you guys, we'll be back. We're gonna pay some bills real quick, all right. Um, So to kick today's topic of discussion off, we did get and Ask

a Black Friend. Um, and y'all know Columbus Day was also on Monday, which they've also changed the kind of to Indigenous People's Day. That's what I would be more aligned with because I don't know who the fun Columbus say never been in America. So it's Indigenous People Day in Savage Cracker Day basically. Okay, I like the balance. All right, So, um, first of all, I want to thank our listener for sending in this acts of black uh friend questions for this week. So here it is.

So I have a question for Ask a Black Friend segment. Hold on, hold on, hold on. I know you're going, and I want to interject. You said x a Black friend, like chop them down. We're not killing those niggas on this show. First of all, you know, I'm look, we we we make four words in the one all that ship like whatever first and Guiche is a government language. Okay, so it's English anyway. So here's what she says. Since where society removing Confederate statues as we should, what role

does the Gateway arch in St. Louis play? How long until it's also removed? Not trying to play devil's advocate, but seems like a very slippery slope. Growing up, my history class wasn't as informative as it is today. But isn't that what we need to learn even as we get older, to learn from the mistakes of our past, even at its most gruesome. I celebrate forty five years in this world and try to make it better than

what it was before me. My area isn't very well versed, unfortunately, but that doesn't stop me from loving others more than myself. I truly love your podcast and look forward to listening to you ladies each week. Keep fighting a good fight. Always know that my heart and house is open. I hope you like coffee, so that's why I asked a black friend question for this week. There we go, Okay, I believe the statues and stuff. I mean, we know what they represent, right M within a reasonable means, yes,

take them fucking shut down. You know what I'm saying? Like time change, history changes, I mean, hit what excuse me? History doesn't change. But there's also the truth though the whole fucking arch though that I don't know how long that's gonna take you to take it down. I mean, if we're going there, we might as well just bull those the whole country over and start over. Honestly, so this but I get what you're saying. I get what you're in that, and I mean I feel like you

are playing Devil's Advocated a little bit because that is heavy. Yeah, I mean it's a lot to knock down. But I mean, yeah, I get what you're going for. Yeah, I lived in St. Louis for five years. I've been up in the arch. That's a major Like, it's a big structure, and at this point, it represents the current state I mean of St. Louis because I mean, we could just change what it

represents instead of trying to knock that whole motherfucker down. Um, those monuments of a person who represented, uh, you know, the oppression of black people, those are easy to take down, and it's an actual person. You can't change who a person is, you know. You can't take a statue of Robert E. Lee and be like, nah, we're gonna call him Robbie now and he represents this. No, it's the same motherfucker every time. But the Golden Arches we can,

we can, we can change what it represents. I feel like that would be a better idea than the Golden Arches and St. Louis Archer. Bitch, I'm hungry McDonald. What the hell just happened? Which I did not have breakfast yet? Okay, Look, so the history of the arch is the arch was put up and it displaced a lot of indigenous Black African Americans. Um when it was resurrected, so it displaced a lot of people to put this to put the arch up right, and didn't let him work on it.

Didn't even let him get paid to help put the motherfuck up. Yeah. So this this is why the our listeners asking, you know, should the arch then to be taken down? I don't think we're gonna go that far. Like Tam said, you might as well take the whole country down, because there's a lot of things that still represent hatred. You know, you can't change the people, you know. So but thank you for listening in and thank you for the coffee. Send me your address, I'll pull up.

I do enjoy coffee that French vanilla crema with that too. Thank you say that. I mean this is a great segue actually, because we are talking about the hainiest crimes that have been committed against black men in America all right, it says. Shocking new details were revealed surrounding the tragic

death of Gilanni Day. A corner's report states that the young man's organs and eyeballs were missing when he was found last month, and an eye opening report by the Chicago Sun Times the LaSalle County Corner revealed Gelanni Day's autopsy report, where it described the condition of his body. Day's liver, spleen, and other organs were missing, along with

his teeth and eyes. A second report was conducted by the Famili's private forensic pathologists, who says Day's jawbone was sawed out, sawed out, sawed out, bitch, And this is on Hollywood Unlocked. This is crazy. So we this this story isn't new to us. Black men have been going black men and women because there's a lot of black women missing. But um, black men have been mysteriously hung around the country over the last few years. I mean it's been happening since forever, but you know, in the

