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10 years old. And she is also my dermatologist. Huge. Welcome Dr. Jamie Glick. Hi, thanks guys for having me. So to give everyone a little history of Jamie and I. Jamie dated my brother in high school. For four years. A little into college, right? We went to four proms together. Four proms. Four proms. Both senior proms, yeah. Wow. It's funny because like, so you've known me. I remember. I must have been like 11 or 12, and this is actually one of the earliest.
dating adjacent stories that I can think of is I remember you, you and like my brothers were like in my house and you guys were talking about someone in high school who was like, hooking up or doing something with someone or something like that and i was like oh but i thought you just said that he wasn't her boyfriend And you said, Jordana, you can like make out with someone without being their boyfriend. And at like 11, 12 years old, I was like, whoa, like.
I didn't like, I don't, I don't like that. Like, I don't know that. Even then I was uncomfortable with that. And it is funny and pull circle to have you on the show today. Cause I was just like thinking about that story. And I just, for some reason you like remember certain things. And I remembered you telling me that and being like,
That's not how it works in like the movies that I've seen or something like that. Like if you're kissing, you're like in a relationship. And then, you know, we got older and then like you and my brother are not together anymore. Spoiler alert. I'm single. Yes. And, you know, we reconnected around my wedding when I went to you as my dermatologist. You were just instrumental in changing my skin. You're amazing at what you do. I'm a regular patient, have been ever since.
And you're here today. We're going to talk a little bit about skincare, but you also have like a dating story that sort of relates to... Your profession and work and just being a successful woman in a big city. And I think a lot of people will relate to it. Well, that was the thing. This is how it all started.
You were getting blood taken from your elbow and put into your eyeball. And you're like, I was actually just at my, you know, dermatologist, Dr. Jamie Glick. She's awesome. She's wonderful. And she just had this like breakup. But the breakup, basically it was reported to me. This is my version of what you told me. That you were told you were too successful. And you intimidated a guy. How'd you meet? We met at an election party. So in November.
actually the party was thrown by a libertarian so it was very like even more annoying okay well they were like Kamala props, Trump props. It was very 50-50. And we just like, honestly, we just locked eyes at the bar. At the party and we just I know this sounds crazy and you guys are probably going to be like, well, but it felt like.
The most closest thing I ever felt to love at first sight. Wow. It was really intense. What about it? So it turns out we had recognized each other from an app that we had. spoken to like briefly like years ago we like spoke a little bit but we were kind of like just like went about the party like you know he was talking to some girls I was talking to some guys and then I
My friend had to leave early, so I'm leaving to walk her out. And he comes out after. And he's like, are you leaving? I feel like I need to get to know you more. And I was like, I'm not leaving. I know. I mean, sometimes they say that blows up. But this was the closest thing I ever felt. We ended up staying up till 2.30 in the morning. Okay. And then from there, we started dating.
And, you know, obviously when we met, we didn't know what each other did or anything like that. It turned out he's a political writer and he specializes in the Middle East. I am particularly interested in. I read a lot about it. And I thought that was...
so interesting and so different. I mean, oftentimes I've dated a lot of doctors. So you're taking interest in him. He's got this cool, different thing that you haven't seen before. It feels a little more special because you're on the dating apps. You said you recognize him from the dating app. There's this fun moment in real life. We're connecting. This is great. So I do think that heightens it.
Yeah. I mean, it was the way we met that we just like felt this intensity too. Like years later, we reconnected. It felt like a big deal. So you go on dates, you're going on date one, date two, date three. What are the hangouts? So we went to drinks on our first date. A lot of the hangouts were, we never went to dinner. So that was like one thing that got a little bit weird. Like we never went to dinner. And there was like always a reason that we didn't go to dinner.
he got stuck writing or he was intermittent fasting. And so it was just like an odd thing. So not to go into too much detail. But it turned out that it was more of a money issue. Yeah. When does that come out? Right. Oh, we're doing drinks, drinks again, drinks again. When we went to the movies. We'll split the popcorn. He was like, can I borrow $10? He was like running late. So I got the movie ticket. Okay. And then he did get the popcorn.
