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We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaarart19.com

We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.

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Episodes

You Never Know Where You’ll Meet Your Person ft. Olivia Amato

On today’s episode, I sit down with Peloton’s favorite and Puma athlete, Olivia Amato. Olivia and I discuss her path to Peloton, the pressures of being a fitness instructor, meeting her now husband, cultural differences in her relationship, her time single in NYC, how having a dog prepares you to be parents, creepy internet stalkers, sharing an ex with another influencer, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about age gaps in relationships, what you should want t...

Mar 26, 202350 minEp. 298

Why Celebrity Relationships Fail (Or Thrive!) ft. Shannon McNamara

On today’s episode, I sit down with Shannon McNamara from the FluentlyForward podcast. We do a major deep dive into all of your favorite celebrity relationships: why they fail, why they thrive, who is cheating on who, who is in the closet, why these relationships are different than normal ones, and so much more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about platonic friendships, getting back into dating, and if a man’s career affects proposal timeline. Please note that this e...

Mar 19, 20231 hr 10 minEp. 297

Is Your Relationship Over? ft. Alessia Scauzillo

On today’s episode, I sit down with my close friend Alessia Scauzillo. We discuss her decision to separate from her husband, who brought up the D word first, what living from the heart means to her, the way she got more in touch with herself, how to know if you’re growing apart, mushrooms and how they have helped her healing journey, when to bring up your divorce when newly dating, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about watching porn, feeling anxious about no...

Mar 12, 20231 hr 2 minEp. 296

How Moving In Together Changes Sex

On today’s solo episode, I am talking all about what happens when you move in with your partner. I discuss why sex changes, the good parts and the bad parts of living with a partner, how to increase the amount of sex you have when living together, why you need to separate from the outcome when dating, and I answer some listener questions. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect...

Mar 05, 202353 minEp. 295

Why Guys In Their 20s Let Us Down ft. Timothy Goodman

On today’s episode, I sit down with Timothy Goodman, artist and author of “I Always Think It’s Forever.” We discuss why shorter relationships burn more, why he is a recovering misogynist, how he was set up with his girlfriend, what it was like dating his friend for 40 days, why guys in their 20s let us down, people’s assumptions on long term couples who aren’t engaged, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss outdated dating tropes and traditions. Buy Timothy’ book https://www.a...

Feb 26, 202356 minEp. 294

What Men Struggle With The Most When It Comes To Dating ft. Blaine Anderson

On today’s episode, I sit down with Blaine Anderson, a dating coach for men. Blaine and I discuss the craziest thing a man has said to her in a dating session, the male perspective on dating, meeting her husband at a workout class, what women would be surprised to hear that men struggle with, why a woman’s age is equivalent to a man’s height, what men learn from their exes, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the most overrated and underrated sex positions, women who make m...

Feb 19, 20231 hr 2 minEp. 293

How To Stop Dating Fuckboys ft. Anna Kai

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Anna Kai, the mastermind who decided to mix Get Ready With Me videos with her own dating stories. Anna and I discuss meeting her husband on Bumble, if it’s possible for your standards to be too high, the dating lessons she learned the hard way, how she stopped dating fuckboys and found the one, her advice for getting out of your head when dating, not having sex before exclusivity, why she doesn’t think women should offer to pay on dates, and so much more...

Feb 16, 202356 minEp. 292

Men Don't Fall In Love The Same Way Women Do

On today’s solo episode, we are deep diving into “The Rules Revisited,” a misogynist blog written by an idiot. We go over various blog posts of his like: why you should ask for feedback after a break up, ways that men misunderstand women, how Katy Perry is brainwashing women, why you can’t get the men you want, the importance of silence after a break up, men don’t fall in love the same way women do, how to make yourself approachable, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endor...

Feb 12, 202344 minEp. 291

What Really Happened With Suitman ft. Sofia Franklyn

On today’s episode, I sit back down with former co-host of Call Her Daddy and current host of Sofia With An F, Sofia Franklyn. We discuss what went wrong in her relationship with Suitman, if they had a trauma bond, why they stopped having sex, questioning if the break up was right, how Alex’s betrayal messed up her view of female friendship, why she doesn’t think her former co-host is happy, klonopin dependence, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisem...

Feb 05, 202350 minEp. 290

Why You Shouldn’t Get Married Before You’re 30 ft. Alice Bell

On today’s episode, I sit down with Alice Bell, Vogue’s resident astrologer and author of Trust Your Timing. We discuss where to start if you want to get into astrology, what to look for in your partner’s chart, how Saturn return affects us, what our parent’s signs have to do with ours, not connecting with your sun sign, compatibility beliefs she agrees with, astrology myths, how to know when we’ll marry, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to know breaking up was right...

