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Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cate and Darrellwanderlustswingers.com
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.

Episodes

Skirt Club Female Sexuality

Ever heard of the Skirt Club? Global Sex Positive events for women who want to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. Today's episode focused on the Skirt Club and starts with an interview with the CEO and founder Genevieve, we talk about consent, global sex positive events, the stigma of running a sex positive business & more. Genevieve gives her tips on some female led sex positive business's to support and drops a hint on something fun coming up in 2021. The interview today is fol...

Dec 03, 202051 minEp. 119

6 Some Swinging Play + an insensitive comment

Some swingers say that the holy grail of swinging is a 4-way connection... what about putting together a 6-Some play session. We talk about how to navigate that, how we transitioned from talking to swinging play and run you through some of our pre thoughts. How do you get ready for a swinging date or play session? Do you have reservations about the way you look or your ability to flirt and get people engaging with you? We share our thoughts before heading on this date. Wanna hear about what went...

Nov 27, 202047 minEp. 118

Swinging Questions and STi in the lifestyle

We answer your questions about the swinging lifestyle, want to know what we think about balancing the swinging lifestyle? What our swinging spirit animal is or how we tell people what kinds of swingers we are... listen in We spend a bit of time discussing sexually transmitted infections (STi) in swinging as one of our community members wanted to know more about how to have 'the talk' The episode is finished by sharing some of the responses we had to a recent question on twitter "what have you ex...

Nov 11, 202052 minEp. 117

Swinging Spooktacular

Are you curious what happens at a swinging lifestyle Halloween party? Is Halloween your favorite swinging time of the year? Do you like fireball and dressing up? Have we got an episode for you We recorded this live with our Patron community (Thank you legends!) and reminisced about our swinging Halloween mishaps over the years and shared some listener experiences as well. We talk about the 3 golden rules to swinging Halloween outfits (thank you Kelly and Keith), how to make a killer (not literal...

Oct 23, 202044 minEp. 116

XTC Swinging Lifestyle Gangbang

Don't want the hassle of arranging your own swinging lifestyle gangbang? Would rather outsource your gangbang requirements to a 3rd party? You're not alone! Today's bonus episode is an interview with Enrique from XTC_GBs in Sydney, Australia. Enrique talks to us about how he has been arranging gangbangs for the past 8 years and how he uses his 18 years swinging lifestyle experience to understand what both the men and the women are looking for. Enrique will give you tips on arranging your own gan...

Oct 15, 202050 min

The Game Of Lifestyle for Swinging Lifestyle Fun

Curious how to transition from Swinging Lifestyle dates to some sexy fun? Just want to know more about your dates or want to have some fun with your partner? We’ve been a big fan of swinging lifestyle games & on this special episode we play The Game Of Lifestyle for a bit of light-hearted fun. You’ll learn a thing or two about how we like to engage in the swinging lifestyle, what turns us on or off & what role play we’ve done (or not) A big thank you to our Patrons for joining us live to...

Oct 06, 202054 minEp. 115

Slutrepreneur with Rebekka Blue

What is a slutrepreneur? Rebekka Blue will share her journey and how she is a self confessed Slutrepreneur who not only selves weird things on the internet but has 3 successful e-commerce stores. What does it truly mean to be sex positive and find your own sexual journey? Today’s episode we interview an amazing sex positive CEO called Ana Dee (AKA Rebekka Blue) about her journey from the bubble room at a stripclub to being a self confessed slutrepreneur and e-commerce gangster. Before we get int...

Sep 26, 202057 minEp. 114

How To Arrange A Gangbang

Are you curious how a gangbang in the swinging lifestyle is created? Wanting to gather some tips for arranging a gangbang for your hotwife? In today's episode we're sharing our 6 tips for arranging a gangbang, we run you through how to discuss the gangbang, setting expectations, vetting and plans for the evening. Worried about creating a transition to play? We share a story on how D was curating a themed gangbang night which set up how the play would unfold. In our latest swinging lifestyle podc...

Sep 14, 202059 minEp. 113

Sex Positive Australia and Adult Industry

Do you believe that your city / country is sex positive? In this bonus episode we debate how sex positive Australia really is and then we finish up with an interview with Jett Black who is responsible for promoting and supporting many sex positive adult entertainers. We talk about growing up and the impact that sex positive (or lack of) resources have on us, our beliefs on why Australia is or isn't a sex positive country and how far away we are from being able to be 'out'. Jett Black joins the p...

Sep 07, 202056 min

Swinger Transitions, Full Swap and MFM Dates

Have you ever wondered how swinging couples transition from a swingers date to sexy fun in the bedroom? What about when the full swap is exactly how you hoped it will turn out? In today's episode we're sharing some of our recent experience with a slightly awkward transition we had on a swingers date. We will also dig in to some recent sexy full swap with another couple, an MFM threesome date that didn't quite go to plan and finally Cate gets personal with something she's nervous to share! We wou...