I didn't want because then I'll eat the whole thing, but whatever. And then I realized that we had like had dinner twice where we ordered into my apartment. I paid. We had taken an Uber. I paid. And I didn't really like realize that this was happening until like the movie. And it felt like he was kind of like dodging Peng for the movie. Right. And so after the movie. Like you think he almost purposely came late or forgot his wallet. Right. Exactly.
I didn't want to like accuse him of anything. Right. And also like, I didn't know his money situation. I didn't, I did like him. And like. I didn't know he was a writer, you know. Has he paid for anything up to this point? He paid for breakfast. He paid for the drinks that we went to. And he paid for donuts. So it wasn't like a nothing, but there was like a big discrepancy. How far in are we? So we started seeing each other in November. We're like...
January-ish. So it's a few months now and now it's dawning on you. Right, that you're paying for a lot. There's a weirdness with the payment. Right, and also like, which is a nice way to, it wasn't like you were like clocking every dinner. No, I just like started to notice, you know?
So then after the movie, I I was a little bit like anxious. Right. And like like kind of like I wanted to bring it up, but I didn't want to bring it up. And then he's like talking a mile a minute and he's usually not like that. So he senses that something's like off. And then I said, so like, you realize that I'm pretty much paying for most of things. Like, you know, I'm not really used to that.
Can we talk about it? So we ended up like going back to my apartment and sitting down and like kind of having a conversation. And he was like a little bit more open about his. Money and finances and that he lives like a more miserly lifestyle was the way the term that he used.
Okay. And I was like, okay. Was there anything else about him that would give off that besides the pain? No, in fact, it was the opposite. He wore fancy clothes. Interesting. And he dressed very well, but I had noticed that he was re-wearing. Okay.
one jacket one bag and i was like oh like now i see you know what i mean he lived in williamsburg no he had a rent control department though which i later found out because i also like all suspects did not lead to this This also indicates like someone who like. Doesn't is not upfront about that. If he's like wearing the fancy things over and over again, part of it. No shame in how he's doing these things. Sure. Like everything he's doing.
I think the shame is from his end where he's like dodging, getting to the date on time. Like I think there's a way to do this with everything. We talk about this all the time. Like someone might hear this and they want to lash out at this episode because they're like. Well, what's wrong with having a few nice things that you put together nicely? What's wrong with being rent controlled? There's nothing wrong with this. It's, hey, I have to let you know what my capacity is for dating.
this is my situation and the more you let it kind of hang out there and be this unspoken thing. the more awkward it's going to be. That's why there's a conversation. I think it would be different if that first night, that's not wrong. You know what's interesting? Like I took it as a lack of interest, right?
So I started to question how interested he was in me. And, you know, we talked to our friends and they were like, he's showing up late for the date or he's missing the time that you would have dinner. So I brought that up and I was like. Are you someone who's just like not that interested? So that was also like to your point, like where it was confusing to me. So this conversation at your apartment, he's like, I live a miserly.
He used that word? He used that exact word. So he's like, I live this lifestyle. What's the, you know, to me, this is good. You're negotiating. Right. Totally. Okay. Are you trying to figure out like, how do we go to dinner? How do we live a life? A hundred percent. Okay. So how does that conversation go? So we're sitting there and I said to him like, I paid off. Over $300,000 in loan debt. Good for you. I lived a miserly lifestyle for-
32 years. I now make a good living. I work really hard. I don't want to live a miserly lifestyle and I don't need to. So let's talk about that. Right. Most people say what you just did, Jordana, which is. wow, great job. And his response was like, oh my God. How could you have possibly paid that off? I can't believe it. You obviously need to date a millionaire.
Okay. No, I don't. Right. You're saying that to prove a point of like you're not someone who like only has lived in like really fancy things. Like I get it. Like I know what it's like to live paycheck to paycheck. Exactly. Like I've been there, you know, and I've worked really hard to not be there. So in fact, we even like looked at apartments, like you hit the nail on the head. to see like what kind of rents we could have with our combined rent.
So at this point, I mean, this is three months in, four months in, you're looking to move in together. We were talking about how our future would be. I'm 40. He's now 40. He was 39 at the time. That doesn't seem crazy. It's not crazy, but I mean, you haven't been to dinner yet.
