Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle? In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, welcome to Volume 2 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode. Swinger Questions Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 2 episode. Swinger Hotel Takeovers, what room type? How much is to...
Mar 14, 2022•38 min•Ep. 146
Have you ever considered hosting a sex party? Hosting a Sex Party A lot of effort and thought goes into hosting a sex party, the location, the right mix of people, what theme to have, drinks / food / music and more. In this episode we use the Swingers Help Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties as our base, we explore the chapters in the guide and talk through how we would approach hosting a sex party or swingers house party. We share your thoughts on what the most important thing is about sex part...
Feb 24, 2022•55 min•Ep. 145
Wanna know more about Swinging in Nashville? Swinging In Nashville Cate recently took a trip to Palm Springs and Nashville in a mix of business and pleasure. During the Nashville trip Cate visited Red Room Swingers Club Nashville (previously The Theater Group), this is the newest lifestyle / swingers club in Nashville. In this episode Cate shares some news about where they are moving to next, what happened during her trip, a club review of Red Room Swingers Club Nashville and some litrotica all ...
Feb 14, 2022•49 min•Ep. 144
Have you ever broken a rule in the Swinging Lifestyle? We did and today we share all about it. Swinging Rules The lifestyle is full of rules & boundaries, we put them there more often than not to safeguard our relationship but what happens when you break a rule? Today we’re talking about breaking our #1 swinging rule, we’re going to share the ups and downs, the emotional discussion afterwards and what it means for us moving forward. We share some exclusive patreon content that we recorded wi...
Jan 28, 2022•57 min•Ep. 143
Cuckold is a form of NonMonogamy and under the big umbrella of NonMonogamy but what is it really? Cuckold In today's episode we interview the amazing Venus Cuckoldress from the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast as well as the CEO and creator of Venus Connections a match making site just for people interested in cuckold Join us for a deeper look into the world of cuckold from people who are living the lifestyle! After our interview with Venus we talk with Travis who identifies as a cuck, Travis takes us ...
Jan 12, 2022•54 min•Ep. 142
Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle? In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, we're calling this Volume 1 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode. Swinger Questions Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 1 episode. Implied consent at Cap D'Agde and Dark Playroom...
Dec 29, 2021•46 min•Ep. 141
Have you ever shared your sexual fantasies with your partner? What if your sexual fantasy is narcissistic or you're a bit ashamed of it. Sexual Fantasy In this episode Cate shares a new sexual fantasy with Darrell and they talk about what makes a women feel desired, how this might impact flirting at swinging lifestyle events & why we change ourselves in sexual fantasies. We talk through the fantasy and reveal how it makes Cate feel, we follow up with some of your responses to your own sexual...
Dec 20, 2021•52 min•Ep. 140
Cate goes Solo and talks about Podcast-A-Palooza Encore Dallas in a PCAP Recap Episode What are the highlights and lowlights of a Swingers Event? Firstly we start off with a cultural tid bit about prostitution in Turkey as Cate gets caught in a 24 hour layover in the Istanbul airport. Then get ready for the highlights and lowlights of Podcast-A-Palooza Encore held in Dallas, Texas this November 2021. This was a 3 night 4 day full hotel takeover with 76 couples on site and 5 podcast hosts. Cate s...
Dec 01, 2021•52 min•Ep. 139
There are certain things that exist in sex, sexuality and the swinging lifestyle that just don’t make me wanna go hmmmmmm….. things that are supposed to be sexy but I’m just not that into it. Things that are supposed to be sexy but just... aren't We bust on into some of the things in the swinging lifestyle that are supposed to be sexy, nude sushi ladies, porn in swingers clubs, food related things. We aren't yucking anyone's yum here, you do you but just remember that your turn on or 'sexy' migh...
Oct 28, 2021•33 min•Ep. 138
Why is it that Swinging Women have no type? Why are women so picky when it comes to choosing partners to swing / swap with? Swinging Women Have No Type It is extremely hard to be the right kind of wing person for your significant other when you don’t know their TYPE. Do women actually have a type or is it really all in the personality, in today’s episode we’re going to explore if men and women have a type, what you said about your type and then share OUR types. We share our personal types, the t...
