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The Weekly Hot Spot

The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life​ fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com
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Episodes

Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization

The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session. This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood. Topics include: ** Shower versus bath ** Sex in the shower ** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika ** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oils Sugg...

Feb 24, 202530 min

Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?

A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’ We’ve got you ! In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. We highlight several common areas of concern: Anal play / prostate play Cock sucking Wearing panties Being a submissive man What is normal? Who gets to decide what types of e...

Feb 17, 202529 min

Why you need prostate play.

A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that. The episode includes: A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it. All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it. What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm? What is a sissygasm and what does...

Feb 10, 202531 min

Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?

Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting. Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling. Both ladies point out the uni...

Feb 03, 202530 min

Feminization: Building sissy confidence

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized. In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. What ...

Jan 27, 202530 min

Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training. What is petticoat discipline? Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!) Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more. Maintenance spankin...

Jan 20, 202531 min

Are you searching for an online Mistress?

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination. The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories a...

Jan 13, 202539 min

What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?

This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL The Femdom hosts talk about trans women who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now. The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. What are some of the poss...

Jan 06, 202532 min

Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version

We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful. Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia. Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an igno...

Dec 30, 202428 min

Top BDSM kink sissy podcast episodes of 2024

This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness. Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year. Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podca...

Dec 23, 202431 min

A year of feminization by Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia

We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you! This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don’t feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level. This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to brid...

Dec 16, 202430 min

Tease and Denial Games: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?

There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress? First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean? The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You’ll hear what turns them ...

Dec 09, 202434 min

All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.

In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman. Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of th...

Dec 02, 202443 min

Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen

Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power. Topics include: The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon How men treat wives versus Dommes The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wife Communication, kink, and intimacy Teaching men how to serve women Why tre...

Nov 25, 202433 min

So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc. Topics in this podcast episode include: The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships. A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submiss...

Nov 11, 202432 min

Do trans women get you horny?

We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this. Topics include: How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy? Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman? To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are: She male Tranny Transvestite T girl Transsex...

Nov 04, 202429 min

What does it mean to be submissive?

This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi. Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women? Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi: “Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust...

Oct 28, 202431 min

How to talk to your partner about crossdressing, feminization, and sissy desires

Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner. We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like: What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies? What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners? Here are some of the questions female partne...

Oct 21, 202431 min

It’s LOCKTOBER: are you ready for chastity?

Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet. Topics include: What is chastity? What is Locktober? Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an orgasm? Doe...

Oct 14, 202425 min

Are you worried about topping from the bottom? BDSM advice from your Femdom hosts.

We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom. That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress. This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to reque...

Oct 07, 202434 min

Power, money, BDSM, and Femdom: interview with author Jane Boon

We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika. Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money. Why does a smart, capable woman become...

Sep 30, 202440 min

What happens after Edge Play? Author Jane Boon tells us about her new BDSM novel Bold Strokes

Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she’s here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes. We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you’re submissive, here’s your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you’re not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You’re welcome. Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an ...

Sep 23, 202434 min

What makes a sissy purge? And how to avoid crossdresser purging cycles.

This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things. Why? Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates. The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM...

Sep 16, 202434 min

Feminization: Are you nervous about lingerie shopping in person?

This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?” Great suggestion Sissy Brenda! Here you go! The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public. All that said, these Femdoms are...

Sep 09, 202431 min

Where can you find your Mistress? Check out our Spaces on X Twitter!

We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends. Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces. For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's. Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conv...

Sep 02, 202434 min

Self-bondage with Elite Rope Dominatrix Miss Cassie Loves Rope

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play. Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her. The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to ...

Aug 26, 202431 min

Bondage, rope play and more from elite rigger Miss Cassie

Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more. You’ll hear: ** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom ** Leather tradition in BDSM ** Lineage in BDSM leather family tradition Mistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotion...

Aug 19, 202437 min

Here’s a sissy success story with timeless advice for anyone into feminization

The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family. This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community. Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we’re sending lipstick kisses to you! Many pe...

Aug 12, 202431 min

BDSM Kink event invite: Naughty Knowledge from Studio 58

Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years. Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge. You’ll hear conversation about: ** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone? ** What can I expect when I arrive at Naughty Knowledge? ** How do I behave? What is proper BDSM and...

Aug 05, 202431 min

Are you ready for serious edging? Stroke-a-thon is back by popular demand!

Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it’s something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are tr...

Jul 29, 202445 min
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