Andrew & Kristen - Grindin’ For Work

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Kristen is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater and she thinks that her husband of two years named Andrew might be messing around. So we'll see if we can help her out. Kristin, sorry, you have to come on the show this way, but what's going on? Why do you think Andrew's cheating?

You know, thanks have been great in our relationship, other than this conversation that I had.

With a friend of mine a while back. His name is Max. We were having brunch.

It wasn't even that long ago.

It was like a week ago, and I guess I have to say you gay.

So he found something on his phone and he said, oh, I really have to talk to.

You about this, And so I was like, okay, great, I was in stuff without Okay, let's just go to brunch. Matt showed me Pat Andrew is on Grinder.

Oh yeah, and.

If anybody doesn't know, Grinder is a dating site where guys meet other guys.

About that it's the same sex dating site.

Yeah yeah.

And then my husband's on it. And Max told me that he tried to match with Andrew just to see what he was doing, but.

He either didn't see it or you know, knew that.

He should have matched with him because they hate and respond.

Did he have or does he have like a detailed profile, so he's got his photo? Does is everything filled out?

So on his profile it said that he was in a relationship. I don't know why you would be on a dating app if you were in a relationship, obviously, but then you would say.

It, you know, like it's just weird. Wouldn't you lie about that?

Well, it's kind of more of a hookup app.

I believe it's like the tender.

Oh yeah, essentially, so it's like it's for hooking up. But would you want to hook up with someone that's on like in a relationship?

People do it all the time. We personally no, but it happens all the time.

But would you like swipe right on someone who's in Like That's what I don't get, Like, why would you put that in your you're in a relationship?

Because that way you don't have any strings attached. There's not gonna be no problems. You can just have a transaction and not worry about what happens later.

And I'm guessing you haven't asked him about this.

No, not yet.

I didn't.

I didn't know what to do because I mean, you know, if he is closeted, I want to.

Know, yeah really, and he hasn't.

Ever said anything about wanting to try something with another guy or being unhappy or anything like. I didn't know just how to go about confronting him with this. But it's not even like it's just he's cheating, but now he may want to be with a man.

So I just I didn't know. I emailed you it.

I don't want to figure out what's going on.

Would you be open if he wanted to have both?

I don't know if I'm ready to think about that yet.

Yeah I haven't. I'm not.

Yeah, yeah, okay, good point.

Yeah.

So do you think his friends know about this? Do you think anybody else knows about this other than your friend?

I don't know. I know if he had.

He doesn't really have any friends that are gay that would be on the app to see that I do, which is interesting because he knows that I have gay.

Friends that are on Grinder.

So I don't know how he could not have said of this if he's going to be so defitful, could.

Someone be using his picture I've known sometimes it's like catfishing.

Like, but it's got information about him, like the town he lives in, that he's a real tour like, it is info on it. So I mean that would have to be a very convincing soccer.

Yeah, somebody who knows him right to know that. Okay, well, yeah, we'll try to figure it out for you. You already told us what grocery store. You guys are Rewards card members. That's so play a song come Back, and then call him and pretend to be from the grocery store and say that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards Card member who gets three flowers delivered from.

Our flooral department. We'll see these things, will see you or to somebody else.

Okay, Okay, I play song Comeback, could get your catch cheater?

Next, if you're just joining us for today, is to catch a cheater.

Kristen is on the phone and she thinks that her husband of two years named Andrew might be messing around. So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards Card member at and say that every single month, we choose one rewards card member who gets three flowers delivered from our floor department, and we'll see if he sends

Gosh, if I've been married like you said, and my friend Max took me to brunch the other day. He's active on Grinder and said that what he showed me that my husband has a profile on Grinder that I obviously didn't know about.

Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal.

Yeah, definitely a little bit alarming.

Uh huh, all right, are you ready for us to call him?

Ready as I'll ever be?

Yeah, here we go.

Hello.

Hi, this is Corporal calling from SO. I was looking for our rewards card member named Andrew.

That's me speaking.

Yeah, what can I.

Help you with?

Andrew? Hello, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

I'm actually calling to say congratulations here this month's winter.

