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We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71www.studio71.com
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email [email protected]   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

Episodes

Rachel Ballinger is a Barrel-Aged Gay

Listen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww ▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Rachel Ballinger is a huge YouTuber, content creator, and recently-out lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to get some sex tips from the weathered professionals! Even more, we have hilarious stand-up and friend Ali Kolbert stepping in as temporary co-h...

Dec 05, 20221 hr 6 minSeason 1Ep. 145

Emma Willmann Talks Dirty on Craigslist

Listen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww ▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Emma Willmann is an actor/writer, one of NY’s best stand-up comedians, and one of Ashley’s dear friends, but today she is in the apartment to talk some smack to the gang! We discuss learning dirty talk via Craigslist, how to improve your poops, and the best ...

Nov 28, 20221 hr 5 minEp. 144

Remy Kassimir is All Out of Nuts

Listen to my new podcast, “Chosen Family,” on all platforms: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww ▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Remy Kassimir is a stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Ashley’s fairy “podmother” who helped start this entire show, but today she is in the apartment to get her nut back! We discuss having trouble orgasming, the hottest new sex toys, and how this may be our l...

Nov 21, 20221 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 143

Mak Ingemi is Fiscally Straight, Sexually Liberal

Listen to “Chosen Family” now, on all platforms: ▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9WM_cdLWHtsCXLg3ygFiww ▶ https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/chosen-family/id1652942569 ▶ https://open.spotify.com/show/0yc257UifuN47iTWAmqAZn Mak Ingemi is an internet content creator, videographer, and perhaps every woman’s wet dream, but today she’s in the apartment to do some pining for the one woman that’s HER wet dream! We discuss being in a long-distance relationship, “U-Hauling” vs. waiting to move in ...

Nov 14, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 142

WHGS Variety Show Live Streamed 11/12

https://bit.ly/whgsLive Have you wondered what it would be like if WHGS had its own hour long special or tv show? Well this is going to be it! Saturday at 2pm (est) and it's exclusively available online (or live at The Bell House if you're in Brooklyn) . We are pulling you on stage, reading your advice, questions, doing dating games, stand up comedy and more with your favorite guests (like Maddie and Jake Cornell) and some new ones! Patrons get discounts: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS This is a g...

Nov 08, 20222 min

Calvin Cato Gets a Mobile Home Handy

Calvin Cato is a wonderful stand-up comedian who was named one of Time Out NY’s “Queer Comics of Color to Watch Out For,” but today he’s in the apartment to be named the gay sex king! We discuss having sex with van-lifers, banging in international waters, and the best methods to pitch your screenplay to celebrities that don’t want to hear it. Ashley double-dips her dates. Maddie has a break through with daddy. You can find Calvin on IG and Tiktok: @calvinscato, Twitter: @catocalvin, And you can ...

Nov 07, 20221 hr 12 minEp. 141

Hannah Berner Needs a “Full-Service” Hair Removal

We will be LIVE-STREAMING a LIVE performance of the podcast on November 12th at 2pm EST, complete with unique segments and special guests! Visit https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates for virtual and in-person tickets, and join the mailing list for future show dates! Hannah Berner is an outrageous stand-up comedian and dear friend of the podcast, but today she is in the apartment to shatter her straightness in one of our most chaotic episodes yet! In addition, we are double-friended up this week as ...

Oct 31, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 140

Sebene Selassie Repairs Your Erotic Energy

Sebene Selassie is a meditation teacher and spiritual guide who spreads healing across the globe, but today she is in the apartment for some SEXUAL healing! We discuss being in a sexless relationship, reconnecting with your sexuality, and totally figure out the secret to the universe (spoiler alert; it's just getting finger-blasted). Ashley finds inner peace. Maddie unleashes their inner slut. You can find Sebene on IG and Twitter: @sebeneselassie, And you can follow her work, teachings, and wor...

