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We Met At Acme

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We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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Episodes

Why Men Are Lonelier Than Ever ft. Brenden Durell

On today’s episode, I sit down with Too Hot To Handle’s Intimacy Coach Brenden Durell. We discuss edging, semen retention, how he works with the cast to “hold themselves back,” how men became lonelier than ever, why people chase a challenge, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to fall for a nice guy, how to not get too attached early on, dealing with husband prolonging kids, and how I knew I was ready to be a mom. Please note that this episode may contain paid e...

Oct 22, 202357 minEp. 328

Your Partner’s Emotions Are Not Your Own ft. Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

On today’s episode, I sit down with psychologist and author Dr. Tracy Dalgleish. We discuss how to avoid taking on someone else’s emotions, navigating a long distance relationship, understanding your partner’s emotions may have nothing to do with you, how to be less of an empath, how motherhood changes a partnership, getting the spark back post kids, and so much more. Buy Dr. Tracy’s book Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. In...

Oct 15, 202358 minEp. 327

Would You Date Someone Who’s Never Had A Relationship? ft. Batsheva Haart

On today’s episode, I sit down with Batsheva Haart from My Unorthodox Life. We discuss what led to her divorce, making friends as an adult, how reality TV impacted her marriage, how to deal with regret post break up, why she wouldn’t date someone who has never been in a relationship, her ick for religious guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss key takeaways from therapy, what it means to share values, and more. Make sure to check out the We Met At Acme YouTube channel to...

Oct 08, 20231 hr 1 minEp. 326

Maintaining Sex In A Long Term Relationship ft. Jordyn Hakes

On today’s episode, I sit down with Jordyn Hakes from The Horny Housewife podcast. We discuss the seasons of sex in a long term relationship, solo pleasure and masturbation, what we share or don’t share about our sexual fantasies, how to not get in your head if your partner doesn’t have the same libido, onlyfans, and more! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial inter...

Oct 01, 202356 minEp. 325

Making Your Friendships Last Through The Years

On today’s full solo episode, I’m talking all about friendship. Friendships throughout high school, college, early 20s, late 20s, marriage, babies, dogs, and more. We’ll cover how to deal with a friend in a life stage behind you, when you can vs. can’t confront a friend, when to walk away from a friendship, what to remember in friendship, ways to make friends later in life, being the single friend, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements f...

Sep 24, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 324

The Male Mind Post Break Up ft. Toddy Smith

On today’s episode, I sit down with Toddy Smith, content creator and member of the vlog squad. We discuss his recent break up, men and therapy, dating apps, vine, the vlog squad, what it means to date like an aries, dating in your 30s, onlyfans, porn addiction, and more . This episode starts with a solo where I discuss changing your last name, why I’m not having a bris, and pregnancy weirdness. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and servic...

Sep 17, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 323

The Pros And Cons Of Getting Married Young ft. Brooks Nader

On today’s episode, I sit down with supermodel Brooks Nader. We discuss meeting her (then taken) husband, the dynamics of her marriage, being one of 4 sisters, rejection, beauty routines, keeping things fun in your relationship while traveling, what she would do differently if she got married today, and the pros and cons of marrying when young. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss 10/10 partners and some pregnancy updates. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements an...

Sep 10, 202356 minEp. 322

Maybe You Should Lower Your Standards ft. Evan Marc Katz

On today’s episode, I sit down with dating coach Evan Marc Katz. Evan and I discuss green flags in women that men look for, the most toxic piece of dating advice for women, how much it’s about physical appearance, dating as a successful woman, how to know if someone really makes you happy, why lowering your standards might be necessary, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss We Met At Camp! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for prod...

Sep 03, 20231 hr 3 minEp. 321

Sex When You Don’t Feel Sexy ft. Shan Boodram

On today’s episode, I sit down with sexologist Shan Boodram. Shan and I discuss marriage pacts, how to have a good sex life when you’re not feeling good about yourself, how to enjoy sex when you’re going through fertility struggles, sex after having kids, why it takes so long to have good sex in a new relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the 101 questions to ask before you get engaged and opine on recent polls and their results. Be sure to watch Shan on The Mar...

Aug 27, 202358 minEp. 320

The Three Stages Of A Relationship ft. Dr. Darcy Sterling

On today’s episode, I sit down with therapist Dr. Darcy Sterling. Darcy and I discuss the three important stages of a relationship and how to get to the third, the work you need to do on yourself before dating seriously, why the beginning is so important in love, the importance of switching up your therapist, how you should feel after therapy, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I opine on recent polls and their results. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and...