Jan 29, 202359 minEp. 289

Do Men Marry The Person In Front Of Them? Ft. Kim and Grandma Gail

On today’s episode, I sit down with Kim and Grandma Gail from Excuse My Grandma podcast. We discuss if men marry who is in front of them, how important or not important timing is, Gail’s advice Kim doesn’t agree with, how they got so close, the biggest lesson Kim learned from Grandma Gail, Why Grandma Gail thinks you shouldn’t go out “with the boys,” what rules apply to all generations, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I only think you should get a man candy for vale...

Jan 22, 202354 minEp. 288

How Marriage Changes A Relationship ft. Victoria Garrick Browne

On today’s bonus episode, I virtually sit down with former D1 athlete and host of Real Pod Victoria Garrick Browne. We discuss changing your last name, being "mature" for your age, how to get to a good place with your body, her story getting together with her now husband , unlearning toxic relationship patterns, Taylor Swift, being sensitive about your partner's eating habits, and how marriage changes a relationship. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements ...

Jan 19, 202353 minEp. 287

A Complete List Of Red Flags

On today’s full solo episode, I list all and any red flags when you’re dating someone new or more seriously dating. But don’t worry, we end on a good note with green flags! Then, I discuss how to get deep with a partner and give some sample questions you can ask each other in order to do so. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services refe...

Jan 15, 202355 minEp. 286

What Happens After You Get Sober ft. Sarah Levy

On today’s episode, I sit down (again) with Sarah Levy, my friend and now published author of Drinking Games. We discuss green flags she saw with her now husband, moving for a partner, making new friends when you move to a new place, being sober at your wedding. how her and her husband split finances, how to create financial freedom, how to bring up sobriety to future kids, what happens after you get sober, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to become a high value pers...

Jan 08, 202353 minEp. 285

Would You Date Someone You Don’t Want To Marry? ft. Ella Rose McFadin

On today’s episode, I sat down with content creator Ella Rose McFadin. We discuss breaking up with someone when you live together, green (and yellow) flags in her current relationship, why her boyfriend was slower to make things official, sister dynamics when you have a similar job, tea from influencer trips, overcoming insecurity, her style icon, the worst thing she’s read about herself, what she doesn’t show online, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss 90/10 in its...

Jan 01, 202346 minEp. 284

The Rules For Relationships (And Marriage) ft. Sherrie Schneider

On today’s episode, I sit down (again!) with Sherrie Schneider, author of The Rules and The Rules For Marriage. We discuss the rules for relationships, the rules for marriage, rules I disagree with, why some rules stand the test of time, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the marriage rules, why the holidays can be hard, not having New Year’s Eve plans, dealing with annoying family members, and how to turn someone down in person (especially at a work event!). Sherr...

Dec 25, 202256 minEp. 283

What A Healthy Relationship Looks Like ft. Hannah Brown

On today’s episode, I virtually sat down with Hannah Brown, former Bachelorette and upcoming star of Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test. We discuss learning to trust yourself again after making the wrong decision, how she met her partner Adam, why they decided to do couples therapy, her engagement timeline, why and how her relationship now is different than her relationships in her past, Hannah’s advice for getting over someone but having to watch them move on, and so much more. This episode ...

Dec 18, 202256 minEp. 282

The Best Relationships Come To Those Who Wait

On today’s solo bonus episode, I talk all about why the best relationships come to those who wait. I also read listener submitted stories of finding their love later on, and share them with you guys. This is a feel good episode that I hope makes you feel as happy as I was recording it :) Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred...

Dec 15, 202256 minEp. 281

Is The Third Relationship The Charm? ft. Carly Kremer

On today’s episode, I sit down with Carly Kremer, founder of Beekeeper’s Naturals. We discuss why she decided to give her husband a chance after unmatching with him, how to determine if persistence is creepy vs. if it's attractive, leaving corporate America to start a company, if dating is on the back burner while building a business, how to find your niche, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss falling down the stairs on Thanksgiving, why it's creepy if guys don't announce t...

Dec 11, 20221 hr 7 minEp. 280

It’s Not You, It’s Your Avoidant Partner ft. Chris Rackliffe

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down (again!) with Chris Rackliffe, an anxious attachment style coach. We discuss the telltale signs that you're in an anxious-avoidant dynamic, how to make an anxious-avoidant relationship work, how someone with an avoidant attachment style can learn to open up, learning to appreciate periods of both space and closeness in your relationship, busting the myth that attachment styles are gender-specific, examples of anxious-avoidant couples in pop culture, and m...

Dec 04, 202253 minEp. 279

So This Is Why I’m Sober

TRIGGER WARNING: drugs and alcohol/addiction. On today’s solo episode, I talk all about sobriety. Why I’m sober, going to social events sober, dating sober, how to support a sober partner, what to say when people ask why you don’t drink, how it has affected my life, signs and symptoms of an alcoholic, mocktails I like, telling Steven about my sobriety, my wedding sober, what to say to a friend who needs to get sober, how my body changed without alcohol, and more. Sponsors: Talkspace.com code ACM...

