Send us a text I talked to Devon from Devvvtalks Podcast about anxiety before dates and expectations, things we’re “supposed” to do, dating in the US as a black man, and how people change their attitude towards him just cause his ethnicity, the wild tindering at quidditch competition, trying out nonmonogamy for the first time, cheating partners that lead to STI’s, funky flight attendance, why my tinder profile is more funny than serious and how people react to it, why we train algorithms to be r...
May 06, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Season 3Ep. 103
Send us a text I talked to Alena about how it’s like being fetishized as ginger and the type of messages she gets regarding her hair color. Also: her date with a drug dealer German rapper that ended awkwardly, getting stood up, one night stands, one horrible vacation date that led to an almost strip search in Israel a year after, why people are on online dating apps these days, unsolicited dick pics and more! Support the show...
Apr 26, 2021•54 min•Season 3Ep. 102
Send us a text I talked to Guy Blaise about his book “love like the French” where he gives his perspectives as a Frenchmen on love, dating, and everything in between. We talked about dick pics, online dating in your 50s, how it’s like being Afro-French in the US and some racist dates he encountered, how some people ask for nudes before meeting and how this can be harassment, body shaming, how his grandmother influenced the way he values love and affection, and much more! check out his book at ww...
Apr 09, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 101
Send us a text It's the 100th episode! and for the occasion, I talked to Anna, who is a bio-ethicist, about the ethics of online dating, the social effect of dating apps, is it hard to find love? how do we communicate and why it needs to change, where does the "real life" begins and "online life" ends? how she had a date that drove 100km to meet her, is online dating an effective way to meet people? and much much more! Have any comments? questions? find me on Instagram @unmatchmenow Support the ...
Mar 25, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 100
Send us a text I talked to Stef about Tindering in your 40s, how she started an illustration project creating postcards about crazy tinder profiles, the business of online dating, dating preferences, defining boundaries, why I dislike IG accounts that make fun of how people look on tinder and shame them, performance pressure, porn & social stereotypes, what I realized after using the "seeking arrangement" website for a month, how doing the podcast affected me personally and much more! check ...
Mar 17, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Season 2Ep. 99
Send us a text I talked to Alexander about how he uses social media for dating and how it’s like tindering in Greece and about his interesting dating experience. Also about how tinder’s public perception changed through the years, consent when it comes to men - and how it’s like if somewhat exposes themselves to you without consent, when women should ask for consent from men and some dating experiences that were somewhat not consentful, my garlic breath date story, FetLife in Greece, body shamin...
Mar 09, 2021•1 hr 37 min•Season 2Ep. 98
Send us a text I talked to Alex about his experience using dating apps after moving to Europe from Australia and how it's like getting back to dating after being in a relationship for 8 years. we also talked about feminism, the ethics of sending nudes and how to ask consent for that, the times he was the horrible date, and lots more! Support the show...
Feb 26, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 97
Send us a text I talked to Morgan about how it’s like being poly for over 30 years in the Bay Area & LA, how was it like to “online” date during the ’80s before the internet with personal ads, phone calls, and answering machines, and later on with craigslist and other dating websites. Also about dating while having a child, the challenges with being poly throughout the years, and much more! Support the show...
Feb 12, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 96
Send us a text I talked to Marielena (@ marielenalsrx ) who's an adult filmmaker and producer, about her experience using Tinder in Mexico and how it's like being a pornographer on dating apps, dating during the pandemic, the issues with dating apps in Mexico, safety, catfishing, how she almost got married after 1 date, why Instagram is the new dating app, and much much more! Support the show...
Feb 05, 2021•46 min•Season 2Ep. 95
Send us a text I talked to Lex about how it's like to use tinder while working in one of Berlin's most famous clubs - from dates that match only for the guest list to banning bad dates from entering the club again. we also talked about this year has been regarding dating apps, finding dates during a pandemic year, and cuffing season that lasted longer than usual, ghosting, should you try to hit on service workers? drug dealers, having sex while working, and much more! Support the show...
Jan 26, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 94
Send us a text I talked to Marta about her online dating experience in Georgia, using FetLife, Bumble BFF, couch surfing, and Tinder. Why Middle Eastern people think she’s a spy, how it’s like being poly on tinder in a conservative culture and what reactions she gets from guys, how a guy canceled his flight to see her after a very stale first date having grand expectations about her, why it’s perfectly ok to not answer everyone on online dating apps and unmatch, marriage proposals on a tram, dat...
Jan 19, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 93
Send us a text I talked to Lea about her first tinder experiences in South America after a breakup, why she suddenly cried on a first date, a guy that tried to pimp her for happy end massages, dating in shopping malls, how she had to escape a date that took her to his NYE party with friends in a new town cause of an altitude sickness emergency, getting catfished, and so much more crazy stories and advice on how to navigate the tinder universe. Support the show...
Jan 12, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 92
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Dec 21, 2020•2 min
Send us a text I talked to Oscar about his online dating experience after moving to Berlin from Spain, about how it’s like to meet and chat with people on Bumble Biz & BFF, why it’s harder to make friends than finding dates, a very tinder date full of coincidences, why it’s harder to date in Majorca, my schmoozy almost date story, why women are deterred from mentioning ONS on their profiles and more! Support the show...
Dec 21, 2020•51 min•Season 2Ep. 91
Send us a text I talked to Alkyoni (@poisoner_art), a photographer and erotica illustrator based in Athens, about tinder and Facebook for dating, People’s reactions to her erotic art on tinder, When does it count as ghosting after a date? People who don’t want to use condoms and sexual education, bad chemistry, what it’s like to date in Greece and social norms embedded society about sex, and how she was someone else’s horrible date, and much more! Support the show...