My mom said the same thing. He didn't just take you to dinner. We had lunches, breakfast, like also like maybe he was really intermittent fasting. It's cheaper that way. One meal. Yeah, totally. I just find that we've gone. So this discussion included, like, could we live together? Yes. Like you said, like, what would our life be? Like, if you're a writer, like. Would you be home with the kids? Could we make it work? We were kind of like discussing how we can make it work.
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You told a very specific part of the story. For him to respond to like, how could you pay $300,000 in debt? To me, that's someone with no plan. Like, he has never planned. So he's afraid of what he would find out if he did plan. If he did plan, he'd probably realize paying off $300,000 in debt is quite a successful, amazing thing.
but it's done with a plan it's not undoable like the idea to go who could even do so i'm just saying like it feels hypocritical that he can't believe you could pay off 300 000 debt because to him that's like so crazy But then you guys are sitting down that night and talking apartments. Right. Like, I don't know. I think when you're in it, right, they say love is blind. You're kind of like, like in my mind, I was going through this like. How can we make it work? Let's figure this out.
situation and I felt like I was consoling him. Are you actually okay with the idea of like subsidizing a man's lifestyle? Totally. I mean, you know, it's funny because it wasn't that much to subsidize, right? He said he lived a miserly lifestyle.
Kind of consoled it, calmed down, like work through it. And then, you know, he said like the next day he was like, you know, I was thinking I can like have the baby in one hand and write with the other hand. And it was just like very sweet. You know, I feel like he had. thought about it. And he was like, I'm really proud of your career. And
Did you feel that he was proud of your career? I felt like he was proud, but it was also like, is this really going to work kind of thing? In his mind? Yes, because it came up in certain situations. He had gone to dinner with a friend of his. And the friend had convinced him that a woman like me...
could not possibly be happy with a man like him. I've never even met the friend. This is what he's telling you? This is what he was telling me. He called me one night. No, he called me. I was actually away in Paris. I went to Paris for two weeks and he called me.
And we stayed up to like three o'clock just telling me what his friend said. And I was kind of like, you know, you're surprising me because I feel like you're someone who wouldn't listen to your friend. You know what I mean? Who's never met me. And he was like, I know, but it just brought up these other. feelings and thoughts and i was like how long after your conversation did this conversation this happened like probably a week to two weeks afterwards.
The next morning he wakes up and it feels like totally different. He sent me like a cute selfie. I felt like I had like finally reassured him. So every day we're talking, we're FaceTiming. I was with my mom in Paris. He even FaceTimed with my mom. That was like the first time they had like. communicated and it just like I felt his
energy on the FaceTime, obviously not in person. Things were really good. Came home, brought him like coffee from like his favorite coffee shop. I felt very close to him. None of the money stuff came up. It was just like great. I wake up in the morning. He like grabs my face and said something like, I felt like he was going to say, I love you. You know, when you just like kind of know. Right. And like he like grabbed my face and it was just like a very intense.
special moment right and then like two minutes later his face goes like cold and he like freaks out and I'm like okay what just happened like something you had this moment yeah and he was like I just had a really sad thought I can't tell you what it is so I need to just like think about it and tell you like when I'm ready and I'm like
Okay. Like, are you sure? He's like, just, I just need to. I'm like, okay. And then he was leaving that night to go visit his family in Florida. Okay. So I think things are normal. It's now like Monday night, we're texting, and then Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. It's just my friends and I call it a change of behavior. Like when you- The pullback. The pullback. Classic slow thing. Yeah. And I'm like, ugh.
Like, this is not good. Right. You don't have enough evidence to, like, say something's up, but you can feel it in the air. Right. Right. I didn't want to, like, delve. He's got something personal going on. But he also did say this thing about how he had this.
negative thought about you guys. Right. Exactly. So that's also like in my head. To be honest with you, I thought he thought that he was going to die in the plane crash or something on the way there. That's where my head went. Oh, you're like, he's so in love with me that he's now his negative thought was like, what if what if I lose you? That's what I thought. Okay. Don't be a pessimist. Although that's clearly not how the story went. Yeah, exactly. So on Monday, after that like moment of...
anxiety that he presents. He says, I just want you to know that I like haven't dated anyone else. So that's an exclusivity discussion. Do you not agree? Of course. I mean, I kind of assumed you guys were together at this.