media in the last few years. Um, girl, this made me feel so sick in my damn's stomach. It's disgusting. What about what about the young boy Kendred Johnson and like two thousand thirteen where they found his body rolled up in the mat in the gymnasium. And I feel like they took his organs out too, without his family's consent. Yeah, so that was involved. Asta. So ge Lonnie day body was found, no organs, job On saw it out allegedly, um eyeballs and teeth missing. So he was reported as

a missing person early September. It says his body was found September for right, So they had his body all that time, they just didn't tell his family. Um. The story actually got you know, more news coverage because people were comparing him being missing to the young white woman whose body was found in Wyoming. We talked about that, talked about her last week. UM hm, why is there no sense of urgency when black people go missing? In America? There is um a whole organization called the Black and

Missing m We literally have to find ourselves. You know, there's nobody helping to find and locate missing black children, missing the hundreds of thousands of thousands of missing black women, and with trafficking at all time high, it's just some ship that makes you go, hmm, what are they doing with us, So I know he was found in a body of water. I was thinking maybe something attack at them, like maybe you know, somebody obviously killed him, right, he

ended up in the water. But then maybe something bit his face started eating him in the water. But obviously if it's jawline was sold out, Yeah, it would be somebody killed him, immediated his body, right and if if, if it was something that ate him, I don't think the organs would be missing in its entirety, like so perfect. You know, I think someone they killed him to take his organs, and you think it's some old rich fucker who's dying and needs healthy body parts. What what was

that movie get Out? And this is some real life get Out ships. All fiction comes from some fact that people want to call me a conspiracy theorist. This ship goes on. This is why they go to Africa and they do all are testing on vaccines and all that ship on the black people over there, because we are the dominant gene. So they got to see what these things due to us, right because they can't they can't

withstand this ship. So if you need new eyes exactly, I remember one fourth of July UM weekend um, they were saying like, some are fifty sixty something people got shot, some got killed in Chicago that particular weekend. Right, a white van or excuse me, a black van riding around just randomly shooting people. If you are and I just want you all to think about this for a second.

If you are a millionaire, say you like got a billion dollars and you have a young child dying in and needs a kidney, right, the only thing you can't sell like legally are human organs. There's a real, live black market for human organs, and especially in Chicago and places where you could just blame random murders on gang violence while people continue sleep go missing. Somebody's paying for this ship like it's it's big in China, while would try not think it's big over here. And the one

thing black, the one excuse me, the one thing. America has always been in the industry of its trafficking humans. Right, That's one of the oldest professions, next to prostitution. About say Pap and his Pusseeason prostitution. Yeah, but America has always been in the business of trafficking humans. So when we see all this traffickingness and people missing, this is this is normal. What better group to do it too? Then to the group, right, the minority franchise African American.

And this is why if I were the vice president of America, I understand where Kamala Harris got up and she said, you know, don't come That's the only thing you could tell these people. Listen, don't come here, man, these people are not playing fair. Don't come here. They're gonna separate you from your children. Your children gonna end up and assist them. I'm documented I feel like they end up with pedophiles. Look at the legislation and stuff that's being passed. And I'm not saying like the gay

community is aligned with being um pedophiles. That's not what I'm saying, but that particular group of people they want to align themselves with the LGBTQ community as if being a pedophile is a sexual preference. Right, I see that exactly, So that the lgbt q Q community should be concerned with that, I'm sure they are. I'm sure you see. So now these people want to legalize pedophilia. Whose children

are they gonna have? Who's child are you'all y'all gonna get Okay, let's just say for instance, Pedophila is legal. Whose fucking kid are y'all going to get ahold of? It's gonna be these undocumented kids that come across the fucking border and this government of Zenca who's with and they separate these children and these kids end up in

the hands of these predators, predators. Look how many jo children's children in foster care and exactly look how many judges, lawyers, police officers get caught up in these um child sex trafficking rings and ship like that. It's scary, But I mean, think about Henrietta Alex what they did to her body. They took her DNA and they've been testing it for however long now, for years and years and years, and the family don't have ship now. They've been trying to

