Let Them Or Let Them Go

And I know at the top of the year, we're always talking about like, oh, what are my resolutions or what's the word for the year? What am I doing this? And I'm going after this? And inspirement. I think about a couple of things. One and joy where you are right now. I'm actually getting this piece of paper and I wrote some stuff because I think we forget about watering, relishing, masking in this space that we're in. And I think that goes with appreciation and gratitude, And they say gratitude

is everything. The more grateful you are, the more things you have to be grateful for. It also had me thinking about how when we are spying to the new year, like, oh, I'm going after this, I'm getting this and understanding how that's a lot of chase. Now this is what came to me. And I think because also I heard I saw this video about how to attract money. But when I say, don't chase becomment, well, when you chase things, they're running away from you. I don't want to do that.

Like in the theory, it sounds interesting, it sounds fun, but I want what's attracting me to meet me where I need to be. Does that make sense? Like, because I think that's the beauty of life, and what that looks like is always on to the next thing perhaps rather than or always waiting for the perfect moment, rather than just making the moment perfect. And now how that relates to me? Okay, case in point, Hello, I'm here.

You hear me on this microphone. I had so much apprehension about recording from my home because I was like, you're gonna hear all the echoes, all the noises in the ambiance. And even looking at the last time I recorded, I was looking at the episode of April twenty twenty five. Oh my gosh, I said, twenty twenty five, early it's twenty twenty six. You see what I'm talking about? Anyway, I can still get it wrong. It's on in the fifth day. Please okay, Relax, okay, relax, make grom thank you,

And I'd have lost my train of thought. See oh, waiting for the perfect moment to have whatever soundproof, and it's like, you gotta do it now. And so even as I look back at the last episode I did of April twenty twenty five, I didn't get that, please serious, stop off, see how road it is in here anyhow? Rather than just getting out of how a young man come? When I actually did the hip hop cipher and he looked in the equipment. I may have mentioned this on

the last episode. I don't know. He's like, wow. I was like, yeah, but I'm not in the studio. He was like, people don't care whether or not you're in the studio. He was like, they're coming for you, you for the content, for what you got to say. See how when we chasing after something, chasing for the right moment, chasing, you forget where you are standing right now. So why I'm not even thinking about gratitude. That's also like a pivot.

How can I pivot just so that I can keep moving in the direction that I want to be in. So Praise Report, Praise Report, the mic is on, and then plus there's so many other programs that people listen to with audio is not perfect. Get out your own way. I also think that looks like, you know, creating your own space, rather than saying, well, I'm only going to be here for a short time, but how do I'm

I going to be here forever? I'm not going to decorate that desk, decorate my room, decorate my home, purchase this from my home. Maybe we're this outfit. And it's like, well, oh my god, is right now? If I a couple of days ago, literally because last year was a couple of days ago. On Instagram, they were, you know, the companies, they started doing the list of people we lost in the past year, and I remember thinking to myself, well, it is December thirtieth. We still have two days where

somebody may not make it into twenty twenty six. We take it for granted. You see what I'm saying. You take it for granted that you're going to be here. And I'm not saying to be pessimistic, you know, hoping for the worse or you know, expecting the worst that could happen. All I'm saying is to understand the gift of it. Now that's the present. So again, become it what it is that you want. So that's me becoming.

We're citing right now. So last week I said, let me just get on this live and get this microphone. Let me just get this equipment, let me just sit in the chair, let me just become it, become what it is that I'm seeking. So I said the chair. I said, I'm just gonna go live and talk on this microphone. I had no agenda of what to talk about. You know, I told your host on the TikTok. So I had a few viewers come and stop by to say hi. But of course you have to do it

more consistently. That's not the point. Consistently, Oh gosh, anyhow, that's not the point. The point is is that I cracked the mic. And I think sometimes we often are trying to wait to get started, rather than understanding you have to start in order to get great and to get going. Periods we're waiting so much to the moment to get going. But it's like the key is to start so you can get going, become it, put yourself

in those environments and to give yourself one to breathe. Yeah, allow there to be motion in that ocean, sensation and that vibration. Yeah, okay. And then also one of my best friends we were on the phone. I don't know if we were talking about. I don't know what we were talking about, but I think she said something like, would I be okay with being in an open relationship?

