In this episode, Dr. Cathryn shares big-hearted, practical ways to help your toddler feel secure, loved, and included when welcoming a new baby. From sharing the news to handling jealousy and sibling meetings, this episode helps big feelings feel a little smaller — for everyone. Resources: The Big-Hearted School Of Parenting Follow Dr Cathryn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healthiest_baby/
Still waiting for your toddler to want to use the potty? You’re not alone—and you’re not doing anything wrong. In this episode, Dr. Cathryn shares why the traditional “wait for readiness” advice might be leading to more stress, not less. You’ll learn: 🚽 Why your smart, capable toddler might be avoiding the potty 🧠 How readiness isn’t a fixed milestone—you can build it. ✨ 5 simple steps to set your child up for potty success (before you ditch diapers) 💪 Why Potty Prep reduces pressure and incr...
Ever feel like your toddler’s tantrums come out of nowhere—and take forever to end? You’re not alone. In today’s episode, Dr. Cathryn shares a big-hearted, science-backed approach to handling tantrums that actually works. Order my new book Toddlers Made Easy Join the Big-Hearted School of Parenting Follow me on Instagram
Struggling to set boundaries without caving or feeling that familiar pang of guilt? In this episode, Dr. Cathryn explores the art of big-hearted parenting—where firm boundaries meet empathy and understanding. Discover how acknowledging your child’s feelings and using clear, compassionate communication can turn even the toughest moments into powerful opportunities for connection. You’ll walk away with practical strategies to stay calm, consistent, and confident, even when it feels challenging. Re...
In this episode of Toddlers Made Easy, Dr. Cathryn explores why children wake up at night and how to manage it. Drawing from personal experiences, including a notable sleep mistake with her daughter, Dr. Cathryn explains the impact of ineffective sleep associations, fears, and separation anxiety on night wakings. She also touches on medical causes like sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, and eczema. Learn about the recommended sleep needs for toddlers and discover practical tips for improving yo...
In today’s episode, Dr. Cathryn walks you through what to do — and what not to do — when your toddler hits, bites, or kicks. Whether you’re managing a red fire truck turf war or a kick on the way to the car, this episode offers a big-hearted, research-backed roadmap to help you stay calm, confident, and connected — even in the trickiest moments. 💛 Big-Hearted School of Parenting is opening again soon! Learn to parent with more calm and confidence — without all the guilt or second-guessing. 👉 J...
Is potty training turning into a power struggle? Let’s change that. In this episode of Toddlers Made Easy, Dr. Cathryn introduces a game-changing method she calls Lazy Potty Training — a no-pressure, emotionally smart approach that helps toddlers transition out of diapers at their own pace. Forget bootcamps, sticker charts, and rushed weekends. This method blends structure and freedom so kids feel confident, curious, and proud, not resistant or afraid. You’ll learn: ✅ What “lazy potty training” ...
Tired of dinner turning into a battlefield? You’re not alone. In this episode, I’m answering real questions from parents about toddler mealtime struggles — like food throwing, picky eating, dessert demands, and why kids eat better at daycare than at home. You’ll learn: ✅ What to say when your toddler throws food ✅ Whether to serve dessert with dinner ✅ What to do if your child refuses dinner but wants a snack later ✅ How long toddlers really should sit at the table ✅ Why screens at meals might b...
This week, Dr. Cathryn introduces you to a parenting game-changer: the Big-Hearted Interpretation (BHI). Ever felt frustrated or overwhelmed by your toddler's tantrums, meltdowns, or seemingly impossible behavior? BHI is a simple but powerful mindset shift that helps you see your child’s toughest moments in a new light—leading to less stress for you and more cooperation from your child. In this episode, you'll discover: Exactly what a Big-Hearted Interpretation is and why it matters Real-life ex...
Is your toddler waking up at 2AM (again)? Instead of repeating “Go back to bed,” try this big-hearted, research-backed approach that helps your child feel safe and stay in bed — without tears or power struggles. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ Why toddlers wake at night ✅ A comforting strategy that builds self-soothing skills ✅ How to introduce a “Midnight Helper” stuffed animal ✅ What to say (and not say) during wake-ups It’s simple. It’s powerful. And you can start tonight. ✨ Want more big-he...