sue forever, but they they're suing now, which as they should. UM. I don't believe that she died at John Johns Hopkins Hospital. I believe she was murdered. If she had sales that were immortal, which means you can recreate this actually has several cancer right, they can recreate what she would have never died. If what y'all saying it's true, y'all had to kill her to use her for something ends. Yeah,

that's very possible. And I just feel like, you know, with all, let me go, Let me go on, deep deep, deep deep deep down the rabbit hole. There we go, y'all, y'all got so we are drink, Go ahead and hit it a drinking right now. Okay, what if while y'all are trying to find y'all ancestry and y'all putting your DNA out there and all that ship niggas go to prison and get your d NA. I strongly believe that the powers that be are looking for a particular bloodline

of people. We already know Black Americans as special, you know what I'm saying. And I feel like when people go missing, I don't believe it's a random um killing. I feel like they know exactly who they're looking for and they pluck them because all information we put out there on social media, like they know who we are, they know I'll boglines, they know us better than we know ourselves. Well, let me just tell y'all this, I eat pork. My guy is very unhealthy. I smoke my cigarettes,

but I smoke. Y'all don't want me. It would be a waste of time. Hey, y'all don't want me because you're gonna die trying to get me. And that's just that on that I'm overweight. I have a four diet. I'm over thirty five. That should protect me, girl. I don't know. It's scary out here, man. And it's another another young man who also went missing in Arizona, the guy Daniel Robinson. So um. It says that his car was discovered by a rancher on July nineteen, about three

miles away from his work site when he was last seen. Um. The vehicle had suffered crash damage, and a pile of his clothing and belongings were discovered nearby. Arizona Buckeye Police Assistant Chief both Sanders told cy and Then that his officers have covered all of their bases in the search for Daniel Robinson. Mind you, his daddy had to travel to Arizona and recruit people to go out and look for him. To his son himself. You know, they weren't

even looking for him. Daniel Robinson, it's his name. This is another missing black man who needs to be on our radar. And I mean after after somebodys missing so long, It's like, what's the likelihood of them even being alive? Right, so then your your family or even being found at all their body or anything. Yeah, So then basically your family just gets to, you know, get to preparing for the worst news ever or never have any news. Can you imagine, like your loved one, they just go about

their day and they just ever come back. They vanished, and you just never hear or see for them again, and you never find out what happened to them. That's got to be one of the most gut wrenching experiences and it happens to so many of us. And I and I'm sorry if you know that that kind of pain. I'm very sorry to you. But I'm about to place Devil's Advocate a little bit here because we talk about our missing blacks, and we talk about black people being

killed at the hands of law enforcement. What are we doing about what when we do it to ourselves? What can we speak to our own killing in our community? The music that promotes killing, that's when we're taking a conversation at Okay, So, how here's how I feel about that. People commit sin. Sin is always going to be committed. It's just the fact that people commit um crimes in close proximity, So where they are right your community, it's gonna be in your community. If it's a community of Asians,

there's going to be crime there. But what happens to black people in America is that we're more publicized. When we do some ship, it's gonna be on the news, They're gonna keep playing it on Instagram. It's gonna, you know, keep playing on CNN and Fox News like it's just gonna keep playing it playing plays. So everybody gets this image in their head that it's just black people committing crimes, and it's just not true. White people commit crimes, Asians

commit crimes, Hispanics commit crimes. Everybody commits crimes. What I'm saying is sending people are gonna always send. There's gonna be nothing any group, any one group of people will ever be able to do. To calmat that. Do you feel like black music hip hop promotes murder more than any other genre of music. Absolutely it does. Do you

think that influences our youth in a way. When I was younger, Yeah, And when I was younger, I would argue with my MoMA and tell her like she would be like turn that wrap ship off and that mind you you cussing at me while talking about the cussing in the music. But I never understood it until I got older. You do some drugs and you're turning to fucking rap music on and now y'are heading in the car to go ruin the rest of your life or someone else's. Yeah, so of course the music plays a

big role in it. We got to change the music that I mean, that would that would be a start. It would be a start changing the music. But you got niggas and so much money. They don't they would never right. And then they got the people who promoted like they want to keep us at this low vibration. They want to keep us here in this low space. I guess is everything in moderation. Because we like that music,

we like I know. That's why I'm I mean, I'm a hypocrite when I say that ship because I'll be righting out there in the club with my fake gun in my hand, like shooting in the club, you know, to the song. But in real life, I would never harm anybody unless they're trying to harm me, because I can, I can car compartmentalize the music from my reality. But some people can't, and especially you, And that's the scary part.