Oct 13, 2021•50 min•Ep. 137
Cap D'Agde is a nudist village in the south of France and home to some of the largest swingers vacations and swingers events in the world. Welcome to part 2 of our swingers vacation at Cap D'Agde Cap D'Agde Part 2 is here! If you haven't yet listened to part 1 of our Cap D'Agde experience make sure you head on over and listen. In this next part we talk about our final few days of our swingers vacation, then we run through some more tips to surviving Cap D'Agde and finally wrap up the episode wit...
Sep 22, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 136
Cap D'Agde Nudist Village & Swinger Mecca has been an unknown destination for too long. We peel back the real Cap D'Agde in our 2 part series Cap D'Agde If you've ever been curious what Cap D'Agde is about or how to find likeminded swingers couples at this predominantly nudist village we're going to walk you through how. Join us in our 2 part series talking about our recent experience at the famous Cap D'Agde takeover by SpicyMatch.com, we dig in and share our first few days on site, navigat...
Sep 11, 2021•49 min•Ep. 135
Do you own your orgasm? Monogamish Marriage helps us dissect how to own your orgasm, close the orgasm gap and be more vocal with your sexual desires and interests. Guest Monogamish Marriage We're joined by Kate & Liam of the Monogamish Marriage Blog, a couple based in Toronto with a swinging lifestyle blog. They share their journey and talk candidly about the orgasm gap that exists in their lifestyle journey and why it might not be such a bad thing. Kate is officially owning her orgasm and w...
Aug 28, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 134
OnlyFans announces that it's banning sexually explicit content from October 1st, 2021. We dig into what we're calling the OnlyFans purge, we give you alternatives to OnlyFans, tips on moving your fans across to your new platform and what you can do now. OnlyFans might be removing sex workers from placing sexually explicit content on the site but there are ways we can work together and smarter before the purge officially starts. Join us as we explore what is happening with OnlyFans, provide some ...
Aug 22, 2021•40 min
Curious what it's like in a Swingers Club? We give a full run down on our time at a Swingers Club here in Croatia called Anaconda Swingers Club, First we hit you with a cultural tid bit on nudism in Rovinj, a few updates to our swinging lifestyle and then we get into the mix talking about this well laid out swingers club. Anaconda Swingers Club This swingers club operates seasonally and we attended a big takeover event at the club with more than 500 people. We run you through what the club looks...
Aug 03, 2021•46 min•Ep. 133
MFM Threesome, Double Penetration and Hotwife Compersion This episode has a little bit of everything! We catch up with our single bull for a hotwife date and double penetration is on the cards but first we talk about what compersion means to us in the hotwife lifestyle. Compersion is supposed to be the opposite of jealousy and a feeling of joy when you see your partner happy. We talk about how there might be a slight imbalance as we're getting ready for our hotwife date. Double Penetration Curio...
Jul 23, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 132
We went to a Swingers Party inside of a Castle right here in Croatia! In this swingers podcast episode we talk about what it's like at this type of swingers party, we run you through this 2 night event with it's ups and downs. There were some swinger fails experienced including some language barriers and miscommunication between us and another couple. We missed an opportunity for swingers play boooo. Cate pauses and discusses how some swingers events or clubs have a dress down requirement at a c...
Jul 12, 2021•49 min•Ep. 131
What is Podcast-A-Palooza? It's a 3 night full swinging lifestyle hotel takeover touring around various cities in the USA. We break down the top 8 WORST and BEST things about attending Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami May 2021. Curious what went wrong and what went right? Attending and running a swinging hotel takeover event is tough work & we wanted to lift the skirt, spill the tea on what it's like at a Podcast-A-Palooza events. Wanna join us at a Podcast-A-Palooza event? Sign up to the newslett...
Jun 25, 2021•49 min•Ep. 130
This episode in Houston we head to an iCandy Party to review what the iCandy Parties are all about. We head to the Alien Invasion iCandy Party and talk about our own Houston meet and greet. Our meet and greet was held at Bang Bang Social Club in Houston, with about 40 couples, Cate talks about hosting on her own with a drunken J from Average Swingers Podcast as well as a very lovely Angie. Saturday we head over to the alien invasion at Colette Houston Swingers Club and to the decked out iCandy P...
