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that. I will say my reading challenge I did not want to do on Saturday, I did not want to do it at all. Like I was just so tired and cranky. I don't think I wanted to do a Sunday either. Let's just be honest. So the other day that I really wanted to do it, but I did it. Right. And I think that's the most important thing. Like, even when we don't want to do stuff and still doing it. Like that's commitment, right? That saying, Okay, I don't feel like it. But
I'm still doing it. Right, I'm doing it, whether I feel like it or not. So I think that's huge. I took a lot of naps over the weekend, like one each day. Because I feel like I just need to recharge sometimes. And I have so many things going on in my mind constantly, right. And I think I literally wear myself out not gonna lie, that sometimes that's a good thing. And sometimes it can be a really
bad thing. But, um, the thing that I want to share with you today that has helped me the most is I first of all, we will never be done working on our money mindset, there will always be a limit, just like our personal development, our you know, our normal mindset. But there will there always be something that we identify about ourselves that we can work on. So for instance, my broke mindset, right, my broke mindset says that things are expensive, right? And we're talking about
purses. So in my mind, I have always said I would never spend that kind of money on a Louis. Not that I can't afford it. It just doesn't make sense to me. Right? It just doesn't make sense to me. And what I am doing is actually say, putting my broke mindset on that item. So I get to control that narrative. And I don't need to say that if I don't want to lose, you don't buy Louie, right? So you don't need to say that out loud. I would never spend that kind of money. Right? I just don't buy a
Louie. It's just not my thing, right? It's not my thing. And change the narrative on how I say that. The other thing I've been working on is happy money versus sad money. And I learned this from Melanie. And basically when we have happy money we are it comes back to us. When we have sad money, it doesn't come back to us. So basically, if I if I put it out there that I don't want to pay this water bill because it's really expensive. Like this is
ridiculous. I shouldn't be paying this much or I shouldn't be paying this much of taxes. This is ridiculous, right? That is not happy money. That is sad money, that money is never going to come back to me. So I get to reframe right what I say and change those words and position them differently. I am so glad that I get to pay the government this much money because I made a lot of money in 2021 Right. I am so happy that I'm blessed that I get to pay this huge water bill
that helps fill my pool. That is my favorite thing and favorite way to relax during the summer. Right? So reframing that mindset because happy money comes back to us 10 times sad money does not right. So how can we position our thinking into happy and sad money? How can we get rid of our broke mindset? And not you know, and I'm telling me specifically not say a Louis is so expensive. I would never spend that kind of money, right? But I will go spend that kind of money on a Hawaiian vacation.
and some people may feel like that's ridiculous money, you have nothing to show for it. Hi, but I did I have memories can destroy my memories, but the purse can get stolen. So there's a way to make it work in our minds. But if we stopped saying that we change the narrative, we stop putting that perspective on that item or that person, right? So we get to work on that we get to focus on that we get to change our mindset on that. So think about this, as you say something, as you say things,
catch yourself, right? reframe it. That's great. That's amazing. I'm so happy that they're making that much money that they can buy something like that. I mean, I'm so happy for them. And so when we reframe it like that, it changes everything. Right? It doesn't have to be your choice, even if you wouldn't spend that kind of money on that, right? Stop saying it. Stop making that your narrative. Stop making that your story. Stop spending sad money,
and spend happy money. And so this week, I'm going to spend half the money on everything. I have property taxes, and I get to, I get to pay for property taxes, because we have and we inherited my father in law's farm, which is property right? That is land, we are blessed to inherit that. I am blessed to pay the dog license fee. Because I love my dog. My husband says I have an unhealthy relationship with her. And that's okay, too.
So think about how can we spend more happy money and stop spending sad money happy money comes back to us. 10x sad money does not. So how are you going to change this narrative? How are you going to say I wouldn't pay for that? How are you going to change your broke mindset? How are you going to work on that this week? Reach out to me if you have any. If you want to tell me if you want to let me know. Tag me screenshot this episode, put it in stories, tag me and let me know what your
thoughts are on that. And reach out to me and DMS at any time. I hope you enjoyed this episode. Feel free to share it on your favorite platform and tag me I love re sharing these and giving you a shout out as well. My goal is to always support you and help you see a transformation. Not only your business, but in your life. We will never outgrow our business. Remember that so we get to work on ourselves and see that transformation come through on both personal and
business side. I would love to work with you and 2023 I have loads of opportunities that will fit the pricing and the budget that you have. Let's chat. I'm truly interested in creating an unforgettable experience for you to grow, transform and see how big your business can grow and 2023