Leigh & Tom - Hair Ties & Romantic Gestures

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Lee is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Tom for two years now, but all of a sudden, she thinks something's going on, So we'll see if we can help her out.

Lee.

Sorry that you're going through this, but what's up. Why do you think Tom might be cheating on you?

First of all, he's just like a great guy, So I just want to put that out there.

I never in a million years, but I think that I pe'd be cheating.

But I'm trying to stay calm if there's been too many flags lately.

A little background real quick.

We met in college, so like he's been following me around ever since. He's a sweet, sweet guy and literally one of the like one of those top notch guys who will drop anything just to be there for me.

You know. He makes me feel.

Special like all the things, and honestly, like it just all feels like a big switch in my brain.

And yeah, so basically.

I've been trying to keep myself in check, like really considering all the other ways that men have cheating me over the years, and he's not like that and try not to read into this because I don't know about you, but like I've had a series of cheating, toxic men, and like Tom never giving me a pause to think that. But anyway, we don't we don't live together. We've been together for two years, but like at this point we might as well. Like I'm always over at his place, and in the.

Last few weeks, I've noticed a shift that Tom hasn't been coming home as much as he used to, or to my place as much as he used to, Like he's just out more.

And he's told me that he has like a lot.

Of work that he needs to get done and that he'll call later, but like sometimes he doesn't even call me at night, which is like it's.

A big switch.

I would say, like the norm has always been he used to call honestly, like sometimes call her text every hour, and now it's like hard.

To get a hold of him. That was like the first bump.

Yeah, And then there's also this this thing where he's just like saying he needs me time, and when I call him out, I'm like not being around so much, And.

How does he say the mean time thing? Like is it like get off my back and need nice about it.

He's nice about it. It just seems to be happening a lot, happening a lot lately. Like I I believe ye, Like I'm not some kind of monster, and I don't expect him to like be there on the drop of a hat or you know, every second every day, but it's just something that's new and it's happening more consistently.

So that made my stomach drop.

He works from home, he doesn't have female friends, doesn't have he doesn't like take coworkers, you know, he's not over with coworkers' places.

Like I brought it up.

I was like, hey, what's this like, trying to keep my cool and be chill, and he like kind of stammered, and he was like, it's nice.

It's my sister's And so I.

Feels so eagy like sharing this out loud because I think I've been in denial about it, but like that has stuck with me.

So I when I went to throw.

I'm like laughing, like I can't. I can't make this stuff up. I went to throw that hair tie out, and I noticed a receipt for like a really nice restaurant that we have the two of us have never been to. And that receipt like was over one hundred dollars. Looks like for a dinner for two. And that doesn't seem like me time to me.

You know.

Yeah, And I saw you guys like the clip of Catch a Cheater on TikTok.

I like my gut was like I should just be emailing you guys for help.

Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards member at, so we'll do the usual. We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store and tell him that he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those see you where to somebody else? Okay, Okay, thanks guy, all right, we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your to Catch a Cheater next. If you're

Yeah? And Tom is a sweetheart. We've been together for two years.

We don't live together, but we spent a lot of time with each other, and I recently noticed a couple of things like him wanting more me time, not not reaching out as much at nighttime.

And I found a girl's hairtie in the car that is.

Definitely not mine, and a receipt for a really expensive restaurant that we have not been to together.

Yeah, that hair tie and receipt definitely say yeah, all right, are you ready.

For us to call him?

Yeah?

Okay, okay, here we go.

Hello, Hi, this is Corbyn calling from I was looking for our Rewards card.

Member named Tom. Yeah, yeah, that's me, Hi, Tom, Please don't hang up.

This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations, you're this month's lucky Winter.

Thank you so much for shopping with us. We're clapping it up for you over here.

What do I win?

Well, every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered from our new and improved for Ald apartments. So you've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want with in the fifty United States, absolutely free.

Wow. Yeah, that's crazy than you.

Yeah, that's awesome.

So if you know who you want to send them to right now, I'm prepared to do that over the phone.

We can get it go out now.

Great.