Nov 27, 202248 minEp. 278

Navigating Different Argument Styles In A Relationship ft. Mimi Bouchard

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with the founder of Superhuman App, Mimi Bouchard. We discuss long term relationships, moving with a partner, navigating different argument styles in a relationship, manifesting wealth and abundance, how meditation can transform your life, how to become the person you want to be, physical symptoms that manifest when your energy is off, how to intuitively eat, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how we go about finances in my marriage...

Nov 20, 202258 minEp. 277

How To Get A Man To Stay Loyal ft. Iskra and Philip

On today’s episode, I got to hang out with Iskra and Philip from Coupleish. We discuss how they met, adapting to a surprise baby, how to get men to stay loyal, why the guy needs to love the girls more, dating when emotionally unavailable, fears before having a child, if having children can change you, why financial security is crucial as a woman, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Love is Blind and my episode with Steven. 1:00-6:30 min - Love In Blind 10:30-End - Iskra &am...

Nov 17, 20221 hr 1 minEp. 276

My Husband’s Thoughts On The Rules

On today’s episode, I finally sit down with my husband Steven. We discuss his take on the rules, his perspective on our first date, if we would have gone out again if I didn’t text him after date 1, first impressions, his worst date story, if he feels our relationship is too public, what it’s like dating someone sober, how to know if guys need a nudge when dating, why he’s ghosted people in the past, what it was like asking my parents to marry me, what life is like not being on Instagram, and mo...

Nov 13, 20221 hr 9 minEp. 275

Should We Be Eating More Ass? Ft. Danielle Carolan and Brooke Miccio

On today’s episode, I sit down with Danielle Carolan and Brooke Miccio from Gals On The Go podcast. We discuss how they met their boyfriends, navigating friendship and working together, their sex lives, friendship jealousy, why they don’t live with their SO’s, what dating rules they’ve followed, eating ass, regrets from early career moments, their biggest regrets in choosing to live publicly, how they would describe each other’s aesthetic, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discus...

Nov 06, 20221 hr 8 minEp. 274

Signs You May Be Dating The Wrong Person ft. John Kim and Vanessa Bennett

On today’s episode, I sit down with John Kim, LMFT and Vanessa Bennett, LMFT. We discuss introverts dating extroverts, the major signs you may be dating the wrong person, getting your partner to adhere to your love language, what to do if your relationship can’t handle growth, why not fighting is a huge red flag, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the 5 things I’ve learned in 5 years of WMAA, and Midnights. Sponsors: Download the Match app today! Athleticgreens.com/acme fo...

Oct 30, 20221 hr 4 minEp. 273

What Does It Really Mean To Live Together? ft. Cyrus Veyssi

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Cyrus Veyssi. We discuss how important family support is, how they became so comfortable being queer, why they respond to their haters, what they were like growing up, why gender isn’t rigid, their meet cute with their partner, the difference between coming out today and coming out years ago, if it’s “trendy” to be gender fluid, living with a partner but not being ready for engagement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why my pare...

Oct 23, 20221 hr 9 minEp. 272

The 7 Traits Of Emotional Fitness ft. Dr. Emily Anhalt

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Dr. Emily Anhalt. Emily is the founder of COA (we can link it https://www.joincoa.com/ ) and host of the podcast Emotionally Fit With Dr. Emily Anhalt. We discuss the 7 traits of emotional fitness, how we know if our mental health is in the right place to date, imposter syndrome, trusting our gut if we have mental health struggles, dealing with a partner who doesn’t take therapy seriously, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss forgivi...

Oct 20, 202259 minEp. 271

How Nick Went From No To Yes ft. Nick Viall and Natalie Joy

On today’s episode, I sit down with Nick Viall and Natalie Joy. We discuss what Natalie said when she slid into Nick’s DMs, why Nick repeatedly shut Natalie down, if it’s true the worse the relationship the more it’s on instagram, their biggest insecurities, their engagement timeline, if a girl can change a guy’s mind about proposing, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss meeting SO’s friends if you don’t drink, how to act when you run into an ex, what to do if you missed a k...

Oct 16, 20221 hr 10 minEp. 270

How To Overcome Cheating ft. Oliver and Erinn Hudson

On today’s episode, I sit down with Oliver and Erinn Hudson. We discuss the story of how they met, being friendly with exes, the struggle with meeting the right person in your early 20s, what it means when people say marriage is work, recent fights we've had with our partners, dating opposites, the Hoffman process, pet peeves, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I didn’t love the day of my birthday, my acupuncture mishap, DFA syndrome, and what to talk about on later da...

Oct 09, 20221 hr 16 minEp. 269
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