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Thrive Again - Your relationship podcast

Michael & Amywww.buzzsprout.com

Guiding a positive redesign in the relationship we have with our partner and ourselves. Offering tools, strategies and personal insights to bring your relationship from barely surviving to thriving.

We are Michael and Amy, your couples connection coaches.

Our mission is to help relationships to THRIVE again! 

A bit about us...

We met in 2005 and married in 2009, welcomed two children in 2010 and 2012. Our relationship has had many ups and downs since we first met.

-  Mental breakdowns from work overload
- Massive stresses from a premature baby
- Scare with ovarian cancer
- Dealing with financial pressures
- Not knowing ourselves!

This led us to experiencing:
- A communication breakdown
- Arguments and not understanding each other
- Living separately under one roof
- Exhaustion!

This podcast is for couples and singles who want to unlock their relationship potential using a conscious and holistic approach that brought us back to a state of beautiful harmony.


One of the basic human needs is to feel LOVE and CONNECTION but our modern life has led us to feel disconnected and isolated more than ever before. 

This podcast is all about helping you to RECONNECT as a couple at a deeper, more meaningful, soul level. 

Now, both working as coaches we share insights, client breakthroughs and personal stories to move your relationships from barely surviving to absolutely thriving! 


www.michaelandamy.com.au



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Episodes

How to Create a Conscious Relationship through Radical Truth: With Aaron & Greer

What if your relationship struggles were actually doorways to deeper connection? Aaron and Greer, the heart behind Intimacy for Couples, dive deep into what truly transforms relationships from mundane to transformational. Their journey began unconventionally—as friends for a year before romance entered the picture, allowing them to establish radical honesty without the expectations and attachments that often complicate partnerships. When they finally came together romantically, Aaron was thrust ...

Jul 08, 202557 minSeason 1Ep. 58

What If Your Breakup Is Actually Your Breakthrough? A Conversation With Breakup Coach Janice Formichella

Ever wondered why breakups hurt so physically and mentally? There's real science behind your post-breakup brain fog – studies show your IQ can temporarily drop by up to 25% during heartbreak! Breakup coach Janice Formichella joins us for an eye-opening conversation about the neuroscience of heartbreak and how ending a relationship can become a catalyst for profound personal transformation. Drawing from her own journey from Mormon marriage to domestic violence survivor to empowered coach, Janice ...

Jun 24, 202545 minSeason 1Ep. 57

We Almost Lost Each Other Until We Found Ourselves: Our Relationship Journey

Have you ever wondered what transforms a struggling relationship into a thriving partnership? In this raw and vulnerable conversation, Michael and Amy share their journey from disconnected partners to heart-led relationship coaches who now guide other couples through their darkest moments. Their story begins like many others – following society's prescribed path of marriage, homeownership, and children without questioning deeper meaning. As Michael pushed himself in his paramedic career and Amy ...

Jun 10, 20251 hrSeason 1Ep. 56

Roommates to Lovers: How to Break Free from Emotional Distance

Feeling more like flatmates than lovers? You're not alone. That gradual drift from passionate partners to practical co-managers happens in countless relationships—and it happened to us too. The statistics paint a stark picture: only 9% of couples feel satisfied with their communication, and emotional disengagement predicts divorce better than conflict does. Contrary to what many believe, relationships don't typically end because of explosive arguments but because partners stop turning toward eac...

May 27, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 55

Why Self-Alignment Matters Most: A Conversation With Melissa Thomson

What if the key to deeper relationships begins with your relationship to yourself? In this transformative conversation with heart-led mentor Melissa Thompson, we explore how intentionality and self-alignment form the foundation for authentic connection with others. Drawing from over two decades in the wellbeing and transformation space, including founding and leading a Steiner School for ten years, Melissa shares practical wisdom about developing self-leadership in our rapidly changing world. Ra...

May 13, 202550 minSeason 1Ep. 54

How to rebuild trust and safety after a relationship storm, without rehashing the pain

Relationship storms hit every couple. The real test isn't whether you argue, but how you rebuild in the aftermath. If you've ever found yourself smoothing things over with a quick "I'm sorry" or makeup sex without actually addressing what happened, you're not alone – but you're also not building lasting trust. In this revealing conversation, we unpack why most couples get stuck in harmful cycles after conflicts. We distinguish between rehashing (going over every detail and assigning blame) and p...

