Coach Kim Giles shares her insight on how fear can often impact how we handle situations with our step-kids. There are 3 common step-kid dynamics, and she shares tips on how to deal with each. If you struggle with feeling confident, or feeling like you don't know what or what not to do when dealing with your step-kids, then this episode is for you. https://coachkimgiles.weebly.com/ claritypointcoaching.com https://www.ksl.com/article/50217722/coach-kim-understanding-your-complex-blended-family I...
Sep 13, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 62
Are you a dad with daughters and aren't sure if you should or shouldn't be involved in conversations about THAT TIME of the month? Well we're here to help you normalize it! Plus, Toddler Issues! Sometimes as parents we lose our way and get caught in cycles. We fall into traps and it's hard to climb back out of them even when you see it happening! This is why Jen was glad Cody had already gone through a lot of lying issues, because she saw what she had started doing was not the right approach, es...
Aug 30, 2021•49 min•Season 1Ep. 61
When you realize that the reason you're getting worked up with your stepkid, is yourself and how to address that. Also, an awesome tip on how to avoid conflict with your own parents, or anyone really! And hear about Cody's basement flood and how to tackle a high stress situation together. If you find yourself particularly angry at a certain scenario or subject with a spouse, a kid, or your parents, ask yourself why? Find the true reason, the emotions behind it, and decide if it's something you a...
Aug 16, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 60
We cover a lot in this episode, the death rate of new babies in America compared to other countries (check out the book The Body, and no this is not a paid advertisement: https://www.amazon.com/The-Body-Bill-Bryson-audiobook/dp/B07RB2C1LV/ref=sr_1_1 ), summer anxiety about hot cars and swimming pools when you have a toddler or baby, feeding pets, long-hauler covid symptoms, liquor in Utah, and more! As always thank you for listening, don't forget to follow us on instagram @unqualifiedparenting a...
Aug 02, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 59
This episode we recorded a couple years back, and while our personal info might be outdated, the facts aren't! So if you struggle with weight loss, as tons of parents do, then tune in! And as always, please don't forget to rate, subscribe and follow us @unqualifiedparenting on instagram! And if you like the show, please tell a friend.
Jul 19, 2021•52 min•Season 1Ep. 58
This topic was requested via email by one of our listeners. We were so intrigued by this situation, one neither of us have personally had to deal with, that we couldn't help but make it our very next podcast episode! There are a lot of articles out there on coping with jealousy if you're a stepparent. But what about if you're a bio mom or dad, and you're jealous of the stepmom or stepdad in your child's life? It may feel like you don't have anyone to relate to when you're googling or looking for...
Jul 05, 2021•46 min•Season 1Ep. 57
What questions will your doctor ask when you come to them with sleep issues? When should you go to your pediatrician with your child's sleeping problems? We aren't doctors, but one of us did just have to go through a sleep study with their toddler! Jen's toddler was recently diagnosed with mild obstructive sleep apnea, and mild central sleep apnea, and also had desaturated oxygen levels during sleep. What lead mama to question if this was happening? How do you prepare your child for a sleep stud...
Jun 21, 2021•52 min•Season 1Ep. 56
A continuation of the YouTube addiction, spoiler alert, a bio-parent disengages?! How to get rid of any solicitor politely, and an update on how 2021 is looking for us as parents. Questions? Suggestions? Comments? Stories? Hit us up! hello@unqualifiedparenting.com or send us a message on instagram @unqualifiedparenting.
Jun 07, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 55
Cody failed hard at parenting this last week, but he also turned it all around in the end! Lessons were learned, heads were banged against walls (literally), passive aggressive teen-ness was at an all time high, and he has dusted himself off and risen from the ashes to share with you what to do, and what not to do, when your teen gets addicted to YouTube! So grab your favorite adult time beverage, sit back, and listen to the relatable drama unfold! And as always, please don't forget to rate, sub...
May 24, 2021•1 hr 12 min
The brain obviously plays a huge role in how we perceive things, react to things, and why we lash out. If we can talk to our kids about how, and why, our emotions seem to get away from us sometimes, they might just be able to use this new found emotional intelligence to interact in a more constructive way. Find out more in this week's episode! Find more information on Dr. Sarah Allen, or to find her books and parenting classes http://brainbehaviorbridge.com - Dr. Sarah Allens website. https://ww...
