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Unmatch Me Now

Unmatch Me Nowwww.swipeleft.me
Unmatch Me Now is a weekly podcast about the horrible and weird sides of online dating, dating ethics and everything around online dating. Hosted by Idan, based in Berlin with international guests! \ IG:@unmatchmenow \ www.swipeleft.me
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Episodes

47 HE SAID HE THINKS BEYONCE IS CHUBBY

Send us a text Me and Beverly met and talked about why she favors bumble but why some of their features and communication creates addiction and play a very risky game, racist dates, her first experience venturing outside vanilla land into dating a dom, using the C-word in sexy talk, what to do when you're date say he's into Jordan Peterson, a second date that took a month, how to deal with situations that require the morning after pill and more! #bigtiddygothgf Support the show...

Dec 30, 20191 hrSeason 2Ep. 47

46 THE TINDER NIGHTMARE BEFORE HANUKKAH

Send us a text I talked to Brocco about his mysterious goth dating story, why South Korea is his favorite place to tinder, why he super like people with no pictures on tinder, how to recognize flakey individuals, manage expectations, deep dive in the mystery on online dating with no expectations, tindering in Israel and how the culture is like and way more deep talk about online life! #Falafel&Fanta Support the show...

Dec 23, 201938 minSeason 2Ep. 46

45 SEX LOVIN TAXI DRIVERS AND THE JOURNEY TO CASUAL SEX

Send us a text I talked to Miri about her journey to figure out how to have casual sex and how she feels about it, dating using german websites such as poppen.de and the Interesting and weird dates she had revolving sex addicts, emotional connections, slow sex, married men, how to define what you want and more kinky stuff! Support the show...

Dec 16, 201942 minSeason 2Ep. 45

44 THE TINDER CONFEDERACY FLAG

Send us a text I talked to Gal about her short series of dates that ended up in an unexpected way, also about why nihilists should not have flags, the big height dilemma and the body-shaming issues that come with it, hookup culture in Tel-Aviv or the lack of and more! Support the show

Dec 09, 201950 minSeason 2Ep. 44

43 DO NOT GO CATFISH INTO THAT GOOD NIGHT

Send us a text I talked to Stewart ( www.stewartrogers.me ) about being a digital nomad and why he thinks lyft is the best app for him to date, we also talked about sexism, who should pay and why (again!), being poly and his problems with poly centered dating apps, SexTech, feminist porn, Stewart's Sexy stories natural language processing startup, how men should stand up for other men being sexist, the effects of online dating on our behaviour, dating hologram and more! #TaylorSwiftLeft Support ...

Dec 01, 201958 minSeason 2Ep. 43

42 DOUBLE RED HOT PIE PENETRATION

Send us a text I talked to Anna (Comedian @ afberos )using "red hot pie" and "adult matchmaker" in Australia 10 years ago during her open marriage, their adventures hooking up with other couples and more! also: why she favors bumble, how to get out of a sex date with people that freak you out, my horrible hostel story, do you need to know the native language to have a significant relationship? and my 10 minutes horrible date (i was rather horrible too), why you should not hook up with your neigh...

Nov 25, 20191 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 42

41 IS THIS A REAL DATE? IS THIS JUST FANTASY? CAUGHT WITH A LIAR AND NO ESCAPE TO REALITY

Send us a text Me and Sara had a chat about her date with an actor that turned into something out of a movie, we also talked about the definition and issues of ONS (including when they're great!), the bad vibes of the "only good vibes" ppl, dating people who try to over impress with 23 euro socks, how to communicate in an open way about what you're looking for, what's on my tinder bio and why, and why you should super like your co-workers #superlikeyourcoworkers Support the show...

Nov 18, 201956 minSeason 2Ep. 41

40 - UNMATCH ME NOW, IT'S THE PODCAST BIRTHDAY!

Send us a text It's been 1 year since I started this podcast and for this occasion, I asked some of the former guests - Bard (E19), Neomi(E25), Rasha(E15) and Yair(E31) to come and share their AMAZING online dating stories for a change! and also update on new horror dates as well. we covered: the meaning of dick pics, the definitive guide to Grindr, ass vs face experiments, seeking sugar mama arrangement, what happen when you get to the final level of bumble, choking (breath play) ethics, the im...

