What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM. Topics include: What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play? How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM? Who gets to define it? What are some of the items used in rough kink? Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play? How do you know you’re rea...
Sep 22, 2025•33 min
Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career. Topics include: Why being a porn star used t o be more glamorous. The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry. How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans. Creating custom adult content on demand. Being a trans woman in the adu...
Sep 15, 2025•28 min
Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes. Today’s episode talks about: Adult industry awards The business side of pleasure Why and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry. Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio. Eva graciously answers listener questions about...
Sep 08, 2025•31 min
Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice. Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”? How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome? Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex? Shoul...
Sep 01, 2025•33 min
Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser. How do women feel about giving blow jobs? What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job? Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera? How do porn stars give great blow jobs? Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs. Tips for learning to deep throat a big cock How to control your gag reflex. How to make sure your teeth do...
Aug 25, 2025•37 min
Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.” Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing...
Aug 18, 2025•32 min
A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress. Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing? Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie? How important is submission to a Dominant Woman? Is dressing en femme always about sex? Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive? Does the type of orgasm matter? Will lea...
Aug 11, 2025•34 min
Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity. A listener inspired this episode with the following questions: What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder? Ar e some men meant to be in chastity? What are your favorite chastity devices? Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play: A tube style chastity cage that al...
Aug 04, 2025•39 min
Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world. Other comments touch on: Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should look Body hair while crossdressing or dressing en f...
Jul 28, 2025•44 min
Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions: Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do? Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star? Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues? Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks. Are any performers in gay porn actually straight? Are huge cum shots real? What do production compani...
Jul 21, 2025•34 min
Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include: How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties? Is it always about sex or kink? Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side? Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans? Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties? Feminization or sissificati...
Jul 14, 2025•33 min
Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company. Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior. Is phone sex always about sex? Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm? Why does someone call an online Mistress? Your hosts use personal stories to illustrate thoughts on intimac...
Jul 07, 2025•37 min
Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss. In this episode you’ll hear: The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose. Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny? How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play? Does a Domme...
Jun 30, 2025•30 min
Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next! You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play: ** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal? ** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing thei...
Jun 23, 2025•32 min
How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones. Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun? Are sex dreams only for horny young men? Who stars in the sex dreams for women versus men? What do most people wear to ...
Jun 16, 2025•21 min
When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky. This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so much more. Your Femdom hosts go over the: who, what, why, where a...
Jun 09, 2025•30 min
Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume. Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume journey begins with us asking you lots of questions. We send you ...
Jun 02, 2025•32 min
Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. Today’s episode includes: General definitions with BDSM Power exchange: The Domme is in cha...
May 26, 2025•36 min
Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?” That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent. Topics include: Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name? How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive? How does feminization change someone’s outlook on labels? You’ll hear how a var...
May 19, 2025•29 min
Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like: What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to? Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching? FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that...
May 12, 2025•39 min
Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme: What is a sissygasm? How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one? Topics include: Subspace aka femme-space Role of submission in your feminine journey Mistress guidance or control to enhance your sissy training Trying to have a sissygasm on your own versus w...
May 05, 2025•33 min
Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: Are there studies? How much do people masturbate? What is normal? Why is there something called a gender gap in masturbation? Can you guess what percentage ...
Apr 28, 2025•30 min
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun! Let’s talk cock control: What does this term mean? What is the difference between cock c...
Apr 21, 2025•32 min
BDSM: Are you a switch? Are you a switch? In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a great time on this episode. The ladies use quotes from podcast listen...
Apr 14, 2025•34 min
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun. (( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. )) Today’s points include: What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think. What happens when a sissy is nervous about being transformed. Why does a ...
Apr 07, 2025•33 min
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. That’s a great question! It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. But, do you have to be submissive to call us? The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a ...
Mar 31, 2025•26 min
Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess. What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship? In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of. Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of he...
Mar 24, 2025•32 min
Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling? Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans? These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman. Topics include: ** What is an Alpha man? ** How common is it for an Alph...
Mar 17, 2025•29 min
This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold. In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened! Topics include: Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life. How a phone sex Femdom finds out the difference betwe...
Mar 10, 2025•35 min
Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session. Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works. Wha...
Mar 03, 2025•31 min