And then you consider that we have a portion of our youth that has no regard for life, and then we want other people to regard our lives. They just need guidance. Because here's the thing. The gangs, those are our warriors. That's how I see them. They're just misguided. They need to be organized. It was like this whole big thing going around by a month ago to let Larry Hoover out of prison because he's supposed to be

like the savior for black people. First of all, what somebody else, please, somebody else to organize these niggas because we need, we need our warriors. They're just misguided, you know what I'm saying. A lot of them don't have families, so they find families within the gangs or within the neighborhoods.

The group of people more opportunities. So along with changing the music, more opportunities, and about changing the mindset, because you know, you got these young people, and most of them are young that are not afraid to take life right, they're not afraid to take life that could take a life. Go home, eat a turkey sandwich, watch Dave Chappelle comedy series and go to bed and just be fine. But George Zimmerman is still walking around this motherfucker, Like where

is our warriors for ship like that? To protect and serve the black community, not to kill each other. That's all I mean. It's just stressful, man, It's just really real stressful being black in America. It's lit this ship dangerous as fuck. Yeah, it is dangerous because we gotta watch out for it for our own people. We gotta watch out for them people. It's just you know, when I lived away from Charleston and I would come home, you know, the weekends just a party or something like that.

Like I would literally have adjust, like if I want to go to the club or something like that, I would adjust my whole ship because I might have to be a bit up because people just so fucking unruly and just nasty, Like black women are so nasty towards each other sometimes. Man. Black men like just always looking

for a problem. You took the gun to the club because you already just mad and you wish a nigga would for no reason, like you just angry because you just don't have the resources you think you should have. Like the energies has to just that has to be refocused, Like how the witchcraft has been done on us? Man? How though, that's the thing? How how did we we would need some type of major paradigm shift in the consciousness of blacks happening. It's happening. It's happening. I believe

it's happening. I believe. Um, you you don't be on Clubhouse like that, but I believe like platforms like Clubhouse allow people to meet their tribe of people and then they can organize outside the I believe there's a lot of information being spread amongst black people in the way that we were never never able to do in the past. Um, even with podcasts, you know what I'm saying, like just us being being able to talk and people listen, and you know maybe when we do live shows and ships

like that, people pull up. Yeah. But then yeah, that's very true. But then I also think about have you ever looked at the story of King von when y'all just just get a chance, just look at like his life and his lifestyle and what was going on with them young people in Chicago. Man, they was on something different, different, Like they was literally out here killing like it was. But we're talking about Chicago. Chicago has been like that forever.

It's just a bad spirit in Chicago. Let's think about the mob and how they were killing in Chicago. Unfortunately, it just seems like it's the culture, and it's has always been the culture in Chicago, not just black people. The stuff that happened, it happens to black pomen America is not by mistake. It's all by design. On the inside. I just feel like Kobao Jr. When he came in the house and started punching, Like I really feel like that.

But it's like, what can I do? Man? We can only start with the youth, because once somebody gets a certain age is like, man, you just can't even do ship with them. You gotta start with the youth. And when you mean, you know, and I find it hard to talk to them sometimes, Like these kids. I'm talking about little kids. I'm talking about you know, kids are most impressionable from ages they say like three to seven or something like that. I'm talking about little kids. He's teenagers. Man.