Jun 17, 2021•41 min•Ep. 129
The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame. In this episode we are joined by Average Swingers Podcast and John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 and Colette Swingers Clubs. We talk about how the swinging lifestyle has changed and adapted over the years, the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts and public facing lifestyle people. We delve into shame and what impact that has on the lifestyle overall and then we talk about future predictions ...
May 28, 2021•55 min•Ep. 128
We are official vaxxed and waxed and ready to mingle! A swinging unicorn is on the loose in Texas and we talk about a myriad of things in today's episode What is the difference between bisexual and pansexual, our hairdresser brings up the question and ponders if all bisexual people are indeed pansexual. Do you ever experience a 'coming down' after you've had a sexy fantastic swinging experience? We share comments from listeners and talk about our experiences. Finally we share details about what ...
May 14, 2021•53 min•Ep. 127
How to find other swingers? Swingers Dating Sites, Selection Criteria and finding swinging play partners are some common questions asked but... how do these change based on your environment Do you change your desires, wants and criteria when you're searching for a swinging couple on an online swingers dating site versus a club environment? What if you're just after a one night stand or perhaps looking for a more polyamorous or pants on/off friendship. Are you pickier at a club or online? We disc...
Apr 21, 2021•37 min•Ep. 126
What questions do you have about Swinging? Is Swinging 'normal' for our age bracket? What about joining a session at a Swinger club? In this episode we dig into your swinger questions and answer all our recent voicemails, emails, twitter DM's and more. Join in as we answer these swinger questions with our usual Aussie humor and a little bit of sideways stepping. We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podca...
Apr 07, 2021•51 min•Ep. 125
There are many ways to approach the swinging lifestyle and one of the playstyles that some couples have is soft swap. Soft Swap Swingers are people too! In this episode we interview a fantastic couple who identify as soft swap swingers as their preferred swinging play style. We share details about navigating the boundaries conversation, how to share your preferred swinger play style and what being a soft swap swinging couple means to them. Featured in this episode Mr and Mrs RedNReady - Twitter ...
Mar 02, 2021•48 min•Ep. 124
Hotwife swinger lets loose in Croatia! In this episode we talk about Swinging and Hotwing in Croatia, arranging a stunt cock for an MFM threesome and more We share some saucy details about the threesome, we talk about the wasted price on stockings, getting a hotel room, being a hotwife and taking some sexy footage of the evening This MFM threesome was in a hotel room on a school night! That's a total hotwife move... sign me up for my hotwife podcast badge! We would love you to consider supportin...
Feb 12, 2021•49 min•Ep. 123
Our recent swinging foursome experience contains some new-ness for our play sessions. We share our recent foursome swinging experience which involved butt plugs! We run through setting up the swinging date, how to transition from the loungeroom to the bedroom and how the use of VR porn could be next level swinger transitions of 2021 and beyond. Cate also shares some audio on how future foursome sessions could be more puppy pile focused. We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from...
Jan 27, 2021•31 min•Ep. 122
What is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation. We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked. In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male. Links for Dr Lehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/ Dr Lehmiller Twitter Account Dr...
Jan 15, 2021•44 min•Ep. 121
Swinging Downunder Podcast is taking a (potentially) indefinite hiatus! We have so many changes coming for 2021 and we're excited to finally let the cat out of the bag. Swinging Downunder Podcast is moving to Europe so we can cover more of the swinging lifestyle experience in Europe and we're announcing our new name, Wanderlust Swingers! It's finally time to hang up the Swinging Downunder bag and move on to new things. We want to take a moment and thank all of our listeners, sponsors, supporters...
Dec 29, 2020•13 min
How have your swinger boundaries or swinger rules changed over the years? We delve into our changes from our 5-6 years in the swinging lifestyle and talk about how we've organically changed our swinger boundaries. We run through some responses we received from our community on social media and share a tale or two from listeners on how their swinging boundary changes led them to exploring more about themselves and their sexuality journey. We finish up with the 12 Days of 2020 Pandemic gave to us ...
Dec 23, 2020•37 min•Ep. 120
Curious about some of the most commonly searched google terms about swinging, swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding and more? We dig into some funny google analytics about what people commonly search about our alternative lifestyle on the internet. In the second half of this episode we talk about the recent media articles covering the Swinging Lifestyle. Some articles are positive and talk about the shift to virtual parties or how people can support sex positivity, other articles (the viral ...
Dec 10, 2020•56 min
