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Unmatch Me Now

Unmatch Me Nowwww.swipeleft.me
Unmatch Me Now is a weekly podcast about the horrible and weird sides of online dating, dating ethics and everything around online dating. Hosted by Idan, based in Berlin with international guests! \ IG:@unmatchmenow \ www.swipeleft.me
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Episodes

74 JOANNA BOND 007: LIVE TO DATE ANOTHER DAY

Send us a text I talked to Joanna about her online dating experience in NYC \ Berlin, dating a possible serial killer that’s obsessed with black and white interior design, dating secretive government workers, exploring sexuality and kink, getting catfished hard, to small talk or not to small talk and more! Support the show

Aug 06, 202059 minSeason 2Ep. 74

73 HEY, WHY DO YOU HAVE 7 KNIVES?

Send us a text Ela told me about how she started off tindering by inviting guys over to her dorm room in an all women’s college, her buddy system with her roommate, having 3 tinder dates one after another, how being in an all women’s college changed her for better and got her to be more in touch with inner sexy self, and why great mattresses can lead to threesomes and more! Support the show...

Jul 30, 202053 minSeason 2Ep. 73

72 BI-SEX AND THE CITY

Send us a text I talked to Luke about his difficulties dating in Berlin as a Bisexual man and some of the responses he gets from his dates about it, we also talked about how bi individuals should not be treated and how it's like overall from his experience as well as - dating in SLC vs Berlin, having a threesome with a couple that dislikes each other, why you should always swipe right on your friends and co-workers and more! Support the show...

Jul 21, 202038 minSeason 2Ep. 72

71 FETISHISE ME LIKE ONE OF YOUR AUSCHWITZ GIRLS

Send us a text I talked to Dana (@ Dana_Regev ) , a journalist who published an article on Vice about her journey and insights about online dating and fetishization of jews in Germany, fetishization overall, and of Israeli women. We talked about how German men have mentioned to her they want to impregnate Jewish women, how they interrogate her about her military service and her family’s Holocaust history for sexual arousal and more. Support the show...

Jul 13, 202049 minSeason 2Ep. 71

70 THE SOCIETY OF SHIT MAGICIANS

Send us a text I talked to Ariela about her horrible tinder dates that either disappeared in weird ways or refused to go away, involving - a nazi, a double date that went missing, a pickup artist that ended up being a stalker and much much more. we also talked about consent, should you ask before you kiss someone? how dating in tel aviv is compared to Europe, how to have a threesome with 2 guys, and so so much more! Support the show...

Jul 02, 202051 minSeason 2Ep. 70

69 THE PSYCHEDELIC JOURNEY TO A THIRD DATE IN NEPAL

Send us a text I talked to Morgan about why she started coaching people at @chillpolyamory about polyamory and unpacking monogamy bias. also - why she prefers OKC over Tinder, how to hack the algorithm to overcome it's inherited racist and body shaming nature, and the story of how she went to Nepal on a third date with a guy that became a long exploratory journey that involves psychedelics, danger and much more! Support the show...

Jun 29, 202053 minSeason 2Ep. 69

68 THE 50,000 MEN CHOICE PARADIGM

Send us a text I talked to Anissa host at Homoswipiens Podcast about how she discovered the dating apps universe and tried to commit to date a different guy every day, why she started a podcast about it and why and how should we live with online dating apps also about using the apps during the pandemic, experimenting with kink oriented apps, exchanging nudes for the first time in a dom\sub dynamic, using the quarantine time to think and explore virtually her sexuality and boundaries and much mor...

Jun 16, 202038 minSeason 2Ep. 68

67 RAW GUSHY DICK

Send us a text I talked to Sasha about her thought on bumble, OKC, Polyamory, relationship anarchy, her weird dating stories, why every time she and her partner swipe together it ends up in an argument, a letter she wrote to an unsolicited dick pic sender, why dating women in Berlin is hard, the most ridiculous reasons she swiped left on ppl, race fetishizations, copy paste messages, why you should explore different ways to have better masturbation skills and much more! Support the show...

Jun 07, 202055 minSeason 2Ep. 67

66 TINDER EYE FOR THE STRAIGHT GUY

Send us a text I talked to Ugurcan about his experience with tinder since the age of 17 till today, how he got catfishes and what to look our for, dating in times of quarantine and how this Changes our dating life, friends with benefits and over tindering and how it may affect us and how to deal with it better, long-distance relationships, sexting and one amazing date story in LA! Support the show...

May 29, 202040 minSeason 2Ep. 66

65 I DON'T WANT TO GET IT OFF MY CHEST

Send us a text I talked to Sabrina, who was my first taller tinder date a few years ago, and she told me about her boring tinder date experiences, how she ended up on a first date at a sex party and how it ended surprisingly. also about kink-shaming and people who are being pushy about their kinks, height supremacists and why we should change that and how she met her partner Support the show...

