Question: How much do YOU think about your penis? Ms Erika realized we haven’t done an episode ON da dick – oh sure, we talk a lot about what we (and you) DO with a penis but not the organ itself. So, today’s episode is all about your cock. DOES PENIS SIZE REALLY MATTER? H ear the Femdom answer to questions about penis size. Our comments might surprise you. Other questions we answer include: Will she like my cock? Am I big enough for her? Will I last long enough to please a woman? Am I a disappo...
Apr 20, 2026•33 min
Imagine surrendering your pleasure completely—not through denial, but through a ruined orgasm. Now, imagine a full year of this feeling. That’s what happened to a treasured submissive and you’ll hear all about Maxxie in this episode. Mistress Erika decided she wanted to try out a year of ruined orgasms and volunteered her treasured pet Maxxie Petunia. In this episode you’ll find out: What a ruined orgasm is and how it differs from a full orgasm. The difference between orgasm denail and a ruined ...
Apr 13, 2026•30 min
Are kinky people genuinely happier than their vanilla counterparts? It’s a provocative question we’re diving into on this week’s episode. Recent research suggests that practitioners of consensual BDSM often report higher emotional stability and relationship satisfaction than the general population. But here’s the fascinating nuance we explore: is this correlation or causation? Are we drawn to power exchange because we’re already resilient, or does the lifestyle actively create that resilience? C...
Apr 06, 2026•33 min
What if the most powerful collar you’ll ever wear is the one no one else can see? In this episode, we introduce you to something we call the invisible collar. While this episode is primarily aimed at sissies and those into feminization, some of the concepts work for anyone who is submissive and yearning to keep in touch with that side. Topics include: What is an invisible collar? Do you have to be a collared sissy to use these concepts? Are you nervous that your transformation will require a com...
Mar 30, 2026•38 min
We answer YOUR questions today focusing on your questions about us - as a Femdom Mistress, sex worker, Pro Domme, woman, and human. Here are the questions: "Do you really like all the kinks you engage in?" "What kind of session is challenging for you?" "What have we coerced people into IRL vs phone?” “Do Dominants ever keep parts of their personal lives or personalities separate from their dominant persona? Why? “What is something about you as a Femdom that most people would find shocking?” “Do ...
Mar 23, 2026•38 min
This episode is for kinky people looking for face-to-face romantic connection with a Dominant Woman. Our conversation with our guest, Goddess Demi, was inspired by a question from a sissy but we think anyone looking for power exchange can find this useful. Have you tried to find kinky dating connections and gotten very discouraged? You’re not alone. We’re here to remind you that the work and growth you put in will pay off but it will likely take longer than you think or want. We offer specific s...
Mar 16, 2026•31 min
Navigating dating is challenging. It can be even more difficult if someone is kinky. Today’s episode is inspired by a sissy dating question brought to us by Goddess Demi. Ms Demi, joins the podcast to explore this and add her advice. Here’s the inspiration and the question from a sissy who just got out of a long term marriage. Sissy has met a wonderful woman who is willing to explore being with a submissive sissy. NOW WHAT? Today’s topics include: The full background from Goddess Demi.What does ...
Mar 09, 2026•35 min
Today we discuss some of the most common questions about female-led relationships. What is FLR? How do you help your partner to embrace being dominant? Where do you find women that might want to be in charge? As Femdoms, both hosts embrace FLR personally and give solid suggestions for submissive men that want to move from fantasy to daily reality. Topics include: Defining FLR - what it is, what it isn’t and why the myth might be attractive but unattainable. Four levels of control and what that m...
Mar 02, 2026•30 min
Despite the huge snowstorm on the east coast, spring will be here eventually and we want you to Spring into Submission with our limited-time sissy sale and feminization intensive. For years, we’ve heard from listeners who’ve explored feminization fantasies in private but felt unsure about taking the next step. You want to do something, yet private sessions feel too intense or you don’t have privacy. We understand! That’s why we’re announcing this sale. Our entire sissy and femme catalog is on sa...
Feb 23, 2026•34 min
What kind of cuckold are you? Take the Cuckold Quiz to find out what your answers say about you. Both Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika are experienced in all kinds of cuckold fantasies, including their lived experience. In this episode, they explore everything from the Visual Voyeur with the hotwife to the Sissy Cuckold husband … and everything in between. There are 12 questions to the quiz, and they go over each question and the multiple-choice answers. They don’t tell you the 7 archetypes of...
Feb 16, 2026•16 min
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorative—they're a bridge between your body and your submission? That’s the topic of this week’s episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Sissy Bondage Wear. Clothing has always been a tool of control. From Victorian tight-lacing to modern locking corsets, what we wear shapes not just how others see us, but how we experience our own submission. Ms Erika brought ...
Feb 09, 2026•33 min
Today, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika explore the psychology behind power exchange and erotic control — not just physical dominance, but the power of ritual, obedience, and mental submission. Whether you're craving structure in your submission, training under a strict sissy regime, or locked in chastity this conversation will shift how you think about distance domination. We share real, actionable tasks — the kind that don’t just test your body, but rewire your mind. From the cock control timing torment...