Aug 20, 20231 hr 3 minEp. 319

Do Men Actually Learn From Divorce? ft. Hannah Stella

On today’s episode, I sit down with Hannah Stella, an influencer who famously went through a public divorce last year. Hannah opens up to us about what went wrong, getting married young, the blame game, if she would have done things differently, her mental health, vulnerability in a marriage, what she would do differently in her next relationship, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show ma...

Aug 13, 202355 minEp. 318

My Fertility Journey, PCOS, And Going Off Birth Control ft. Dr. Catha Fischer

On today’s episode, I sit down with my fertility doctor, Dr. Catha Fischer. Dr. Fischer is at Spring Fertility in NYC, and I can’t recommend that place enough. We discuss my fertility journey, egg freezing vs. embryo freezing, tips for couples with infertility, how far in advance you should test your levels, how common IVF is these days, options if you can’t afford treatment, if AMH tests are BS, PCOS and what it means for you, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid end...

Aug 06, 20231 hr 22 minEp. 317

We’re Having A Baby!!!

On today’s episode, I share with you my very vulnerable journey to getting pregnant. During this time, I kept a “diary” about my experience. I hope that you enjoy it and it helps you if you are going through something similar! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: If you’re looking for a meaning...

Jul 30, 202359 minEp. 316

All The Dating Hot Takes ft. Dylan Landon

On today’s episode, I sit down with writer, director, and comedian Dylan Landon. We discuss all of your dating hot takes: the best time to meet someone, whose place for the first sleepover, the taxi cab theory, sharing locations, texting frequency, pet names, awkward goodbyes, guys with sisters, putting suggestive photos online, and so much more. Watch Dylan’s web series “A Good Kid From Brooklyn” Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and ser...

Jul 23, 20231 hr 4 minEp. 315

If You’re On The Fence, Don’t Have Kids ft. Lindsay Silberman

On today’s episode, I sit down with Lindsay Silberman, founder of Hotel Lobby Candle. We discuss why she and her husband broke up for three years, their decision not to have kids, the process of freezing eggs, how to not feel left out when all your friends have children, dealing with society's judgment, and tips for dating when you don’t want kids. Get your discount at hotellobbycandle.com with code ACME15 Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for product...

Jul 16, 20231 hr 3 minEp. 314

Is Your Relationship With Your Body Holding You Back In Dating? Ft. Sam Previte

On today’s episode, I sit down with Find Food Freedom’s Sam Previte, an intuitive eating RD. We discuss intuitive eating when you’re in a new relationship, how to not be people pleasing with food, how to be nicer to our bodies, why people aren’t happy in a bigger body, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the rules for new relationships. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have ...

Jul 09, 20231 hr 4 minEp. 313

Does Money Affect Your Sex Life? ft. Vivian Tu

On today’s episode, I sit down with Your Rich BFF aka Vivian Tu. We discuss wanting a partner that makes more, Vivan’s marathon date with her now fiance, who should pay on dates, dealing with income disparities in a relationship, navigating finances when you move in together, the best ways to grow your wealth as a couple, and if money affects your sex life. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my feet pics. Vivian’s book! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and...

Jul 02, 20231 hr 5 minEp. 312

What I Learned From Every Break Up

On today’s full solo episode, I discuss all of my past relationships and what each one taught me. Hopefully no exes hear this one! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME23 for a free account or 50% off your p...

Jun 25, 202348 minEp. 311

Date ‘Em Til You Hate ‘Em ft. Aleeza Ben Shalom

On today’s episode, I virtually sat down with the star of Netflix’ Jewish Matchmaking, Aleeza Ben Shalom. We discuss where the cast is now, calling out (or not calling out) her clients, how to date ‘em til you hate ‘em, her case for not living together before marriage, what *really* spices up a marriage, what is necessary for a successful and long marriage, what to discuss in the beginning, and more. This episode starts with a solo with some more meet cutes :) Get in touch with Aleeza! Please no...

Jun 18, 20231 hr 1 minEp. 310

Rules For Healthy Relationships ft. Dr. Morgan

On today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Morgan, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, and creator of the E.S.L. Relationship Method. We discuss the rules for healthy relationships, why most people struggle to find healthy ones, how you can tell if you’re choosing someone vs. needing them, toxic independence, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss when fighting is normal vs. a red flag. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for p...