Nov 11, 20192 hr 14 minSeason 2Ep. 40

39 FETISHIZING AND LOATHING IN LAS TINDER

Send us a text Mokia and I talked about the reasons he decided to go rogue from online dating and go back offline and how to recognize black fetishization and racism and how to deal with it also: humanitarians of tinder, can germans be late? how to recognize flakiness, dates that bring their frigid friends along, "contract talk", hopefully, one last motivational speech about who should pay and more! Support the show...

Nov 03, 20191 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 39

38 THE ONE WITH THE DIRTY APARTMENT SEX

Send us a text Me and Gloria talked about dick pics and gifs! dirty sex apartments, tindering in a small town, long term ghosting, orbiting your Instagram stories, guys with weed-related amnesia dates, sex with Catholics and the dangers entails in that, alcoholic tandems and more! Support the show

Oct 29, 201934 minSeason 1Ep. 38

37 THE STORY OF THE TRASHY SAUNA

Send us a text I met with Liz and she told me about her horrible sauna date, men dating younger people vs women dating younger people in their 30s and the problematic parts of it, how to have 5 lovers a week, alternative date locations, who should pay(again!:D), ending dates over falafel arguments, being loud in bed and more! Support the show...

Oct 20, 201943 minSeason 1Ep. 37

36 HE HAD A MACHETE UNDER THE BED

Send us a text I met with Candice and she told me an array of stories about her dating experience as a transgender woman, from being blocked and being treated horribly on dates and other stories. we also talked about being trans on grindr, meeting people on Craigslist, what should change in online dating in order to have a safer space for all genders and trans and more! Support the show...

Oct 13, 201957 minSeason 1Ep. 36

35 A BOXER, A NOMAD AND A SPY WALKS INTO A BAR

Send us a text I met with Sarah who's an opera burlesque dancer and singer (@ pinupsoprano ), and she told me about her date with a nomad, a boxer and a potential spy among other stories. we also talked about her thoughts about bumble and feminism, dating in a new city, dealing with objectification, kissing that resemble birds feeding, the no-pants in bed rule, sapiosexuality, mixed signals and more Support the show...

Oct 07, 20191 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 35

34 THE TINDER ANATOMY OF THE HEART

Send us a text I met with Richy and he told me about his weird dates that got messed up cause of basic anatomy facts, flat mates, security doors, drugs, also: who texts first and what, conversation dynamics on online dating, why swiping on pictures is not really superficial, nationality Fetishization, Spanish stereotypes, height factor in dating, kissing first, guys take on getting paid for on dates and more! Support the show...

Sep 30, 201941 minSeason 1Ep. 34

33 THE ALABAMA DOUBLE HORROR DATE ROUTIN

Send us a text I met with Helen (@ helen_hagemeier/ ) who's a Sex therapist and Linda ( @wellitiswhatitis/ ) who's an actress to talk about their experiences and weird stories dating on tinder and other apps, we also talked about: vulva art, sexual addiction, dealing with dating women who are inexperienced with being with women and bi-curiosity, people with shady pictures, white-trashery and how to end a date when you're not comfortable with how it's going, and way more! Support the show...

Sep 23, 20191 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 33

32 THE STORY OF THE NUDES DETECTIVE AND OTHER SEXIST DATES

Send us a text I met with Judit and she told me about the book she wrote of her journey to figure out her tinder algorithm score and dating experience, we also talked about sexist dates, body shaming, how to get rid of annoying and boring dates, how to deal with your feelings and dealing with rejections and disappointments, shaming monagomues relationships and how to be yourself in a sex positive/poly atmpsphere etc Support the show...

Sep 12, 201939 minSeason 1Ep. 32

31 THE BJ EFFORT TO PROXIMITY FORMULA

Send us a text I met with Yair and he told me about his online dating adventures, grindr vs tinder, consent issues in the gay dating scene, unsolicited drug taking, dark rooms, coming out at a young age in an orthodox family, taxi paying etiquette, first time being a bottom, dating in Tel Aviv vs Berlin, gay sugar daddies and more! Support the show

Sep 11, 201946 minSeason 1Ep. 31

30 A SHOWER BETWEEN THE SHEETS BUT A STALKER ON THE STREETS

Send us a text My good friend and former flatmate Rachel came down all the way from Australia to tell me about her dating experience, we talked about dick sizes and how not to judge your dates genital size, the pressures of masculinity, dick pics, dating in Australia and the who-pays-for-the-date conundrum and more! Support the show