Oct 24, 20221 hr 17 minSeason 1Ep. 139

Keara Graves Was Late for This ‘Cuz They Were Bangin’

Keara Graves is a marvelous queer actor, singer, and content creator, but you know they’re ALREADY bangin’, so they’re in the apartment to tell us all about it! Also, “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson returns to the fold as a virtual co-host to keep our gears greased. We discuss getting in quickies when you’re on the clock, using multiple different pronouns, and what to rank Ashley’s ABYSMAL performance. Ashley deals with a nut allergy. Bre breaks her partner’s ribs. You can find Keara on...

Oct 17, 20221 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 138

Bailey Pope Will Stage-Manage Your Orgy

Bailey Pope is an absolutely killer comedian and trans woman who performs across the US, but today she’s in the apartment to perform some oral on the crew! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener joins us once again, this time as our PERMANANT co-host. We discuss coming out as trans mid-marriage, attending sex parties in your free time, and the complexities of hunting gay ghosts. Ashley has an apartment retrospective. Maddie might be demi-sexual. You can find Bailey on IG and Tiktok: @theactualbai...

Oct 10, 20221 hr 8 min

Jade Fox Needs Drama When Doin' it

Jade Fox is a hilarious content creator who covers everything from fashion to queer issues and black culture, but today she’s in the apartment to cover the gang with her titties! In addition, “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson joins as co-host once again to roast Ash to a fine crisp. We discuss awkward sexual experiences in high school, coming out with as much drama as possible, and maintaining a tranquil boobie aura. Ashley loses her virginity. Breanne corrects the record. You can find Ja...

Oct 03, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 136

Nico Carney Flakes on Your Footsy

Nico Carney is an amazing trans stand-up who was recently showcased on Netflix’s “Introducing…” lineup, but today he is showcasing his HOT BOD to the gang! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener returns to the couch to co-host and monitor Ashley’s halls- Will they ever get laid?! Tune in to find out! We discuss being hit on by your friend’s partner, performing comedy as a trans man, and pimping out your all-American body to maximize views. Ashley bangs a finance femme. Maddie quits porn. You can ...

Sep 26, 20221 hr 15 minSeason 1Ep. 135

Cammie Scott is Leading You On

Cammie Scott is a vlogger, content creator, and professional gay who’s killin’ the game, but today she is phoning into the apartment to kill some puss! In addition, Breanne Williamson returns to the fray as “Canceller Chancellor” to co-host with Ash. We discuss being a serial monogamist, attempting to slut around in spite, and going to therapy to repair your broken friendship and podcast. Ashley saunters down memory lane. Breanne ain’t so kinky after all. You can find Cammie on IG & Twitter: @ca...

Sep 19, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 134

Dash Turner Molts in Your Bed

Dash Turner is a wonderful stand-up comedian and staff writer for Peacock’s “Rutherford Falls,” but today he is a low-libido sex machine in the apartment to get his mojo back! In addition, gay virgin hall monitor Maddie Wiener joins us yet again as temporary co-host to monitor Ashley and dream of gayer pastures. We discuss coming to terms with a low sex drive, the misadventures that follow forcing yourself to bang, and the radical act of playing Xbox online as a gay man. Ashley crashes her U-Hau...

Sep 12, 20221 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 133

Jessica Kirson is Building a Gay Dynasty

Jessica Kirson is a living stand-up legend and an absolute powerhouse on stage, but today she is in the apartment to powerBANG the gang! Even more, our little gay virgin and comedian Maddie Wiener steps in yet again to co-host and monitor Ash. We discuss rearing kids from different baby mommas, staying sane while loved ones are sick, and the joys of Judaism and muff (not expressly related). Ashley closes the Brazilian MILF arc. Maddie gets and I.U.D. You can find Jessica on IG: @jessykirson, Tik...

Sep 05, 20221 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 132

Sheria Mattis's Traveling Strap-on Troupe

Sheria Mattis is a Brooklyn-based comedian who is already DESTROYING the comedy scene despite being in it for only a few years, but today she is in the apartment to destroy some puss with the gang. Even more, NEW temporary co-host and “gay virgin hall monitor” Maddie Wiener steps up to monitor Ash. We discuss love and life with fibroids, putting on a strap-on performance, and how anything goes as long as you got a fat ass. Ashley gets sneaky in camp. Maddie goes to the ER. You can find Sheria on...