Jun 11, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 309

Why So Many People Are Still Single ft. Lori Gottlieb

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with author and therapist Lori Gottlieb. We discuss the reason people are struggling to find a partner, if men have to make the same concessions as women, I explain to Lori what the “ick” is, what qualities make a man good enough, how much a person’s family matters, why mysteriousness is not a good quality, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my Taylor Swift eras tour experience. Buy Lori’s books Maybe You Should Talk To Someone and ...

Jun 04, 20231 hr 13 minEp. 308

How To Keep The Spark Alive ft. Vanessa and Xander Marin

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Vanessa and Xander Marin. We talk about how to keep the sexual spark alive, how to initiate properly, the right way to turn your partner down, how to ask for exactly what you want, telling your partner you don’t like something sexually, positive reinforcement, the 5 conversations every couple needs to increase intimacy and connection, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss what you can change about your SO, going through a partner’...

May 28, 202358 minEp. 307

Why You Need To Live Together Before Marriage

On today’s solo episode, I discuss all things living together. I talk about splitting expenses, when the time is right to take the leap, rules you should have for a cohesive environment, how to greet your partner, carving out your alone time, creating good juju, masturbating, bathroom etiquette, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or...

May 21, 202357 minEp. 306

Who Actually Is The Favorite Daughter? ft. Erin and Sara Foster

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Erin and Sara Foster, hosts of The World’s First Podcast, and co-founders of Favorite Daughter. Erin, Sara, and I discuss meeting your partner in your 20s vs meeting them in your 30s, what areas they feel competitive in, what rules they both followed in dating, why Sara and Tommy Haas never tied the knot, supporting your loved ones through their fertility journey, and who actually is the favorite daughter. Shop Favorite Daughter here! Please note tha...

May 14, 20231 hr 18 minEp. 305

Maybe Cheating Can Be Okay ft. Dan Savage

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Dan Savage, host of Savage Lovecast and author of Savage Love. Dan and I discuss what people misunderstand about monogamy, the importance on sex in a relationship, why jealousy is good, when cheating is okay, how to know if ENM is right for you, Dan’s thoughts on my rules, why gay marriages are more successful than straight marriages, how it works having a boyfriend and a husband, and so much more. Buy Dan’s book here! Please note that this episode m...

May 07, 20231 hr 13 minEp. 304

Your Dating App Profile Is Cringe ft. Ali and Erica

On today’s episode, I sit down with Ali and Erica from Finding Mr. Height Podcast. We discuss toxic independence, dating in your 30s, the rules that I broke with Steven, making new friends, dating with an STD, whether to be straightforward or nonchalant with dating app profiles, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referre...

Apr 30, 20231 hr 11 minEp. 303

Why He Should Like You More Than You Like Him

On today’s full solo episode, I am talking all about why men should love the woman more. I am bringing the receipts! And we also discuss some amazing meet-cute stories so be prepared to get the chills. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order P...

Apr 23, 20231 hr 3 minEp. 302

Are There Two Types Of Girls? ft. Tinx

On today’s episode, I sit down with my friend Tinx. We discuss the current season of Love Island, if people talk more shit nowadays, what she learned from her break up, what we’re including on our manifestation list, if there are two types of girls and what both are like, determining how much to share online, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Taylor Swift’s break up. Buy Tinx’s book here: Theshift-book.com Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and ad...

Apr 16, 202354 minEp. 301

Is Monogamy Over? ft. Talia Lichtstein

On today’s episode, I sit down with content creator Talia Lichtstein. Talia and I discuss if monogamy is human nature, how it became the norm, whether non-monogamous or monogamous people are happier, why ignorance is or isn’t bliss, the hardest thing about monogamy, opening up a previous closed relationship, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about having doubts post break up, staying past 3 months if not official, and emerging back into the dating world. Pleas...

Apr 09, 20231 hr 4 minEp. 300

Rediscovering The Magic Of Dating ft. Marin Haugo

On today’s episode, I sit down with Marin Haugo (and Archie!), who became internet famous for going on 28 dates in 28 days and documenting the process. Marin and I discuss how the dating challenge went, the best and worst dates she had, how and why her dating approach has changed, biggest takeaways from all the dates, whether or not the spark is important, if dating really is a numbers game, rediscovering the magic of dating, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions ...

Apr 02, 202358 minEp. 299
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