Apr 29, 202523 minSeason 1Ep. 53

The 5 Minute Relationship Check-in: A Ritual that Skyrockets Connection

Feeling disconnected from your partner despite living under the same roof? The solution might be simpler than you think. We share a powerful five-minute relationship check-in ritual that has transformed our connection and that of countless couples we've worked with. When relationships hit rough patches, we often overcomplicate the solution, seeing our partner as "the problem" and cycling through the same arguments. But frequently, the missing piece isn't complex – it's about prioritisation, emot...

Apr 15, 202516 minSeason 1Ep. 52

The Hidden Struggles of Couples in Business

Entrepreneurial couples face unique challenges as they navigate the complex terrain of mixing business with pleasure, creating potential ticking time bombs in their relationship unless key issues are addressed. • Separating work from love: Business conversations can easily invade personal time, transforming partners into co-workers at home • Power struggles and role confusion: Working together amplifies existing relationship dynamics and creates confusion about decision-making authority • Stress...

Apr 01, 202526 minSeason 1Ep. 52

The Four Hidden Reasons Women Walk Away and How to Become the Man She Can’t Resist

The moment your partner announces they're unhappy—or worse, that they want to leave—can feel like the ground has disappeared beneath your feet. But what if these "sudden" announcements aren't sudden at all? In this deeply insightful episode, relationship coach Michael unpacks the four hidden reasons women walk away from men, often leaving them shocked and confused. Drawing from years of experience working with couples in crisis, Michael explains how men frequently develop blind spots while focus...

Mar 18, 202529 min

From Taboo to Connection: Breaking Barriers In Sexual Communication with Laura Lee

Join us in a thought-provoking conversation with Laura, an esteemed psychologist and sexologist, as we probe into the often-overlooked interplay between psychological well-being and sexual health. This episode confronts the stigma that surrounds discussions of intimacy and sexuality while exploring effective communication techniques to foster deeper connections in romantic relationships. Laura shares invaluable insights from her extensive experience, highlighting how societal norms and personal ...

Mar 04, 202542 minSeason 1Ep. 50

5 Reasons Traditional Marriage Counselling Doesn't Work. And What To Do Instead

Traditional marriage counseling often scratches the surface of relationship issues, leaving deeper-rooted problems unresolved. We've lived through the frustrations of ineffective therapy sessions, and in our latest episode, we promise to share a revolutionary perspective that can truly transform your relationship dynamics. We challenge the conventional methods that focus on surface-level conversations and instead, dive into the heart of control dynamics and the lasting impact of past family expe...

Feb 18, 202524 minSeason 1Ep. 49

Reigniting Desire: Transforming Stagnation into Passion - Without the Pressure

Unlock the secrets to transforming your relationship from surviving to thriving by rekindling emotional and physical intimacy. Discover how emotional disconnection can turn physical intimacy into a mere obligation and learn strategies to reignite the desire. We'll share insights from the Gottman Institute on balancing safety and mystery in relationships, helping you create a secure environment where intimacy can flourish. Through our own experiences of overcoming career pressures and family resp...

Feb 05, 202528 minSeason 1Ep. 48

Transforming Relationship Insecurities: Overcoming Jealousy with Shanenn Bryant

Imagine navigating the turbulent waters of jealousy and insecurity in relationships with newfound clarity and confidence. Shanenn Bryant, our insightful guest and a pattern transformation expert, shares her deeply personal journey from feeling unlovable due to a chaotic childhood and parental divorce to understanding the roots of her own jealousy and insecurity. Shanenn is passionate about breaking the stigma around these emotions and creating a safe space where they can be openly discussed. Her...

Jan 21, 202544 minSeason 1Ep. 47

Re-energise Your Relationship Through Personal Goals and Boundaries

We explore how setting personal goals and embracing self-love fosters deeper connections in relationships. The episode delves into the significance of growth-oriented mindsets, personal non-negotiables, the importance of supportive partners, and how to avoid stagnation in love. • Reflecting on the past year for growth • Setting intentions for strong relationships • The role of individual goals in partnerships • Importance of non-negotiables for personal commitment • Navigating differing aspirati...