May 20, 202033 minSeason 2Ep. 65

64 THE ROSE COLORED GLASSES THAT PAINT THE RED FLAGS

Send us a text Yaniv, host at Beautiful works in progress podcast and a relationship coach, told me about his red flags dates and how he dealt with those situations, 15 minute cigarette breaks that stretched for a few months, why people flake out, what he thinks about online dating and how we use them, what men really thinks after they orgasm, why he love coffee date and more! Support the show...

May 13, 202053 minSeason 2Ep. 64

63 BLOWIES FOR GERMAN LESSONS

Send us a text I talked to Kat ( @katnippresents ) about her experience using Tinder \ Her and other apps, how it’s like going on dates as an alcohol expert, when guys google reverse image stalk you, how rom-coms are actually about psychopaths, why she has only ugly pics on Instagram, her date’s 3 drinks rule, regretting about ghosting her date and SO much more! Support the show...

May 04, 202053 minSeason 2Ep. 63

62 THE FANTASTIC GUIDE TO BEING A UNICORN AND NOT BEING A DOUCHE

Send us a text Zofia - a comedian and a performance artist ( https://www.instagram.com/noseofwax/ ), told me about her adventures using online dating app to try to explore dating women, which has been hard to find IRL, and how she discovered the weird and intriguing world of being a unicorn, her horrible story involving window-staring dudes and much more! Support the show...

Apr 14, 202048 minSeason 2Ep. 62

SWIPING IN ISOLATION 03 - 9 FAKE PROFILES

Send us a text I talked to Melanie about how it's like swiping in berlin during social isolation and about how she had to find a new job due the inability to work and eventually found one working as a "fake" profile for a new dating app. Swiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I enco...

Apr 11, 202018 min

61 LADY LEXI'S FUCKET-LIST & HOW TO DEVOUR MEN

Send us a text I talked to Lexi about her journey to become a Berlin dominatrix all the way from LA, her fucket-list and what's on it, and about her mission to kiss a boy in every city on her euro trip. we also talked about her horrible dates with a punk photographer, her journey to try to have sex with twins, how it's like being a dominatrix and how it affects your dating life, berlin fetish clubs and the issues with the fetish scene and the uniform mentality in fetish wear, sex work legalizati...

Apr 06, 20201 hr 11 minSeason 2Ep. 61

SWIPING IN ISOLATION 02 - TENERIFE STYLE PIZZA

Send us a text I talked to Serita about how she attempted to deal with the loneliness or isolation in Tenerife, and how her online dating in Berlin before the quarantine has been Swiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I encourage you to listen to your authorities recommendations and...

Apr 02, 202014 min

60 YODEL 007 - A VIEW TO A BEDSHEET

Send us a text I talked to Alex about her horrible dates including kidnap attempts in Italy, very nonmessy hookups in Greece, yodeling (that’s an app) to get a blind date, dude’s apartments and how they’re like, how to be the unicorn you want to be! Who’s cumming first and how to communicate about your orgasm wishes, hate sex, one guy that did not see the benefits of changing sheets, and much more! Support the show...

Mar 30, 20201 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 60

SWIPING IN ISOLATION 01 - TO FAKE OR NOT TO FAKE? THE SEXTING DILEMMA

Send us a text I had a quick call with Ariana, who's in a complete lock down in Italy, about her sexting experience and how she tried using tinder to get some sexual relief in these weird times. Swiping in isolation is a series of short interviews with people from all over the world during the COVID crisis, trying to figure out how to deal with the social isolation and using online dating to escape the hard parts of this new reality. please note: I encourage you to listen to your authorities rec...

Mar 27, 20209 min

59 THE STRANGE AND THE CURIOUS - TOKYO DRIFT

Send us a text I talked to Nicola about her experience online dating in Tokyo and Hong Kong involving being bitten, making van diagrams for what’s normal nowadays and what’s not, being ripped off for free dinner, her tips on how to avoid horrible dates upfront, hair stroking dates, a very very horrible date story and many more! Support the show...

Mar 23, 202049 minSeason 2Ep. 59

58 A FAREWELL LETTER TO A CONTROLING FREAK

Send us a text I talked to Ashley about her experiences dating in Japan, how she used online dating to discover more about herself, understanding men and overall, how it’s like being a foreigner in Japan, And her horrible dating story that involves abortions, weird requests, cyber booty calls, and really strange dynamics and much more! Support the show...

Mar 16, 202031 minSeason 2Ep. 58

57 OH SHIT IT'S THE GAY POLICE

Send us a text I talked to Anthony about his dating experience using Grindr in Lebanon and Paris, the difference between tinder and Grindr for gay dating, how he was the horrible date once, how to deal with lack of empathy in Grindr hookups, the beginners guide to using Grinder and his most horrible stories involving the dangers of being gay in Lebanon and how he dealt with it, guys that booked 2 dates at the same time and more! Support the show...