I was outside trying to rap to these little kids. I said, rapp, I sound like somebody Auntie. I was trying to talk to these teenagers that be riding the bites in the street downtown Charlotte, and these little nicks was not trying to hear nothing I had to say. And then they rolled off on a little break and he was like, you got a fat ass, though, I'm like a fuck fun these kids. Fun, these kids. That's how I feel. So I don't know, man, girl, let's

face some bills real quick. We'll be right back. It's a little heavy episode, tam but necessary. But I want to challenge everybody to go visit the Black and Missing, Inc. Dot com website. UM, let's not wait on Instagram or Facebook, follow alert whoever to tell us about you know, what's going on our community. UM, you could visit that website. They have all the missing black people, um CARLINI United States. I mean there's a there's another black woman who's currently

missing right now. She's been missing since UM September eighth. Her name is Sydney Palmer. And another woman, Ashley got Lorie, she's been missing missing from Houston, Texas UM since September four. So, I mean, we don't even see this stuff in the media. There's also websites like um our Black Girls, dot com, in pr dot org. So there's other resources out there where we can keep on top of these stories. And I mean, just take a look at the people, look

at their stories. Shop Hopefully some of these people are alive. You might run into them, but you just got to know the faces. Though. When you see people so tam you also know. They say that black people make up thirty five per cent of the missing persons reported in America, but only cent of the country. Yes, over half of the incarcerated, but only thirteen percent of the country. We it's just everything. Lord, help us understand what you're trying to tell us. In this country, we are just behind

enemy lines. It feels like it. Black women die more during pregnancy than any other one. It's more black people dying from coronavirus. We're going to more. No, No, that coronavirus is not your If y'all visit the CDC website, white people dying from corona more, I mean, they'll say it's more white people, but yeah, the the six does not show that, Um, black black people. I'm sorry that

black people are dying more. Um. You know what I want to do right now, I want to call all fucking witches calling all witches, calling all black witches in America. What we need to get together and do something. Man, that's a j y'all. I don't don't know about that calling all black witches. Yes, hit us up at we talk about podcasts, A JA C C A j Okay, y'all hit us up because lit and we got to

figure something to funk out with you. All right, So, y'all, on a lighter note, let's get back to our regularly scheduled ratchet. Um, let's go into our dumb bitch segment. Please dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. All right, here he goes you guys, Um says, hey, guys, I want to tell my story and maybe get some advice. I've been dealing with this man on and off for six years.

He recently moved to Los Angeles and I live on the East Coast, so we don't see each other as often. I started seeing a military man five months ago, and he treats me so good and things are going great. Anyway. To make a long, long crazy story short, I slept with both of them within the same week unprotected, and they both shot up the club. Now out Now I'm pregnant and I don't know who the father is. But

that ain't the worst part of it. The boot from l A found out about the military boom and now he says, I need to pay him five k by Halloween or he will contact the military booth to let him know that we are still fucking Should I pay him? I really, I really love the military boot and I think he can provide a good life for me and my new child. Please help. Wait a minute, okay, so why is she being extorted for five thousand dollars? Does

she we need someone? Why is she being extorted? So she says, the l A booth found out about the military guy, and he said give him that five k by Halloween or a he gonna tell that nigga that she she out here fucking Wow. Is she married to the guy in the military. No, it says they've only been dealing with each other for five months. Wow. Okay, So basically, you don't you need to have an abortion? Hey, look, bitch, Usually we are pro I don't know, like we pro

choice and pro life. It just depends on the situation, Like women should have the choice right and this's like, what is happening, bitch? If you want to save yourself some embarrassment, like how pregnant are you? Right? It doesn't say, it doesn't say like how how are you? Girl? If this is an ugly position to be in because you can pay this man five thousand dollars and then the baby be his and now you don't gave him money and got to be stuck with him for life because

you're pregnant by him. No, she just gave his ass a down payment on y'all support. Give him that baby. Get your day. I'm not paid. No, I'm not. I will not being storted by terrorists. We do not negotiate with terrorists here in the United States. I would block him. And if he tell say it ain't you, do not deny that it was not me. He could see him to be the messages between y'all that still ain't me photoshop is real. I don't know, girl, that's an ugly situation.

