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Oct 05, 2022•11 min
Tomboy Official
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Episodes
Why You are Single
Singlehood is a stage that many cultures address in their own specific manners. In Western American culture people generally begin a process of dating near age 14-18. Usually there is a process where a teen is developing independence and being allowed added freedoms by guardians upon proving that they can adhere to expectations (see the blog HERE https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/2022/10/singlehood-and-gender.html for more on this, and if you have any friends who may be interested in these top...
Oct 04, 2022•52 min
My Queer Dreams (Betty’s Birthday)
Yet another San Diego queer themed dream. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Oct 03, 2022•14 min
Real Talk (deep interpretation of queer dream)
My attempt at unpacking a recent queer dream that left a strong impression. Basically I am quite homesick, unable to be as easily connected as I would prefer from the lifestyle I have created for myself in San Diego. Check out more details in the blog post below. And share any links with anyone you know who may have an interest. To follow up on the original episode from the My Queer Dreams series (click here): https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial/episodes/My-Queer-Dreams-Amusement-Park-Crush-e1olfbb...
Oct 02, 2022•1 hr 30 min
My Queer Dreams (Amusement Park Crush)
This dream left a pretty hard impression.
Oct 01, 2022•1 hr 19 min
Gender Rules
Between stereotypes, roles and identity, somewhere along the line we learn the societal rules we are expected to uphold. But what happens if those rules don’t work for you? As a person who prefers to present in a more androgynous fashion, I talk here about how that can impact me and some recent experiences and thoughts of how gender rules come up in my life. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: http...
Sep 28, 2022•1 hr 19 min
Professional Branding as LGBTQ+
Here we discuss professional branding. Not just for business owners and people in the spotlight, but even for somebody who may work in data entry, work as a teacher, in a trade or in customer service. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 27, 2022•1 hr 17 min
Privacy, Secrets, Gossip and Relationships
Most people want to be in a relationship that is secure, loving, trusting and honest. We talk here about some deal breakers involving secrets and some experiences of dealing with gossip and it’s impacts. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 26, 2022•1 hr
My Queer Dreams (Bisexual Marathon and a Crush)
Share this episode with your friends if they like content about queer dreams. Subscribe and check out the older “My Queer Dreams” serious in previous posts. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 24, 2022•24 min
Other People Coming Out
Other People Coming Out Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 24, 2022•22 min
Roommates and Gender Presentation
Sorry I thought I had posted this last night. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 19, 2022•33 min
My Queer Dreams (9/13/22 dream)
Another episode to my queer dreams series. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 17, 2022•19 min
Power of Positivity
How can we tell if we are seeing the world as it really is? Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 17, 2022•37 min
My Queer Dreams (ig magazine)
Another mildly queer dream. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 14, 2022•12 min
Adult Entertainment (Camilag.24 androgynous adult content)
If you are into androgynous adult content, check out what caught my eye of @Camilag.24 They have a Linktr.ee account with their OF, ig, Tik Tok and Cocktails links. https://linktr.ee/Camilag.24 Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial
Sep 13, 2022•24 min
Positive Lifestyle Challenge (Jaime Messina and morning mindsets)
Jaime Messina is a LGBTQ+ coach creating some awesome content on optimism, positive thinking, and works as a coach to help others reach goals of improving their lives. She has ig lives near 9am ET, 6am PT. Check out her tap link page for all her sites, book, paid coaching and “Lillies” online forum for lesbians who came out later in life. https://taplink.cc/jaimemessina Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ P...
Sep 12, 2022•43 min
Coming Out Multiple Times
The process of coming out doesn’t necessarily end. Not unless your social life, work life, family life and human interactions remain completely stagnant and in the same exact place.
Sep 11, 2022•45 min
Masculine “Standards” (Are there any? What are they?)
Very brief considering how loaded this topic is. Talking about looking at the surface versus below the surface. The main question here is - What makes you swipe right?
Sep 10, 2022•25 min
Straight Cis Hetero Convo
About some ideas I came across from a sexual and gender majority culture friend.
Sep 09, 2022•18 min
Adult Entertainment (interviews w/ workers)
I’m not personally interviewing sex workers (I wish, but not yet), but here are some recent interviews I’ve seen of some entrepreneurs in the adult entertainment industry. BLAKE MITCHELL: https://youtu.be/i6P2gCqeDec STELLA BAREY: https://youtu.be/jq5T9UllpYk
Sep 08, 2022•38 min
Trans + Queer Minorities & a Cis Het Perspective
A challenging thought process.
Sep 07, 2022•1 hr
My Queer Dreams (a booth and a festival)
A recent dream from approximately early mornings of September 1, 2022.
Sep 06, 2022•29 min
Adult Entertainment (confidence, shame and awkwardness)
Looking at how sexuality is approached.
Sep 05, 2022•57 min
Adult Entertainment (consent)
Early steps.
Sep 04, 2022•20 min
Adult Entertainment (my new series & the complexities)
Please bear with my intro! It is very brainstorming vibes.
Sep 03, 2022•44 min
My Queer Dreams (San Francisco)
Another dream that I don’t remember. This dream occurred before I attended San Fran Pride 2019.
Sep 02, 2022•14 min
My Queer Dreams (showers, a recurring location)
This is a dream that I do not currently recall, it apparently I’ve dreamt of the location multiple times before.
Sep 01, 2022•13 min
My Queer Dreams ( Amber’s Closet)
Not sure why I had a dream with Amber from Amber’s Closet in it. I don’t even recall this one. Then I go I to talking about some memories from my teen years.
Aug 31, 2022•14 min
My Queer Dreams (Masc presenting females)
This dream took me back to some childhood memories and how I used to crush on some masc presenting females back when I was as young as age 5.
Aug 30, 2022•21 min
My Queer Dreams (L Word and a crush)
Back with another queer dreams episode. I pulled this from my 2020 “archives.” Enjoy!
Aug 29, 2022•13 min
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