What should you do when the family are stressing you? Do you have to turn up for EVERY family event? Is Netflix and hide a real thing? What should you do when being around loved ones are triggered? Not everything is your circus and not everyone is your monkey. The Wild Ones give this extra special Christmas episode to help you navigate the holiday times, because we know these aren’t always easy. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram: th...
Dec 21, 2018•47 min
What IS 16 Days of Activism? Should there be a queer feminist critique of the campaign? Is this s**t working? What are the different types of violence we need to look out for outside of putting your hands on someone? Also we ask @QueerWoc on a podcast date! The Wild Ones chatted about 16 Days of Activism and how it needs to thought of in different ways. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with ...
Nov 25, 2018•49 min
How do we define bisexuality? What are the myths of bisexuality? Does sleeping with a woman for 8 years disqualify you as being bisexual? Are you a monosexual? So what if I want sleep with errbody? Did Tiff see Sheena and Shaka in Nepal? How has Amanda been charging her phone whilst Tiffy was aware? Can you pay your rent off foot fetishes? The Wild Ones chatted about bisexuality and the myths and misconceptions behind it. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow Th...
Sep 25, 2018•44 min
How well should you plan? How many carbs should you eat? How much drama should you pack in your luggage? There are a whole host of wet and wild things to ensure you live your best baecation life! The Wild Ones chatted after Manda went on a fuck-cation and has returned to give us all the juice and the do’s and don’ts of snaxxxing (also known as sexing) on vacation! A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wil...
Sep 14, 2018•52 min
What do you do with your tampon when reading naked? How can naked reading help with loving your body? And why is Facebook such a hater? Also New hashtag: #Censortivity The Wild Ones sipped vino with Sibongile and Alicia from Naked Girls Reading Johburg and discussed what it's like to read with no clothes on. Could they do it? Who knows. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Aman...
Aug 21, 2018•1 hr 4 min
What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains? Also what is a lesbianic job? The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speaking A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter and Insta...
Aug 14, 2018•1 hr 5 min
What is squirting and what is the biology behind it? Can you learn to squirt? What does squirting have to do with the rivers in Rwanda? Did Tiff need to squirt or did she need to pee? What countries are searching squirting on the internet? And why is Amanda but naked on the couch? We kept catching feelings about Coachella even if it happened ages ago. This episode of The Wild Ones poured some wine and chat about squirting and the logistics. The Wild Ones also introduce Whats Poppin’ With Chu? Wh...
Jul 24, 2018•1 hr 2 min
Should I hide my poly lifestyle from my new squeeze? What do you do if your partner knows new things in bed without learning them with you? What do I do when my girlfriend sexually hurts me? Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames. Trigger warning: Sexual violence. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda o...
Jul 12, 2018•9 min
Will you eat edible panties if they come in the form of a thong? Our fave feminist farmer (NOT Criminal Minds things doe!) is back on the podcast and this time we’re chatting Food and Sensuality. Fam did you know that such a thing exists beyond edible undies? We chat about whether or not women who do not like to eat can be trusted, the awesome chef skills of our guests, how nourishing food can be both sexual, sensual and spiritual, luxurious water, and should you really be eating yogurt to balan...
Jul 03, 2018•58 min
Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!! The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. Geddit! A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through lif...
Jun 26, 2018•50 min
How do you deal with homophobic tendencies whilst being queer? How do you ask to be spanked in bed? How do you deal with having feelings for your friend? Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesn't show you flames. Follow The Wildness on Instagram the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafr...
Jun 19, 2018•21 min
How did the convo go from masturbation to having threesomes? Why wont Botho and Sibu be in a group event? How do you just FALL into a threesome? Why is Tiff trying to watch people have sex? Also Manda flashes us in the studio. Conferencing is also a mess. A whole mess. The Wild Ones sat down with Botho Maruatona and Sibu Malunga. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow Botho on IG: bkmaruatona and Sibu on IG: sibusiso_malunga Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the....
