How are we already in 2024 ? Like , we are four days in as of this podcast episode and it is blowing my mind . So I want to talk about something and I think this is not something that most people talk about and that is answer . Honestly , have you felt raring to go this week Like unstoppable on fire , blah , blah , blah ?
Or have you had some blah moments , not sure what direction to go , not sure why you're feeling blah , like is it the short week or people ? So on vacation ? What day is it ? Maybe you didn't know until I just told you , if you're listening to this live or as it is posted , like are we working ? Are we not working ? Are we still binging Netflix ?
Are we not binging ? And it's funny because I had this moment yesterday and I have a group chat with some really close friends and I sent a message and I said , like I got up , I did all the things , like I wanted to get back on this schedule and I just feel blah . Like does anybody else feel blah ? Like is it the time of year ?
Like what is going on ? Why do I feel blah ? I should not feel blah Like I was not .
I was being very hard on myself because I felt blah and you know , most of us took a lot of time off over the past week and ate a lot of bad foods I don't want to say bad foods probably not the best choice foods right , we could have made better choices Probably didn't move our bodies very much .
So there's a lot of things that we just kind of went really lax on over the last week . Maybe we didn't post as much , maybe we didn't do all the things , and I said that and I sent that message and then I had a coaching call and boom , I was fine .
And it's so funny that sometimes in the stagnant moments , we feel blah because we don't know like , how am I supposed to feel ? Why am I not feeling the way I'm supposed to feel ? It's the brand new year . I'm supposed to be excited . Maybe some of us got burned from 2020 , you know , because you know what did we say ?
2020 vision , it's going to be a new year , it's a new decade . It's like blah , blah , blah . And we were so excited and they were like why ? Why did we want this year to come so bad ? However , I do believe that when we reconnect with the thing that we love , it is a game changer .
You can take that blah mood and really turn it around , because you're reconnecting with your why . I felt like this . I don't know . Like a year and a half ago I felt like this more , but I'm just saying an example . A year and a half ago I felt I don't know if I felt blah , but I said I felt like it wasn't fun .
I wasn't having fun and I think we should always be finding ways to have fun in our business and I had a podcast episode scheduled that day and I didn't really want to do it , but I did it anyhow and I'm so glad I did because I got asked my story , I reconnected with my why and the blah was gone .
I see so many people in this world not necessarily entrepreneurs , but that they're very unhappy . I look at them and I see that they have everything you know they have money , they have like a beautiful house , they have all these physical things , but they're not happy and I believe , when it comes down to it , it's our purpose .
I got out of my blah mood because I supported someone . I asked we went through her will of now . We did it the first one of the first coaching calls and we went over it because it was our last coaching call and all the improvement was phenomenal .
And the places where there wasn't improvement it's because we had breakthroughs and her eyes were really open to some things that she wasn't really well aware of . But also she got on that call in a blah mood as well and by the end of the call it was all turned around .
There's so much power in the passion that we do and the passion that we put out there and sometimes we feel blah because we are stuck in the mundane things that we always do . We're literally not pushing our edges . We're not ever going to go to our next level in our comfort zone . Right that ? We're going to stay exactly where we're at .
Unless we decide to move out of our comfort zone , that next level is not going to happen .
Unfortunately , until we push through , until we make big scary moves and one of the reasons that I push myself and I do big scary things again 100 lives in July , 200 lives in July , 365 days of uncomfortable actions , 100 uncomfortable actions write a book is because there is power in that .
It doesn't mean you're never going to have blah moments , like I just was honest with you and told you about yesterday . But when I am pushing myself and I have a purpose . I am not the same person . I am a better version of me . I have a focus , I have a goal . I have a KPI , key Performance Indicator , whatever you want to call it .
I can't stay stuck if I'm moving . I can't stay blah if I have a purpose . We aren't meant to play on the same exact level every single day , forever . What's working is great , but if we decide this works , I'm good , I'm done . Learning , I'm done , improving , I'm done .
Blah , blah , blah , we're going to find ourselves in a blah moment very quickly and we're going to find ourselves not stretching ourselves and not growing . I don't know . If you're not growing , you're dying , is the quote that goes around , right ? So are you not growing ? Growing doesn't mean just investing in yourself . Growing doesn't mean just learning other things .
It also means implementing . It also means pushing . It also means stretching , and maybe that's accountability and maybe you need somebody else to support you with that push . But we've got to push , friends . We've got to push our edges . We are not meant to play on the same level as we were last January .
We are not meant to play on the same level as we were in October . We're not meant to play on the same level we were eight weeks ago . That is not growth . That is not change . When you're passionate about what you do , you will always push your next level .
The question is , when are you going to reconnect and start pushing yours again To push out of the blob moments , to push into your passion ?
Because as soon as that call was over , I was on fire , I was ready to go , I was taking action , I was doing things that I needed to do , that I wanted to do , that I desired to do , that pushed me towards the goal that I wanted to achieve . When are you pushing to your next level ? When are you saying yes to your next level ?
It starts with your comfort zone . It starts with pushing your edges , it starts with your passion . It starts with your conviction and you get to decide am I going to recreate that magic again ? Am I going to push for that magic again , or am I going to stay stuck and blah in this moment and having a pity party for myself ?
You get to choose , and that's the most beautiful thing I can ever tell you you get to choose . You get to choose . Your choices are where you are today and they're why you will be where you are tomorrow . What are you choosing today ?