Feb 02, 2026•36 min
Can a dominant woman rewire a man’s identity? Today, the two Femdom hosts talk about their experiences with what they call a sissy switch – an often invisible switch that flips “maybe” into something like “make me your cum slut sissy princess.” As you likely know, we never hand you a tidy definition; instead we’re all about using a definition as a starting point and then exploring various nuances. Each person and each D/s relationship is unique but you’ll likely hear things that you recognize fr...
Jan 26, 2026•24 min
Have you ever thought about why some orgasms feel better than others? Today, we talk about those submissives who love to please Mistress and then earn a good sub orgasm. Topics include: Why does it feel so good to beg for an orgasm? What’s the difference between a regular orgasm and a good sub orgasm? BDSM, power exchange and how Mistress flips the script on your regular masturbation routine. What does a Femdom use to make you earn your orgasm? - tasks, tease and delay, edging, flawless submissi...
Jan 19, 2026•30 min
Today’s episode explores a new way to think about New Year’s resolutions and your feminization or sissy training. We never want to ignore the sex and sluttiness but what if there’s ‘more’ available? There’s a common myth that all sissy play (and a lot of feminization experiences) need to have lots of humiliation and submission. Oh sure, that IS often part of it (and a very fun aspect of sissy training) but does everything have to be about sex? Sexual arousal and pleasure might be what draws you ...
Jan 12, 2026•25 min
Happy New Year, to all our kinky friends! Welcome to the first episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for 2026. We’re kicking off the year with a topic close to both our hearts: using BDSM and power exchange as powerful tools for personal growth. We explore how the structure, control, and conscious practice inherent in Femdom dynamics create a unique framework for transformation. For example, have you ever considered how sissy training or cock control can build emotional resilience? Or how the communica...
Jan 05, 2026•30 min
Have you ever laughed while you were being punished? What if humor wasn’t a distraction from power exchange — but the sharpest tool in a Mistress’s arsenal? In this final episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for the year, we have a conversation that’s equal parts kink, wit, and wisdom as your Femdom hosts dive into one of the most underestimated forces in Femdom: a playful, dirty, delightfully twisted sense of humor. It’s not about breaking character—it’s about deepening it. We explore how laughter di...
Dec 29, 2025•33 min
What does the future of kink look like? Your Femdom hosts have some thoughts (of course we do!). Today, we explore how technology, psychology and a growing desire for authentic connection are reshaping the landscape of Distance Domination, phone sex, and personal power exchange. The conversation kicks off with the elephant in the room: Artificial Intelligence. While AI is transforming adult content, we dissect why it will amplify, not replace, the demand for genuine human connection. The future ...
Dec 22, 2025•36 min
What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't about surrendering control, but about consumption? We’re talking about cum eating because this is such a hot, naughty and taboo sex act. Many people have a cum eating fantasy … but struggle to actually eat their own cum. A cum eating game can get a reluctant cum eater over the hump (so to speak). Today, we explore the intricate psychology behind cum eating games. We go beyond the fantasy to examine how these practices can rewire your relationsh...
Dec 15, 2025•30 min
We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika tear down the most persistent clichés about being submissive. No ball-busting today. Just myth-busting. From the fantasy of total surrender to the myth that all subs crave pain, humiliation or degredation, we talk about our top 5 myths about being a submissive man—and exposr the misconceptions that ke...
Dec 08, 2025•32 min
Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You’re not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink’s most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation. We explore: How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdoms, use humiliation to unlock subspace. Why does being laughed at, judged, or playfully degraded f...
Dec 01, 2025•31 min
Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely spoken about — fears in the kink and sissy communities: the terror of being discovered. Whether it’s a partner stumbling on your secret drawer, a family member finding your messages, or simply the crushing weight of “what if someone knows?” — this conversation is for every person who’s ever hidden a part of t...
Nov 24, 2025•42 min
What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer? In this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jaime Grant – researcher, LGBTQ+ advocate, and author of Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire – for a conversation that dismantles shame, celebrates pleasure, and redefines intimacy from the inside out. This isn’t just a talk about kink or technique. It’s a deep dive i...
Nov 17, 2025•30 min
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink. Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Ma...
Nov 10, 2025•31 min
Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to...
Nov 03, 2025•31 min
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience. Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot po...
Oct 27, 2025•37 min
Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy. Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation. It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress. Have you ever asked yourself: “Why do I feel drawn to this role?” “Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?” “How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?” …then ...
Oct 20, 2025•29 min
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN. This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party. Costume ideas...
Oct 13, 2025•31 min
Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink and more. If you’ve ever seen a group of women having a fun, lively conversation and wondered what they’re talking about then you’re in luck. This is like we’re all sitting around with cocktails and dishing about: Blow Jobs How to make cum taste good Reaction of women to sucking cock Snowballing and cum eating Sharing erotic fantasies with your partn...
Oct 06, 2025•32 min
They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horny ladies.” What a fun conversation! Topics include: The power of female sexuality Embracing the SLUT label Social standards for the sexual behavior of women Self empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work. Sexual pleasure and aging Exploring the popularity of MILFS S...
Sep 29, 2025•41 min