Mar 09, 202043 minSeason 2Ep. 57

56 THE MILF’S GUIDE TO DEATH PHILOSOPHY & CUM IN YOUR HAIR

Send us a text I talked to Hayley, who runs “death cafe” - an event that helps people deal about the philosophy of death and how to deal with it, and we talked about her experience using online dating in rural Australia, how it’s like dating young men and how to deal with the term MILF, catfishing attempts aka dirty johns, dick pics vs cleavage shots, a story of a very speed date, how to communicate you’re non-monogamous to your future dates, dating logistics in rural areas and being a single pa...

Mar 02, 20201 hr 5 minSeason 2Ep. 56

55 I'M LOOKING FOR DATES NOT MATES

Send us a text I met with Lisa-Skye (sparklepuppy comedian, Femme Daddy, Muppet Dominatrix, Hedonism Muse) down under in Melbourne's suburbs, and we had a long and very whacky chat about kink, sex clubs, hand sanitizers, the scarcity of domme girls in online dating, safety in BDSM and dating, racism in Australia, VR porn, why polyam ppl like board games, her 17 minutes date and the struggles to date females, we also decided to update her OKC and Tinder profile with a new fresh bio and much much ...

Feb 24, 20201 hr 18 minSeason 2Ep. 55

54 IF YOU DON'T COME TO RUSSIA, SOME DUDE WITH A RUSSIAN FETISH WILL COME TO YOU

Send us a text I met with Anja and she told me weird tales about a guy that wrote her a scroll on how horrible germans are without even asking, being stood up by your date when you're already at the bar, dates with white noise machines, swiping right or swiping on the right person, more tinder algorithm talks! dick pics and why they happen, tips on sending nudes safely and why never expect good things when someone fetishizes you by your looks. Support the show...

Feb 17, 202039 minSeason 2Ep. 54

53 2 GUYS 1 COCKRING

Send us a text I talked to Camille about her experience using tinder and other dating apps like seeking arrangement and about sugar daddies and sugar babies dynamics, finding slaves on Craiglist, dates that ignore obvious signs for a booty call, ghosting, dating significantly younger people and much more! Support the show

Feb 10, 202051 minSeason 2Ep. 53

52 ZEN & THE ART OF THE HOOKUP

Send us a text I talked to Georgie, a Melbourne based escort and the author of the book and podcast "The art of the hookup" about her vast online dating experience, what she likes and dislikes about it, how to approach women (and people) to have the right mindset to get amazing casual sex, how people react to her being an escort, why we need to talk more about expectations and what we want and much much more! Support the show...

Feb 03, 202052 minSeason 2Ep. 52

51 CAN I OFFER YOU A CUP OF TEA WITH SOME PENIS?

Send us a text I talked to Lena about tinder and her view of profile pictures as a photographer, and since she works at yad vashem we talked about the phenomena of people taking pictures in front of the holocaust memorial in Berlin and the general impression she has from people's pictures and how they present themselves. she also told me about her journey starting using online dating after being married for many years and getting used to the new dating apps and some horrible tea related dates. S...

Jan 27, 202037 minSeason 2Ep. 51

50 CAN YOU DONATE SOME DINNER?

Send us a text Darius told me about his tinder experiences, what do you do if your date demand you should pay for dinner? is tinder the platform to look for relationships? the big miscommunication about ONS, is the third date rule still a thing? memes as secret to your tinder success, dating older women and trying new kink, cultural stereotypes and is it OK to make jokes about it? and more! Support the show...

Jan 21, 202045 minSeason 2Ep. 50

49 THE GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE NETFLIX & CHILL

Send us a text After ending an open relationship and moving to Berlin from Brussels Caroline told me about her dating adventures with a romantic poet, how to Netflix and chill literally, golden showers requests and the full pallet of Berlin's kink offerings, sexual harassment, how she deals with shorter guys and how to deal with our insecurities that come with different body types, how people react to her being in an open relationship and more! Support the show...

Jan 13, 202043 minSeason 2Ep. 49

48 IF I HAD TONSILS HE WOULD HAVE SWIPED THEM

Send us a text I met with Tenley in Bulgaria, and she told me about her troubles dating in a foreign culture, neo-nazis, guys that yell at her for looking better then her pictures, amateur porn directors, tindering in the rural parts of turkey, what happens if you write you're funny on your profile, is Halloumi actually cheese? how dates react to visible scars? dating in Bulgaria and Ukraine and way more! holy shit so much more! Support the show...

Jan 06, 20201 hr 23 minSeason 2Ep. 48
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