May 10, 2021•45 min•Season 1Ep. 53
What's it like having a laparoscopic hysterectomy? We discuss the process, and the recovery, which may not be for the faint of heart! Have you ever taken your kid to a funeral? Learn how to properly prepare them, and when you might want to just leave them home Reminder, we are not doctor's, morticians, or qualified parents and anything learned here on unqualified parenting should always be taken with a healthy dose of logic and taking into your account your own situation! Check out Epic Books at...
Apr 26, 2021•45 min•Season 1Ep. 52
When your doctor tells you the only way to fix your issues is a hysterectomy, you need to decide sooner than you may have planned! Jen decided no way and here is her journey, reasonings, and tips on how to support others who may be going through the opposite problem (infertility). If you have any questions about deciding not to have kids or on having a hysterectomy, or you'd just like to wish Jen luck, email us at hello@unqualfiedparenting.com and don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe!...
Apr 12, 2021•46 min
Is school becoming a fight? Is your kid acting scared of trying new things? Does your child feel safe failing in your home? Do you? Learn the importance of letting your kid fail and why it's so healthy! As a parent, we want our kids to succeed, it is ingrained in us, and the judgement from other parents when your kid isn't succeeding can be a lot to handle. So sit back, tune in, and find solace in letting go. Do you have fail stories that turned into successes? We want to hear all about it! Emai...
Mar 29, 2021•54 min•Season 1Ep. 50
What is it like to find out you have ADD as an adult? Is it really that common in children, and what can you do about it? Do you suspect your child or stepchild might have ADD? How do you help those with ADD? Our co-host Cody goes into detail about his ADD, his daughter's recent diagnosis, and a short history of ADD. If you have an ADD story, or if you have any other blended family questions, email us at hello@unqualifiedparenting.com . As always, don't forget to subscribe! Article about why ADH...
Mar 15, 2021•54 min
It's winter and you're a parent, trapped indoors in an ever changing pandemic, trying to keep your sanity. You're trying to entertain your kids. Trying to work in a totally new way that no one saw coming. We're here to help you take care of yourself! If you have any questions, comments or concerns, email us at hello@unqualfiedparenting.com and don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe!
Mar 01, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 48
All good parents always mean well, but what are we saying to our kids that night affect them later in life? Her book discusses 13 common traps parents fall in, and how to avoid them! Also, spoiler alert, we're starting a book club! Join us Clean Your Plate! Thirteen Things Good Parents Say That Ruin Kids' Lives . If you want to learn more about Liz and her parenting workshops, check out her website at: http://lizbayardelle.com/ http://lizbayardelle.com https://www.thestaysanemom.com https://done...
Feb 15, 2021•51 min•Season 1Ep. 47
Do you have a kid who resists bedtime? Do you have a coparent who doesn't respect bedtime? Sleep consultant Shannon answers questions about infants, toddlers, kids, teenagers and blended family situations in this informative episode! If you are having sleep battles, or concerned about how much sleep your little one is getting, you don't want to miss this episode. If there are any guests you'd like to have on, or if you have sleep questions for the next time we have Shannon join us, send them to ...
Feb 01, 2021•48 min•Season 1Ep. 46
What were our resolutions in 2020 and did we nail them? What are our new ones? What are your new ones? Send them to us! We have all kinds of tidbits in this episode, how to deal with a kid who breaks a macbook, what happens when you steal cigarettes as a kid, and guess who is finally potty trained (pee pee only but still)! Correction from Jen: Did I say, "distance makes the heart grow fonder," let me just correct myself here and yes it is absence. ABSENCE. We forgot what that word was because we...
Jan 18, 2021•52 min•Season 1Ep. 45
What are some things that really stood out to us that we learned doing this podcast this year? Here's a short recap of some of our top tips, and interesting tidbits about the year. We grew a lot in 2020, so we would never say it was a waste of a year, and we hope if you're listening to this podcast, you can say the same. However, we are all very ready to say goodbye to 2020 and excited to bring on 2021. Moms Don’t Let Other Moms Run Out Of Podcasts (The Mom Hour Podcast Playlist) Please rate and...
Jan 04, 2021•43 min•Season 1Ep. 44
Happy Holidays from all of us at Unqualified Parenting. We hope you stay safe while celebrating the holidays. In this episode, Jen and Cody take a much needed break from the parenting advice and instead play a fun getting to know you game. Send us your answers to the questions you liked best. If you have any questions, comments or concerns, email us at hello@unqualfiedparenting.com and don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe!...