Dec 12, 2020•50 min•Season 2Ep. 90
Send us a text I talked to Donya about her dating experience in Berlin, receiving dick pics, Dating a spati drug dealer, being Iranian in Berlin and why Iranian are too polite, Disappearing dates at house parties, Why people are afraid of commitment. Intimacy, drinking on dates - yay or nay, and much more! Support the show
Dec 05, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 89
Send us a text I talked to Nikol about how she almost joined a Berlin artists sex cult and about her thoughts on tinder, bumble, and feeld and what it's like being asexual\graysexual using online dating apps, how should non-asexual people approach asexuality in general, and also about how to define what you want from your dating life and much much more! Support the show...
Nov 27, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 88
Send us a text I talked to Isabel, who is a dating coach who used to work for some big casual dating websites in the past, about her weird dates in Israel, how her date was interrupted by a dog, eye contact meditation on the first date, what she thinks are the best pics you should use for your tinder profiles, why she decided to start being a dating coach and much more! Support the show...
Nov 20, 2020•45 min•Season 2Ep. 87
Send us a text I talked to Jonah from South Africa about his first tinder experiences and how it was interrupted by a disturbed flatmate, STI shaming and safe sex, how to unlearn what we think about sex and relationships, how he was someone's worse date and generally dating in South Africa and how it's like, and much more! Support the show...
Nov 14, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 86
Send us a text After 100 dates Marcus decided to write a book about his erotic tinder experiences, focusing on the good dates and smutty stories we also talked about how is it like using tinder in Romania, why we hate the tinder algorithm, why I think there are no people out of your league & why everyone is attractive to someone, black magic dates, a date that wanted him to never ejaculate, why he is all up for video calls before meeting and more! his book is available at Amazon in print and...
Nov 06, 2020•43 min•Season 2Ep. 85
Send us a text I had a chat with Greg from Melbourn about his journey using different dating services and websites since the early 90's such as - alt.com, FetLife, adult matchmaker, etc. also about what was it like dating before all of today's tech, what hat to wear so your kinky date can find you in a crowd, tinder scammers, how is it like to work as a pro dom sex worker, how I got a free desk off tinder and way more! Support the show...
Oct 31, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 84
Send us a text I talked to Franzi about how it's like starting to use online dating in your late 40s, what and how people showcase themselves on the apps, what defines a good date, weird dates with Doms and at what time do people have dinner, how to form a BDSM dynamic during dates, chatting with younger men on OKC and much more! Support the show...
Oct 24, 2020•58 min•Season 2Ep. 83
Send us a text I talked to Steven @stevemocomedy, who’s a comedian, about his journey from a Florida man using Plenty of Fish to Tindering in Germany and having weird dates such as: how he got cock blocked by a pigeon, dating alleged mafia members, pizza-demanding dates, why his dating choices should change and how, the first date at a fortune teller and more! Support the show...
Oct 13, 2020•37 min•Season 2Ep. 82
Send us a text I talked to Cleo ( https://www.cleoconstantine.com/ ), who’s a sex worker in Berlin, about her dating experience from starting using tinder back in 2013 to this day, instant hookups, the difficulties of dating women as a bisexual, fangirling a famous tumbler blogger, dating on FetLife, why Australia’s cocaine is meth, the secret life of Australian plumbers, STIs and safe sex, dating as a sex worker, sex working and monogamy, first porn experiences and much more! Support the show...
Oct 02, 2020•1 hr 49 min•Season 2Ep. 81
Send us a text I talked to Sarah about dating as a demisexual, meaningful connection and how to make them, the anatomy of one night stands, why you should not really define your type, her weird journey with tinder while being in Chicago including deep-dish pizza, frat boys and more! Support the show
Sep 26, 2020•38 min•Season 2Ep. 80
Send us a text I talked to Ronnie about online dating in Tel Aviv, having a painting date with a poet, a dude that refuses to shower, to cuddle or not to cuddle? weird dates, how to communicate what you want from your dates, people who sniff around your fridge and critique your food choices, and much much more! Support the show
Sep 18, 2020•59 min•Season 2Ep. 79
Send us a text I talked to Nikki (@nikkispanou) about how she started using online dating while being in an open relationship, having cringe first dates on tinder and being someone else's worse date, but more importantly about her story of sexual assault while meeting someone for kink oriented purposes, and how consent should be more integral of kink play and BDSM. *trigger warning included in the episode* Support the show...
Sep 11, 2020•1 hr 31 min•Season 2Ep. 78
Send us a text I talked to Keren who’s an American based in Tel Aviv about her horrible online dating stories involving a guy self nicknamed the Punisher, metaphorical snakes, manipulation techniques, unsolicited dick pics, how to do kink-pitching on dates, and much much more! Support the show
Sep 01, 2020•38 min•Season 2Ep. 77
Send us a text I talked to Maria (@ tinderellalive ) about how it’s like being a sex blogger for a Russian audience and using online dating in different countries (including Russia, Belarus Germany, and Israel), about radical honesty and communication, sex positivity, live blogging a funny date, slut-shaming culture in Russia, being poly and how people react to it on tinder and much more! Support the show...
Aug 21, 2020•50 min•Season 2Ep. 76
Send us a text Me and David share stories and experiences about how we deal with online dating issues - why he prefer bumble and when to know it’s becoming an addiction, over-dating & self-reflection, being shamed for using tinder by friends, using online dating as a replacement for flakey friends and the problems that can occur with that, why guys usually don’t have such horrible dates, how to shift from casual oriented to relationship-oriented and more! Support the show...
Aug 11, 2020•47 min•Season 2Ep. 75