Aug 29, 20221 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 131

Erica Sullivan is an Olympic Piss-leblower

Erica Sullivan is a queer swimmer and Olympic silver medalist for Team USA, but today she is in the apartment to swim inside the gang! Even more, the Bre-son winds down as “canceler chancellor” Breanne Williamson has her final run as temporary co-host (for now). We discuss how athletic injury affects on your sex-life, queerness in athletics, and Erica blows the lid off all the Olympic pee secrets. Ashley bangs at the workplace. Bre receives a message from the gay cosmos. You can find Erica on IG...

Aug 22, 20221 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 130

Rita Brent Needs Punani-Eating Power Naps

Rita Brent is an astounding comedian/musician who tours with comedy moguls like Cedric the Entertainer, but today she’s in the apartment for sleepy sex with the crew! Even more, “canceller chancellor” Breanne Williamson jumps in yet again as our temporary co-host. We discuss falling asleep during sex, finding time for intimacy in a busy life, and the most efficient way to tell your dentist that you need to piss like a race horse. Ashley gets cucked by a surfer. Breanne confirms her gay suspicion...

Aug 15, 20221 hr 7 minSeason 1Ep. 129

Anna Lee is Officially our Gayest Guest

Anna Lee is an engineer and co-founder of Lioness Health, a manufacturer of smart vibrators that measure your orgasm data, but today she is in the apartment to spill the data on HER orgasms. More so, the “Bre-son” continues as Canceler Chancellor and BJ Machine Breanne Williamson sits in as temporary co-host. We discuss group sex parties, open-mindedness in sexual exploration, and why you should be keepin’ that vagina loose. Ashley looks for love in a gay mecca. Breanne is feeling vanilla. You c...

Aug 08, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 128

Mak Ingemi Finds God Through Foreplay

Mak Ingemi is a beloved queer influencer and content creator that’s taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment to take US on some wild sexcapades! Even more, the “Bre-son” remains in full swing as Breanne Williamson continues her role as temporary “Canceler Chancellor.” We discuss getting walked in on during sex, maintaining a healthy sex life in an untraditional career, and questioning your gender for those sweet clickbait bucks. Ashley reminisces upon an old fling. Breanne ...

Aug 01, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 127

Justin Tranter Tops to Track Time

Justin Tranter is a singer, songwriter, and activist who has been the driving force behind massive artists like Justin Bieber, Lady Gaga, and more, but today they’re taking a break from banging drums to bang the gang instead! Even more, “‘Tis the Bre-son'' yet again as temporary co-host and “Chancellor Canceler” Breanne Williamson steps in to keep Ashley in check. We discuss topping as a fem-bottom, queerness in the history of music, and secret Mormon workarounds to gettin’ your nut sans eternal...

Jul 25, 20221 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 126

We Make Georgia Bridgers Cry (Totally Not Clickbait)

Georgia Bridgers is an absolutely delightful actress, podcaster, and content creator who has returned to the apartment to get emotional and gay with the gang! Today marks a special run on WHGS, for “'Tis the BRE-son” as fan-favorite Breanne Williamson steps up to the plate as our temporary co-host and bang buddy. We discuss lesbian bed death, managing mental health as a young queer, and vibrators that shake you off the Richter. Ashley has the gayest night EVER. Breanne breaks into the foot indus...

Jul 18, 20221 hr 16 minSeason 1Ep. 125

Jake Cornell Breaks Teeth and Big News

Beloved actor, comedian, and WHGS regular Jake Cornell (Going Out w/ Jake Cornell) has returned to the apartment to do the devil’s dance with the gang! We discuss getting injured during sex, the dangers of acapella, and the truth about who REALLY killed Princess Diana. Ashley finds herself a man. Kate has a fun announcement. You can find Jake on IG, Twitter, and Tiktok: @jakewcornell, You can listen to his podcast, “Going Out With Jake Cornell,” wherever you listen, And you can see his two-perso...

