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Thoughts Unfiltered Podcast with Dr. Tebello

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Join Dr. Tebello, as she empowers and equips the voices of women, by intersecting Faith, Law and Culture! With Striking, yet warm conversations filled with Laughter, Dr Tebello invites us to deeply think more about life’s issues and how to approach them with boldness.
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Episodes

Relentless Obedience & overcoming our fears in God w/ Ms. Zethu Ngema

In this exciting episode, I am joined by my dear friend Ms. Zethu Ngema! Zethu is a believer, sister, daughter and friend to many. She has a background in mechanical engineering and works as a consultant. She is a poet and creative. She is a podcaster and speaker who is an avid reader, enthusiastic gymer who loves exploring. Today She shares about the honest truth on Relentless Obedience! A journey that most of us have not yet arrived at or achieved but a journey worth travelling in order to att...

Apr 08, 202359 minSeason 2Ep. 8

A blessing for you who lost too much too quickly: My 2022 story on suffering grief, loss and pain!

Hey, Hey, Hey Beloveds! Today, Join me Adv. Tebello as I share my personal experience on grief, loss and pain! A journey travelled by many but Recovered by a few! This is a time of learning that it’s okay to be slow in life. Slow to heal, slow to rush to the next thing and just be in the moment of Recovery! Life and Hope is still found in pain. Buckle up, in this one get some tissues forrrrrrrr realllll! And come hang!

Feb 24, 202336 minSeason 2Ep. 7

Breaking Away from Unhealthy Generational Patterns with Ms. Olga Mapanje

It is not a hidden fact that every family has unhealthy patterns that seem generational or seem to be repeating themselves from one generation to another! It can either be unhealthy marriages, adultery, unhealthy behaviour of drug abuse, alcoholism, GBV, poor money management, scarcity mentality, and so on! In this exciting EP, Adv. Tebello is joined by Her Friend Ms. Olga Mapanje who shares her story and journey of breaking away from unhealthy generational patterns! Her story is both touching a...

Feb 17, 202335 minSeason 2Ep. 6

Overcoming body Shaming Part 2 from a Man’s Perspective with Mr Job Tatenda Tendenedzai!

In the past episode we shared on tackling the horrific elephant of body shaming in women and reclaiming our power back, but in todays episode we are joined by a gentleman who enlightens the world through his voice and story on body shaming in Men! Most topics when addressed in the public arena, are mostly addressed to women and for women, But Mr Job comes to share that ‘Men too have feelings & Men too get body shamed!’ He informs us from His life story on how He dealt with Body Shaming. His ...

Feb 10, 202326 minSeason 2Ep. 5

Over-Coming Body Shaming with Ms Tsakani Mathye: Elevate Your Self: Esteem & Let Go of Shame

On this exciting episode Adv. Tebello tackles a topic that is not often spoken about and that is “Body Shaming!” She shares the possibility of overcoming this horrific elephant that has impacted many women around the world to hate on who God has created them to be and to embrace the power of reclaiming your identity! She is joined by Her Friend Ms. Tsakani Mathye who shares her trauma with body shaming and how as an adult she still needs to recover from the bashing annoying comments of people of...

Feb 03, 202340 minSeason 2Ep. 4

Ms. Nala Masigo On Beauty, Fashion & Lifestyle as a Ministering tool: myths & misconceptions.

On this exciting Episode we have with us, Ms. Nala Masigo who is a Beauty, fashion & lifestyle influencer. She debunks the myths that exist within the Christian culture about being materialistic if one is into beauty and fashion. She exposes the theory of 'slay queens' concepts ensnaring into the church and affecting how we sometimes view this form of Art. She extracts from scripture and shares stories like (queen Esther) who God used her for her physical beauty to advance his Kingdom. God m...

Oct 15, 20221 hr 8 minSeason 2Ep. 3

Mrs. Tefelo Matela Mahlangu on the Naked Truth about Marriage: Character Development and Confidence.

In this amazing Episode, Mrs Tefelo Matela Mahlangu shares insights on the naked truth about Marriage. She extracts these insights from her own life lessons she had to learn in the early years of her marriage. It was not easy, it was refining and as She puts it 'she became the sacrificial lamb' where God had to use her as living proof to show what a restored image of marriage like Heaven looks like after her own hardships. Now She encourages and helps hundreds of people married through her blog ...

Oct 01, 20221 hr 8 minSeason 2Ep. 2

REFLECTIONS

|| Reflections. In our need to have a safe space full of security and consistency, sometimes, we use our angry & fearful emotions to articulate what our hearts are spelling out ' can I have someone to listen to my story.' I wonder who we would be, if we allowed our words/ voices bring healing rather than demeaning attitudes towards one another. I wonder who we would be if our stories are told raw and naked as they come, so that they inspire & liberate those bound by the same struggles. I...