The first thing I would need to be the first and the last name of the person you'd like to send the flowers to.

Yeah, it's Lee, Lee, Yes, L E, L E, I G.

H okay, and anything you want to put on a card to Lee.

Yeah, say I know that, I know I've been distant lately, and these flowers are to say and I'm sorry. Okay, we should talk later. So I have some things I need to confess. I do love you.

Please know that I've got that on there and uh great. At this point, I'm going to have to let you know that this is not the grocery store at all.

Tom, I'm sorry.

This is actually the Jewell Show.

It's a radio show and we do a segment called to Catch a Cheater where if you think you're significant other is cheating, you see who they send flowers to, and your girlfriend Lee is actually on the phone.

Are you kidding me right now? Are you kidding me right now? What? What are you?

What is it?

What is this message? What is it? Are you trying to say?

Wait?

Nothing?

Nothing, it's nothing bad, It's nothing bad. It's great.

You want to look because what do you need to come fast? What do you need to consu.

It's not it's it's not it's not anything bad. It's I promise you it's it's I'm I'm I'm not cheating on you.

Well, I found a hair tie. You remember when I found a hairtie in the car and you're like, it's your sisters And it wasn't your sisters. I could tell I'm not an idiot? What is that what was that?

So guess what. Guess what? Guess what?

Tom, I found a receipt. I found your respipt for your fancy restaurant was like one hundred and fifty bucks somewhere. It was in the trash. So you're not even you're being messy. You're messy right now?

What is going on?

Don't you do that?

Please just tell me, Please listen to me.

I'm I. I love you. I love you so much. I would have never cheat on you, but you did. You did I did it? No, No, it's okay, okay. Look I I've been wanting to move in with you for so long and I think that that is the next step that we should take. And I it sounds, it sounds so stupid, but I've been I don't. I don't feel good that I don't. I don't make a whole lot of money and you know that, and that like I don't. I don't feel good about that.

I know you don't care, but I don't.

I don't.

I don't feel good.

And I know that my knee time has seen suss in it and it has been I've been doing a lot of it. I and I am I'm so sorry, and yeah, that the hairtie the receipt. Of course, you think that I'm cheating, but I'm literally, I'm just ubering, like I'm trying. I'm trying to make extra cash, like I'm just I'm trying to grind so we can afford an actual nice place. Like I'm ubering, I'm uber eating the hairties.

Probably.

I had to pick these drunk girls up the other night, and they were there were too many people that they said, I mean, the one of them had to sit in the passenger seat.

She kept sussing with my radio the whole time.

Oh my god, I love you.

Oh my god, I mean you said, I'm like, that's that's dumb for not telling me this in the first place.

That part.

You this, I don't I don't you know. I don't care how much money you make.

I'd rather have quality time with you and you, first of all, you're being honest about this stuff, and like the quality time and stiff killing you running around trying to make end me, like killing yourself with work, like I'm not into that. You just Oh my god, dude, are you serious?

That's what's.

Sorry?

Why did you feel like you had to lie?

Tom? Seriously, I thought that everything.

It would be easier when like we finally talked about it and talk about moving in. I thought it would just be easier if I had everything ready to go already. Then it didn't like wait on it, it didn't have to be like a long thing.

Well, at least you know he's not cheating.

Yeah, no, I'm I mean, I'm relieved about that.

But honestly, Tom, I like you never like, don't confascinate anything like that, like the way you wrote that note on the flowers, like come on, seriously, sorry, oh my god.

Would received it from one of the people in the car.

Not to poke holes in your story, Tom, I just just want to make sure we're clear.

Probably, I like, they fly off all the time, and I've been trying to I mean, like I have been trying to cover it up. I've been trying to like clean up my car and make sure that nobody's there. But that's probably It's always one in an order, Tho. I had to kick out the other day.

All right, Well, yay, he's not cheating.

Yeah. And also Tom, it sounds like you can stop doing uber eats and ubering people places now.

Oh my god, you are too much. I am I honestly am relieved.

I love you so much, like, please just be real with me, and like yeah, I can't wait to live with you too.

Oh, they're gonna live together.

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