Sep 01, 201954 minSeason 1Ep. 30

29 SHIT HAPPENS AND THEN DOORMATS DIE

Send us a text I met with Jordan (and Elif joined too) to hear the story that made him be more picky about his swiping, we also talked about: when you should and should not go on fetlife, body fluid accidents, the best thing anyone ever told after sex and why it's good to ask for the reason people are on tinder before meeting them Support the show

Aug 25, 20191 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 29

28 YOUR MOUTH SAYS "DON'T ASK" BUT YOUR BLACK EYE SAYS "RUN AWAY"

Send us a text Podcasting on the road! I met with Liz in my home town Tel Aviv and she told me about her experience using bumble and tinder and a couple of weird dates she had involving a guy who lived with a cult and dealing with your date's stalker stalking you. we also discussed: long term hookups, Instagram ass models, ghosting and last minute cancellations and much more. Support the show...

Aug 17, 201940 minSeason 1Ep. 28

27 EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FUCKING

Send us a text Anna told me about her very challenging first tinder date after not having sex for 1.5 years in Australia, which involved a very funky ending, fat shaming and why it is very very wrong, which questions should you ask or not and conversation dynamics on tinder. also: how to get brainwashed into a martial arts cult relationship and how to get out of it, cock rings, guys with ripped condom phobia and much much more Support the show...

Aug 07, 201949 minSeason 1Ep. 27

26 HEY DJ! SHOULD I SHAVE ALL MY BODY NOW?

Send us a text I met with Lauren to talk about her experience using tinder as a lesbian in Berlin and the difficulties that arise from that, also about: dating through google translate, Berlin Dj's, Bisexuality social pressure on women, looking for a friend on dating apps and more! Support the show

Jul 29, 201940 minSeason 1Ep. 26

25 THAT ONE TIME IN TINDER CAMP

Send us a text It's Freaky Friday! the ever amazing Naomi interviewed me and I finally got to tell all my stories! we covered: Finish making out techniques, abortions, explosives, strippers, knives, racist dates and racist friends, Neo Nazis, decapitated pig heads, how to bring up sex during a date, being upfront about what you want, what to write and not to write on your profile and much more! Support the show...

Jul 21, 20191 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 25

24 ANOTHER AFTERNOON OF JUST INSULT ME TO MY FACE

Send us a text Stephanie told me about the pains and other annoyances that occur while online dating such as the ethics and antics of being stood up, actually giving a shit about other people on tinder, chasing people around, being upfront about sex, ghosting, what to write on your profile and more! Support the show

Jul 14, 201941 minSeason 1Ep. 24

23 MANDARIN EXPRESS & THE 10 MINUTES DATE

Send us a text Katja told me about her mysterious date involving citrus fruits and about the shortest date she ever had while discussing how is it like dating as a tall woman. Support the show

Jul 07, 201940 minSeason 1Ep. 23

22 DID YOU JUST SPIT ON MY FACE? AND OTHER DICK STORIES

Send us a text I talked to Gwyneth (after her first Berghain rejection) about her rough sex experience and her takes and learning about it and also about tinder bios, eyes wide shut, yellow flags, tampons and intimacy and CLIMAX. Support the show

Jun 29, 201955 minSeason 1Ep. 22

21 THE ALCOHOL ENTHUSIAST GUIDE TO THE OKCUPID GALAXY

Send us a text I talked to Burak about his journey using online dating after a long relationship and what he learned using OKC while discussing about racism against Turkish men, date failures, fuckbois, mansplaining, gender wars, feminism in men, pickup artists and holy shit what not! Bring your towel and don't panic! Support the show...

Jun 25, 201955 minSeason 1Ep. 21

19 SLIDE INTO MY DM'S LIKE A SEXY SNAIL

Send us a text Double the guests - double the trouble! I talked to Bard and Lee about consent issues, dating as a transgender man and what actually qualifies as a dating app as well as: KKK dolls, dating 19yo, hitting on people at the gym and more! Support the show

Jun 05, 20191 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 19

18 DON'T BE MENACED BY PERIOD BLOOD WHILE NOT EATING PUSSY IN THE CAR

Send us a text I talked to Charlotte about tindering in Berlin and what it means being a Berliner in a city everyone assumes to be "sin city" while she told me about two dates that revolved about period blood and one directional pleasuring. Support the show

May 25, 201945 minSeason 1Ep. 18
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