Sep 01, 20201 hrEp. 112

Cliques in the Swinging Lifestyle

Do you remember the feeling of a clique during high school? Have you encountered a clique at a swinging lifestyle event or party and it left you thinking the party was a flop? Are you curious about how to manage cliques in swinging? In today’s episode we explore the reality of cliques in the swinging lifestyle and breakdown their existence, what responsibilities the party hosts have to break down the barriers and how you can circumvent them so your next swingers event isn’t a flop. This episode ...

Aug 13, 20201 hr 2 minEp. 111

Playboy Swing + SexEd with Wendy Miller

Ever watched an episode of Playboy Swing? Wendy Miller worked at Playboy TV for 7.5 years and produced numerous TV shows. She was the Vice President of Programming & Production and oversaw the well known Swingers TV show Playboy SWING. We talk with Wendy about her time at Playboy, being sex positive in a corporate world, washing sex toys in an office sink, visiting a sex club in a shipping container, reducing shame and stigma of sexual desires in women & much more. Wendy is the producer ...

Jul 30, 202053 minEp. 110

Virtual Hotwifing; Setting up Chaturbate and OnlyFans

Ever wondered how to set up a Chaturbate or OnlyFans profile and begin your cam model journey? In this episode we share some juicy details on C participating in virtual hotwifing by setting up a Chaturbate and OnlyFans account & going live with virtual porn. Curious how hard it is to set up a camming profile? Want to know how much cam models earn? We share how the accounts were set up, what were some barriers, how much C earned in one month on Chaturbate and OnlyFans and how it felt to be a ...

Jul 24, 202058 min

Swinging as an age gap couple

Are you curious about the Swinging Lifestyle? Are you wondering what kinds of people participate in the sex positive, alternative relationship that swinging can offer? In this episode we share our stories of being an age gap couple in the swinging lifestyle and bring along some friends for the ride. We interview Tippy and Mike Honcho who are also an age couple gap couple about barriers, stigmas and some very sexy positives that can come along from having a different age. Subscribe to our Swinger...

Jul 16, 202056 minEp. 109

The Explicit Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

We dig deep into this episode for a Swinging Lifestyle explicit fix, complete with anal stories, sex pills, threesomes, full swaps & FMF fantasies. Join in for a special episode of Swinging Downunder Podcast & join us on our latest journey debunking sex pills whilst talking about erotica stories based on trips to Desire Resorts Mexico Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel Join us at these Events Naughty In Nawlins , August 2020 in New Orleans *** new dates now in August *** Pod...

Jul 01, 202057 minEp. 108

Top 10 Tips for Single Men in the Swinging Lifestyle

Are you a single male interested in the swinging lifestyle and want our top tips from over 5 years of hotwifing experience? In this episode we run through our Top 10 tips for Single Men entering the Swinging Lifestyle, as a follow up to our 2017 episode How to Get Into C's Pants ( go give it a listen ) we share what we believe are the top tips & debate a little about the importance of them along the way If you're a single man or a hotwife lifestyle couple, listen in and let us know if you ha...

Jun 08, 202054 minEp. 107

Seduction and Foreplay with Dr Jess O'Reilly

Hey Sexies, Have you ever wondered how non-monogamous couples balance seduction and foreplay with their primary partner and new couples? ⠀ ⠀ In this episode we are talking with the inspiring Dr Jess O’Reilly and here’s a look at what we’re talking about in EP106 of the Hotwifing and Swinging Podcast Seduction with Primary Partner; how to keep your home life alive and continue to seduce when you are spending time together ⠀ How to manage New Relationship Energy that many couples experience when j...

May 22, 20201 hr 4 minEp. 106

EP105 - What Makes You Wet with Casual Swinger Podcast

Hey Sexies, We are excited to bring you a little bit of fun for today's episode, we're joined by Mickey and Mallory of Casual Swinger Podcast . We share some laughs by playing a game of two truths and a sex lie, talk about what makes us wet and want to go from the bar to the bedroom and finally answer a listener question. So sit back, relax, grab a cocktail and play along with us as we explore non-monogamy with a side of humor. Featured in this Podcast Casual Toys Website ; use code SDU to get 2...

May 06, 20201 hrEp. 105

EP104 - Drugs and the Swinging Lifestyle

Hey Sexies, Have you ever wondered if drugs are being used at Swingers parties or Sex Positive events? In this episode we talk with Sex On The Fringe Blog about their experiences with drugs and sex in an effort to bring you some more information on this taboo topic. In this 1 hour episode we have a very candid conversation about drug usage, what constitutes D&D (disease and drug free), share results from recent social media polls & talk about the impacts of drug usage and sex. We request...