He just wanted to like. Just saying like reiterating. Right. Like in his mind, we were exclusive, but he just wanted to check in to like know that I was. So he says this on the Monday night after saying the weird thing. He also says this. Yes. And then he goes on vacation to Florida, his parents' place. Okay. Pulls back.
Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. You don't hear from me? It's kind of like light and sparse. It's light, sparse. It's like the five-hour text back later. So on Friday, it's Valentine's Day. And I'm like, this is so sad. You have a boyfriend. It's Valentine's Day. Yeah. Hello. Yeah. He does not call me, text me, best.
He looks at my Instagram story, right? Because I'm like at the point where I'm now checking. I posted with my medical assistant. So we had these like cute Valentine's Day glasses. We took a selfie with our scrubs, like happy Valentine's Day, which I saw he.
looked at. So there was no like, did he forget he's with his family? Like he saw the photo. And so I'm like panicking. But I think to myself, you know what? Maybe there are flowers at home. Maybe there's chocolates at home. Like I'm going to give him the day. You know, first thing I do is check my phone. Obviously, nothing. I would be like, he better be dead. Yeah. He better be dead. Okay. So I go to brunch with my friends.
We're like now scheming of like, what should I do? Like, this is ridiculous. Like, you know, we're drafting the email, obviously, right? We're drafting the text. I call him one more time. No answer. Okay. So I text him. Haven't heard from you. in a while, wanted to make sure that everything's okay. Since I didn't hear from you yesterday, I wasn't like where the.
fuck were you on valentine's day which would have been a reasonable text to send also but this is like a nicer right really like you're not even gonna get into that yet right you're starting with you must be dead i'm not even gonna get into that right i'm like just gonna kind of like get you to respond to me you know Like six hours later. Like, don't worry about me. Things with family are not that great. I am taking some time.
in the consolation, oh, you'll like this one, consolation of philosophy. What? That is literally what he says. So this guy is using weaponized pseudo-intellectual. You nailed it, Jordana. This is... Sometimes I'm like happier being stupid. Cause at least you don't say shit like that. Cause like mine would be like, not here right now. Family bad. Philosophy.
This is just such bullshit. And I'm like, so sorry to hear that. Like, let's do you mind calling me? It's important because I wanted to be like, well, let's see how much. Right. Like it's now important. Like he doesn't know why I'm calling him. Maybe something happened. Do you know what I mean? Well, of course he knows. He should have been like, I have $300 with your name on it. Please call me. Oh, you guys are a Shelby.
So he ghosted you on Valentine's Day. I know. And I'm still like the nice one. Well, it's just, listen, ghost on Valentine's Day. Hey, I'm being a dick. I'm sorry. This might be over for me. I'm just letting you know. I'm taking time with my parents is different than. I'm taking solace in the philosophy of Luther. Like, I just think it's like...
It's ultra douchey to do that. Right. And like, don't worry. Cause I'm like so worried about you. Like, no, I'm kind of like, what the hell is going on here? Yeah. Okay, so anyone who knows me knows what my next step is. When I get very emotional upset, I write email. So I then spent the next several hours of my life writing an email to a writer. So I basically wrote him like how I was feeling. And now like I'm not raging, but it's more like.
you know, I can't believe that you would disappear, especially on Valentine's day. Like that was really hurtful. Are you kind of like, this is over, but I would like to know what's going on. Are you like, maybe there's a chance we could work this out.
It's over. No. Maybe there's a chance we could work this out. Obviously. Yeah. Otherwise, I guess you wouldn't email. Right. I wouldn't email. And also, like, I still have a lot of emotion attached to this. That's why you didn't go apeshit probably in the email. Exactly. Because you're a gang. You want to, like, be like. stern, but also like not burn the bridge. Correct. I texted him like, I emailed you. If you care about me at all, I'd appreciate a response.