Think toddler tantrums are just chaos to survive? Think again. In this episode, Dr. Cathryn shares how the challenging moments—like cup battles and banana breakdowns—are actually brain-building opportunities. You’ll learn: • Why toddlers aren't terrible—they’re under construction • What’s really happening in your child’s brain during tantrums • How small mindset shifts can change everything • The truth behind the phrase “Terrible Twos” • Why play isn’t a break from learning—it is learning • How ...
Your toddler just hit their sibling—again—and your instinct is to react: “That’s not nice!” “Say sorry!” “Go to your room!” Totally understandable. But here’s what most parents don’t realize: 👉 Hitting is rarely about being “bad.” It’s a sign your child is overwhelmed and doesn’t yet have the skills to cope. In this episode, we cover: 🧠 Why toddlers hit, push, or bite 🚫 What common responses can actually make things worse 🔁 How to respond in a way that teaches better behavior over time 🎯 Re...
Ready But Resistant — What to Do When Your Child Won’t Sit on the Potty Your toddler seems ready to potty train—but refuses to even sit on the potty? You’re not alone. In today’s episode, Dr. Cathryn breaks down why kids can be physically ready but emotionally resistant—and what to do about it. You’ll learn: The real reason toddlers say “no” to the potty What not to do (hint: no pushing, no bribes) Exactly what to say instead When to pause and how to restart with success ✨ This is potty learning...
🎙 Episode Title: The Ultimate Toolbox for Big-Hearted Parenting: Feel like you’re winging it every time your toddler melts down, refuses to listen, or pushes every limit? In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate toolbox—real-life scripts, calming strategies, and mindset shifts you can lean on when things get hard. Whether it’s tantrums, power struggles, or just the everyday chaos of raising a toddler, these tools will help you respond with confidence, calm, and connection. 💟 Want the Paren...
Toddlers can be very persistent—whether it’s demanding a cookie right now or refusing to leave the playground. But their behavior isn’t about being spoiled or manipulative—it’s about developing impulse control and emotional regulation. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✔️ Why toddlers seem so demanding (and why it’s not personal) ✔️ What not to say in the heat of the moment ✔️ How to use redos to teach better ways to ask for things ✔️ The power of play and role-playing to build skills ✔️ Why stayin...
Ever feel like your toddler just doesn’t listen? In this episode, Dr. Cathryn breaks down simple, effective ways to talk with your toddler so they *actually* engage and listen—without power struggles or meltdowns. What You’ll Learn: ✔️ Why short and simple sentences work best ✔️ How connection makes kids more likely to listen ✔️ The power of tone—what you say and how you say it ✔️ How giving choices can prevent battles ✔️ Why saying what they can do (instead of what they can’t) matters ✔️ A simp...
Potty Training the Big-Hearted Way: A Stress-Free Approach to Ditching Diapers Dr. Cathryn introduces "lazy potty training" - a balanced approach that avoids both strict parent-led timelines and completely child-led methods. Key Points: Focus on creating a supportive environment rather than rushing the process Look for physical readiness signs (dry for 2+ hours, regular bowel movements . . .) Pre-potty training steps include modeling, normalizing potty use, and discussing body cues Use gentle gu...
Being a toddler is tough—and parenting one? Also tough! In this episode, Dr. Cathryn shares why toddlers struggle with impulse control, why their behavior isn’t “misbehavior,” and how to set them up for success with developmentally-smart discipline. Learn practical strategies like supervising with guidance, prepping kids for transitions, modeling behavior, and noticing the good—so you can reduce challenges and support your child’s natural growth. What You’ll Learn: ✅ Why toddlers act impulsively...
In this episode of Toddlers Made Easy, Dr. Cathryn shares three simple steps to stay calm even when your child pushes your buttons. What You’ll Learn: ✔ Why toddlers don’t listen (and how to work with their development, not against it) ✔ The real reason parents snap (hint: it’s not just about your toddler’s behavior) ✔ 3 practical steps to keep your cool when you feel triggered ✔ A powerful bonus tip to make staying calm easier LINKS AND RESOURCES: Our *bestselling* online courses are already he...
In this episode of "Toddlers Made Easy," Dr. Cathryn shares insights from her own parenting journey, focusing on how to effectively handle toddler tantrums. Discover why traditional methods like time-outs may not always work and learn about the natural stages of a tantrum, from anger to sadness. Dr. Cathryn emphasizes the importance of understanding toddler behavior as a form of communication, not misbehavior. She offers practical strategies for prevention and calm intervention, highlighting the...