Apr 21, 20201 hr 4 minEp. 104

EP103 - Do Swingers Have Expectations?

Hey Sexies, Have you ever said or read this commonly used phrase "We don't have expectations"? In today's episode we cover this as part of our stuff swingers say series, we dig into the phrase, pull it apart and ultimately debate what we both think about the usage of it. Do we really have no expectations? Are expectations healthy? What is with the flat earth debate?... we cover this and more in our latest episode. In the second half of this podcast we share some opinions and thoughts from the me...

Apr 09, 202039 minEp. 103

EP102 - Gay Men & NonMonogamy

Hey friends, We talk with Cate's oldest school friend Nate about being a Gay Best Friend (GBF), coming out stories of non-monogamy and sexual desires + is there a stigma of gay relationships and monogamy? We swap some banter about our history, we bask in the awesomeness that is Nate and J marriage to each other & talk about our recent trip to Thailand. We finish off the episode with a story about Nate's recent trip to the Gold Coast strip clubs. All a bit of lighthearted fun and a look into ...

Mar 23, 20201 hr 6 minEp. 102

EP101 - Top 10 Swinger Club Fails

Hey friends, In this episode we break down our top 10 swinger club fails over the last 5 years, we dig deep into the archive on some of these from our first 12 months in the lifestyle right up until NYE 2020. Join us as we laugh at ourselves & share some of our slips, trips and falls. In the second half of this podcast we share some super funny, awkward and just weird listener lifestyle fails. We recount stories from podcast listeners on what happens in the lifestyle and laugh along at their...

Mar 02, 202056 minEp. 101

EP100 - Secrets Hideaway Resort, Swingers Resort Orlando

Hey friends, Thanks for joining us for another Swinger Podcast episode by Swinging Downunder. Have you ever wondered what it's like to visit a Swingers Resort? Curious what happens at a clothing optional adults playground? In this episode Cate interviews Aerin from Secrets Resort in Orlando, Florida and we talk all about the resort, what to expect, how much it costs and why it's a great opportunity to visit a Swingers Resort without breaking the bank. Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-mo...

Feb 20, 202056 minEp. 100

Bonus; Ladies of Lifestyle

Welcome to a bonus episode from Swinging Downunder, this episode is devoted to the Ladies of Lifestyle (LOL) Hey friends, In this episode we're invited to talk with Average Swingers and 3 other fantastic ladies all about being a lady in the swinging lifestyle This is a 2 part podcast; the first will be aired here on Swinging Downunder Podcast and the second will be over on the Average Swingers Podcast In this episode we cover the topic of female performance in the bedroom, ladies who appear to b...

Jan 30, 202028 min

EP99 – Swinging Around Dallas

Hey friends, In this episode we head over to Dallas Texas to spend Christmas and New Years with our Podern Family; Jay and Angie from Average Swingers Podcast We share all the details on what we got upto in Swinging Dallas in a relaxed and conversatioanl manner. We talk about our trip to Colette Swingers… Read more

Jan 17, 20201 hr 19 minEp. 99

EP98 – Sydney Swingers Club

Hey friends, Ever wondered what swinging lifestyle was like in Australia? Looking for a Swingers Club in Sydney? Check out our review of the new location for Our Secret Spot Swingers Club in Annandale. We share details about the venue, our evening, did we play or not and why we didn’t flirt as well as… Read more

Dec 31, 201950 min

EP97 – Hotwifing, MFM & Single Guy Dates

Hey friends, Curious about dating a single man? Want to hear about our latest solo date that D set up for C? Join our next podcast to learn all about Hotwifing, MFM & Dating Single Guys as a HOTWIFE. Are you a Hotwife, Stag, Vixen, Bull, Unicorn, Manicorn….or just want to know about a first… Read more

Dec 21, 201959 min

EP96 – Creating Communities & Multiamory Podcast

Hey friends, Are you navigating the non-monogamous lifestyle and curious if a community is going to be right for you? Maybe you’re looking to build your own community and don’t know where to start? In this episode we talk with Double Date Nation Admin Andi and Double Date Dave about communities & what it’s meant… Read more

Dec 06, 201959 min

EP95 – The BEST Swinger Date

Hey friends, What has been your favourite swinger lifestyle date? Do you like to go drinking, dancing, clubbing, putt putt, escape room, rock-climbing or cooking? We ask the question on twitter and get some feedback from listeners on what they like (and dislike) for Swinger dates. We also share some of our favourite dates for… Read more

Nov 14, 201937 min

EP94 – Non-Monogamous Coaching

Hey friends, Get ready to feel like you’re a fly on the wall in this episode of Swinging Downunder Podcast, we’re talking with Catherine and doing a live counselling / coaching session. We dig into the difference of personalities and balance of energy at lifestyle events and how we don’t work so well as a… Read more

Nov 14, 20191 hr 13 min
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