Jan 07, 202526 minSeason 1Ep. 46

Navigating Holiday Stress: Strengthening Your Relationship Through Effective Communication

Navigating the festive season with your partner can sometimes feel like a tightrope walk through social obligations, family gatherings, and holiday stress. Imagine having a toolkit to maintain harmony and connection even amidst the chaos. That's exactly what we explore in this episode, where we share personal anecdotes and insights into tackling relationship challenges that often arise during the holidays. From dealing with increased socialization and the stress of family visits to managing anxi...

Dec 23, 202420 min

Breaking the Cycle: How Childhood Wounds Show Up in Adult Relationships

Unlock the hidden potential of your relationships by examining the shadows cast by childhood experiences. Have you ever wondered how your past shapes your present love life? Discover the transformative power of understanding childhood wounds with us, as we unravel stories like Lisa and Grant's journey from conflict to connection. Their story sheds light on how Lisa's chaotic upbringing influenced her independence and trust, affecting her relationship with Grant, and how taking radical responsibi...

Dec 10, 202431 minSeason 1Ep. 44

Getting to the Core of it: Mastering Core Needs to Unlock Your Relationship Potential

Unlock the full potential of your relationships by mastering the art of understanding and communicating core needs. Imagine moving beyond surface conflicts to cultivate genuine intimacy and passion—our episode promises to guide you on this transformative path. We share personal insights that highlight how identifying deeper needs like reassurance, feeling prioritised, and balancing freedom with security can significantly enhance trust and connection with your partner. Learn how expressing these ...

Nov 26, 202423 minSeason 1Ep. 43

The Journey to Sexual Empowerment: How Radical Presence Can Lead to Deeper Connection with Jordan Hackett

Unlock the secrets of transforming your intimate relationships as we engage in a candid conversation with Jordan Hackett, an international mentor specializing in men's sexuality and relationships. Jordan's personal journey from grappling with fears and shame around masculinity to becoming a transformative figure in this field offers powerful insights that promise to change the way you perceive sexual dynamics. Join us as we uncover how embracing one's sexual power can lead to a life brimming wit...

Nov 12, 202448 minSeason 1Ep. 42

How To Support Your Anxious Partner Without Sacrificing Your Needs

Understanding anxiety in relationships can be a game-changer for fostering a healthy partnership. Imagine navigating the complexities of reassurance and unmet needs with the wisdom of Gabor Maté at your side. We promise you'll learn how anxiety often springs from unresolved emotional pain and how recognizing these roots is crucial for support. Through the lens of my own experiences with my wife, Amy, I uncover the clash between my laid-back nature and her need for control, illustrating the vital...

Oct 29, 202416 minSeason 1Ep. 41

5 Massive Reasons Your Communication Sucks

Ever wondered why effective communication in relationships seems so elusive? Join us as we uncover the five most substantial barriers to meaningful conversation with insights from personal experiences and the renowned Gottman Institute. We unravel the complexities of past conditioning that keep us from speaking up, leading to confusion and disconnection. Our journey delves into the necessity of having a partner who welcomes communication without defensiveness, while also challenging the myth tha...

Oct 15, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 40

The Power of Vulnerability: How Michael's Insecurity Brought Us Closer

Have you ever wondered why vulnerability is often misunderstood in relationships? In this episode of Thrive Again, Amy and I challenge the superficial buzz around vulnerability and dive deep into its true essence: emotional awareness and mutual support. We reflect on the societal pressures that condition men to suppress their emotions and women to embrace hyper-independence, and how these norms create barriers to deeper connections. By sharing our personal experiences, we advocate for breaking d...

Oct 01, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 39

Creating a Path to Unity: The Future Vision

The bliss of initial romance is so often followed by the drudgery of parallel lives. Work, kids, stress, finances, arguments... Without a map in hand, your relationship can become aimless and chaotic, and you will engage in random, stopgap behaviours to cope with your problems and conflicts. Most likely, the relationship you now have is a creation of your separate desires and needs. You and your partner are trying to bring your individual dreams into reality, to your mutual frustration. You have...