Dec 21, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 43
Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting's Sarah Moore taught us so much about e learning, play-based education, and dealing with the angsty child years during a pandemic! No matter the age of your child, you'll learn some amazing tips on teaching your children from home, whether they're in school, home learning, or too young to be in school yet! You can follow Sarah and join one of her fabulous courses on her website www.Dandelion-Seeds.com, and on Instagram @dandelionseedspositiveliving. If you have...
Dec 07, 2020•49 min•Season 1Ep. 42
In this episode our hosts have split the chores and cover both sides of working parents. Cody goes over the way our working out of the house can impact our kids and Jen discusses how running a household and managing the family is divvied out among working parents, according to a few online studies. Spoiler alert, whether you work or stay at home, there's pros and cons to both! So listen in, and try to let go of that guilt. https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2015/11/04/raising-kids-and-running-a-hou...
Nov 23, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 41
Traditional families are difficult enough, but you add a whole new dynamic to the mix when there's step-kids and exes coming into the picture. Here are the top 5 reasons why it's so hard. You know what they say, knowing is half the battle! We hope these tips and guidance help you through the turmoil of your blended family. If you have any questions, comments or concerns, email us at hello@unqualfiedparenting.com and don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe! Article referenced: https://support...
Nov 09, 2020•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 40
How can you still trick or treat and be safe? What were the top 10 best and worst candies of 2019? What are the 5 worst costumes for sale for your kid right now? And what are some things you may not have thought of for this years strange pandemic Halloween? All the answers, and more, are right here in this week's episode. Here is the trick or treating website Cody mentioned on this episode Halloween2020.org. Don't forget to rate us and subscribe, email us if you have any questions at hello@unqua...
Oct 26, 2020•1 hr
Do you have an attention seeking child or a bossy tween? Are you bewildered and don't understand where this behavior is coming from, or how to fix it? Try these 5 tips and be sure to email us with questions and stories at hello@unqualifiedparenting.com! Do you have questions, comments, or suggestions for what you want to hear next? Email us at hello@unqualifiedparenting.com and don't forget to subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. References: Making Children Mind without Losing Yours by Dr. ...
Oct 12, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 38
Don't you love hearing about other people in a similar situation? Isn't relating to someone just so satisfying? Well Ken is a dad who coparents so well with his ex, they've even considered writing a book! He and his current wife and their child are at a point of parenting smoothly with the ex and their two kids feel right at home! For tips, tricks and when this type of relationship can/can't work, listen in! Any questions, comments or suggestions? Email us at hello@unqualifiedparenting.com...
Sep 28, 2020•57 min•Season 1Ep. 37
Are you ready to take the next step with your partner? Important tips and how to start off on the right foot! Do you have questions, comments, or suggestions for what you want to hear next? Email us at hello@unqualifiedparenting.com and don't forget to subscribe wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Sep 14, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 36
Think your kid would never catfish someone or post inappropriate things online? Think your child is too shy to be groomed by a predator online? Don't wait until it's too late to find out. Listen to these tips on how to talk to your kids and the signs to watch out for to keep your kids safe! Cody's Show Notes!!! The LEGO Group wants to help keep kids safe online. Their new initiative Small Builds for Big Conversations offers a series of creative challenges for families to engage in conversations ...
Aug 31, 2020•54 min•Season 1Ep. 35
What is Infant Mental Health Therapy? What to do if you feel your child or stepchild needs therapy, and how to approach your spouse about it. What if you aren't quite sure if they need that level of help yet, where can you turn? We answer these and more with expert guess Dr. Ailyn Payan from sunny Florida! To learn more about Dr. Ailyn Payan and her stepmom coaching launch, visit www.momsbychoicevip.com . Do you have questions, comments, or suggestions for what you want to hear next? Email us at...
Aug 17, 2020•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 34
Do you feel you're being helpful, only to be snapped at? Is your stepkid rolling their eyes at you? Do you feel at a loss when trying to connect with kids? Then you need this episode all about Phrasing. Cody's super distilled show notes: Talking to kids: 1. Address them by their name. 2. Don't change your voice. 3. Physically get down to their level. 4. Go with the flow of conversation. 5. "Tell me more." 6. Name drop. 7. Show them your scars. 8. Learn a few kid games. 9. Get resourceful. 10. Av...
Aug 03, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 33
