What is chosen family? Why is it such an important and very real thing? Why do the gays need it? Why has Tiff taken so long to watch pose? The Wild Ones Chat how to navigate having to create your own loves. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Apr 27, 2020•47 min
Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO) Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia? The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on ...
Apr 24, 2020•1 hr 22 min
What are we naming our collective pu**y? Can you say the word 'vagina' to your parents? What are the myths around vaginas? Is your vagina meat a sexual burrito? And what the hell are meat curtains? Also what is a lesbianic job? The Wild Ones sit down and discuss how we are naming our vaginas and how we speaking A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter and Insta...
Apr 17, 2020•1 hr 5 min
What actually counts as cheating? Does Manda know how to cheat? Can you cheat if you are poly/in an open relationship? What should you tell yourself after you have been cheated on? The Wild Ones unpack all the different parts of stepping out on your situation. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Apr 14, 2020•58 min
Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!! The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dynamics of your relationships need to be kept up with. Geddit! A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through lif...
Apr 10, 2020•50 min
What is call out culture? Why is it a scam? Who gets the call out culture clap back and how does call out culture happen? Do Tiff & Panda even know how to behave? Has it been four years since the wild ones podcasted? Also shout out to the padded cell. Thanks Ciku for telling Tiff about beauty YouTube. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_hola...
Apr 08, 2020•1 hr 7 min
How do you get a threesome on and poppin? Should you do a lil research before getting into the vibe? What about a small date inyana? Can it be romantic? Can Tiff & Manda fix the wildness that was the episode with Botho and Sibu? Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Mar 24, 2020•57 min
What is the Friendzone? Should be getting a** from folks cause you nice to them? Are people just running a long con by being nice? Why is the idea of the friendzone shady af? The Wild Ones tackle what it means to be getting sad someone ain't trying to sex you. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Mar 09, 2020•43 min
All good (and bad) things come to an end. Much as queer want a fairy tale romance and happy ending it can sometimes turn into an all mighty sh*t show and you end up breaking up. So in this episode throw back we are going to chat about breaking up. The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter: manda_hodge ...
Feb 16, 2020•1 hr 20 min
Valentine’s day is here and what better time to figure out if your relationship is doing proper things. It’s time to ask: Is babes OK? Are we asking if our partners are happy? Relationshipping M& E is a real thing. Here is a wild concept...love and relationships are not things that just happen ‘because babes, life isn’t a fairytale and your ass aint Cindrella’...whaaaaattttttt!!!! The Wild Ones chat the benefits and importance of relationship monitoring and evaluation, because yes, even the dyna...
Feb 11, 2020•50 min
IT IS SEASON 3 AND THE WILD ONES ARE BACK! For this episode we break down what this here Wildness thing is and also Leon asks us some Teen Vogue type questions. What are the wild ones afraid of? What is their fave thing? Which celeb would the Wild Ones want as squad? Its #20plenty and it’s time to get this year on an poppin’! Buckle in Wild Ones, it shall be a bumpy ride. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge an...
Feb 05, 2020•49 min
Its about that time of the year again people! We're wrapping up season 2 by having a little chat about what popped (and didn't) in this year of our Beyonce 2019! And we shall see you all in the year of our Lizzo 2020! WE OUT .... B***CH Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica
Dec 24, 2019•1 hr 6 min
In the second instalment of the BDSM series Tiff and Manda are chatting with the Chido about being a sub. So what is a sub? What is a dom...actually what is a tech dom? Where do you find one? Does everyone have to be covered in leather? Do we have to be snaaxxing or nah? Did Leon clean the stu? And what does Tiff being a war journalist have to do with all of this? Join us in a conversation about consent, creation, communication and a dive into sub and dom relationships. Chido social medias: On T...
Oct 15, 2019•1 hr
Is there a sexy poem at 14:00 mins in to the podcast? Yes. Did the wild ones have a guest? Was there an erotica anthology released? Also what is a muse and are they naked. This podcast will answer these questions. Also Chinue Igwe drops us a poem. A sexy erotic poem. Chinue on instagram: @chi.nuanced Dark Juices can be downloaded here – Mobile version: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1WOSfoF60UkbizeV5btRdr7ZElgTu3ZWw Double page spread: https://drive.google.com/open?id=10GAGaMqGmABVQvrraMnzyox1...
Oct 01, 2019•1 hr 4 min
Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces. The Wild Ones return with part II of abuse in queer relationships and spaces. If you have not listened to part I go back and listen to it. We recap some of the previous episode. The podcast breaks down different types of abuse because abuse is not just physica...
Aug 27, 2019•50 min
TW: Mention of physical abuse and sexual violence Abuse in LGBTIQ relationships is something that we are silent about. We not trying to speak about it and just hiding it. Manda and Tiff speak about abuse in queer relationships, the second closet and how abuse is different in queer spaces. The hosts discuss how abuse in queer spaces can take different forms and how to recognise it. Myths in intimate partner violence in queer relationships. Recognising intimate partner violence, the hosts share st...
Aug 20, 2019•1 hr 16 min
What is asexuality? Can you be sex positive and asexual? Why do people want to fix asexual people? How do you know you are asexual? Can you date and be asexual? Panda and Tiff learned ALL the things during this podcast. Some people ain’t f*cksing with the fuxxing and they are not broken. Come learn how. Links to check out: What is asexuality - http://www.whatisasexuality.com/intro/ The Asexual Spectrum – Huff Post - https://www.huffpost.com/entry/asexual-spectrum_n_3428710
Aug 06, 2019•54 min
The Wild Ones discuss heteronormativity in this episode and it is well… wild. Tiff is off on a tangent. Panda says she is having someone else’s baby. Someone walks out the stu. Leon says listen with caution. Despite the chaos we actually manage to drop some wisdom on heteronormativity and what it be. (it’s a little longer than the average but love us). Links to check out: What Is Heteronormativity – And How Does It Apply to Your Feminism? Here Are 4 Examples- https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07...