Sep 17, 202415 minSeason 1Ep. 38

A Man's Blueprint for Relationship Success: A Conversation with Kyle Levier

Discover the art of transforming unconscious relationship patterns with our guest Kyle Levier, a former construction worker who is now a communication and relationship coach. As a man, who is committed to self awareness, freedom and liberation, Kyle has gained deep inner-standings through his spiritual perspectives and communication. Kyle's relationships are deepening and become more fulfilling and he is now able to offer his knowledge through lived experiences and active development, to support...

Sep 03, 20241 hr 2 minSeason 1Ep. 37

Reclaiming Connection in the Digital Era: Practical Tips for Connection

Ever feel like modern life is pulling you away from your partner? Discover how you can reclaim those lost moments of connection amidst the chaos. In this episode of Thrive Again, we tackle the pervasive issue of modern distractions, especially the internet and social media, and their detrimental impact on relationship satisfaction and intimacy. By dissecting some eye-opening statistics, we highlight how excessive online presence contributes to a perceived scarcity of time and energy for meaningf...

Aug 20, 202425 minSeason 1Ep. 36

Chase and Retreat: The Pursuer Withdrawer Dance

Could your relationship dynamics be silently sabotaging your connection? We unpack the demand-withdraw pattern that subtly affects nearly 80% of relationships, as identified by Christensen and Heavey. Learn how this pervasive pattern, also known as the pursuer-withdrawer dynamic, can turn a thriving relationship into a distressed one. We promise you'll gain insights into emotional focus therapy and the significant role of attachment theory in nurturing deeper, more meaningful connections. Explor...

Aug 06, 202431 minSeason 1Ep. 35

How to Navigate Parenting Differences and Managing "Meltdowns": A Conversation with Jess Arachchi - Family Dynamic Specialist

Have you ever wondered how your childhood experiences shape your approach to parenting? Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Jess Arachchi, the inspiring founder and CEO of the Happy Home Network. Jess shares her powerful story of overcoming a tumultuous childhood marked by her father's addiction and her mother's mental health struggles. Through her journey, Jess discovered the profound impact of parents' emotional well-being on their children's development and happiness. Tune in to hear he...

Jul 23, 202449 minSeason 1Ep. 34

STOP Neglecting Relationships Outside of Your Romantic One

How do you strike the perfect balance in your relationships to achieve true happiness and well-being? In this episode of Thrive Again, we promise to unpack the secrets behind nurturing not just romantic bonds but also friendships, family connections, and most importantly, your relationship with yourself. Drawing from our personal journeys, client anecdotes, and pearls of wisdom from experts like Jay Shetty, we confront the modern epidemic of loneliness and the role our tech-immersed lives play i...

Jul 09, 202429 minSeason 1Ep. 33

Mastering the Art of Connection through Love Languages

Can understanding your partner's love language save your relationship? Unlock the key to deeper connections with our latest episode, where we dig into Gary Chapman's transformative concept of love languages. We'll share real-life stories and practical advice on how words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, and quality time can make a world of difference in how cherished your partner feels. Don't miss out on learning how to make your words and actions speak directly to their heart. E...

Jun 25, 202417 minSeason 1Ep. 32

Growing Together, Not Apart: Overcoming the Friction of Individual Growth in Relationships

When was the last time you felt your personal growth was causing friction in your relationship? Join us as we recount our decade-long journey navigating the complexities of growing individually while staying connected as a couple. Through reflections, we explore the emotional rollercoaster of feeling abandoned, frustrated, and misunderstood when our personal development paths diverged. Our honest conversation aims to provide you with relatable insights and show that reconnection is possible, eve...

Jun 11, 202431 minSeason 1Ep. 31

Is Resentment Fuelling Disconnect?: A Guide to Dissolving the Discontent

Did your parents ever sit you down for "the talk" about how to navigate the turbulent waters of resentment in a relationship? Odds are, they didn't. That's why Amy and I are here to fill in the gaps with a heartfelt exploration of this crucial yet often overlooked issue. As we unravel the knotty emotions of bitterness and unmet needs, we share stories from our clients and ourselves, offering a lifeline to those silently struggling in their partnerships. Our conversation reveals how unchecked res...

May 28, 202438 minSeason 1Ep. 30
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