But you you really out here with a nigga who will try to give five K? How did you sound like? He broke exactly? And he sounds and sounding like why does he even know about the other guy? I wonder if the guy in the military, I'm assuming that's her boyfriend, because why does this side dude think he can extort her out of five thousand dollars or he's gonna tell on her to this guy the FU I like, look, I three, okay, I'm not paying five thousand and nobody

about no deed. Like we need to start giving real advice. So do we have some real helpful advice for our listener? Okay, go to the abortion clinics. No, that's not my advice because motherhood, that's a blessing from God. If you decide that you want to keep that child, by all means, keep the child, but you might have the suffer the repercussions. I would not tell you to pay that man nothing because he could still tell whether you give him that

five thousand or not. You know, now you five thousand short. Even if you got that, you know you five thousand short, and the military nigga're gonna find out. So or he could always hold that over your head. When held low on money again, he could come back and be like, yeah, I'm gonna need another this month is slow, and it's like she he probably knows she can get money out there. The guy he's basically storing, the guy who could also

be possibly be the baby's father. Right, this is messy. Listen, ladies, if you're gonna have sex and multiple people use a condom with at least one or both, like Tammy always be saying I used kind of everybody. Whatever happens sometimes you know, it's a it's a drunk night, whatever it happens. You've grown, people do ship slip a slide, and yeah, somebody you got to use a condom with. You can't just be enjoying all the day and raw dick, I don't know. I don't even know what raw dick feels like.

No more. I've been getting kindall penis for years. Like I don't even want to have sex because I got to use a condom. I don't want to. Yeah, girl, but you don't want to end up your ship like this, you know, hell no, not at this age. Let me tell you why. I always, always, always use a condom because I just imagine myself, like in a hospital bed, dying from something that I could have prevented, and with my family around me, and they're like, oh, she's dying

from sick dick. I don't you know. I don't want scare of that. It's so terrified. Ah, y'all better stay prayed up. Well, Halloween is around the corner, baby, So I don't know either you're gonna get it? Are you gonna trick? Are you gonna get tricked? Because it ain't no treat for you in this situation. Is it gonna wiggle and walk? You're going to hell? This is not funny. Yes, when guys, yeah, women, we'll be making fun of abortion. We do make fun of it, and it's not funny.

It's a very very serious matter and we shouldn't be laughing about telling a woman to go and get an abortion. But it's a really a real reality for a lot of women. Like things happen. You may even plan the pregnancy, right what this man and he finds out you're pregnant, and he wakes up like he never knew how women get pregnant and he could he can be indifferent about it. And now you're stuck with this decision to make because I'm not into forcing anybody to do anything. So we

end up in the fucking dumbest situation. Sometimes unintentionally, this particular situation, I mean, you have a sex and multiple people you ejaculating you other China, Right, what did you expect? So either gonna be a woman have your child? Tell both men, Hey, I'm pregnant and I was sleeping with both of you. You could do that. That's an option that that would be the most mature thing to do, honestly. But but I don't know. Bitch at your mama because

this is rough. That's a child. Do you already have kids? It doesn't say. It doesn't say. He a message back and tell us if you have kids already. Um, but either way, I mean, that doesn't really matter you. UM, I wouldn't advise you to abort. That's not my real I mean, it was funny when I said it the first time. But if I'm being in all honesty, that's up to you if you want to keep the baby or not. But it sounds like you do because you're saying a good life for me and my new child.

So that means like you've already made your mind up that you're going to have your child. But if you even let that man know that that may not be his showd You can't be planning a future with him when you could possibly be carrying another carrying another man's show. That's very deceitful. It's just mean and nasty and it and it hurts men. A lot of men deal with

that ship. That's how Marry You Gotta has a whole TV show about it, Like you need to be honest with him from day one and just deal with whatever the repercussions of your choices. But don't send that nicko five thousand. I will say that, I send him a dollar. You're gonna need that for your baby. Congratulations to you, though motherhood is beautiful and good luck. Write us back and tell us what happens. Don't get that n no money girl, all right, Ah, this is a heavy episode,

so I don't know. I just encourage everybody to go look out there and see about our people. Man, check on your people, talk to your people. I think a lot of times people may be going through things and they could possibly take off, but then they end up in a situations somewhere. That's what happens to a lot of young women I know for sure. Make sure people, good man, check on their mental health. Let's let's just

love one another and hugs a lot of hugs. Man hug saves lives, m when you be going through it and somebody hug you, don't you just break down as soon as that's what sometimes I'll be like, don't touch me because I'm gonna cry. You gotta hug your people. Man, shoot energy right quick. Yeah. But we thank you guys for tuning in, and if you enjoy this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app

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