Jul 16, 2019•1 hr 24 min
Why is faking orgasms more complex than a few moans and eye rolling for a little while? Why are people faking orgasms? Why did Tiff snitch on herself about faking? Does Manda's vag*na twerk? And Manda has faked COUNTLESS orgasms with men. Where does Leon keep going whilst in we the stu? Tiff and Panda were trying to turn it up in the studio to New Jack Swing *it's a party* Links to check: The Real Reasons women are faking orgasms - EveryDay Feminism https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/women-fak...
Jul 02, 2019•1 hr
Are you high key cheating? Is Tiff trying to engage properly with polyamory? Had Manda grown in her polyamory? Did the Wild Ones answer a series of questions about polyamory and how to do it? Yes. Are those jungle sounds in the backgrounds? Make sure you listen to polyamory 101 episode (episode 6): https://soundcloud.com/thewildnesstiffandmanda/the-wildness-ep-6-the-wildness-chats-polyamory
Jun 18, 2019•1 hr 16 min
'Do The Homie! Do The Homie!' Hooking up with squad exes. Are we having the convo of ‘does they do that thing?’ It is a hard to detach? Should you centre yourself? How did they end? How long were they together? Who is deserving of love? *boxing commentator voice* Comrades, feminists, activists and esteemed Wild Ones...Are you reeeaaaddddyyyy to ruummmmbbbblllleeee!!! This episode Tiff and Manda almost come to blows over whether or not it’s cool to date your friend’s ex, or your ex’s friend. It. ...
Jun 04, 2019•49 min
Is Panda using lube? How are people finding that person to grind up on a Friday night or love forever as a queer person on the continent? What is Tu? Why is data so expensive sometimes? What are the inclusive apps? How can apps be used against you within your own country? Accessing the internet is also exclusive. In this podcast we break down dating, the continent and the digital space. Shout out to APC and Xeernah and Coding Rights. The Wild Ones speak about how to find love and sex and how the...
May 30, 2019•1 hr 5 min
Labels! We all have them, most of us use them but are they helpful or nah? In this episode Tiff and Manda interrogate labels, including whether or not they fit the criteria of being wild! (spoiler alert!! THEY DO) Also have you ever run Cliterfearance? Are you part of the Muffia? The Wild Ones chatted about suss these labels out. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on ...
Apr 16, 2019•1 hr 22 min
Is masturbation always political or can it be just to get off? What are some of the messed-up myths around masturbation and women? Also do you HAVE to have candles when I rub one out (can masturbation not take all day please?) Why is Leon drink shaming us? And why has Manda got ANOTHER best friend? We teach you how to say Botho’s name? The Wild Ones chatted about that self love and doing the snaxing solo. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Ins...
Apr 01, 2019•47 min
Where does everyone get their sexy things? Should Panda pay for rent or pay for feminist p*rn? Is Tiff watching the whole p*rn clip or just the snax? Also womxn really like p*rn and spend more time on adult sites on average than their male counterparts. The Wild Ones are discussing sexy times. Shout out Tlangi! Panda and us love you! And do we need to put a tiny tampon in?
Mar 19, 2019•58 min
‘A girl crush is a non-sexual, non-romantic admiration that one woman has for another.’ What is that anyway? Are the straight women outchea thinking people is cute? When you say it are you secretly saying ‘no homo’? The Wild Ones discuss the phrase girl crush and whether you need #WCW in your life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram: IG the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter and Instagram: manda_hodge HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and F...
Mar 12, 2019•40 min
Is being sex positive mean you are constantly Down To F**k? Do you have to be constantly be looking to get a finger in your butt randomly? Are period snacks a real thing? Also how have we never done a sex positivity podcast? The Wild Ones sit down and chat about how to do this sex positive thing. Shout out to our white girl Casey who pole dances! Also we met a Sexy Lexy! Links to check out: - Oh Joy Sex Toy: What does it mean to be sex positive?- https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/oh-joy-sex-toy...
Feb 19, 2019•54 min
The Wild Ones chat about them final moments in a relationship. Follow The Wildness on Instagram - the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter: manda_hodge and Instagram: manda_hodge Tiff on Twitter: tiffmugo and Instagram: kagsmugo HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: @HOLAAfrica
Feb 14, 2019•1 hr 20 min
Where have the wild ones been? How do you send your naked body over the interwebs? Why is revenge porn a scam? And we’re baaaaaaaccccckkkkkkk!!!! Welcome to Season 2 Wild Ones. Tiff and Manda have been plotting away in the stu coming up with awesome episodes for season número dos. This episode we do a young recap of what the wildness is for baby Wild Ones who will be joining us this season and jumping straight into the art and complexity of sending segzy pics through the innanets. We delve into ...
Feb 07, 2019•1 hr
What popped with Tiff & Manda in TwentyGAYteen? Moving, heart breaks, studying, starting podcasts, violence in the community and movement, f**ky politics, good friendship and showing up for people, why folks aint s**t and being on NGO boards. The Wild Ones count down their top things that happened, chatting the high lows of 2018. Grab your last glasses of wine and join them. This the last episode of the year and of Season One. But do not worry we shall be back in the new year. Come back to us in...
Dec 30, 2018•43 min