Jul 11, 20221 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 124

Emma Willmann Dumps You at the Anal Exhibit

Emma Willmann is one of New York’s best comedians who you have seen multiple times over on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Netflix’s “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend,” but today you can see her gettin’ nasty in the apartment! We discuss exploring kink in the bedroom, porn’s influence on your sexual habits, and the best place to ditch your poop. Ashley shoots her shot. Kate wants ads to target HARDER. You can find Emma on IG: @emmawillmann, TikTok and Twitter: @iamemmawillmann, And you can see her LIV...

Jul 04, 20221 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 123

Teresa Lee Bangs Men by Imagining They're Women

Teresa Lee (You Can Tell Me Anything) is an amazing writer and stand-up who has made mounds of content for comedy staples like Cracked, College Humor, and Reductress, but today she’s making love with the gang in another Indiana “road trib.” We discuss flipping the sexual script with your straight partner, questioning your gender, and big fake titties. Ashley does gay time travel. Kate ruins a bunch of dates. You can find Teresa on IG and TikTok: @teresaleebot, Twitter: @leresatee, And you can li...

Jun 27, 20221 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 122

Ian Aber Bangs You for Peace and Quiet

Ian Aber (Str8 Ppl) is a hilarious comedian, podcaster, and literal bear who was a national finalist in NBC’s “Stand Up for Diversity,” but today he’s joining us for some sneaky gay sex in an Indiana hotel. We discuss married life as an older gay, generational differences in the queer community, and how Ashley’s dead dad was definitely a DILF. Ashley meets an executive lesbian. Kate educates the youth. You can find Ian on IG, Twitter, and TikTok: @abearcomedian, And you can listen to his hilario...

Jun 20, 20221 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 121

Mercury Stardust Has a FemmeDom Degree

Mercury Stardust is a professional Home Maintenance Technician, burlesque performer, and award-winning activist widely known as the “Trans Handy Ma’am,” and today she's in the apartment to give us a fixer-upper. We discuss rediscovering your sexuality after transitioning, the complex effects of hormones, and brick vs. drywall. Ashley is gettin’ ballpark pics. Kate hires the Trans Handy Ma’am. You can find Mercury on TikTok: @mercurystardust, IG: @mercurystartdusttopz, And you can get tickets to ...

Jun 13, 20221 hr 15 minSeason 1Ep. 120

Rae Williams Doesn’t Play Ball(s) Games

Rae Williams is a riveting cast member on Netflix’s hit reality TV series, “The Ultimatum,” who came out as bisexual to the whole world on the show, and now she’s in the apartment to enjoy it some! We discuss her experiences on the show, the pitfalls of femme-for-femme dating, and keeping your sex toys ball-free. Ashley sets her eyes on a bartender. Kate unearths lesbian history. You can find Rae on TikTok: @raewill_, Twitter: @raewil_, and IG: @rae.williams, And you can watch “The Ultimatum” no...

Jun 06, 202258 minSeason 1Ep. 119

Irene Tu is in a Sahara-Sized Dry Spell

Irene Tu is a killer stand-up/actor/writer whose recent debut comedy album, “We’re Done Now,” hit #1 on iTunes comedy charts upon release, but today she is in the apartment to break her dry spell. We discuss life without sex in many years, things to look for in a long-term partner, and the best place to put your doomsday bunker when the sun explodes us. Ashley unpacks her drama. Kate has a wet dream. You can find Irene on IG and Twitter: @irene_tu, TikTok: @irenetucomedy, And you can listen to h...

May 30, 20221 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 118

Daryn Carp was Cradle-Snatched & Loves it

Daryn Carp (Reality Check) is a hilarious TV personality, podcaster, and gay royalty as Andy Cohen’s right hand woman, but today she’s in the apartment for some cougar-hunting. We discuss dating older women, maternity as an older lesbian, and scientific advancements in growing demon babies. Ashley needs a makeover. Kate has a sibling rivalry. You can find Daryn on IG and Twitter: @carpedaryn, And you can tune in to her show, “Reality Check,” on PeopleTV: ▶ https://peopletv.com/all-shows/reality-...

May 23, 20221 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 117