And then that was it. I closed the door because I didn't really expect I would get a response because why would I suddenly get a response now? We're pushing a week now since we see each other. He finally emails me back on Wednesday. It's Tuesday night. I see it Wednesday morning.
which somehow I can't believe I missed because I'm obviously compulsively checking my email at this point, right? He writes me back essentially that he's really sorry about missing Valentine's Day and that he tried to call me several times, but he couldn't get himself to do it. I think his words exactly, I didn't trust my voice. He says I didn't trust my voice? He did not trust his voice. That since being with me, he has felt undervalued and underappreciated.
And that he totally respects me, knows that I'm going to go on to do bigger and better things. But the thought that he had. that he owes himself and us to tell me was that Sitting there like in bed talking, he just had this vision of me wanting to be with someone with more money and wanting to be with him with more money or even somebody else that wasn't him with more money. And then he could not get that thought out of his head. I'm sorry that happened. Did you answer? I answered and I wrote.
Yeah, you poor fuck. I wrote, that's not true at all. So for him to say this to me was like somewhat offensive. Like, no, like that's not who I am. And anyone who knows me. would know that that's not the case. And I feel like we've gone over this now several times. It sounds like this has nothing to do with you. Well, that's what my therapist said. It sounds like it has more to do with him. I just think this guy hates himself or is not happy with where he is in life.
And he feels he's going to be a burden. He'll be the burden. Like he'll feel the burden. He did say that I don't want to be with. who has to sacrifice their integrity to be with me. Integrity? I could say lifestyle. You're sacrificing the four seasons. Right, that's lifestyle. That's not integrity. So I wrote him back, and I said, this is not true. And then I, again, quoted.
Eleanor Roosevelt and I wrote, nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. And so it got me thinking, like, if I made less money. If I was less successful, would I make him feel less? Right. See, I disagree with that. I think... To me, like... It's not even about that. Like, I think it's an excuse, but like... it's the one he's got like an excuse because he doesn't like her i just think he would have said that to anyone i i that wanted to like
be something bigger. Do you think it's a commitment issue? Yeah. I've spoken from someone who may know about that. Listen, this isn't about me. This isn't a me episode. We do that on benefits. So people got to pay for that. That's part of my business. I guess because I felt like we had to have so many conversations about the money. I think that must be somewhat of a part of it. It is a part of it. But I agree with you in that he doesn't like him.
He feels very insecure. Well, I would love to have spoken to him about it. But given the fact that he ghosted me, I was. not right this is the way men break up that's the other thing like you know he's made the decision without Right. But he was willing to have a lot of the conversations. Like, I feel like we had.
many more than I would have probably even wanted but no I get it you're right um maybe I thought it was about something that it wasn't right so this having happened was this like oh my god I'm dealing with this like success thing again. This is something that reoccurs in your dating life where like
I'm doing this thing that I do well at. Like I, because I don't sense from this conversation that that was what happened. No, no, no. That you were like, where are our fancy dinners? Like, it doesn't seem like you are looking for. such an extravagant lifestyle. You're just looking to like live. Well, I was like, where are dinners? Well, dinners. I'd like to eat. It doesn't sound to me that you're like.
Oh my God, I need to be with this rich person. No. Which is why it felt like when he kept telling me I did need to be. Well, here's the thing. I don't think that you do need to need to be with this rich person, but you do like nice dinners. You do like to travel. You do like to do those things. Even the way they met. saw each other across the room. That was enough and great conversation. I respect his writing and his career. That was enough.
You know, and then you work it out. Yeah, I think there's something wrong with him. Right. For sure. But this has happened to me before. I was actually just in my office kind of prepping for the podcast, talking to a patient. She went to Harvard Law School and she told me that she had to take off the fact that she went to Harvard Law School off her dating app because she felt like she was getting very weird comments from men about being too smart, being too much.
I was in a relationship for three years where I was asked to give up my career. How did that come? Oh, this is a fun one. So we dated for three years. We lived together and we looked at rings and like the proposal just like wasn't coming. And there were several different terrible scenarios where I thought we were getting engaged and it didn't happen.