Jun 26, 202225 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Cultivating Authentic Friendships

Is Friendship breakups a real thing? If it's real how do we recover or heal from the loss of a friendship? How do we permit ourselves to grieve well? And how do we cultivate an authentic friendship? My friend Fumane shares in detail about all of this. She draws from her own experiences and pours wisdom on having permission to grieve a lost friendship. She further encourages us, to have faith and pray for Christ- centered friendships that glorify God. She also alludes that it is possible to leave...

Jun 09, 20221 hr 2 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Love on a Mission-Field: Marriage, Finances, Cultural differences & Gender roles

I just looooove L.O.V.E♡ In this exciting new episode, I have my friends CJ and Sasha Serojane, who are full-time missionaries in Malawi! They share their love story, on how they met, and on how they just knew that they were meant to be together. Although, they have had their own fair share of facing storms in their marriage, I love their Wisdom and perspective on how Christ is their solid foundation in their marriage, which makes it more worth it to be married. Being Married young, there was de...

May 21, 202247 minSeason 1Ep. 8

The Importance of Beginning with SELF (BONUS EP)

Have you ever felt like self-love is being selfish? Like you have to take care of others before you take of yourself? Like you have turned into a people pleasing person because you are afraid of showing up for yourself? This episode is for You sis! Come learn, implement and share!

May 06, 202219 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Let's talk "Finances!"

Are our brothers sometimes delaying to pop the question?/ taking us out because "Chankuraaaa"?? Too much Lobola; less in their pockets & pressures attached. Are men sometimes intimidated by women who earn more? Are we delayed because "Black tax" baba? How important is it to talk about Finances in the early stages of dating? Debt? View on Finances? How does God view money? Is money demonized or a blessing? Join me with my two handsome friends as we tackle the issue of Finances! I got to ask. ...

Apr 17, 202249 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Navigating Interracial Friendships: Loving Beyond Race

"True friendship is humbling, because it reveals our weaknesses...but we need to trust God with our hearts."- Moné Nel My friend Moné shares so intensely in this episode that; in order to enjoy interracial friendships we need to surrender our sight in exchange for God's sight. When we begin to see people as God sees them, we are left with nothing but the height to enjoy his mysteries carried in different people. God created Color, God sees color, God embraces color and so should we. Does God hav...

Mar 20, 202248 minSeason 1Ep. 6

"Unfinished Lobola in a customary marriage & it's impacts on the rights of Black women!"

When the Europeans imported their legal systems into Africa, the indigenous people had already been following their own normative systems for several centuries. There was ancient ways that African people followed in certain areas of their lives, including LOBOLA. But the result of the western legal standards that were infused to interpret customary law impacted Africa negatively. The effect of this dilemma resulted in the formulation of African principles in ways that exacerbated patriachy and i...

Feb 22, 202229 minSeason 1Ep. 5

You are Not Your Mistakes: Relax!

From experiencing Emotional Abuse from her own mother to abusing alcohol, entering abusive relationships and Ultimately living a redeemed Life in Christ. My friend and Sister Felicity shares some of her intimate parts of her life story in this Podcast. Along the way she made a lot of mistakes as a result of her tainted identity that was shaped by years of abuse. She shares some of these mistakes, how she learned from them and how she inspires women around her, including myself, to know that "You...

Feb 07, 202245 minSeason 1Ep. 4

The messy beauty of starting over

If you are in the process of wondering if you should start over, this episode is for you! The process of starting over is messy but worth every step and effort. Today I am joined by my friend, Tsakani Mathye who shares her real story of starting over. She shares on being delivered from the slavery of comfort and the opinions of people. She shares how she moved from ministry, studying and starting her business. She is a powerhouse! To be in contact with her please find her on Instagram:@pen2paper...

Jan 30, 202240 minSeason 1Ep. 3

The Birth of Simply She Voiced

Have you ever felt like you have given up too soon on your childhood dreams? Felt stuck in something that you ran to while running away from something? God is calling you out today! Come Join me Adv. Tebello as I share my story of redemption in the legal fraternity. A girl that was once afraid to voice in a courtroom is voicing on paper and encouraging others to chase their God given dreams.

Jan 20, 202217 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Introduction

Come and get excited with me! As I greet you with the highest tone! lol. Welcome to SimplySheVoiced.with Adv Tebello Family. We grow as we move. Whatever project is laid on your heart, start! don't hold back because of Fear or because no one will like it! if God likes it, that's enough! Faith without works is dead! Love y'all!

Jan 18, 202219 min
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