Why do I focus on toddlers when I'm experienced with kids of all ages? In this episode, Dr. Cathryn focuses on the vital role of the toddler years, challenging the notion of the 'Terrible Twos' and rebranding them as the 'Terribly Important Twos.' We discussed how toddlers still need as much emotional support as they did as infants, despite their growing independence. Key strategies for successful parenting include validating emotions, maintaining calm during tantrums, and encouraging emotional ...
In this episode of "Toddlers Made Easy," we're diving into the EASY method—a transformative technique to help you navigate toddler tantrums with grace and effectiveness. Inspired by my own experiences as a pediatrician and a mom, EASY is all about creating a calm and connected approach to those challenging moments. Let’s break it down: **E**valuate: Take a power pause to create space between your child’s behavior and your reaction. Use deep breathing or grounding techniques to calm your nervous ...
Join Dr. Cathryn in this episode as she guides you through handling tough toddler moments with calmness and empathy. Learn to see past the surface behavior and understand your child's emotions. For example, if your toddler says "I hate the baby", instead of ignoring these feelings, acknowledge and understand them. Think about how you feel when someone dismisses your bad day; your child needs to feel heard just like you do. And teach them to express big emotions with words, not actions. Keep in m...
Power struggles with toddlers can feel exhausting—but they don’t have to be inevitable. In this episode, I’ll share simple, big-hearted ways to prevent battles before they start. Learn how to give your child a sense of control, offer the right kind of choices, and use playfulness to shift the dynamic. Plus, I’ll answer a listener’s question about bedtime struggles with a strong-willed toddler. LINKS AND RESOURCES: ONLINE COURSES Toddlers Made Easy Course Potty Training Made Easy WORKSHOPS Help Y...
In this episode of Toddlers Made Easy, Dr. Cathryn dives into why toddlers hit, kick, or bite and how to respond with calm, big-hearted strategies. Learn the two-part approach to managing aggression: focus on safety in the moment and teach better responses later. Discover simple ways to prevent aggression, like prepping for playdates, staying tuned to your child’s frustration cues, and teaching calming strategies. Plus, Dr. Cathryn answers a listener’s question about managing bedtime battles. Fo...
Podcast Episode Show Notes: Toddler Sleep Q&A In this episode of Toddlers Made Easy, Dr. Cathryn answers some of the most common sleep challenges parents face with toddlers and preschoolers. Topics covered: A 22-month-old who won’t sleep without holding a parent’s hand A 3-year-old resisting bedtime and asking to go back downstairs A 5-year-old struggling to stay in their own bed Dr. Cathryn shares big-hearted, gentle strategies to: Help your child fall asleep independently Reduce bedtime ba...
In today's episode, Dr. Cathryn is tackling a question many parents grapple with: "Am I expecting too much from my toddler?" From tantrums to transitions, we’ll explore how adjusting expectations to match your toddler’s developmental stage can make parenting smoother and more enjoyable. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why toddlers aren’t mini adults and how their developing brains shape their behavior. Common pitfalls of expecting too much and how it leads to frustration. Practical ways to ad...
Dr Cathryn is tackling a topic that might seem simple but is actually a big deal for little ones: understanding time. Hear about Marcus, a 3.5-year-old who loves the swings but struggles when it's time to leave. Why? Because his mom is giving a warning like this: “We’re leaving in 5 minutes.” Kids can't see or touch time, so they don't understand it like adults do. But as they grow, they start to get it through routines and daily patterns. Today’s Tips: 1. Use Sequences: Tell your child, "First ...
Today, we’re diving into bedtime struggles and simple tweaks to make evenings smoother for everyone. What You’ll Learn: Why Bedtime Feels So Hard for Toddlers Separation anxiety, big imaginations, and FOMO are just a few reasons your child resists bedtime. Understanding these struggles is the first step to solving them. How to Build a Calming Bedtime Routine Learn the power of small, consistent rituals like deep breathing, using comfort objects, and creating a cozy sleep space to help your toddl...
Tired of time-outs and tantrums? In this episode, I’ll share why punishment doesn’t work and what to do instead so that you can handle tricky moments with calm and confidence. Why Punishment Fails: It stops behavior in the moment but hurts self-esteem and creates fear. What Toddlers Need: They’re not being “bad”—they’re still learning to manage big feelings and impulses. The E.A.S.Y. Approach: A simple, big-hearted way to teach better behavior without punishment. Links to Toddlers Made Easy and ...