Jun 12, 2018•32 min
What can white people do to be better? How do you navigate sexuality and being a gay Indian? Does Haji like sex during the day? Why was Manda a sad panda? Also Haji joined a cult. A whole cult. The Wild Ones sat down with Haji, author of the awesome 'Sorry not Sorry experiences of a brown woman in a white South Africa', a book that explores the often maddening experience of moving through post-apartheid South Africa as a woman of colour. We chatted family, sexuality, writing, mental health, bein...
Jun 05, 2018•1 hr 12 min
This week the Wild Ones have a sit down with an awesome guest to chat Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism (BDSM). What’s in a name? Does all kink have to be called BDSM? Does it have to hurt? What the hell is a hard no and a soft yes? Also consent my people...C.O.N.S.E.N.T. Grab your homies and a glass of wine and lets chat kink and BDSM. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Ti...
Jun 01, 2018•1 hr 3 min
*Warning: this podcast had ALL the technical issues, we shall get our Skype game right.* Through first-hand accounts, She Called Me Woman challenges us to rethink what it means to be a Nigerian ‘woman’, negotiating relationships, money, sexuality and freedom, identifying outside the gender binary, and the difficulties of achieving hopes and dreams under the constraints of societal expectations and legal terrorism. “We decided to put together this collection of thirty narratives to correct the in...
May 22, 2018•38 min
What do you do when cheat on every woman I date with a man even though I hate the sex? Or you have now caught feelings for the married older woman you were having an affair with? And what do you do if you have a crush on your (potentially straight) roomate? Fear not because The Wild Ones are here to help by tackling these questions on this episode of The Wildness, answering your burning questions so life doesnt show you flames. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Fol...
May 15, 2018•14 min
Is Polyamory giving you stress? You're not the only one love. With tricky terms such as triads, truplets, primary partners and main partners, menamors and metamors, who can blame us for having a minor ‘system cannot compute’ moment? Also is it really just highkey cheating? Are there sister wives involved? Is it a tiny competition? The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda, sat down, threw back some wine and chatted Polyamory 101! A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wi...
May 08, 2018•48 min
Is it about how much sex you have or is it how you DO the sex? Also what if you are having no sex? Or too much sex? How do you chat to your partner about the fact that you do not want to see them butt naked? Can tantric sex fix your relationship? The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and chatted about getting some from your significant other. Amanda was only turned down once for sex in 10 years. Once! That p***y must be flavoured. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through...
Apr 23, 2018•56 min
This one is a little of a throw back, the wildness BEFORE the wildness. This was how it all begun. The one where Tiff proposed and Manda said yes. Do you have sex with other women? Do you use dental dams? Is there SUCH as thing as safe sex between two women? Should you go down on your partner when they menstruating? How do you eat ass safely? Can a lesbian have Aids? Also you can get gonorrhea of the eyes. And we call you HOLAArites. Know this. The Wild Ones, Tiff and Manda poured a glass and sa...
Apr 17, 2018•38 min
The Wild Ones give advice on leaving a relationship, polygamy problems and going down on an ex girlfriend whilst not going down on your current one. HOLAA in A Hot Spot, Answering your burning questions so life doesn’t show you flames! The Wild Ones share some wisdom and answer questions that have been submitted via HOLAAfrica. Catch these answers on the Wildness as well as on the HOLAA site and YouTube channel. Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: ...
Apr 12, 2018•17 min
The Wildness pulled Botho Maruatona into the studio to chat about LEGABIBO, the right to d**k and she also gave us a slice of PAI (Pan Africa ILGA) which is being held in Botswana this year! Check out this semi -serious but not really) episode. Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo The Wildness is on instagram with IG: the.wildness Check out HOLAAfrica on: SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica Twitter: HOLAAfrica Facebook: HOLAAfrica Instagram: insta_hola...
Apr 12, 2018•31 min
We can’t go on this Wild ride together before we know a little bit about each other right? Tiff and Manda aka The Wild Ones throw a few interesting questions at each other to find get a young feel of the general chi. Pour your self a glass and have seat as we get to know our hosts. Find Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: @manda_hodge and Tiffany on @tiffmugo and IG: kagsmugo The Wildness is on instagram with the.wildness Check out HOLAAfrica on: SoundCloud: @HOLAAfrica Twitter: HOLAAfrica Facebook...
Apr 12, 2018•41 min