And he ended up saying, I really want you to give up my career and be my office manager. Actually, we were at a restaurant. Be my office manager? Correct. And I was like, had you felt that before? Like, have I ever done any secretarial work? But you're a doctor. Right. So was he. So he's a doctor. He's like, you work the office. I'll be the doctor. Correct. I just don't understand how that comes up. So I think it was something that was coming from his parents, to be honest with you.
His mother didn't work. His sisters didn't work. All of the men were like the breadwinners, right? So I think he was used to that and seeing that. Ultimately, he ended up marrying someone similar to that as well. But his words exactly were, I need someone to wait on me hand and foot.
Were his words exactly. I mean. Didn't you know that earlier in the relationship? So. How were your. What were your arguments about? So. Our arguments were about. We didn't actually argue. I feel like we had. Yeah. That's what it felt like actually. But. We were both doctors. We would talk about cases together. It was really fun.
And then when we start to talk about more serious things, like I noticed that like if I didn't get the toilet paper, like we'd have no toilet paper, right? If I didn't get the laundry, there would be like laundry.
overflowing into like the bathroom right and we would have some arguments like can you get the toilet paper and like no he could not get this like he could not get it you know two of these guys that you're talking about both sound like her like kind of horrendous but they're separate sides of the coin like there's one guy that's like i need you to wait on me hand and foot is like what a quote
And then the other one is like the opposite. I need you to not be rich so that I don't feel like less of a man. I guess. I had a sense that this money thing was going to be an issue. So I actually called a friend of mine and I said, do you think if you made more than your husband, they would be cool with that? And. She said, no, no, I don't think so. So like.
I do think it's like a theme. And I think a lot of times we're in a generation where men think they're cool with it and they think that it's a good thing and like they're proud of us. And, you know, now there are more women in medical school than men. But at the end of the day, most of our parents... saw that women were not working or like my mom was a teacher because it's a good job for a wife.
You know, and so when push comes to shove and you get older and you're in a serious relationship, like what do you really want at the end and who do you really want? What do you think of that? Well, I do think she's right. I think saying it is easy. feeling it so sometimes i think those men think they want someone like me right and then in the end when we're talking about real future it's like wait the example i would give and this is not a great example but it's like saying like i want
Sex workers to get paid. I want people who do pornography to get paid and then you find out your boyfriend is paying an OnlyFans account. And you go, well, I don't want my boyfriend doing it. And you go, well, hold on. You said you want fair pay. Right. But when it affects you. Right. I think that's a similar thing for a guy. Because again, easy to say, harder to like do. I can't speak to how I would feel. I can say like.
So I've said on here, I'm like, I don't think I would have an issue. Again, like I don't know. Right. It's an interesting discussion because I and we have to get going soon. This was amazing. Everyone should go. What is your socials to get involved with Dr. Glick, Jamie? Dr. Jamie Glick. Dr. Jamie Glick. I get so many compliments on my skincare. All right, quick hit skincare tips. What should someone do before they go out?
Skincare. Big zit. They have a big zit. What do they do? They should call their dermatologist and get it injected. It's too late for them. It's too late. Spot treatment with like a cell acid over the counter. Run to Duane Reade. Go get it. A guy who's never washed his face ever in his life. What should his... Is that you? Yeah. I wash my face with the shampoo that comes down from my hair as I'm washing. What would be the first step? What would be one thing that a guy could do?
To improve his skin. Sunscreen. Would be probably one. So if you are using a shampoo to wash your face, that shampoo is a little too irritating for your face because it's meant for your scalp, which is a little tougher and your hair. So your skin's probably dry. So moisturizing would help. Why do men have better skin when they don't do anything to it? Great question. Beard.
Beards and mustaches have a lot of sebaceous glands and oil that helps to protect them from aging. And also it's like an artificial sun protection on half of this guy's face. Ladies, stop shaving. Okay. There's also a study showing that women say about 30,000 more words. So a lot of times they get those lines because they talk more and they don't have a beard. I didn't say it.
We solved dating again. Dr. Jamie Glick, thank you so much for coming on. This was fantastic. I think a lot of people are going to love this episode. I love this episode. I'm very happy. This is great. We did it again. We'll be back on Wednesday. Boom. Betches.