Thank you so much for your business. And here's some talking over here.

Yeah what I didn't enter anything?

Congratulations, No, you won the flowers?

Oh okay, tell me more.

Every single month, we choose one Rewards card member to say thank you very much for being such a loyal customer. You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.

Wow, that's really nice for you guys. Thank you.

Okay, I can take the information over the phone. What I would need to do is just get some information from you. I can do that right now.

If you have it, I can do it over the phone totally. I got a second great.

First thing from you would be the first and last name of the person he'd like to send them to.

That would be Kristen.

Alrighty. And anything you want to write on a card.

Uh yeah, just something simple like love you baby, see you to night.

Oh that's sweet. I'm the same last name there is?

That?

Your your wife?

Yeah, that's my wife.

How long has I married?

I would have married for two years.

Okay, Well, now I'll let you know that this is not a grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell and I'm from a radio show. It's called The Jewbell Show. Yeah, the whole show's here. I'm Nina, and I'm Victoria.

I'm sorry. What.

Yes, we do a segment on the show called to Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might be messing around, we can try to catch them by who they send flowers to and your wife.

I don't think my wife is cheating on me now, Oh yeah, not that.

She suspects that you might be doing something and she's actually on the phone wants to talk to you.

This is really straight, Babe. You there, Hi?

Yeah, I'm here.

Hi.

Oh my god, Hi. I wouldn't, baby, I would never, ever, in a million years cheat on you. Are you? What? What are you thinking?

What?

Why? Why do you think I'm cheating on you?

Okay, So remember how I went to brunch with Max the other week. Yeah, he showed me your profile, Andrew, I.

Don't understand which profile are you talking about? Facebook? Instagram?

The grinder? The grinder?

Okay, Oh my god, I get it.

I get it. I completely get it. Wait did did he did he try to match with me? Yeah? I have to figure out what you were up to? Oh my god. Oh I didn't see his request.

I just honestly should have would have been hilarious, honey, babe, I am not gay and I am not cheating and full transparency.

I am sorry I didn't tell you about this earlier. So a colleague of mine told me about real estate agents finding clients on these dating websites and dating apps.

What really? Hell?

Yes? No, No, it's completely like just for networking. There is no relationship, no dating, no sex involved, just potential clients and I legitimately just wanted to try it out and also full transparency. I'm on bumble and hinge too.

People do do that.

People do do that like it's like a marketing place now is crazy.

I don't understand. Do they have to put a disclaimer on the pod?

No?

They match with people and then when they start messaging, it's like you promote whatever you want to promote.

That doesn't feel right, But I don't think i'd want you to be my realtor. If I also try to hook up with you.

It could be spent.

But you know, oh okay, they why would you tell me that.

I'll be honest, it's it was a weird way of just introducing you to it, and I didn't know if there was actually going to go anywhere with some of these potential clients. It actually has in a completely professional real estate centric way. Really, and yes, I've actually got sold a few properties based off matches I've had on a Hinge Bumble as yet to hit and Grinder I think twice. And I can show you these when I get home. Like, I feel free to go through my

I'm sorry to ask this question, Andrew. I'd never heard of this before. So do the people that match with you understand that you're not trying to date them, that you're just trying to sell them?

Yes, they do understand that, maybe not right away, like a few people have tried to flirt with me, but I very quickly and like address what I'm looking for, which is very consensual sales.

Also an ego boost. He's getting matched with all these people that are initially attracted to you. Okay, Andrew, Sales, I.

Don't really want you like talking with other women who want to sleep with you.

I don't know about that.

I hear you. I hear you, and I can show you my opening line, which is always I am not here for anything romantic or physical that includes verbiage like that in there. I make it very clear from the get go that none of this is to lead or can ever lead to anything romantic or physical. I promise you. Okay, Look, there's nothing to worry about from the money that I've been getting from this. I have actually been keeping well surprised from you, but I guess I can tell you here.

Well, congratulations, Kristin, he's not cheating. He is on the dating apps and you get I guess you have to prove to you that he's just there for real estate, but you also get to go to France.

Yeah, congratulations.

Wait when are we going to France?

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