Pamela & Jason - Am I Dating a Serial Killer?

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Pamela is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater and she thinks that our boyfriend of a year named Jason might be messing around. So we'll see if we can help her out. Pamela, Sorry, you're going through it, but why do you think Jason's cheating?

So we have been together a year, me and Jason, and we got together though because we have a mutual foot friend.

That that him up with me, and.

So our mutual friend very much knows that, like he was in a pretty serious relationship before me, he was still getting over his acts for quite some time after they were together, and so it was only after when he felt like he was over her and ready.

To move on that she kind of set us up together.

So it definitely wasn't like a rebound, but you know, I obviously know he was ready to move on, but there clearly was an act that they split very amicably and like they got along. It wasn't nasty, and so you know, I was at peace with that, and so we started dating and it's actually been really fun, like we're getting a long fantastic He honestly has the biggest heart I've ever met in any human being ever. Like, you know, he'll just drop everything in a moment's notice

Of random.

Or like salmon.

No, yeah, not locks like salmon, like door lock.

And at first, okay, I'm like maybe our own home, like changing a lot, I don't know. And then another receipt recently was for a brand new phone. He's already got a phone and he's never seen didn't tell me anything about that. I feel like, I think that's pretty big, like if you think changing his phone like new number.

And then the one that really started worrying.

Me and creeping me out is that he had a receipt that had like a stun gun and pepper.

Spray, Like what the fuck?

It's weird?

Yeah, like why he's he's not a small dude, Like why is he buying a stun gun and a pepper spray? He can take care of himself, Like we work and live in a fairly nice like pretty nice neighborhood, and it's we don't hang out with other Like I don't know of him hanging out with any other girls who would need these things, So like they were just very random to me.

So I did. I will say I did.

Have the guts to kind of like ask him at least courage enough about the locks.

I started with just the locks.

You didn't start.

I'll tell you why I started with the locks because I tried to be like, okay, the locks would pertain to both of us, like are we changing locks or we just getting the first start new keys. I figured I'd start with the locks because that could kind of look like something that I would also deal with.

I have to get a new.

Set of keys, okay, And like he completely dodged the question and then brush it off as it was nothing.

So definitely didn't.

Make it clear that it was going to be for us, so he like dodged it. So I'm like, okay, so now these locks aren't even for us. You know the way he looked at me when I asked him, I definitely felt the need to instantly stop talking about it. So again, not per sue that I was afreed, I just it made me very suspicious. He acted really weird, and he had this very stern look of just like, do not bring this up, and so I dropped it.

But now you know.

In my OCD mind, my paranoia has kicked over. And so now I'm like, and I did I fall in love with a serial killer or.

Something right right?

Yeah, yeah, because I was not thinking cheating as you're telling this story. I was like, is he gonna kidnap somebody? Does he have like a dungeon? I did just watch a movie like this last night? Yeah I did. But do you think he might be cheating because of it?

I just feel like that's kind of something sweet, Like I feel like when he first met me, because like he's all about, like, you know, safety, Like I remember he even gave me like a pepper spray, just being like, oh, you know, all girls definitely need one. So I feel like it's like kind of like grove me, like, hey, I like you, I want to keep you safe. Yeah, I don't know.

I just found it extremely weird.

You already told us what grocery store.

He's a rewards card, remember at So we'll play a song come Back, and then call and pretend to be from the grocery store and say that he's this month's big lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our flural department, and we'll see if he sends those to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, well thank you, yep, all right, we'll play a song come back, and get your to

Yeah.

So, been with my guy for about a year, living with.

Him the last two months, and I saw some really weird receipts in his office, just getting things like, yeah, like new locks in the gun gun and like and mace and just really weird. And I asked him about the locks and he acted weird, and he got me a little mace when we first started dating. So I just think that he's like treating some other girl to a little protection package.

I don't know Jason protection package. Okay, shoot, that's funny. Sorry, sorry, I hope he's not all right. Are you ready for us to call him?

Yeah?

Okay, here we go.

Hello.

Hey, this is horrible calling from who was looking for a Rewards Card member named Jason.

This is he.

Hey, Jason, how you doing? Guess what?

This is not a marketing phone call. You're this month's big winner. Congratulations.

Oh awesome?

What did I What have I won?

Oh?

You've won the flowers. Maybe you didn't know.

Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member at random to say thank you very much for shopping with us. You've just won thirty six long stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want with in the fifty United States. It's actually a three hundred and sixteen dollars value.

Super cool.

Congratulations.

Here's how we're so, I can take the information in a matter of minutes over the phone.

I'm prepared to do that right now. If you already know who you want to send him to, we.

Can do it right now.

Yeah.

Well, we'll start the first and last name of the person and then I will get if anything, if you want to put anything on a card, and then we can get the address.

Let's send it out to Jessica.

Jessica. Yes, got you. Would you like to put anything on a card to Jessica?

Yeah, let's I'm sorry.

I promise I'll never make you cry like that again.

And you're the best.

Well, great, thank you very much, Jason. And at this point I'll let you know that this is actually the Jewbill Show. It's a radio show. My name is Jewbel.

Yeah, Hi, I'mina.

Hi, I'm Victoria, and we do a segment called to Catch a Cheater where if your significant other things you might be cheating, they see who you send flowers to, and your girlfriend Pamela is on the phone.

Oh god, okay, yeah, hi han Hi babe.

Who the hell is Jessica? Oh god, I can explain.

Yeah, obviously you're going to explain right now. You're gonna explain, because who the hell is she?

Somebody?

You know, you don't just spend that nice of a gift, by the way, to somebody who's not your girlfriend. I don't know anyone in your family named of Jessica.

Who's Jessica well, yeah, I get it made. I know it looks weird, but there's I promise there is a reason what it looks real bad. All right, so's she's a coworker.

Great, Oh that's even okay.

So I'm assuming, so you're getting her flowers and you're giving her.

A bunch of other gifts and the things apparently so great.

So she's a coworker, so you're you're you're sending a coworker, a woman this great.

Gift when you have an option to give a free gift.

And I'm assuming that's also the person that you're sending all these gifts to that you know. And by gifts, I mean the weird receipts I saw in your office. So that means you're giving random what pepper spray? You're what a stun guy, I don't know, what creepy what phones lacks? So you can have a double life, so you can just like have a sugar up mom on the side that I don't all about.

No, oh god, no, no, not at all. There really is a reasonable explanation for all of this.

There's an explanation for stun guns and yeah, all that stuff, and then sending flowers to somebody else named Jessica that you work with.

There really is there really is a real explanation for this, And Babe, if you'll just if you'll just let me explain, I promise it will make sense. You know that the group of guys at work were always like pranking each other and doing bets, and it just gets bigger and bigger. So a few weeks ago, they got this idea that we would do a bet and whoever lost the bet had to.

Be paid and pepper sprayed.

Why no, they're all idiots, Okay, so I will.

Dudes pepper spray. How did Jessica play into this?

I don't understand that happened, and one of the guys lost, Thank goodness, I didn't lose, but I and bear in mind, like I did not. I was not on board. I didn't think this was a great idea, but I got elected to be the one to hold the pepper spray, and so like I had never actually like I've seen you know, I've I've handled pepper spray before, but I

So you pepper sprayed, My.

Pepper sprayed, and my female co workers.

Were you not fired?

So all the payday So yeah, she has been like so great. I felt so I mean, she had like tears just running down. It was like such a trooper and I felt terrible. Uh so, like, yeah, we got her cleaned up and I have apologized every day since it happened.

But when the flowers came up, I thought, you know, probably just the good things smooth things over a little bit further, and so yeah, that's that's what happened. Wow.

Wow, all that stupid crap was literally bought because of it, Like all your stupid pranks with your the things.

You do with these coworkers. I cannot believe it. And then the flowers are for I still don't understand the locks though.

I just got those for the house man.

Yeah.

We had talked about getting new locks a while back, and it took me a while to get around to it, I know, but uh yeah, that was just that was just the house.

To protect them from Jessica.

Like, honestly, babe, this is the stupidest thing ever do you realize for a second, I thought, like, still, I thought you were like a weird I don't know what I thought.

I thought you were you cheating or you were just like a weirdo. What were you? You have to stop saying yes to every frank.

If I had, you know, if I had seen the same things, I probably would have thought that'd be bad to you.

So like, I don't blame you.

So no, absolutely nothing going on there others being a bunch of stupid dudes. And of course I would never cheat on you. I love you and I am so happy to be doing life with you.

That's sweet. Start telling me these things.

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