And I said, as of right now? Share? I'm like, no, like sharing right now in the space that I'm in, I'd say no. And she's like really, And she was like, do you think sometimes when you're with somebody and you're in situationships, that's an open relationship? I said no, I

think a situationship is a situationship. My definition of what I said open relationship is is when you've acknowledged that you're my partner, we're in a relationship, and I am opening up to inviting someone else in this or saying that, hey, we can both venture out of it with acknowledgment, with the understanding that we're together. So I think she understood a thread there, and I see the viewpoint where she was coming from. But when you ask me and my

four open relationships, that's what my answer would be. But I'm not going to say anything changes. But that's what I imagine. I haven't been presented with that. And I said, the key is, I said, I think they can work because you let them or let go. And a lot of that was inspired by mel Robbins, because you know, she's been around talking about this book about just let them, like, allow people to be who they are, and I think

that is actually one of the most beautiful things. And maybe that's the toleration of love and respect because you can make room for them. Of course, it's not gonna be what you're used to because you're not them, but for whatever reason, it's okay, and it allows somebody to be their authentic selves. I do think there's room to share with something that may bother you or may not

work well. And I think that's also compatibility. But I think also too, I think when you really like somebody, you love something somebody like little things like that, it doesn't even matter. And I do think you go through your ups and downs, but it doesn't matter. And then I said let go. I said, well, you know, the greatest form of love is letting go. And when you want something that wants you, remember you don't have to chase it, and you do also don't have to hold

it captive. If it doesn't serve you, then it doesn't deserve you, So let it go. It still allows everything to be in fluent motion. Understand when I say that let them or let go, everything is still moving in motion. That it needs to move in motion no matter which angle you look at it. So that's why I'm looking at it twenty twenty six. I know before I said twenty twenty five, and yes, you know I probably could. I probably could go back and edit that out. But

whatever I said, I'm gonna leave it. I'm gonna leave it because I want to do live today, which it.

you one step further? Imagine like the universe because it is. It's like in our eyes. We have constellations in our eyes. That's where our magic is right and some of us still have that twinkle. These ideas that come to us, they're being created by powerful source. And what are we waiting on? All you got to do is do it because it can't to you become it. Don't you say? You feel what I'm saying. You hear what I'm saying. You feel what I'm saying, and there will be no confusion.

You don't have to prove what it is that you already know. That's what it's called confidence. Don't play with me, play with yourself. So yes, what I did it. I cracked open this mic in twenty twenty six and I said, Dawn, do what you gotta do. Because even anyway, I look forward to talking to you soon. And ohso, can I just say that I'm grateful since an update? Oh, update, update,

update update. One of the things that I said when I was coming out to LA, I said, I want to come out here and develop my own show, my TV show, great, my TV show, I believe, I said, and become a speaker. So July I started training. Do you know that I traveled these here United States and I'm speaking, I'm a paid speaker. I just had to have a moment of gratitude because we have this thought process of how things are supposed to unfold and roll out,

and I've had moments. I've done my share of public speaking, whether it's career day or hosting a graduation or giving a motivational pop talk. But to be flued out hotel accommodations and a pardium and a coin, I'm really grateful I've been out here in La. Hmm. It's going on thirteen years this September of twenty twenty six. Don't play when me, play with yourself, Play with yourself. I'm go ahead it. I had a phone call. See how raw was this? Is you getting a raw baby? Yes? Yes,

I always had this dream. I said that I was going to speak and travel the country or actually the world. And if you aren't so much haste to keep chasing it, you can't even realize that's where you are. And now I have a moment and opportunity to cultivate it, to shape it. So I just want to say that I'm grateful for that, and let's just make sure that we continue to moving our gratitude to realize that we don't have to hold things captive or chase it because it flows.

Oh oh, I gotta give you the mantra for the money, and then because I want a bundance. But I've changed my brain. How I gotta think of it. Let me get this real quick too. I like this. I like this. I like this. You know I started saying it and already I felt like a relief. Now you know they got different rights ins because we're on the podcast. So hold on, let me play it. Okay, Don't worry about the money, because the money gonna flow. Don't worry about

the money, cause the money gonna flow. Don't worry about the money because the money gonna fold, The money gonna flow, the money gonna flow. Don't worry about the money because the money gonna flow. Don't play when me play with yourself. Let me see if I got that right. Don't worry about the money because the money going flow. Don't worry about the money because the money going flow. Her name is miss dall E M. S d O L L E E W E doubles on Instagram. That's what I

just saw. So I felt immediately to that. So I say that to you. Let's make twenty twenty six amazing. Okay, I I love you. I'm so glad. I cracked up this mic and yeah, m hugs and casses. Oh yeah, wait, I gotta do my thing. I'm in the business and make it. You know what it is. It's Vitamin D. I'm doing like the break of day a. Holla, raw baby, Okay, I'm out.